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[PaintedWishes]

I must be doing it completely wrong then :P

I don't think I've reached orgasms yet when I try :c

[christina2707]

I must be doing it completely wrong then :P

I don't think I've reached orgasms yet when I try :c

Let you time and relax, let yourself fall, think on anything what turns you on and it should work :)

[abbie]

its no biggie

[mandyluvgirl]

anal masturbation feels realy goood to. If you like it

[mandyluvgirl]

has anyone ever used a sharpy marker and just left in. I did for about two hours

[Becca029]

has anyone ever used a sharpy marker and just left in. I did for about two hours

left it in where
cuz i have left it in my but for a few hours and it was a thick one

[ToxicAce371]

What's your "g-spot"?

[hailey4000]

i masturbate to lesbian porn, but i would not want to date a girl. i want to date boys. i like doing sexual things with boys. most of the time in person i never get turned on unless its a guy but when i'm home alone and horny all i think about is girl on girl. what does that make me?:confused:

[Baby-Kitten]

I don't have a bedroom. And my dad doesn't have a job. I have a vibrater. My mom bought it for me before she died. And my dad and i are getting an apartment so I will have a bedroom. I'm afraid he will hear my vibrater! Any suggestions???

[feminin]

recently ive started masturbating almost everyday, usually more than once but i dont think ive ever had an orgasm. i do not find that rubbing my clit/fingering myself/inserting things in myself arouses me. fingering only works if i am already wet. the only way for me to get aroused is purely through my imagination, but im wondering if im missing something because ive have yet to orgasm? honestly that is all i want and i think its why ive started doing it so much. can any one help?

[madhatter16]

femini, try concentrating on something that excites you

[bored4evah]

Im 13 and have never masturbated, is that weird?

[Cherrypie1999]

Im 13 and have never masturbated, is that weird?

Nope its ok .... :yes:

[StoppingTime]

Please note that according to the P101 Rules, storytelling isn't permitted, nor is the sharing of sexual techniques.

[Maria_Lopez]

does it really feel good leaving something there for a few hours plus is it safe??

like would it get sore and I have heard of things getting stuck up there

Well it is something you must get used to if you like this stimulation. And yes it is best to used something with a base that will not slip all the way inside. :)

[jesslovesu]

does it really feel good leaving something there for a few hours plus is it safe??

like would it get sore and I have heard of things getting stuck up there

I don't think things can get stuck up there lol..but I mean, if you leave something big and keeps the hole open, and its in there for a few hours, wouldn't that kinda make you "open"? lol

[agirl555]

I masterbated my third time today and since the whole thing is kind of new to me, I inserted my finger inside me. Is it normal that theres like a lump at the back of ur vagina? Is it the hymen?

[Hahagirl]

I masturbate. I never inserted anything, I'm a virgin. I only rub the clit. I want to squirt/cum but I can't! So frustrating. Is there a way to?

[Thatonegirl15]

How young do most girls start masturbating?

[CheekyBird]

I'm 16 and never masterbated (never felt right as someone has always been in the house). Is this weird?

[towels]

hey, im new, i was wondering if its normal, because when i read these i feel funny down at my vagina, is it normal????

[kaylee.stevens]

Im 14, i masturbate all the time. Like 5 times a week. I actually make an effort to masturbating but, i can never orgasm. I have been doing it for about 1 year now. I make sure im wet and horny, get all naked, start rubbing my nipples and make them hard. Next, i start rubbing my clit in a circular motion for a
Couple minutes and then i start going fast and hard. I start shaking like crazy and like vibrating and i keep rubbing fast, and all of a sudden i cant do it anymore. Then the shaking goes away. Why dont I orgasm?

[Spicy girl]

Is masterbution a sin??? I'm new to this someone help this girl

[Jenny13]

Is masterbution a sin??? I'm new to this someone help this girl

Most definitely not... Think of some reasons:
It hurts no one else
It's not any former of sexually immorality
You're not having sex before marriage (maybe you are Idk) but no because of masturbation.

I struggled with the same questions being a Christian myself but I decided it is a blessing.
If you are just beginning the basics are just rub your clit until you come.

[almostasian]

Is it normal to feel guilty after masterbating

[katerinagirl]

I love masturbating. I'm virgin and I've been masturbating since I can't remember! Feels great! Usually do it once a day, unless I have my period or I'm not feeling well.

[Samantha1]

Sometimes I masturbate twice a day, is it normal? I thought that you should only do it like, once

[stoneflowe96]

Yes it is normal, some do more and some do less

[Charara]

All of these responses are normal, do whatever feels good to you!.

[Tarannosaurus]

I'm 16 and never masterbated (never felt right as someone has always been in the house). Is this weird?
Nope it's normal I'm the same and most of my friends don't masturbade either. Once or twice I start but it feels weird and awkward so I stop.

[Luminous]

Is it normal that theres like a lump at the back of ur vagina? Is it the hymen?
Not the hymen. It's the cervix, I can feel mine too. Totally normal don't worry about it!
Am I the only girl on this site that hasn't been able to reach orgasm?

[Jana]

Sometimes I masturbate twice a day, is it normal? I thought that you should only do it like, once

Who told you you should do it only once? Just listen to your brain and body and enjoy it so much times you like a day.

[Tarannosaurus]

Not the hymen. It's the cervix, I can feel mine too. Totally normal don't worry about it!
Am I the only girl on this site that hasn't been able to reach orgasm?

Nope I haven't either.

Please don't backseat mod, report it in the future. ~Siobhan.

[JessZ]

Not the hymen. It's the cervix, I can feel mine too. Totally normal don't worry about it!
Am I the only girl on this site that hasn't been able to reach orgasm?

No you are not alone, I still have not reached orgasm yet either, and I try quite a bit too.

[Special K]

Not the hymen. It's the cervix, I can feel mine too. Totally normal don't worry about it!
Am I the only girl on this site that hasn't been able to reach orgasm?


I used to be like that. But it takes a lot of patience and changing things up including the pace. I even started thinking about girls I couldn't have or girls I shouldn't be thinking about and it really got me worked up. I started cumming after.

[Luminous]

I used to be like that. But it takes a lot of patience and changing things up including the pace. I even started thinking about girls I couldn't have or girls I shouldn't be thinking about and it really got me worked up. I started cumming after.

I figure I'll be able to once I have sex.

[elliemay]

I like masturbating through my panties, rubbing the crotch over my vagina, anyone else like this way??

[Harley Quinn]

Please note that according to the P101 rules, storytelling isn't permitted, neither is the sharing of sexual techniques.

[ElliEvens]

I masterbated my third time today and since the whole thing is kind of new to me, I inserted my finger inside me. Is it normal that theres like a lump at the back of ur vagina? Is it the hymen?
Nope it is your cervix like Princess said! All vagina's are different in length and shape so if you are feeling yours it's totally normal. Also the cervix can be more reachable (lower) at different times of your cycle (closer to ovulation it gets lower). So don't worry at all this is totally normal. But some girls think it's uncomfortable to bump into the cervix so if that is it just don't push in so far or be gentler.

Am I the only girl on this site that hasn't been able to reach orgasm?Not at all, I had a hard time reaching Orgasm when I first started to masturbate to. It takes a bit to figure out what to do and how to relax enough to get it to happen. At least it did for me. :D

I used to be like that. But it takes a lot of patience and changing things up including the pace. I even started thinking about girls I couldn't have or girls I shouldn't be thinking about and it really got me worked up. I started cumming after.
Exactly, try different stuff, ways, to figure out what gets you the most excited and relax as much as possible.

I figure I'll be able to once I have sex.
I found it was actually easier for me to figure out how to orgasm on my own. It took a LONG time for me to orgasm from sex. Being honest and not telling "Stories" it took me a long time at first (like during maybe 10 minutes) to reach orgasm and the boys I were with were um "finishing" just to quickly for me to reach it.

Hope that doesn't count as story telling mod's?

[alicebean]

Wow you sure do know a lot elli, very knowledgeable. THANKS :)

[ShannanThaLoca]

Hey everyone im new here:)feel free to add me im really nice so yah. Anyways,uhh,i started mast.like at the end of summer.when i do the come here motion with my finger,i get a feeling that i might pee my pants.im wondering if anyone else feels the same??and why

[ArtemisLianCrock]

I masturbate frequently, but my Christian schoolwork tells me this is sinful. What should I do?

[KellyNC]

I masturbate frequently, but my Christian schoolwork tells me this is sinful. What should I do?

You should let it be your personal choice, and up to what you believe. I've personally never worried about the church's opinion on that issue (or much of any honestly). But if you personally enjoy it, and feel personally that its not wrong or at least acceptable to you personally then I think you shouldn't change.

[ShannanThaLoca]

Ok so when i mast(this is sooo embarassing lol) i kinda make noises...like gasps,short moans,and i breathe quickly.i was wondering if anyone else does this,or if im being too rough or what.Also when i insert a finger or two,after a while i hear squelching sounds? is this normal or am i going too fast? idk someone help haha!!

[LilAllyJ]

Shannan, you're fine! You won't make noise unless you're enjoying it, right? If you like it, keep going and don't worry about it! Look up videos of other girls doing it, you'll see you're not alone.

[Harley Quinn]

I masturbate frequently, but my Christian schoolwork tells me this is sinful. What should I do?

Masturbation is totally normal and you shouldn't feel like it's sinful, if you want to it that's perfectly fine and you don't need to listen to what a religion says for you to do. If you feel guilty about it however, I think you need to realise your own personal beliefs and go with them. I know that it says it's sinful but you really think that it is? If so then sure don't do it, but if you think it's okay, it's okay. The only function of the female sex organ is for pleasure, so why not use it.

[lenka11]

Girls, i have a question. Have u ever try pot buttplub in and let it there for some time? and life normal lifa(go shopping with it etc.?) is it possible? i am thinking about it, and i want try it thx for answers.

[violetdaisy]

"Girls, i have a question. Have u ever try pot buttplub in and let it there for some time? and life normal lifa(go shopping with it etc.?) is it possible? i am thinking about it, and i want try it thx for answers."

never tried but I would like to.. I think :)

[Mich015]

Girls, i have a question. Have u ever try pot buttplub in and let it there for some time? and life normal lifa(go shopping with it etc.?) is it possible? i am thinking about it, and i want try it thx for answers.

Ive only worn one at home for an hour or so a few times, but i bet wearing it out to go shopping or to school would be really hot! Let me know how it goes if you try it! :)

[CuteJo44]

I always masturbate I cant help it I do it up to 5 times a day. What do I do to stop. :what: :what: :what:

[Trampoline14]

What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?

Actually inserting fingers (whatever you wish to use) but everyone is different, there's such thing as a clitoral orgasm (stimulated by rubbing clitoris) but then there is also such thing as a vaginal orgasm which is stimulated by insertion

[Trampoline14]

Nothing wrong with that

I like masturbating through my panties, rubbing the crotch over my vagina, anyone else like this way??

Yeah it's nice, cleaner too

[becca07]

I like masturbating through my panties, rubbing the crotch over my vagina, anyone else like this way??

Either this or overtop my leggings or yoga pants feels great. Idk its just the feeling of a layer or two above that makes it all the better plus they are nice to wear cuz they provide an easy way to get off if you need too if your lazy and dont want to take everything off(thinness of the material+tight fitting)

[boop95]

I have never masturbated in my life, I've never had a need for it, and frankly I do not know how to do it, and I had a sex with my boyfriend. I think that now it can be a problem in my sex life becouse I don't know what feels good for me. Do you think that's normal, and you have the right kind to advise me.?

[vickilynn]

Many of my friends told me to use my hair brush.

[Evaboo]

I got my uncle to get me sex toys....those are almost as good as boyfriend!!

[Amsey]

If this thread exists..... WHY DID NO ONE TELL ME??!! I’m always asking questions about M-bating then mods block me... i weep in to my tea while curled up on the floor screaming "WHY DOES NO ONE LOVE ME!!!??"

tbh i was just a bit annoyed...

but anyways I’ll be coming here for advice from now on :P so everyone so some practical research haha

[jenna123]

I have never masturbated in my life, I've never had a need for it, and frankly I do not know how to do it, and I had a sex with my boyfriend. I think that now it can be a problem in my sex life becouse I don't know what feels good for me. Do you think that's normal, and you have the right kind to advise me.?

dont worry, i know a couple of girls who have also never masturbated. We dont all have the same needs. But also if one day you get the feeling, just experiment on it and you will learn how to do it. If not ask a friend or sister. Im not gonna lie its not as good as sex but its pretty good feeling when you are feeling horny.

[BossAsBit]

So I'm not into the whole rubbing ur clitoris thing, i like it more when my fingers penetrate my vagina but since I just started and am still a virgin it's harrd to get my fingers in because its so tight is there any lube I could use to help get my fingers in. PLEASE HELP!!! ;)

[SkullyHedgehog]

So I'm not into the whole rubbing ur clitoris thing, i like it more when my fingers penetrate my vagina but since I just started and am still a virgin it's harrd to get my fingers in because its so tight is there any lube I could use to help get my fingers in. PLEASE HELP!!! ;)

Olive oil works really nice. Just put a little of it on your fingers if your vagina is not properly lubricating itself. Works wonders.

[sweet_girl24au]

Olive oil works really nice. Just put a little of it on your fingers if your vagina is not properly lubricating itself. Works wonders.

Or u can use baby oil, or go to the supermarket and by KY or another "adult" lubricant.

You will find that when u use something slippery (thats designed for it!!!) it feels way nicer, smoother, just better overall.

An idiot friend of mine used hair gel because she had nothing else, and got a really bad infection. DON'T USE HAIR GEL!!!

[nippletree]

At least I'm not a freak. Lol.
I really appreciate knowing that. It's almost like a compulsion.
But hey, at least I'm not the only one.

I started masturbating a few years ago and i love it, i love how it always seems to relave stress and as long as u use plenty of lubricant, mine never really got chaffed and now i last alot longer and i even practiced with my mates.

[MaryStout]

ok, so ive never masturbated before and im 16 >< it never felt good for me. So i bought a vibrator (wich i found out u have to be 18 to get) and it works and feels really good on ur clit. woo trust me!

I am 13, I started my period for the first time a month ago, while trying to insert a tampon I got excited. Now I play with myself at least 3 times a night . I am now using my electric toothbrush between my legs, it feels soooo good. I know I will probably get caught by my mom, but I don't never want to stop, she has already ask me a couple of times if I am having trouble down there because of the discharges in my panties, I guess I will have to start washing my On my own clothes.

[KylieR13]

I'm 13. When can I start using 2 fingers? Or is that too much for me? I'm 5'1" and 110lbs, but I have wide hips. Am I able to use 2 fingers?

[stoneflowe96]

I'm 13. When can I start using 2 fingers? Or is that too much for me? I'm 5'1" and 110lbs, but I have wide hips. Am I able to use 2 fingers?

Just try it slowly, there is no age limit for masturbation and how you do it.Does it feel good and you have no pain? Then you can do this.

[sallyfunshine]

I love to masterbate all the time. I just started anal but it hurts how can i make it hurt less?

[xXoblivionXx]

How many fingers if any do you put in? I did 3 once.. Is that safe?

[sallyfunshine]

I can only put one in and it starts to hurt

[Lily24]

Um well this is kinda weird for me to say but well my mom asked me to go in her bathroom and get her phone on it was a blue thing shaped like a penis sry mods and I wasn't completly sure wht it was (btw I'm 13 and my moms a Health teacher) I asked her to come her and asked her wht it was she just blushed another day I was looking in her nightstand for dove chocolate (she hides it so I won't eat it ) and found a bag and opened it and the (thing) was in it she dosnt kno I found it cuz I'm afraid she would yell at me for going thru her nightstand in the first place hey after all it's not my fault I found it should I tell her

[anrigirl]

Um well this is kinda weird for me to say but well my mom asked me to go in her bathroom and get her phone on it was a blue thing shaped like a penis sry mods and I wasn't completly sure wht it was (btw I'm 13 and my moms a Health teacher) I asked her to come her and asked her wht it was she just blushed another day I was looking in her nightstand for dove chocolate (she hides it so I won't eat it ) and found a bag and opened it and the (thing) was in it she dosnt kno I found it cuz I'm afraid she would yell at me for going thru her nightstand in the first place hey after all it's not my fault I found it should I tell her

I would just keep quiet about it I guess, it's nothing weird, just a sex toy.

[laura98]

How many fingers if any do you put in? I did 3 once.. Is that safe?

yeah it's safe some girls do their whole first in lol
i enjoy 2 fingers the most

[Amy00]

is it weird to masturbate with friends?
I do it with my friends

[EmilyDriskill]

not at all! I have done it a couple times

[samiam2]

You have to just explore and find what's best for you.

[runnergirl]

is it weird to masturbate with friends?
I do it with my friends

I think it's totally normal. My best girl friend and I have masturbated together before. We have also done it to each other in several ways. I think we are meant to explore and discover ourselves as we grow, right? Oh and about toys, I dont have any because Im not of age but sometimes I use hairbrush..it's a paddle brush and I just use the handle. I usually need clitoris stimulation too though to orgasm and/or squirt. Is this normal?

[lillucy]

I'm finding it weird that I get so much when I climax! Is it normal?

[scottishlooby]

Oh and about toys, I dont have any because Im not of age but sometimes I use hairbrush..it's a paddle brush and I just use the handle. I usually need clitoris stimulation too though to orgasm and/or squirt. Is this normal?

I dont know if its normal but I use a brush and its the same for me

I'm finding it weird that I get so much when I climax! Is it normal?

so much what?

[lillucy]

I dont know if its normal but I use a brush and its the same for me



so much what?

Fluids

[scottishlooby]

ohh do you mean like squirting?

[evgenia]

Fluids

Me too!! :D

[lillucy]

Me too!! :D

hehehe
mine shoot out too!

[MimDipity]

Today, at the age of 13, I decided to explore my body and masturbate because 1. I was having strong sexual urges and 2. I was bored because I didn't have much to do because my family was out all day.
I ended up masturbating about 4 or 5 times today because it felt so good. But every time, something unexpected happened.
I felt the strong urge to pee, and when I rushed to the bathroom, I noticed this "pee" seemed to be clear and coming out of my vagina. It didn't smell of anything, and my bladder was empty every time. Once I didn't make it the the bathroom because it came on so quick, and I ended up wetting the bed I was laying on.
In fact, I ended up "peeing" like this even at a single sexual thought after masturbating a few times.
My question is, am I peeing? I've never experienced this before, and I'm worried. Am I doing something wrong?

[Appl]

Today, at the age of 13, I decided to explore my body and masturbate because 1. I was having strong sexual urges and 2. I was bored because I didn't have much to do because my family was out all day.
I ended up masturbating about 4 or 5 times today because it felt so good. But every time, something unexpected happened.
I felt the strong urge to pee, and when I rushed to the bathroom, I noticed this "pee" seemed to be clear and coming out of my vagina. It didn't smell of anything, and my bladder was empty every time. Once I didn't make it the the bathroom because it came on so quick, and I ended up wetting the bed I was laying on.
In fact, I ended up "peeing" like this even at a single sexual thought after masturbating a few times.
My question is, am I peeing? I've never experienced this before, and I'm worried. Am I doing something wrong?

Sounds like you're squirting :yes: Did you orgasm?

[Anne323]

yup thats squirting! You should be happy some girls cant and really want to. I think its about your masturbating technique thats causing you to squirt.

[Becca029]

yup thats squirting! You should be happy some girls cant and really want to. I think its about your masturbating technique thats causing you to squirt.


can u do it

ive never tried my self

[twirlgurl]

whats squirting???? Sorry, but It sounds repulsive.

[Becca029]

whats squirting???? Sorry, but It sounds repulsive.

it does sound gross

[curious.kitty]

does anyone else suck their own nipples while masturbating??

[Jour_Nuit]

i masturbate in my bedroom when i get home after school or late every night
I must be very careful because i dont have a lock on my bedroom door and my half-brother and my mom dont care if they walk in on me
Please don't mention any techniques/what you use. ~Lost in the Echo I find it good, but i don't squirt, i've never squirted.. am i supposed to?

[Anet]

I love anal masturbation. Is it normal?

[Dutchstranger18]

I love anal masturbation. Is it normal?

Offcourse it is. It can be just as nice and sensitive as normal masturbation

[amgb]

Amazingly I just realised that I've been masturbating since I was 12, I just never knew what I was doing until now 0.0

[Becca029]

Amazingly I just realised that I've been masturbating since I was 12, I just never knew what I was doing until now 0.0

thats great
how old r u now?

[amgb]

thats great
how old r u now?

15. How old are you?

[Becca029]

15. How old are you?

im 15 too

[AmyLe]

Today, at the age of 13, I decided to explore my body and masturbate because 1. I was having strong sexual urges and 2. I was bored because I didn't have much to do because my family was out all day.
I ended up masturbating about 4 or 5 times today because it felt so good. But every time, something unexpected happened.
I felt the strong urge to pee, and when I rushed to the bathroom, I noticed this "pee" seemed to be clear and coming out of my vagina. It didn't smell of anything, and my bladder was empty every time. Once I didn't make it the the bathroom because it came on so quick, and I ended up wetting the bed I was laying on.
In fact, I ended up "peeing" like this even at a single sexual thought after masturbating a few times.
My question is, am I peeing? I've never experienced this before, and I'm worried. Am I doing something wrong?

I have squirted probably half the times I have masturbated so far and it happened the first time I ever tried and had a orgasm which freaked me out. Lately I like to keep my clothes on from the day that are dirty anyways and will rub over my panties till I orgasm and it helps to keep the mess down for the most part but can sometimes soak through your pants.
I don't know if squirting and being very sensitive down there are related but most of the times I masturbate it get very sensitive right away which is usually when I will squirt but if I don't stop a lot of the times it won't even a minute to get there. Has anyone else had a orgasm very quickly?

[Lori]

Amazingly I just realized that I've been masturbating since I was 12, I just never knew what I was doing until now 0.0

Thinking about it I think I've been masturbating since I was 9-10 :/ but I didn't know what I was doing haha
I'm the youngest of the cousins and I remember one day while we were all together at a cousin's house and the parents were downstairs, one decided to show us a "grown up" movie (not x-rated more like c) her parents had rented and fast forwarded to the sex scene, very explicit and I remember feeling funny down there so after it finished I went to the bathroom to "calm" the feeling. I had no idea what I was doing or why I was doing it! it's kinda funny now that I think about it.
I also remember that my dad used to buy "men magazines" and hid them in his room, one day my sister and I found some and brought them to our room to take a look at them but again we had no idea what we were looking at LOL I remember that time I didn't feel anything though

[jenny2000]

Hello, I'm 14. I started puberty late at 13, just a few months back. I never really felt like masturbating, until very recently (I guess it was due to my late puberty).
A couple of weeks back, almost unconsciously I started thinking about the boys in my class and started rubbing my vag...that was how I realized I needed to masturbate, but I didn't penetrate because I felt it may hurt.
Then 4 days back, I tried penetrating, first with my finger, then with the back of a toothbrush and it hurt very bad and I saw some blood coming out. My period wasn't due anytime soon. I am scared and haven't told anyone. Is this normal?
I feel like masturbating more frequently now, and I only rub and control the urge to penetrate since I'm scared it may hurt...What should I do?
Thanks! :)

[Elena_]

Hello !!
I started to masturbate a few days ago , but I have some "problems"

1) I can do it only with 1 finger , I tried with two but they didnt fit in :(
2) My arm hurts a lot (and i do it quicky, it takes me a few minutes)
3) I expected it to be more "awesome" , to feel "more" (I dont know how to explain it exactly lol)

Is that normal?

[stoneflowe96]

Hello !!
I started to masturbate a few days ago , but I have some "problems"

1) I can do it only with 1 finger , I tried with two but they didnt fit in :(
2) My arm hurts a lot (and i do it quicky, it takes me a few minutes)
3) I expected it to be more "awesome" , to feel "more" (I dont know how to explain it exactly lol)

Is that normal?

Masturbation is something you need to learn, so don't frustrate yourself. It also means that you may have in the beginning not that feeling that you exspected. Maybe try it a bit slower, because if you hurt yourself, your body may not react in the pleasure it could react. Pain is stress, so relax more. Maybe you could also concentrate more on your clitoris, if a finger in your vagina, does not feel good. Give yourself time to explore yourself, so you can concentrate on your feelings and your body and that you have fun.

[Elena_]

Masturbation is something you need to learn, so don't frustrate yourself. It also means that you may have in the beginning not that feeling that you exspected. Maybe try it a bit slower, because if you hurt yourself, your body may not react in the pleasure it could react. Pain is stress, so relax more. Maybe you could also concentrate more on your clitoris, if a finger in your vagina, does not feel good. Give yourself time to explore yourself, so you can concentrate on your feelings and your body and that you have fun.

Thanks for answering me !!
The point is that I cant be that relaxed because I dont want my family to discover that I masturbate
For example , if Im taking a shower or peeing or whatever , my sister or my mom come to the bathroom to brush their teeth or wash their hands or something like that ... I dont have any privacy

[stoneflowe96]

Thanks for answering me !!
The point is that I cant be that relaxed because I dont want my family to discover that I masturbate
For example , if Im taking a shower or peeing or whatever , my sister or my mom come to the bathroom to brush their teeth or wash their hands or something like that ... I dont have any privacy

I understand why you don't want your family to know you masturbat. Can you do i5 in your bed or in your bedroom in general. Why do they not let you in private when you sit on the toilet or you are under the shower. Can you tell them that you like to be alone in the bathroom and that it is embarrassing for you? You could maybe wait for the night when everyone is in bed.

[Elena_]

I understand why you don't want your family to know you masturbat. Can you do i5 in your bed or in your bedroom in general. Why do they not let you in private when you sit on the toilet or you are under the shower. Can you tell them that you like to be alone in the bathroom and that it is embarrassing for you? You could maybe wait for the night when everyone is in bed.

Yeah , thats what I usually do ... But I have that feeling that someone is gonna interrupt me lol , i dont know how to explain it ...
And I always tell them that I need privacy but they dont seem to care about it.
Anyways , where do you usually it?

PS: I dont like masturbating in my room because I share it with my sister

[THJKIGB]

I started exploring that area when I just turned 12, but actually didn't start masturbating till I was 13. Now I usually do it at least 3 times a week.

[Legs]

I haven't been masturbating for very long, but now find myself doing it 5 to 6 times per week. The question I have is when trying to stimulate your clitoris is there any easy methods to use to help to ind it easier? Or is it different for every girl. There are times that I can be masturbating and find my clitoris very fast and other times I don't find it at all because I don't end up having that extra sensation.

[BlackParadePixie]

I haven't been masturbating for very long, but now find myself doing it 5 to 6 times per week. The question I have is when trying to stimulate your clitoris is there any easy methods to use to help to ind it easier? Or is it different for every girl. There are times that I can be masturbating and find my clitoris very fast and other times I don't find it at all because I don't end up having that extra sensation.
No its different for every girl...since vaginas can be very different from one another. Some poke out quite easily when the girl is aroused, some stay hooded most of the time...you just need to take the time to find it if you want to.

[Legs]

No its different for every girl...since vaginas can be very different from one another. Some poke out quite easily when the girl is aroused, some stay hooded most of the time...you just need to take the time to find it if you want to.Thank You, it is like hit or miss for me. Sometimes I find it really quick and it feels incredible and other times I can't seem to find it at all. If I don't find it that doesn't ruin my experience that time around, but it would be nice to find it all the time. I guess practice, practice, practice is what I need. :)

[Beth]

I've had the same problem but I have learned about my body and what feel the best. Just as Fiona has said all girls are different.

[stoneflowe96]

Although I masturbate now for some years, I feel in the moment a guilt for it and I don't know why. Brcause for me it is very normal, but then there is the same guilty moment in the last four weeks, like when I was 12. Has any one of you an idea?

[impan1019]

I masturbate really often. My best friend and I are always role playing and yeah

[Spoopy]

Can someone explain the scientific significance of masturbation? Im curious.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Clitoris + Fingers = Orgasm, in anything from a few minutes to like 30 minutes.

[Emerald Dream]

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Please read the P101 FAQ if you are not sure what you may or may not post here.

[Kristikia]

A lot of new things to me on here

[shamrockgirl02]

So lately I've been like really into anal stuff, especially when masturbating. I just wanted to know if I could ask here if it's possible to cum from just anal stimulation? I've seen things of that nature in pornos, but of course half that stuff is acting. I just wasn't sure if this type of thing could be normal for a regular girl?


I hope I didn't go too far and say anything inappropriate.

[Heidi_luv14]

hair brush handles work good

[Beach_Blonde]

I don't know from experience but I d no girls who have had orgasams by anal masturbation. My sis says its better if you can masturbate at the same time.

[Leslie2000]

So this might sound gross but I really enjoy anal fingering while I rub my clit. It is such an awesome orgasm, just make sure you lube up your fingers with something that won't burn, I usually use lotion.

[stoneflowe96]

So this might sound gross but I really enjoy anal fingering while I rub my clit. It is such an awesome orgasm, just make sure you lube up your fingers with something that won't burn, I usually use lotion.

For me it is not gross. Oh yes lotion is so important. It is another kind of orgasem and personaly ther is nothithing against, if someone likes it.

[Cangirl]

For me it is not gross. Oh yes lotion is so important. It is another kind of orgasem and personaly ther is nothithing against, if someone likes it.

Exactly :)

[MissKnowitAll]

Hey! Any questions?

[JennyNYC]

I learned from a classmate who asked me if I had done it. iasked her about it and she basically told me what to do. It was a bit awkward at first but when I gave it a few tries I quickly started to enjoy it

[Supermeggs12]

So, I was wearing shorts and starting rubbing my clitoris through my pants. It felt really good. Then I started breathing really hard and shaking, then I started thrusting my pelvis. And then everything just sort've released. Was that an orgasm?

[Doro15]

So, I was wearing shorts and starting rubbing my clitoris through my pants. It felt really good. Then I started breathing really hard and shaking, then I started thrusting my pelvis. And then everything just sort've released. Was that an orgasm?

Yes it was definitely an orgasm

[blooky]

Does anybody else masturbate like 2 or 3 times a day during the summer when there's more free time or am I alone here? :)

[feli 99]

No me too;)

[thesupergirl16]

Hi guys. This is a little embarrassing but my friend told me about masturbation but I didn't quite understand how to do it? Where do I start? Thanksies :)

[LilLena]

Hi guys. This is a little embarrassing but my friend told me about masturbation but I didn't quite understand how to do it? Where do I start? Thanksies :)

We are not allowed to post specifics here.
But basically try out to touch yourself and see what feels good. Don't do anything that hurts, that definitely is not necessary ;-)

[Tine Dancer]

Hi guys. This is a little embarrassing but my friend told me about masturbation but I didn't quite understand how to do it? Where do I start? Thanksies :)

Why don't you ask your friend?

[NatteDroom03]

Does anybody else masturbate like 2 or 3 times a day during the summer when there's more free time or am I alone here? :)

It gets a few times more a day during the summer, absolutely. :)

[Sarah16]

I use a vibrator. The hitachi wand is awesome!!!!! Dildo is cool. Also anal vibrator...ahem...well I have experience...

[olgatsik]

is it wrong, that i have never masturbated, even though i am 16 years old?

[stoneflowe96]

is it wrong, that i have never masturbated, even though i am 16 years old?

No it is not wrong.

[runnergirl]

I honestly have no idea what I'm doing haha. I would love to havd b another female to talk to :/

[truelana]

So this might sound gross but I really enjoy anal fingering while I rub my clit. It is such an awesome orgasm, just make sure you lube up your fingers with something that won't burn, I usually use lotion.

omg me too! hehe its def better!:wub:

[Svetlana2000]

So this might sound gross but I really enjoy anal fingering while I rub my clit. It is such an awesome orgasm, just make sure you lube up your fingers with something that won't burn, I usually use lotion.

doesnt sound gross at all. i do it too and feeling some finger or a lil vib in my backhole definitely spices up my orgasms.

[Flannel]

Anyone super obssesed with masturbation, more so than sex? Lol, i'd much rather get myself off, and that's weird I think.

[Anna Kadlecova]

I never had sex. :(

[AngelREDACTED]

I'd have to say fingering is okay for me. It feels good enough. I've never really been fond of putting stuff in me. Just seems weird.

[lori99]

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

[feli 99]

Only with half

[lori99]

Only with half

Only girls or both?

[feli 99]

Only girls

[amelia_]

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

Same here. Dont wanna get judged irl, but we all do it, its nice to have a place to talk about it lol

[Char03]

Same here. Dont wanna get judged irl, but we all do it, its nice to have a place to talk about it lol

Same we defo don't talk about it

[flowerchild]

we dont talk about it much

[lori99]

we dont talk about it much

Do you wish you did?

[IzzyB]

Oh yes :D love it! All sorts

[Nelli]

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

Very openly, but just with few closest friends.

[Living For Love]

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[cbernal]

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

One of my friends doesnt care and talks about it. Ill talk a little with her, but usually I dont. It just feel weird telling people that, especially boys. My sister and I are really close so sometimes Ill talk to her.

[geanyna]

One of my friends doesnt care and talks about it. Ill talk a little with her, but usually I dont. It just feel weird telling people that, especially boys. My sister and I are really close so sometimes Ill talk to her.

my closest friends and i talk about it all the time.

[kimmykim]

Same here. Dont wanna get judged irl, but we all do it, its nice to have a place to talk about it lol

same here

[Cassy7]

*cough cough* ignore my previous post::

So, I have a few questions to strike up a conversation for all of you:

Are you comfortable talking about masturbation with your sibling(s)?
Do you know/think they do?
How about your parents?
Have they ever caught you or talked to you about it?

regards,

-Cassy

[Emm6969]

Yes, i talk to my sister about everything.
I dont talk to my parents about it.
My parents caught me a few times but now they knock before coming into the room XD

[katie03]

I can't imagine ever discussing it or even wanting to discuss it with friends?

[chirishlassie731]

Yes, i talk to my sister about everything.
I dont talk to my parents about it.
My parents caught me a few times but now they knock before coming into the room XD

I'm in the same boat as you there, when my parents split up my dad got custody. So when I started to show alot of interest in my genitals, I relied on my two older sisters for advice and explanations. Then when my dad remarried a year and a half later, I got an older step sister who I bonded with immediately, and now I have three older females to go to for sex and masturbation talks.


Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

[Emm6969]

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

Yep, if i dont then i wake up in the middle of night really horny sometimes

[Cassy7]

Does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

Yeah, I usually need to orgasm if I want good sleep. Sometimes it's frustrating when I can't do it though, because my family have no sense of privacy and I can't really do it if my dad's in the next room.

[becca07]

Yeah, I usually need to orgasm if I want good sleep. Sometimes it's frustrating when I can't do it though, because my family have no sense of privacy and I can't really do it if my dad's in the next room.

I can relate with your frustration...i am much the same way and it sucks when privacy is an issue

[jennycakes]

I've talked about it with a few of my close girlfriends.

[Anniebanannie]

Yeah, I usually need to orgasm if I want good sleep. Sometimes it's frustrating when I can't do it though, because my family have no sense of privacy and I can't really do it if my dad's in the next room.

I can relate with your frustration...i am much the same way and it sucks when privacy is an issue

Lack of privacy is the worst. No matter what, there's never enough.

[chirishlassie731]

Yep, if i dont then i wake up in the middle of night really horny sometimes

Nice to know I'm not alone

Yeah, I usually need to orgasm if I want good sleep. Sometimes it's frustrating when I can't do it though, because my family have no sense of privacy and I can't really do it if my dad's in the next room.

That sucks, I know how you feel. Sometimes I'm super busy and/or have to wake up early so I try to go to sleep as early as I can. Then I wake up in the middle of the night all restless cus I need to cum.

Thats really unfair you don't get enough privacy. You should try doing it while in the shower, no one will bother you then

[Trish_Lynn]

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

I did when I first started doing it with a couple of my close girl friends at sleepovers. Kind of sort of compared notes in a way.

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

I find that it's a good way to relieve all the stress and tension that builds up during the day. I easily fall asleep right after usually.

[jennycakes]

I find that it's a good way to relieve all the stress and tension that builds up during the day. I easily fall asleep right after usually.

I totally agree. A great and fun way to reduce stress. After a health round or two, sleep comes much earlier. Friends can tell if I missed my nightly routine cause they say I'm a bitch the next day.

[Brigje]

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning
It's about the same for me, without orgasm it is difficult for me to fall asleep and I wake up several times during the night.

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

Yes, I talk about masturbation and sex openly with close girlfriends.

[Becca029]

*cough cough* ignore my previous post::

So, I have a few questions to strike up a conversation for all of you:

Are you comfortable talking about masturbation with your sibling(s)?
Do you know/think they do?
How about your parents?
Have they ever caught you or talked to you about it?

regards,

-Cassy

well im an only child but my GF has a sister who is 14 and she asks us questions about it and we are ok answering them

sometimes we learn something new lol

and yeah we know she does it and she knows we do it too

[Fiona2]

I don't have any siblings but I have talked with my mom about it. She was very cool about it. I've never been caught but my mom knows that I masturbate.

[Brigje]

I don't have any siblings but I have talked with my mom about it. She was very cool about it. I've never been caught but my mom knows that I masturbate.

This is kind of similar for me.
Mom talked about it with me from very early on.
She is also very cool about it and knows that I masturbate.

[Miss Ophelia]

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

Yes, very much so. I find it really relaxes me and helps me sleep a lot better.

[Brigje]

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning

Yes, very much so. I find it really relaxes me and helps me sleep a lot better.

Yes, very much the same for me.
It became a kind off, getting to sleep ritual, it is almost like I can't fall asleep without it.

[Leena_2003]

Seperate topic: does anyone else feel like they need to masturbate right before bed? I know it's a common thing to rub a cheap one out at bedtime, but honestly I find it extremely difficult to fall asleep if I don't cum. And even if I do fall asleep without masturbating, it's not really a good sleep, I'm groggy and grumpy the next morning[/QUOTE]

Yes, that is the time I do it mostly. Definitely during the week. Orgasms last a long time for me, because I always get several sub-orgasms and it goes on for maybe 15 minutes or so and I like to fall asleep after that. I rarely do it during the day, only now and then on weekends or when I'm sure I won't get busted.

*cough cough* ignore my previous post::

So, I have a few questions to strike up a conversation for all of you:

Are you comfortable talking about masturbation with your sibling(s)?
Do you know/think they do?
How about your parents?
Have they ever caught you or talked to you about it?

regards,

-Cassy

When I was 12 my older sis talked to me a little about it but we haven't discussed it since then.
I know my sis does, and she knows I do. I am sure my younger brother does it too.
I think my parents will be stupid if they think us kids don't do it, but nobody ever says anything about it.
Never been caught, and never caught my sis or bro.

Do you girls openly talk about it with your friends or not? I'm very shy irl but I'm much more open online:)

I'm shy like you I suppose. I have talked to only two of my girl friends ever but not in much detail, just that we're doing it. I feel more comfortable to talk about it online like this site.

[LexiBear]

Like most of you I find that i sleep better if i masturbate before going to sleep but my situation is a little bit difference.

I share a bedroom with my 8 year old twin sisters and I've tried being super quiet and sneaky but even then i still make a loud enough commotion that they notice and ask me what i'm doing so naturally it's hard to "rub one out before we go to sleep as i have a really hard time keeping still and keeping quiet.

Anybody have any ideas on how to get around this? I've tried doing it in the shower before bed but i can never orgasm using the shower head like i can laying in bed.

Thanks
~LexiBear

[amelia_]

Like most of you I find that i sleep better if i masturbate before going to sleep but my situation is a little bit difference.

I share a bedroom with my 8 year old twin sisters and I've tried being super quiet and sneaky but even then i still make a loud enough commotion that they notice and ask me what i'm doing so naturally it's hard to "rub one out before we go to sleep as i have a really hard time keeping still and keeping quiet.

Anybody have any ideas on how to get around this? I've tried doing it in the shower before bed but i can never orgasm using the shower head like i can laying in bed.

Thanks
~LexiBear
Maybe doing it on the toilet? So people won’t bug you since you’re in the bathroom

[LexiBear]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

[amelia_]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

I think it’s normal for people to have their own best way to do it. When you do it in the shower does it not feel as good? Or maybe it’s not as comfortable?

[kalha123]

just touching for me.

[Triple k]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

I'm the same way

[kalha123]

rubbing hood

[Alexis16]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

The shower head works for me lol. But everyone is different, have to find what works best for you.

[Leena_2003]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

I don't think you're weird because of that - I am the same. I don't have to be lying down but the shower head has never done it for me. Maybe because the water pressure is not strong enough? Idk.

[FunkFlannel]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

Same. That can get me going but i need physical contact to finish.

[EvaNL]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

You're not weird in any way. Everyone is different and reacts to things differently.
Do what you enjoy!
There's no harm in trying other things out though, but if they are not for you, so be it! It's not weird :)

[Angela1861]

Few questions:

Do you masturbate?
Have you every been caught?
Do you masturbate with friends/sisters?
Are you open to the idea?

[Living For Love]

Mod note: please keep in mind that discussions about sex toys or masturbation techniques are not allowed. Some posts have been deleted.

[Fiona2]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

I'm the same way.

[LexiBear]

Mod note: please keep in mind that discussions about sex toys or masturbation techniques are not allowed. Some posts have been deleted.

I'm sorry, I'm still new and trying to figure this site out and learning the rules

[HardCandyGirl]

I’ve tried doing it various ways in the bathroom such as with the shower head or letting the water run but for some reason I can’t orgasm unless I’m laying down and using my fingers.

I’m weird that way

I agree, you're not weird at all. I can get orgasms in some ways, but what's impossible for me is this thing, having an orgasm by walking, like just moving you legs in the right way or something... I've read about it, but still sounds like a fantasy, maybe easier with a piercing... I don´t know.

[AngelicHearts]

First post here haha.

Is it weird that I get horny pretty often? Like even when I'm out and about with friends I'll suddenly start feeling hot and get a little wet. Makes me feel like some sex freak or something ha.

[amelia_]

First post here haha.

Is it weird that I get horny pretty often? Like even when I'm out and about with friends I'll suddenly start feeling hot and get a little wet. Makes me feel like some sex freak or something ha.

It’s normal.

[hayley2003]

what i wanna know is why boys on the internet want to know all the details about how girls stimulate themselves? here are some of the question guys have asked me:

how do girls stimulate themselves?
how often?
do girls get naked before they do it?
how do girls masturbate with other girls?
do girls make videos so they can watch themselves later?
do girls moan or scream really loud?
what kind of sex toys do girls use?
do girls taste themselves?
do girls have masturbation sex clubs?
do girls masturbate at school?
do girls masturbate while riding a horse?

Those are just the ones i remember...lol

[BlackParadePixie]

masturbation sex clubs? what?

:lol:

[Becca029]

what i wanna know is why boys on the internet want to know all the details about how girls stimulate themselves? here are some of the question guys have asked me:

how do girls stimulate themselves?
how often?
do girls get naked before they do it?
how do girls masturbate with other girls?
do girls make videos so they can watch themselves later?
do girls moan or scream really loud?
what kind of sex toys do girls use?
do girls taste themselves?
do girls have masturbation sex clubs?
do girls masturbate at school?
do girls masturbate while riding a horse?

Those are just the ones i remember...lol

some guys message me on here witht these

[hayley2003]

masturbation sex clubs? what?

:lol:

yeah, i thought it was pretty funny. and i wonder if they meet everyday after school. ;)

[PrincessCassie]

Ive had boys ask me similar questions too. I know boys only think about sex but I dont know why they are so interested in asking questions like this

[ChloeF]

masturbation sex clubs? what?

:lol:

I think that's meant to mean group masturbation but as for the other questions, l've been asked much the same.

[Alexis16]

Good to know I'm not the only one who gets asked these kinda questions I guess

[Caycedilla]

what i wanna know is why boys on the internet want to know all the details about how girls stimulate themselves? here are some of the question guys have asked me:

how do girls stimulate themselves?
how often?
do girls get naked before they do it?
how do girls masturbate with other girls?
do girls make videos so they can watch themselves later?
do girls moan or scream really loud?
what kind of sex toys do girls use?
do girls taste themselves?
do girls have masturbation sex clubs?
do girls masturbate at school?
do girls masturbate while riding a horse?

Those are just the ones i remember...lol

Not that I would actually answer any of that to someone who I don’t even know very well, but those were good for laughs (thank you lol). Especially a random “masturbate on a horse” thrown in there. What in the hell?

[Cangirl]

Not that I would actually answer any of that to someone who I don’t even know very well, but those were good for laughs (thank you lol). Especially a random “masturbate on a horse” thrown in there. What in the hell?


haha yeah ive been asked all those too and also about a motorcycle. Maybe its the same as a horse?? but its like wtf?

[PrincessCassie]

This is exactly why I dont talk to boys very much lol