Help With My Girlfriend

[lsm333]

Hey so my problem is that I really like my girlfriend but she's really kinda prude. Like I don't expect or want anything like sex or even 3rd base but she seems like she isn't willing to even kiss. I just wanna know if there's something I should say to her or do? I don't wanna break up with her cause I really do like her but to me, it's pretty important that she's at least willing to kiss or something.

Thanks for the help.

[FreeFall]

Is there a reason she doesn't want to kiss you? such as: Is your breath kicking, do you have dry lips, do you slober a whole bunch, are there blisters on your lips, do you try to use too much tongue? And if you do kiss is that all that you want to do? You're 13, when I had a boyfriend that age I wasn't that into sticking my lips on his either. Just talk to her about it.

[kenoloor]

Have you tried asking her about it?

[DerBear]

Have you tried asking her about it?

This would be a great Start.

However some girls require time and commitment before they even do things like that. Your 13 yourself? How old is she? Cause if she is only 13 she might not be willing or even thinking about kissing and other stuff. While girls mostly develop younger than boys it does not mean they think about this kinda stuff. Maybe she has not mentally matured enough. Like Kenoloor said try talking to her.

[Maximum_A]

Mabe she doesn't won't to kiss u because she's not ready. Haveing a girlfrend is not abow when can I kiss her. It's abowt how can I show her I love her and cear for her. After that it shows cimetment and that's reashering to a girl to know your there for them. Girls think differently the guys. there much more omoshinal then us. That don't put out until thay know there safe. Not saying you she take advantage of them putting out. And she might be the relives tipe of person that thinks there ferst kiss shold be when thay git meared. Hop this helps

[Candyone11]

You never know what kind of things people went through and what they think about those things. or how they make them feel. Maybe she's not ready. Maybe she's scared of something. If you do like her as much as you say, you support her and make her feel safe with you. She likes you back then she'll do the same for you.

[Top Secret]

Sounds like you are being used.

Ask her what is going on and have a adult talk about your relationship.

[Curtis96]

she seems to be very figid, most likely due to trust problems but give it time she will come around but you will need to show her that she can trust you, and then she will proberly be more open with you.