break up

[green]

ok so ive been back with one of my old girlfriends for about 4-5 months or so now and im starting to have doubts. we have progressed into a sexual relationship of sorts but even though i care for her i dont feel the same sort of unconditional love that she feels for me.
I dont spend all my time thinking about her and i dont have anything to add to conversation ever.
what do you guys think? do you think i should talk to her or just break it off? I know that the last time we broke up she didnt take it well but then again she did break up with me.

[Desuetude]

I think you should talk to her. It's not fair to let her think that things could work out when you're having these doubts. If things haven't worked out before you really have to think about what was wrong and whether it's healthy to maintain a relationship in which you're not fully committed. In my opinion if you're not happy with how things are and you can't even contribute to conversation anymore then things are unlikely to be resolved. Just talk to her about it, get her opinion on how things are going but in the end it doesn't sound as though it will work out.

[FreeFall]

It's not fair to either of you. You should sit down and talk to her about it, fair warning it may sound like a break up talk and that's just what may happen. If it's been 4-5 months and you're like this, I sincerely doubt that your feelings for her are going to grow. You deserve someone that makes you want to talk, makes you want to think of nothing but them and makes you happy. You just can't feel trapped like this, even if she doesn't take the break up well. Good luck.