Friend zone

[john2]

Shes been my friend for about 7 years now and I want to be more then just friends. But i dont think she feels the same.I dont wanna end our friendship.
What the frik should i do

[ImCoolBeans]

You could talk to her about it if you want - that's the only real way to become more than friends if you want to - but there is always the risk of making things awkward or tainting your friendship. It's a tough situation and I know how you feel. The friend-zone isn't easy to break out of and unfortunately the only way I see to break free of it is to speak up and tell her what you want to say. I wish you well with whatever you decide to do here.

[FreeFall]

I agree with ImCoolBeans. You should talk to her about it. So much can happen and only you can choose what to do, in the end though you'll most likely be happy with what you decided. I'm got out of the zone, lost the friendship but I'm so happy about it. I've had many friends be successful, some even staying friends when the relationship ended. Good luck to you (:

[Bluesman]

I'm dating a girl right now who I was sure friendzoned me. We'd been best friends for over a year and close friends for long before that. Girls can be confusing... If it's a situation like mine, she could just be scared that you'll never feel the same. Just tell her how you feel. If shes a truly great friend, it wont mean you guys have to stop being friends even if she doesnt feel the same. It's gonna drive you out of your mind not telling her though, trust me. Just ask her if you can talk about something and tell her that you have feelings for her. Best of luck!

[jdmkid]

I have the same problem lol. I like this girl, who is also my best friend (ive known her for more than 5 years), and im not sure if i should tell her, since it may ruin the relationship we have.

[DerBear]

You could talk to her about it if you want - that's the only real way to become more than friends if you want to - but there is always the risk of making things awkward or tainting your friendship. It's a tough situation and I know how you feel. The friend-zone isn't easy to break out of and unfortunately the only way I see to break free of it is to speak up and tell her what you want to say. I wish you well with whatever you decide to do here.

Mike basically summed up what I was going to say.

The friends zone is is so hard to break out of and the only thing you really can do is speak up and tell her what you want. The only other thing I can say, is try to maybe take her somewhere nice like the movies or a theme park and sort of like spend time with her and then speak to her about it.

Either way in the end you will have to speak to her as I don't see much of another choice.

Good luck with whatever you choose to do in the end.

[john2]

well i got a new gf very f***kin happy it turns out she liked me to and now we together thanks for the advice(even thoe it made me even more nervous than i already was):D :D :D

[Curtis96]

just tell her no matter what i say, we stay freinds and try and keep this as normal as possible as normal, than tell her how you fell, if she feels the same way good luck but if she just wants to stay freinds just forget about and move on, plenty more fish in the see