View Full Version : How well do YOU keep secrets?
Wheatley
July 12th, 2012, 05:59 PM
So how do YOU keep secrets to yourself? Especially stopping yourself from telling that special person how you feel abut them?
Personally, I like to distract myself with useless information or have convosations in my head with that special person where I tell them the secret and they react in a neutral and boring way.
FreeFall
July 12th, 2012, 06:21 PM
Depends on the secret really. A vast majority of secrets have no impact in my life so I forget about them. If they have ever made me do the I gotta secret dance, I doodle or daydream. If it's big like Becky's being cheated on, I go tell Becky.
Harley Quinn
July 14th, 2012, 04:49 PM
So how do YOU keep secrets to yourself?
Secrets are like promises, you can't break them unless it's life threatening so I'll stick by them.
Especially stopping yourself from telling that special person how you feel abut them?
It depends on the situation, if it's not really a big deal I can keep it to myself and not tell them unless I absolutely have to. However, if it's impacting my life in a negative way and I actually have to say something just to make my life manageable, I'll tell that person. I don't see that as a secret though, more withholding information for a purpose.
DarkHorse4eva
July 14th, 2012, 05:08 PM
I can keep every secret i know and i never forget them
turtleman
July 14th, 2012, 05:11 PM
I told some friends about who I liked (which was weird because we had never talked before and I didn't have any classes with her) and they told people. Eventually the rumors went around :(
Will Grigg's on Fire
July 14th, 2012, 05:55 PM
I am good at keeping secrets... Which is surprising because I am a terrible lier and I am quite bad at hiding my emotions but I tend to keep secrets well... Although when I like someone I tend to show it unintentionally... When I have a regular secret to keep, I keep it like a vault in a Swiss bank
Gandalf
July 14th, 2012, 07:45 PM
If somebody trusts me enough to tell me a secret I respect them by not repeating it. I have kept large secrets. I have heard a few things that should never be repeated to anybody else...
xXJust Jump ItXx
July 14th, 2012, 08:31 PM
Doesn't leave me and who ever told me... at all.
therunaway
July 14th, 2012, 08:52 PM
Depends...if it is a big one then yeah but if it's small it usually gets forgotten anyway.
Wheatley
July 15th, 2012, 06:16 PM
I told some friends about who I liked (which was weird because we had never talked before and I didn't have any classes with her) and they told people. Eventually the rumors went around :(
I have been there many times before, I know how you feel :(
I am awesome at keeping secrets, partly because they make me feel really good about myself when I know I am being trusted with something. But mostly because I forget them when talking to people. ^ This is why i struggle at keeping my own, no one is trusting me and ill never forget since is my own feelings
What do you do in a situation where that person really hurts you and theres no repairing that friendship?
Mirage
July 15th, 2012, 08:14 PM
Not sure what I do...I imagine the special someone situation to have the special person be super accepting. But hey, thats just me.
workingatperfect
July 15th, 2012, 08:44 PM
It depends. If it's my secret, I can keep it forever. If it's a secret that someone tells me, I sometimes have a hard time keeping it to myself, especially if it's kind of funny. But serious things I can keep secret.
Sometimes if I really want to tell someone about a secret someone told me, I'll tell one of my friends that has no connection to them whatsoever
fast8
July 16th, 2012, 02:27 AM
really good
LikeAJay
July 16th, 2012, 02:47 AM
I have aa big mouth lol back at the people to me
fast8
July 16th, 2012, 02:52 AM
not thinking about it always help to b able to keep it a secret
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