Hymen problems/questions

[Ilikemusic]

I was a bit worried/stressed about my hymen. (I'm still a virgin) But, I was wondering what's normal. Sorry to be graphic, but is it normal for there to be like an extra flap of skin at the bottom? And how big is the opening supposed to be? I can fit two fingers without too much pain, but is that too small? I'm concerned that if the time comes for me to lose my virginity, it won't be possible/it'll be extremely painful. Is it possible/realistic to stretch it through masturbation and, (this one is gonna sound a bit weird) but, putting tampons in and not pushing them in, like leaving the applicator in the opening and putting slowly more and more in at once? I'm pretty worried about all this, so help/advice would be much apprecaited

[FreeFall]

Yes you can stretch it through masturbation and every vagina is different. You may or may not feel pain and your hymen may not even break if you still have it. There is no certain vagina look so don't worry about that.

[laurenspencer]

[QUOTE=shelle1520;1818182]The hymen is a thin membrane that covers the vaginal openning and ussually has a very small openning in it or what they call a perferatated hymen has several smaller holes. If you can put 2 fingers in without much pain i would say your hymen is already gone and not sure what flap of skin at the bottom your talking about but there's more than enough info on the internet to compare the way your VG looks to what is normal. Of course the more you masturbate the easier it will be the first time you have sex. That said if you want your first sex to be painfree just start with small objects and slowly increase the thickness not the length and everything will be fine when the time comes[/QUOT