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[Bath]

Pretty much yeah.

Thnx bro.

[Punk_Kid]

I fail to see how you can hate it but then again i'm a guy lol

[Bath]

I fail to see how you can hate it but then again i'm a guy lol

It just feels really.. squishy? Haha.

[Philleeep]

Hey i dont mind doing it like but i cant let it touch me after cuz its like discusting. If i do get it on me then im straight in the shower. If you leave it on you it goes
like pevea glue.

[Bath]

Hey i dont mind doing it like but i cant let it touch me after cuz its like discusting. If i do get it on me then im straight in the shower. If you leave it on you it goes
like pevea glue.

Or you can just wipe it off? Haha.

[Philleeep]

Or you can just wipe it off? Haha.

Iknow that but its not always convenient.

[Dunce]

Ok this is embarassing :/ I'm having the urge to finger myself because I'm curious, but I started looking in the mirror at the area and theres no opening :O Dudes, i cant find my vagina :( it looks weird down there and diagrams dont help... I dont know where the clit is either.... oh and is masterbating dangerous? I heard of a woman who used a carrot and died. I'm pretty sure its not a rumour.

[Charleigh]

Ok this is embarassing :/ I'm having the urge to finger myself because I'm curious, but I started looking in the mirror at the area and theres no opening :O Dudes, i cant find my vagina :( it looks weird down there and diagrams dont help... I dont know where the clit is either.... oh and is masterbating dangerous? I heard of a woman who used a carrot and died. I'm pretty sure its not a rumour.

discovering yourself is natural :L
dont use a carrot. use something that wouldnt cause damage to your lady bits. anything sharp can cause pain and tear your insides.
the only way masturbation is dangerous is if anything goes straight up your lady bits, like a tapon but without the string and if you come into any contact with S.T.Ds. OR if whatever you stick up your lady bits is sharp
PM me if you want to talk x

[Geraaboo]

are there any advantages of masterbating?

[Dunce]

discovering yourself is natural :L
dont use a carrot. use something that wouldnt cause damage to your vagina. anything sharp can cause pain and tear your insides.
the only way masturbationis dangerous is if anything goes straight up your vaigona, like a tapon but without the string and if you come into any contact with S.T.Ds.
PM me if you want to talk x

But how would a carrot damage your vagina...? Thats sort of what I want to know... how do you know itll damage you? Because carrots seem pretty harmless..
And by straight up do you mean goes up with no way of coming down?

[beachbumchick]

hey i am new to this masturbation scene im 16 and have only just discovered it after one of my female friends showed me a video on the internet and said i should try but the way i do it now doesnt feel right to me and i dont think i am getting an orgasm from it could some one please tell me the best way to do it i would be sincerly grateful to anyone who can help.

rachel xxx

Just relax and when u feel horny, just rub around don't here till it starts feeling good. Explore and figure out what you like :) Don't force it trying to get an orgasm, just relax and let it feel good, it'll happen when it happens

[Dunce]

I'm sorry for posting so much with different questions...
My clitoris isnt sensitive... is that normal? I heard alot of people say it depends on what you like but the clitoris works for everyone...
And I can insert anything up my vagina.... I just dont see an opening :/

[girl555]

non sensitivity is common. just poke around ur vagina until u find an opening. and if the clit doesnt work try and find ur g spot. it is located approx. 2 inches up the inside of ur vagina's front wall. it should feel different. it works so great for me. just keep rubbing it and u should orgasm. i do everytime ;)

[harjob]

G spot works for many times.

[girl555]

of course it works! it works the best when combined with clit stimulation or anal masturbation :P. i think im gonna go do that now because im getting so wet right now :P

[jet7up]

of course it works! it works the best when combined with clit stimulation or anal masturbation :P. i think im gonna go do that now because im getting so wet right now :P

well, i didn't know that i have to finger my ass combined with clit stimulation if i wanna get a Gspot orgasm :confused:

[girl555]

u dont have to. it just makes the orgasm more powerful, stronger, intense pleasurable and enjoyable :P

[MercedesV1997]

i love masturbation. it is the best feeling in the world. but im running out of ideas
i need ideas im gettin those urges again:)

[girl555]

i know how u feel with those urges ;). have u tried clit stimulation, g-spot stimulation, fingering, anal fingering? you could also try getting a dildoh or something else similar to put up there. or get a vibrator. if not allowed one get an electric tooth brush and use the non brush side like a vibrator. i do cause im not allowed a vibrator yet (i wish) cause im only 13 :P

[Dunce]

I get wet just by rubbing my nipples.. and you may have seen an earlier post where I didnt know where my vagina was, I still dont! So when I got wet last night I poked around to see where it was coming from and I dont think its coming from my vagina :O ok right theres your labia right? then in between those theres a tubey part where your vagina should be right? Well under that thing is where the wet was coming from... and where my vagina supposedly is was dry :L
SO CONFUSED RIGHT NOW :L

[jet7up]

u dont have to. it just makes the orgasm more powerful, stronger, intense pleasurable and enjoyable :P


I cannot get an orgasm by anal fingering .
It doesn't hurt me , no pain - no pleasure >
I can get a lot of pleasure, orgasm by rubbing my clit (very sensitive ) Usually I insert a banana (with a condom ) and it works great :yeah:
A gf of mine told me she was squirting like boys, but I've never managed to do.. I would like to :yes:

[LucyLovestrukk]

this is all news to me

[Dunce]

@LucyLovestrukk

You're not perverted. If your friends giggle when sex is mentioned then they aren't yet open to discussing it and stuff. And to them, you knowing so much about it may seem weird. but this time next year they'll probably be on the same page you are now.

[LucyLovestrukk]

You're not perverted. If your friends giggle when sex is mentioned then they aren't yet open to discussing it and stuff. And to them, you knowing so much about it may seem weird. but this time next year they'll probably be on the same page you are now.

thanks, that makes me feel better that others understand

[solosarah]

I want to post masturbation , experiences/ stories, is that allowed ?

[LadyRhiannon]

Hello, I am 14. I started masterbating when I was in sixth grade (although then it was mostly just exploration feeling). I have only been able to achieve orgasm once, and only "cummed" twice. One of the times cumming and the only time orgasming were with my mom's vibrator and while having phone sex. Does anyone have any ideas as to how else I can achieve orgasm without the vibrator or the phone sex? Yes, I did wash the vibrator before and after use. I really enjoyed the orgasm (duh), but I know of no way to get ahold of another vibrator. I have tried some household objects, like an electric nail file thing that shakes, electric toothbrush, etc but none work. I know that part of my problem when using vaginal insertion, like with a brush I have (handle, not bristles), that my arms grow tired really fast and I can not continue for very long.

Help?

[LadyRhiannon]

Thank you. I will try that :)

[Colour Fadeout]

I get wet just by rubbing my nipples.. and you may have seen an earlier post where I didnt know where my vagina was, I still dont! So when I got wet last night I poked around to see where it was coming from and I dont think its coming from my vagina :O ok right theres your labia right? then in between those theres a tubey part where your vagina should be right? Well under that thing is where the wet was coming from... and where my vagina supposedly is was dry :L
SO CONFUSED RIGHT NOW :L

You have too holes, the inferior hole (the bottom one) is the vagina, and the top one is the urethra (pee hole). You seem to be talking as you have found the urethra but can't find the vagina, which is odd because the urethra is smaller, and so it could be possible that your hymen is still in tact and that your hymen is an irregular type that fully covers the vagina. Even so you should be able to find it lol...

http://www.osovo.com/diagram/womenvagina.jpg
This picture shows the vaginal opening with hymen remnants. In case you didn't know, the hymen will break once you penetrate your vagina (if it is covering the vagina 100%), you can also see the urethra which is probably the hole you found

The "wetness" of your vulva doesnt come from the vagina, it comes from the bartholin/skene glands, shown in this picture

http://www.osovo.com/diagram/vagina.gif

I'm sure you'll figure it out soon enough...


I want to post masturbation , experiences/ stories, is that allowed ?

Doubt it

Hello, I am 14. I started masterbating when I was in sixth grade (although then it was mostly just exploration feeling). I have only been able to achieve orgasm once, and only "cummed" twice. One of the times cumming and the only time orgasming were with my mom's vibrator and while having phone sex. Does anyone have any ideas as to how else I can achieve orgasm without the vibrator or the phone sex? Yes, I did wash the vibrator before and after use. I really enjoyed the orgasm (duh), but I know of no way to get ahold of another vibrator. I have tried some household objects, like an electric nail file thing that shakes, electric toothbrush, etc but none work. I know that part of my problem when using vaginal insertion, like with a brush I have (handle, not bristles), that my arms grow tired really fast and I can not continue for very long.

Help?

How can you only have had 1 orgasm but "cummed" twice? Cumming is orgasming...?

and as for your problem, do clitoral stimulation (its shorter movements so should prolong tiredness) just as a vibrator would do.
or get someone else to do it for you.

the best way for sure is g-spot stimulation. to find it search around the top front wall of ur vagina approx. 2 inches up. u'll know u've found it cause it has a different texture to the surrounding area and there should be an instant sensation when u touch it. just rub that spot for a while and u should achieve orgasm. if u cant find ur g-spot then clit stimulation is second best. i also like anal penetration but lube is needed and not all girls like that. but i do :P

It's not the best way for all girls, some prefer clitoral. and its 2 inches in*

[LadyRhiannon]

How can you only have had 1 orgasm but "cummed" twice? Cumming is orgasming...?

I did not feel anything but I know that there was a ton and ton of liquid. I assumed I "came." I figured out how to orgasm and "cum" now
Thank you for all the help!

[girl555]

so girls, anyone else like anal masturbation or just me?

[Charleigh]

Google. Just search up "Masturbating techniques" in Google, honestly. Google work's wonder's.

[jibjab26]

Ok, thank you! ^_^

[horserider]

what does an orgasm feel like

[cutelilbunny]

ummm...i have a ?. well today i was masturbating and the vaginal fluid was greeish...it wasnt the normal blueish stuff...and i tasted it (im addicted to tasting vaginal fluid :P) and it tasted like rotten strawberies O.o is it normal for fluid to change color? im worried sickkk...

[skilletfan128]

i love to rub my clitoris with a vibrating tooth brush. Im 13 so I have to get around my parents. Next time you go to the store just say you need a new toothbrush. to keep the noise down, use it in the shower. they wont suspect anything.

ummm...i have a ?. well today i was masturbating and the vaginal fluid was greeish...it wasnt the normal blueish stuff...and i tasted it (im addicted to tasting vaginal fluid :P) and it tasted like rotten strawberies O.o is it normal for fluid to change color? im worried sickkk...

Ok hate to tell you but I'm 13 and I have been masturbating since I was 8 (I know its young but i didnt really know even what masturbating was-it just felt good) ANYWAY that is NOT normal. You might want to go to a gynocologist. If you've never been to one before, your parents dont have to know or be with you just bring money. they are required to keep your privacy if you're older than 12. look up pelvic exam on google for more details.


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[Tori4456]

Help!! After I masturbait I feel really really guilty. The next day I feel like god is punishing me by making bad stuff happen to me because once I... Did that... Then I had a bad day like alot of bad stuff happens, idk what's wrong!! Plz help!!:(

[Fact]

Help!! After I masturbait I feel really really guilty. The next day I feel like god is punishing me by making bad stuff happen to me because once I... Did that... Then I had a bad day like alot of bad stuff happens, idk what's wrong!! Plz help!!:(

God is not going to punish you for masturbating. The fact that you masturbated and then you had a bad day afterwards is a complete coincidence in my opinion. I'm not religious, but I seriously doubt that if there was a God that was all loving, that he would punish you for pleasuring yourself rather than sleeping with many men. However, I've read a lot at VT that some Catholics believe that masturbation is a sin. That's entirely up to you.

Masturbation is natural: you're not 'dirty' for doing it and you're not alone either!

[SEASHELL]

God is not going to punish you for masturbating. The fact that you masturbated and then you had a bad day afterwards is a complete coincidence in my opinion. I'm not religious, but I seriously doubt that if there was a God that was all loving, that he would punish you for pleasuring yourself rather than sleeping with many men. However, I've read a lot at VT that some Catholics believe that masturbation is a sin. That's entirely up to you.

Masturbation is natural: you're not 'dirty' for doing it and you're not alone either!


Symone is Correct. Mastabation is Natural and beautiful and it's Fun. It's also HEALTHY. Men also mastabate. I heard that if men don't mastabate they have more chance of getting Prostrate cancer.

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[swisss21]

the procedure is not weird. why to discuss ?

[lollypop]

I like to do it but it grosses me out in the end.

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[rockon323]

Is it weird that i masturbated at school today?

[AnzotheBananzo]

Is it weird that i masturbated at school today?

Haha, not at all. I've always wanted to do it at school but there's 2000 pupils so you never really get a quiet moment, even in the toilets!! I was off school today though, it's the Easter holidays, and the Royal Wedding :)
But good luck with your school 'antics' :)

[rockon323]

Haha, not at all. I've always wanted to do it at school but there's 2000 pupils so you never really get a quiet moment, even in the toilets!! I was off school today though, it's the Easter holidays, and the Royal Wedding :)
But good luck with your school 'antics' :)



Haha yea. I wqtched the wedding too! Well my school only has about 600 kids,and only like 200 im ma grade,and ther are alot of bathrooms,so thry are empty most of the time

[Mindstorm]

well i just stick a banana up my vagina and that works for me

[maisy]

I use a back massager I orgasm every time

[girl555]

who else loves anal masturbation like me?

[papaplayer]

hey girls, my favourite thing to get me going is by stimulating my anal cavity, i know its a bit out there but it really gets me going, and the rush goes straight to my head!! For extra pleasure sometimes i use a spoon, its just the right shape and temperature to push where it feels good, it makes me hit the roof!! like i said, it's a bit out there but it really floats my boat!!

[papaplayer]

im a guy but i was wondering is my penis small it is 5-6 in hard can this hit ur g spot
hi shane, i saw the post about your penis
that is huge in my opinion, my last boyfriend had 3 inches hard
yours sounds dangerous!! not only would it hit my g-spot, it would probably poke my heart out!!
i find with huge penis's like yours, normal lube doesnt work very well, you should try using custard, it tastes great and its got a good consistancy to make it feel better
. you should probably see a specialist because having a big penis like that can give you all sorts of back problems when you're older!!
love xx

[brookie]

i usually take a bath and run water then put my clit and vag. up to the running water and it feels really good great way for an orgazim(;

[Shouty1724]

i usually take a bath and run water then put my clit and vag. up to the running water and it feels really good great way for an orgazim(;

thats what i do

Okay so im Catholic and its a sin to masturbate but i luv doin it. sooooo what should i do??

[whensmytime]

thats what i do

Okay so im Catholic and its a sin to masturbate but i luv doin it. sooooo what should i do??

if you've already done it you've already sinned. im also a catholic but i have sinned a lot i chose to stick to laws and worship god. because tbh im not going to aviod natural things for the small chance i will be sent to hell for it.

[Scarlett93]

Hey, so I'm new to this... Personally I just sit on the bench of my shower, I open my legs and with the shower head I aim for whatever feels good. I usually put the water on warm and I use a powerful jet. It feels sooooooo good.

[Frostbite]

Um, awkward question, but I've heard lots of people talking on VT about masturbation with others, and I was wondering what it is?
I know what masturbation is, but not what it is with others.
Is it just watching others masturbate? Or is it, like, "helping" them out?
I probably sound really stupid, and I know it's an awkward question, but y'know...

[Iris]

scarlett-i do that too!

but i hate masturbating it makes me feel so dirty and disgusting.... :(

[secrett]

so im just wondering how do you guys(girls) get yourselves horny without going in your vag.

[Joshy_Lovee]

I know Imma a guy and it's weird if I post here but I have a 6.4 inch penis and I just wanted to know if that was bad? :/

[Iris]

its not bad

[Dasha]

I've masturbated since late 13, now I'm 14 and love to masturbate in a hot tub. I just go to the bathroom and put the jets on, open my legs close against it. It feels so gud only minus is that I reach a climax fast) if I'm in bed I use a electric toothbrush

[ashley95]

who else loves anal masturbation like me?
I sometimes like a finger up my butt

[adcdancer29]

is it weird that I mutually masturbate with my boyfriend since I'm only 14??

[rider15]

I know Imma a guy and it's weird if I post here but I have a 6.4 inch penis and I just wanted to know if that was bad? :/
nah our lucky ;D

[hotasian95]

All I have to say is that masturbation is great <3 I use anything that fits or the shower head when I'm in the shower. It's really hard to get multiple orgasms though, personally I get really weak after the first one... Does anyone know how to get multiple orgasms in a row without stopping?

[Rob11]

its completley normal

[nnnnnnnnn9999]

when i am masturbating i tend to get lezzy fantasies(along with guy/girl ones) but is it normal to get those even though im straight?

[Maxicosi]

I'm sorry I'm a guy but its for mij best friend (girl) I show
Her tis forum something about masturbating when
You're 14 years old like us and she told me that she's scared
To masturbate what can I do to help her? Greatzz maxicosi

[Carly99]

I've masturbated since late 13, now I'm 14 and love to masturbate in a hot tub. I just go to the bathroom and put the jets on, open my legs close against it. It feels so gud only minus is that I reach a climax fast) if I'm in bed I use a electric toothbrush

Omg that sounds like heaven

[Carly99]

I sometimes like a finger up my butt

Who's finger?

[fairylily]

Okay... This is a little awkward and weird for me typing this but ehhhh...

Thinking about it now, I might have started doing this when I was 11 unknowingly. I was taking a bath and it suddenly happened. I don't even know what this is until recently :p Hmmm but long time ago (during those 11 years old time) my mama2x catch me and told me you can get infected or something... I stopped then but when I came in the US, I do it but very rarely... It just happens sometimes..

Now my question is can you really get infected by water?

[Angel Androgynous]

Okay... This is a little awkward and weird for me typing this but ehhhh...

Thinking about it now, I might have started doing this when I was 11 unknowingly. I was taking a bath and it suddenly happened. I don't even know what this is until recently :p Hmmm but long time ago (during those 11 years old time) my mama2x catch me and told me you can get infected or something... I stopped then but when I came in the US, I do it but very rarely... It just happens sometimes..

Now my question is can you really get infected by water?

No, I think your mother just wanted for you to stop masturbating.

[fairylily]

Ahh okay. Thank you! :)

[Angel Androgynous]

Ahh okay. Thank you! :)

No problem. (:

[hung drummer guy]

My girlfriend's ex (about two years ago) was abusive, and would sexually abuse her. fastforward a year, and we meet. later on, i find out that everytime shes Orgasms, her vagina bleeds, even when shes not on her period. I didnt know this was true until a couple days ago when we were messing around, and she started bleeding. She thinks her ex ripped something, and I keep telling her to get it checked out. does anyone know what it could be?

[Aleroniponi]

My girlfriend's ex (about two years ago) was abusive, and would sexually abuse her. fastforward a year, and we meet. later on, i find out that everytime shes Orgasms, her vagina bleeds, even when shes not on her period. I didnt know this was true until a couple days ago when we were messing around, and she started bleeding. She thinks her ex ripped something, and I keep telling her to get it checked out. does anyone know what it could be?

Umm, well after punching that pussy ass mother fucker in the face then shitting on his unresponsive body, you should definitely tell her to go to the doctor and getting that checked out. I HATE MEN WHO ABUSE WOMEN!!

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[sarahann95]

I am a 16 year old girl and I can't seem to "stimulate" myself. I rub my clit and whatnot, but a majority of the time it doesn't work, so then I finger, but that doesn't do the trick that often either it seems..Is there anything I can use to help stimulate myself or cause me more pleasure? I don't have access to one of those massage shower heads and I don't have an electric toothbrush..

[RobbieK1]

Im a guy but sometimes people are very non sensative to stimulation

[RobbieK1]

Anal masturbation is very stimulating for both genders

[VeggieVag]

I am a 16 year old girl and I can't seem to "stimulate" myself. I rub my clit and whatnot, but a majority of the time it doesn't work, so then I finger, but that doesn't do the trick that often either it seems..Is there anything I can use to help stimulate myself or cause me more pleasure? I don't have access to one of those massage shower heads and I don't have an electric toothbrush..

Do you think about stuff that turns you on while masturbating?

I don't think I could reach an orgasm without the correct thoughts.

Edit: Also pictures/videos help. :)

-Ash :cool:

[Kyutekyu]

Alright, I have an issue I can't seem to get rid off. Since I was about 14 and started to masturbate regularly I can't help but feel guilty after I'm done.
Not only guilty but dirty too.
The funny thing is, when I'm in the mood/turned on or ACTUALLY masturbating I don't get those feelings.
So I ask, is there anything I can do to perhaps cease this horrible habit of mine?

[sarahann95]

Do you think about stuff that turns you on while masturbating?

I don't think I could reach an orgasm without the correct thoughts.

Edit: Also pictures/videos help. :)

-Ash :cool:

I do. Only very few times am I able to reach an orgasm though :/ I still get pleasure when I do masturbate, but I don't always reach an orgasm.

[VeggieVag]

I do. Only very few times am I able to reach an orgasm though :/ I still get pleasure when I do masturbate, but I don't always reach an orgasm.

How about porn? Have you tried that, too?

When I am watching porn I reach one very fast.

-Ash :cool:

[sarahann95]

How about porn? Have you tried that, too?

When I am watching porn I reach one very fast.

-Ash :cool:

Yeah, I have. Maybe I'm just weird :/

[VeggieVag]

Maybe I'm just weird :/

I don't think so. :)

Maybe you are just not relaxed enough? Or did you have several orgasms short time before?

-Ash :cool:

[sarahann95]

I don't think so. :)

Maybe you are just not relaxed enough? Or did you have several orgasms short time before?

-Ash :cool:

I'm usually really relaxed, and no.

[Sakura495]

handle of a hair brush insertion is my thing...

[myloveiskidcudi]

What is another masturbating except for your fingers and vibrator??

[Stuntmainiac]

Okay,I'm 13 and I masturbate almost everyday, but after a little bit a get an feeling like my vagina is blowing up,then I have to stop masturbating....right at the good part! And I was also wondering because I masturbate, is that why I have an irregular peiord?

[Stuntmainiac]

What is another masturbating except for your fingers and vibrator??
You could rub your clit,it's right above your vagina,most all girls like that,but some prefer anal masturbating,if you want more tips just google masturbating for girls,you will find everything you need there

[dontcare97]

is it a good idea to pop your own cherry while masturbating? I haven't yet but been toying with the idea. I don't want it to hurt when I lose my virginity.

[sammy1996]

Okay,I'm 13 and I masturbate almost everyday, but after a little bit a get an feeling like my vagina is blowing up,then I have to stop masturbating....right at the good part! And I was also wondering because I masturbate, is that why I have an irregular peiord?
, i think its just a age thing, when you get a little older it will stop and then you should be able to carry on to the erm.. best part

[dandelionz]

what happens if you masturbate to much?

[Stuntmainiac]

, i think its just a age thing, when you get a little older it will stop and then you should be able to carry on to the erm.. best part
Maybe. But what about my irregular period. Is that because of masturbating or also an age thing?

[sammy1996]

what happens if you masturbate to much?
nothing, the worst thing that could happen is you do it that much you get sore or spend to much time that it effects your social life

[sammy1996]

Maybe. But what about my irregular period. Is that because of masturbating or also an age thing?
well its not from masturbating as that has no effects on periods.
it should stable out, as i think you have only recently started.

[Stuntmainiac]

well its not from masturbating as that has no effects on periods.
it should stable out, as i think you have only recently started.
Okay. Thanks!

[iloveyou1]

I'm 15 and have a boyfriend. We have been together for 18 months ;D
We have had sex 7 times is that to young? I am scared that one night/day my parent's will walk in; but i just can't help it. Sex just feels so so good!
When my boyfriend isn't sleeping over I masturbate. So it's like an obsessive habit. Is this normal?

[crzy15]

I rub myself ! thats how i like to do it :)

[Surferchic2362]

What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?

You can try rubbing your body. Masturbating isn't just sexual, it's also physical. I run my stomach, breast, thighs, (knee caps really get me going).

[Shamwow]

So I just masturbated and I didn't cum I really want to but I havent I try alot. And when I see girls naked I get really wet.

[Julien7]

r u a boy or a girl?

[SinisterMystery]

:confused:I have a problem. I have never had an orgasm from my g-spot. Is it possible some girls don't have one?

[ginga-ninja]

I've been masturbating for a few years now, coming to it gradually. At first I was really embarrassed about it but now I just find it normal. But that's not my point. I'm not sure if what I'm having is considered an orgasm. I usually just rub my clit but eventually I get what I think is an orgasm but the only thing that happens is I tense up and then I try to rub again but the entire area hurts to touch. Not a lot of pain but it becomes uncomfortable (but at the same time, I'm left slightly satisfied). Is this normal for anyone else?

Also, does anyone have some tips for loosening up? I tried to finger myself last night instead of rubbing (my usual method)... I've never had orgasm from fingering for some reason, but I was really tight and I couldn't even get my finger in...

I've been able to finger myself before but never got any real pleasure out of it. I always end up finishing by rubbing my clit again. Any suggestions?

[endgame]

:confused:I have a problem. I have never had an orgasm from my g-spot. Is it possible some girls don't have one?

I think all girls have one. Maybe you just haven't found it? It should feel kinda rough.

The best way I've found to orgasm with my gspot is to tease my clit at the same time. Generally I'll use one hand, stick two fingers in and start rubbing my gspot. Then with the other hand, i wont actually touch my clit, but ill put it and the skin around in between two fingers and slide back and forth.

[Triste]

:confused:I have a problem. I have never had an orgasm from my g-spot. Is it possible some girls don't have one?

There are toys that can help you specifically with finding and pleasureing your G Spot. My cousin has one of those since she's told me she had the same problem but now she can orgasm all the time from stimulating it.

[Triste]

Accidental double post...

[endgame]

So I got to try one of those rabbit vibrators today, the one with the clit vibrator and the dildo part that spins. OMG it was incredible!

[littlechief]

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[keller51]

what is the best way to masterbate period

[jessica_is_awesome]

Why Are there loads of guys on this thread? Its Puberty For Girls Not Boys And I know most of you are trying to help but we need things from a girls point of veiw not a lads. thanks anyway x

they know more than us belive me they research shit more then us girls plua porn

[jessica_is_awesome]

So I got to try one of those rabbit vibrators today, the one with the clit vibrator and the dildo part that spins. OMG it was incredible!

i'm not bi sexual but fuck im horny

[Stuntmainiac]

I have this same thing happen,the advice I got is to see what happens when I keep going,,,but I just start sqwirming and getting weirdly jumpy.and it's normal to only have z1 way but try that 1 way different ways like,you. Said you rub your clit, so try doing it on your back if you do it on you stomach and on your stomach if you do it on your back and circles inside of side to side or side to side if you do it in circles :yes:I've been masturbating for a few years now, coming to it gradually. At first I was really embarrassed about it but now I just find it normal. But that's not my point. I'm not sure if what I'm having is considered an orgasm. I usually just rub my clit but eventually I get what I think is an orgasm but the only thing that happens is I tense up and then I try to rub again but the entire area hurts to touch. Not a lot of pain but it becomes uncomfortable (but at the same time, I'm left slightly satisfied). Is this normal for anyone else?

Also, does anyone have some tips for loosening up? I tried to finger myself last night instead of rubbing (my usual method)... I've never had orgasm from fingering for some reason, but I was really tight and I couldn't even get my finger in...

I've been able to finger myself before but never got any real pleasure out of it. I always end up finishing by rubbing my clit again. Any suggestions?

[Misty_Night2000]

Sometimes in bath I let water run over my clit. Just sends me thru the roof.

[Smith98]

Today I was home alone and snooping in my sisters room and found her vibrator. I knew she had one but didn't know about this one. It was a rabbit with the ears for the clit and the dildo part actually thrust up and down:D I almost cried it was so good

[endgame]

Today I was home alone and snooping in my sisters room and found her vibrator. I knew she had one but didn't know about this one. It was a rabbit with the ears for the clit and the dildo part actually thrust up and down:D I almost cried it was so good

OMG aren't those awesome?

[Smith98]

OMG aren't those awesome?


They combine everything you could ever want:D but if I want to go slower they can be too much

[sammy1996]

o.0 i really want one now :/

[gillroy]

use a dildo

[randomnessqueen]

i dont like using toys. i get the best orgasms with my hands alone. i rub different parts of my body. mainly i like to massage my navel and thighs, its very relaxing.

[amandaalwan]

but what if someone hears me or summat, now that would be embarassing!
Well now you're just finding excuses for not pleasuring yourself.
No matter WHERE you get-off, there's ALWAYS a chance of getting caught... but if you really must, just rent a cheap hotel room for a night - and have all the fun U want.
My b/f & me did that a few weekends ago (he's 20), and you're 19, so it shouldn't be a problem to get a room...

[Needpleasure15]

I have a question: is it normal when masterbaiting to hold ur breath and also to hump Somwthing like. Eg: stuffed toy, things that look like penises, or table edges? I do the table thing while holding my breath and i get really REALLY wet but get a better orgasm..... Does any1 do this???

[FuziBlob]

Well I'm 13 and I have masterbated... I don't know why but I regret it, one of my friends were like what's masterbating and a guy said, when you finger your self and she was like ewww that so gross and I had to play along even though I had done it... Is it normal to have fingered yourself at 13? I don't do it any more, overall I did it a few times like 7 or 8...

[Lorraine]

Well I'm 13 and I have masterbated... I don't know why but I regret it, one of my friends were like what's masterbating and a guy said, when you finger your self and she was like ewww that so gross and I had to play along even though I had done it... Is it normal to have fingered yourself at 13? I don't do it any more, overall I did it a few times like 7 or 8...


Don't regret it, enjoy it! ;) Obviously, masturbation isn't her thing. Masturbation is good, healthy, and many of us do it. :)

[HeatherL]

I use a lil water proof vib called "pocket rocket" while in the shower, omg it's heaven! But now after reading you girls talking about the rabbit I might have to get one.

[Soph_Lou]

Hi, I would love to know some god ways of masturbating? How do you use a pillow or the side of something? Also where is your G-Spot? And how do you do Breast and nipple stimulation?

Thanks

[PandaLeah]

I love the rabbit and pocket rockets the are great!

[Everthehopeful]

the best way I materbate is sticking a hairbrush in and moving it around at different speeds and hard or soft....another good way is with a cucumber or carrot.

I have been doing it for about 3 years now and it is amazing

I agree. I've been doing the same for a year now and it does feel kinda great. But just remember to clean whatever you use and if you use veg or fruit or whatever- throw it away! You don't want to eat that! :) If you live with someone, say it was bruised or softer than it should have been so it was thrown out. Or blame you dog for eating it.

[Smith98]

To anyone who uses vegetables I would suggest just getting a dildo or vibe-it's safer and you can get them with a money order so noone will know

[foreverfree]

When I masturbate , it doesnt generally feel good to me at all . I try almost everything & it just doesnt feel good !
But when me & my ex girlfriend were together several times and she played with vagina , it was amazing . Weirdd . .o_o

[laura.james]

Fingering is the BEST! I like putting my middle finger in my vagina and moving it in and out while rubbing my clit at the same time. If you start of slow then get faster it gives you an amazing orgasm!

As other people have said, explore and experiment - everyones body is different so different things will work for different people. See what works best for you :)

[stoneflowe96]

Hey,
I have the problem that I can't do it anymore in the shower. If I will do it and rub me I don't have the same good feeling like if I lay in bed. Three month ago it was no problem. What could happen to me?

[OMGiTsJeSsY]

How do you get a vibe without your parents knowing???

[natalie17]

That's a good one. I know of that one and two others. And sometimes google images is just enough to get my imagination running. :)

[polkagurl]

g-spot is unbelievable , i LOVE it. :)
fingering is good too , but have fun with it right... it's pleasurable ;)

[stacygracy]

Usually I lie on my back, my legs apart. I almost always have my panties on, as rubbing the clitoris itself directly is just annoying. I use one hand, two fingers together, rubbing up and down in short strokes right over my clitoris. As I get closer to climax, my legs tend to spread apart and my pelvis tilts up more. I don't move around too much, but sometimes during climax I roll from side to side. I stimulate the clitoris on either side with my legs apart, and do not move any other part of my body.

[Teensensation32]

Well I go in the shower and sit in the tub and get the shower head, you spray the water on your clit and move it around this leads to explosive orgasims and....you don't get caught;)

[dinosaur_go_rawr]

never orrgasmed- how do you know when you have one???? ...... Also whats the best way to get one:yummy:

[Kissingkatie]

but what if someone hears me or summat, now that would be embarassing!

Do u make alot of noise?

[KewlKat]

all I have to say is wow...

[Chicka15]

Anyone else make alot of noise?

[Katelyn]

What I do is just find a cucumber at the store. I go in to the basement where my dad's bench press is and I put the cucumber in the right place. Find a good spot on the bench press I hop up and down slowly and turn that cucumber into a cuCUMber. Unfortunately I have to wait till noone is home cause I moone so loud but it feels so great it's ridiculous.

[Katelyn]

What percentage of girls masterbait? none of my friends admit it when I know they do.

[Chicka15]

I would say your friends do but they just think its "gross" to talk about

[Teensensation32]

How do I find my g spot I know it is inside the vagina it's self but how to I find it and get maximum pleasure :) x

[gabers56]

I myself but it didn't feel good or bad. Doid I do something wrong

*fingered myself

Please don't double post, just hit edit ~ ImCoolBeans

[Youngwildandfree]

I'm considering trying it today for the first time ... :/ a bit nervous . Any tips ?

[CatFS]

Just relax and do it. remember, there's no one right way to do it, just do whatever feels nice, and don't get worried or freak out if you can't have an orgasm your first time trying. As long as it doesn't hurt, you're doing it right.

[Cheesecake88]

recently i have been getting majoorr headaches right away :/ anyone know why? :(

[VanillaSweety]

Is it a sin to Masterbate? I'm just wondering. Every time I do it I feel guilty :S

[Kinkybethwantsashag]

I can't actually get 'in' my vagina because its like something is falling out HELP imnot asking my mum she would kill me!! Xxxx

[gnews0223]

Vibes are the best!

[whatevva]

Is it a sin to Masterbate? I'm just wondering. Every time I do it I feel guilty :S

No..it's NOT a sin!!! Enjoy!

[FullyAlive]

REMINDER

Discussing techniques is not encouraged in this thread nor is it allowed on the site at all. Please be sure to remember that before posting. Any posts discussing techniques will be removed.

[Secretbro]

I'm 15 years old almost 16, I've tried masterbation a few times, but I can never get myself going, I've tried toothbrushes and everything :/ also I am scared to insert anything because it hurts! Help me, is this okay? X thank you

[emma1]

how does it feel to reach orgasm plz be specific cuz wanna know but i cant do it

[KellyNC]

how does it feel to reach orgasm plz be specific cuz wanna know but i cant do it

When you have one, you'll know it. The feeling at least for me, starts down around where i'm rubbing then rapidly turns into pleasure all up and down my body that lasts 20-30 seconds. Usually my toes will curl, legs will shake, back and neck will arch, breathing will become heavier, and my eyes will close;

[Rob422]

I was masturbating with my friend the other nightand then she reached over and started "helping" me. I was gonna tell her to stop but then I liked it. Is this normal?

[Carolyn]

Thedog, thanks (:
But I was also wondering if I could get some other opinions as well.

It's going to feel slightly different when someone else does it to you, but it can still feel great when you do it to yourself. A few things, first of all I can't post how-to's here because of the rules, so you'll have to look those up on your own.

Second, Do it in front of a mirror so you get a better idea of what you're doing. It will make things easier, and help you figure out what feels good. :yeah:

Third, don't be afraid to get creative with other objects, but be careful and make sure the objects are clean before you put them anywhere.

[Carolyn]

I was masturbating with my friend the other nightand then she reached over and started "helping" me. I was gonna tell her to stop but then I liked it. Is this normal?

It's normal to like it. It doesn't mean you're bisexual or lesbian, it just means you enjoyed having a friend help you out. No big deal.

[Pictureparadise]

I have some question. So when I finish rubbing my clit, why does my vagina muscle seem to spaz?

How would orgasm feel?

[Anyone51]

I was masturbating with my friend the other nightand then she reached over and started "helping" me. I was gonna tell her to stop but then I liked it. Is this normal?

i think so, if you two were already doing it to youselves obviously comfortable around eachother - its just the next step i think, doesnt have to be gay or more than friends or anything - just making your friend feel great... what could be better?

[RachelW]

I was masturbating with my friend the other nightand then she reached over and started "helping" me. I was gonna tell her to stop but then I liked it. Is this normal?

definitely normal

[blackheart254]

What is a g spot?!?!
the g spot is 3 inches in i know this because i love watching dr.ozz

[Natalie]

I want to try to masturbate with my 1 year younger sister she caught me a couple of times and i caught her yesterday but i really love to do it with her what can i tell to convince her

[KellyNC]

Agreed with Rochelle, or just get caught (on purpose if you really want to) and ask if she wants to join.

[Sassydragon]

never orrgasmed- how do you know when you have one???? ...... Also whats the best way to get one:yummy:

Well, your body kind of tenses up and you tend to hold your breath. It also feels like you have a heartbeat in your vagina.

[justagirlwondering]

ok so i masturbate but i havent had a period yet and i dont think i've orgasmed yet either. is it possible to get an orgasm before you get your first period?

i have another question what does an orgasm feel like/ how do you know you've had one?

Please don't double post, use the edit button. -FullyAlive

[MolMol]

I have a few questions:
Is it normal to masturbate at 13 years old?
What are some household objects to use as a vibrator?
Should I be able to fit 3 fingers in at the age of 13?

[StephanieSanders]

Ive started a new thing, i put my phone in my panties, and then have it vibrate. I could buy a real vibrator, but im afraid to have it discovered by my parrents :D This way im totallt owning a ninja vibrator :D

[TammySternchen]

I have a few questions:
Is it normal to masturbate at 13 years old?
What are some household objects to use as a vibrator?
Should I be able to fit 3 fingers in at the age of 13?

I thinlk its normal; i started with 9:yes:

Mobilephones or electric toothbrush are a good vibrator.

I am a little tight, Three finger is to much for me:mad:

[StephanieSanders]

I was masturbating with my friend the other nightand then she reached over and started "helping" me. I was gonna tell her to stop but then I liked it. Is this normal?

Very very normal

[LoveandLetLove]

uhm, has anybody ever had pain from it? Like, I won't go into detail or anything, but I decided I was going to masturbate with a toothbrush (rounded end) and that's common for me, and afterwards, like the next day there has always been SOME form of discomfort, but never too too crazy, just felt like cramps. But this time is different, now it hurts when I urinate? Not pinching or anything, I just get the sensation that I REALLY HAVE TO PEE and it's just magnified is all. No I don't have a UTI (got checked two days ago) its been going on for about 5 days and i'm thinking I just bumped the front wall (where whatever that tube is called that lets you pee is). Anyways, i'm hoping this is a common problem, will it go away in a week or so? I dont know if I asked this in the right place, so if not, i'm sorry :c

[mickydee]

R u feeling better? If not, c a doctor...

[lolinggirl]

does it hurt to place a finger or two into where you put tampons ( i never have) to masturbate when you're still a virgin? if so, how much does it hurt?

[karabeth1996]

It can hurt, but you can also stretch enough to accomodate it to where it doesn't hurt.

[VinylRecord]

What are the different types of masterbation please tell?!!

There aren't too many different 'types' of masturbation just different ways do the same things.

1. Circling the clitoris with an index or middle finger.
2. Inserting a dildo-like item into the vagina (I strongly recommend that you use smaller items, for instance a thin felt marker) and spinning it around in a wide circle letting it hit the walls of your vaginal canal.
3. Inserting a dildo-like item into the vagina (I recommend your start small, for instance a thick felt marker but you may decide to upgrade to thicker items as time progresses.
4. Insert a rougher (but still safe) item into the vagina, like a finger, and locate and rub the G spot. It will be about 3-4 inches deep and will be somewhat rough and more sensitive. it will be on the side of the vaginal wall that's closest to the anus.
5. Vibrators usually stimulate the better orgasm but not always. use a low power vibrator pressed to your clitoris. These can be found in some walmarts.
6. Get/make a butt plug. It may sound nasty, but it can be both sanitary and extremely satisfying. just insert an item (that won't slide all the way into the anus) into the anus and use any other masturbation method with the butt plug still inside. This will greatly increase the orgasm.
7. Anal dildo. This is typically coupled with a clitoral method as well and will increases the orgasm. simply slide a dildo in and out of the anus.
8. If your breasts are developed enough to be put inside your mouth (most aren't, mine certainly aren't and I'm 15 so worry not) then sucking/licking/nibbling them is also a great was to enhance the orgasm.

Many things you see around you can be used as sex toys. Have fun, but be creative enough to do so while still being safe.

does it hurt to place a finger or two into where you put tampons ( i never have) to masturbate when you're still a virgin? if so, how much does it hurt?

Not much if it all. If you use tampons then the skin covering your vaginal entrance has already been broken an it won't hurt nearly as much to masturbate via insertion.

If you're curious about it, you should try it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with exploring your own body.

uhm, has anybody ever had pain from it? Like, I won't go into detail or anything, but I decided I was going to masturbate with a toothbrush (rounded end) and that's common for me, and afterwards, like the next day there has always been SOME form of discomfort, but never too too crazy, just felt like cramps. But this time is different, now it hurts when I urinate? Not pinching or anything, I just get the sensation that I REALLY HAVE TO PEE and it's just magnified is all. No I don't have a UTI (got checked two days ago) its been going on for about 5 days and i'm thinking I just bumped the front wall (where whatever that tube is called that lets you pee is). Anyways, i'm hoping this is a common problem, will it go away in a week or so? I dont know if I asked this in the right place, so if not, i'm sorry :c

Well, I've used toothbrushes before and never came across this particular problem. Is it red at all? It may just be irritated which can be soothed with vaginal cream. I recommend vagisil, I've had to use it before. It soothes irritation and inflammation. Also, when was your last period? The symptoms may just be ovulation or premenstal/postmenstal cramps.

Merged triple post. ~masked

[Becca029]

has anyone tried anal masurbation

[stepht]

has anyone tried anal masurbation

yeah have done it some. Not every time but when I'm really turned on it def adds to the excitement and intensity of orgasm. I'm not up to putting anything really inside, just my fingertip a little and mostly tease on the outside where it's real sensitive.

I think there is something naughty about touching yourself there and that makes mbating more exciting. Def recommend trying it!

[Evaboo]

has anyone tried anal masurbation

It's ok I guess.....

[stoneflowe96]

has anyone tried anal masurbation

Yes I do and like it. But I do it not very often, maybe once every or evry other week. For me it gives a other kind of good feeling.

[AndyRection]

What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?

You could rub your nipples, your labia, or your anus.

[Mobalo]

has anyone tried anal masurbation

Yes and I like it a lot :) It intensifies the feeling when I rub my clit.

[Becca029]

Yes and I like it a lot :) It intensifies the feeling when I rub my clit.

same here

[lauren1]

I tried it. The first time I was a bit unsure, but it got better after that and I sometimes do it before I masturbate my clit, or maybe I'll take a break and then go back to my clit towards the end. Anal is really exciting and arousing.

[Brown Bird]

I am hoping for a thoughtful comment on this.

I am an 18 year old, heterosexual virgin. I have never had the regular urge to masturbate in my life, although I have tried before with little enthusiasm/enjoyment. What I would like to know is: is this normal for someone my age?

Maybe I am on the wrong forum entirely, but any opinions would be appreciated.

[Sam95]

Its more than normal for someone your age! Think about it, alot of us start off as early as 10 years old sometimes, I may do it until we physically can no longer do it. Its a great way of relieving stress and having some pleasurable alone time.

Make sure you're relaxed though, you won't enjoy it as much otherwise.

[Sandy86]

Ok, this is weird, but works every time. find a beefy pillow, and straddle it. get some porn and just start humping the pillow really hard and touch yourself. doing it naked is even better. Its soooo hot.

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

Okay I have a question.... does anyone like anal? I did it this morning with my "FWB" oh my god it hurt so much but it felt good. what sense does that make?

[helllokitty]

....

[THEDJ100109]

usu ur mom toy

[soumili]

i have a question

[soumili]

i have a question is mustrobating daily safe for girls and if some one dont mustrobate ever is there any problem?

[soumili]

what is safe if daily do it or dont which?

[HollowSoul]

Well I could never work up the courage to ask an older friend! My plan was to madly search my home to see if my parents have them (hey, who knows). You see, I never really talk to them about this stuff; and I have no idea how they'd react if I asked for one. I had hoped to find "evidence" that they use them/masturbate (I'm sure they do; they're human after all) so that it wouldn't be as hard for me to ask (i.e. "but you have one!").

Oh well.... I guess I can wait a few more years (dang I wish they were more accepted, like condoms; they don't care when teens buy those. Wouldn't it be safer to allow us to buy things that help in masturbation instead of having sex before we're ready? But there I go ranting again...).

:D

Are there Spencer's stores in canada? We have them in the us. The law for us is 18+ too but that store doesn't generally check for age.

[HollowSoul]

If you can't get a hold of a toy try using sharpies or magic markers... Don't ask...

[Becca029]

here we have to be 18

[rakster]

I have to mbate every day. It feels so good and relieves stress. I'd love to get a toy but found my hairbrush handle feels really nice inside, but not as nice as my bf thrusting in me.

[nicole97]

I do it more since my bf and I broke up. Now usually at least once a day, don't have toys but I do use a hairbrush or showerhead sometimes.

[sophiaLockhart]

masturbating is definitely healthy for you, it acts as a release of endorphins which can get rid of stress, sadness and it can make you feel so much better physically and mentally afterwards :)

[NotShortButFunsized]

i have a question is mustrobating daily safe for girls and if some one dont mustrobate ever is there any problem?

I do it once a day, It's one of those things where it's totally fine if you do and totally fine if you don't. there are some benefits to doing it, but that doesn't mean NOT doing it will harm you somehow. Its just up to you :)

[PaintedWishes]

Do you have to have had sex before to actually get pleasure while masturbating?

[NotShortButFunsized]

Do you have to have had sex before to actually get pleasure while masturbating?

nope masturbating feels AMAZING with or without having sex first...if anything it can make sex better. It lets you get a better idea about what kind of pleasure you like so you can feel more comfortable with what you do when you have sex