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[OnlyByTheNight.]

Meh its your own choice. If you feel more comfortable without doing it then dont.

[neji'sbabymama]

use a tooth brush like the electric ones let the brush move over that bumpy thingy in your clit.. just don't put it inside of u...i promise the orgasm will be great.

[Young teen]

I managed to masturbate on sunday (yesterday) When my mum and sis where out. I had to watch some porn to make it work properly, but i had two orgasms. It was wonderful. :D (And yes, i used an electrick toothbrush, as i can't do it with just my hands)

[Aηdy]

I managed to masturbate on sunday (yesterday) When my mum and sis where out. I had to watch some porn to make it work properly, but i had two orgasms. It was wonderful. :D (And yes, i used an electrick toothbrush, as i can't do it with just my hands)

Congratulations :P

[Triceratops]

eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!

I agree with you and have the exact same thoughts as you.
I've never masturbated and I never want to.

However, I don't have anything against people who do masturbate.

[sienna.]

i don't have anything against the people who do.
but i don't find it right.
kinda ewww to me.

i have my boy friend for those needs.
but i wont do it myself....

it's not for me at all.

[turtle]

wheres you G spot? ive tried to find it but i dont know where it is. someone told me it was below my clit and belly button but idk where. i think i might have felt it once but maybe it was me trying to find it and imagined it can you help?

[Young teen]

Follow this link, it really helped me. lol. Link Removed

[mrbendover]

What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?

U could lay down in a bath and pour the running water on you clit

[mrbendover]

What are the different types of masterbation please tell?!!

there's so many ways you could masturbate you just need 2 be creative and do different things each time

[peyton729]

I go in my bathroom, turn on the sink, get my eletcric toothbrush (i dont wash my teeth i havge another brush) and rub my clit...Sometimes ill do it in the shower.

[allie]

my shower has a detachable thing that i can use in my clit thing. that always works lol

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

wheres you G spot? ive tried to find it but i dont know where it is. someone told me it was below my clit and belly button but idk where. i think i might have felt it once but maybe it was me trying to find it and imagined it can you help?

It can be hard for some women to find their g-spot, especially on your own (the angle can be tricky). It's on the front wall of the vagina, around an inch inside, although the exact distance varies from girl to girl. I've heard that you won't really be able to find it unless you're aroused, that it won't feel the same when you touch it. That sort of makes sense to me, because if I was to try masturbating when I wasn't in the mood, it wouldn't feel as good as if I was actually into it. It might even get annoying.

A way you can try to find it, is to lie on your back. You may want to place a pillow under your hips to get a better angle, but it's up to you. Bend your wrist so the outside of your hand is pointing away from you and, well,feel around in there. Making a sort of "come hither" motion with your finger may be a good way to look for it, but don't worry if you don't think you found anything. The texture of that area may feel a little different than the rest, sort of a spongy feel. That's all I can really say on the topic. Some women never really find theirs, or it doesn't do much for them, so don't worry too much about it. :)

[cupcakesrgood123]

hey i always masturbate my clit but i have tried sticking my finger inside but i dont really feel that good doing it. how can i make it better?

[allie]

try using a cigar tube.....they are sturdy and come in diffrnt sizes. my dad smokes cigars and he lets me have the cases .

[Caliginous]

Random hello.

[OnlyByTheNight.]

Really it depends on the person.
Some people make alot of noises while other really don't make any, it varies from person to person.

[LookingCheeky]

Do people tend to make a lot of noise when they orgasm?

I do i find it VERY hard to keep quite, especially if im having sex or my partner is helping me.
pillows help a lot biting and muffling noises :)

[LookingCheeky]

Do people ever get very randy when they are on the period?
I find i do, i find because i do not relieve myself i get BIGGER mood swings.
The only good thing about it is i find im more sensitive after not having orgasmed for at least 4 days.
Any tips on stopping this.

[kaibaby14]

how do you make yourself orgasm?

[beneaththewave]

So i'm 13 and I was masturbating by fingering myself, and then using a toy my mom gave me and when i pulled the toy out i noticed blood. I know it's not my period because I had my period a week and a half ago. I don't know what happened, which is why i came her. question is, why am i bleeding?

[nick]

Hope you dont mind a guy answering. You may have just scratched yourself, but you most likely popped your cherry there (broke the hymen) although, and this is where obviously i have no experience) I would have expected that to hurt.

[ThUnDeR]

how do you make yourself orgasm?

ima a guy but u can find your G-spot
and that will make you orgasm like crazyy

[BeautifulSilence]

how do you make yourself orgasm?

A bit of TLC. It just doesn't happen on demand, and for some, it can be very rare.

So i'm 13 and I was masturbating by fingering myself, and then using a toy my mom gave me and when i pulled the toy out i noticed blood. I know it's not my period because I had my period a week and a half ago. I don't know what happened, which is why i came her. question is, why am i bleeding?

Question: "toy"? Is that a sex toy or just a toy? (It's not very common for parents to give their thirteen year olds sex toys).

Well, like Nick said, you might have broken your hymen, which is a bit of skin cvering the opening of the vagina. It may or may not hurt depending on how tight it is / was. Another thing is that you may have damaged some tissue, which may happen because the toy you used was too big or you were being too aggresive. In which case, it'd be better to be a lot gentler for a while, or try to resist masturbating completely until you think you may have healed.

[DrDrDrDrDr]

eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!

well, i respect you're decision, but, as i have found with many other things, give it one shot, if you like it, keep it up, if u don't, at least you can say you've try'ed :)

[direlj]

help how do you get some one to masturbate for u does licking ur clit help

[BeautifulSilence]

help how do you get some one to masturbate for u does licking ur clit help

Sorry, we are not allowed to give advice on asking for friends to masturbate.

[scuba steve]

sorry to sound like a perv but female masturbation sounds soooo much better for themselves than male is

[optimashprime]

it probally is

[Untouched]

Female masturbation = win.

[scuba steve]

Female masturbation = win.

yea sure rub it in our face y don't you lol

[ehhheydevin]

if u search what is a clit on google it comes up with this website but i cant say that cause this is lame but it gives u bunches of storys and ways to:P

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~Serenity

[Untouched]

yea sure rub it in our face y don't you lol

I will. :)

[frillyflower95]

-link removed- is pretty good. it has a few nice masturbation techniques that everyone would like.

[kitkat]

wouldnt doing it w/t a stuff animal b be better

[kitkat]

r masterbating w/t stuffed toys normal?

[JustAGirlInTheWorld]

Well IDK about with a stuffed animal --- but pillows rock!

:yes:

[BeautifulSilence]

r masterbating w/t stuffed toys normal?

A lot of young girls actually masturbate by rubbing against things like sheets, pillows and toys without realising it.

[kitkat]

my fluffy dog is great

[Shuckleberry]

Ever since my bf broke up with me nothing feels as good as it did when he did it for me.

[Paramore-rox]

wat is the g-pot?

[Snow Angel]

sorry to sound like a perv but female masturbation sounds soooo much better for themselves than male is
not true...

and the g-spot is a sensitive part inside the vagina which is usually stimulated to give pleasure, if you feel around you'll find it easy. It's a few inches in, on the top wall.

You can find more info on google or wikipedia, just be careful what you search..

[rocklives]

really i thought id be better for girls

[Snow Angel]

define better?

[Sugar.Candii]

Am I like the only person who doesnt masturbate by fingering?

[cupcakesrgood123]

OMG!! i masturbate by rubbing my clit but i dont get horny from fingering...sorry that was prob a bit too much info lol

[blue_wheat_3]

do you have any hormonal therapy...?
is that prob affecting you from several years..?

if NOT, try to calm your self having hot shower before begin,and focus your mind on something you love,also try to discover your G.spot

[dablue]

oh okay so i have not had a period yet but i masterbat8 and i want to know is that normal and okay? thakz a lot:)

[Neverender]

How old are you? you might just not be developed enough to have your periods yet.
And masturbating has no effect on your periods.

Anyways, masturbation is a normal and healthy thing to do. Perfectly fine.

[hray2k]

When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.

[BeautifulSilence]

When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.

At least half of girls who masturbate have the same problem, because it's very hard for a female to achieve orgasm. However, with time, you'll learn what you like and you need to give yourself time to try different techniques. Everyone has different methods so it's important for you to try to naturally develop your own.

This means trying to forget any specific techniques that you've heard about and just getting to know your body and trying different directions of rubbing or different areas. If that fails, you could always try including lotions or objects (just make sure you're safe and everything is clean and won't harm you).

[Rawr]

is it wrong to wanna touch myselfe alot ?

[BeautifulSilence]

is it wrong to wanna touch myselfe alot ?

Not at all, although it's best not to do it in public.

[Rawr]

but is it wrong to want to have sex really badly?

[dablue]

okay when i do it with myself well i dont feel anything and i dont get it what im i doin wrong all i do is put a thing up my vagina and i dont feel anything plz help:(

[sienna.]

i find it hard to understand the whole masturbation thing...
i mean i don't find it wrong or anything.
i have never done it.. and i don't see the desire to do it.
i'm not against it... but it's just not for me.

i mean.
i will touch and all that to guys.
and they do it to me.
but i just can't touch myself....
i don't know why.
i just can't.

[BeautifulSilence]

Rawr: It's not wrong to want sex really badly, especially during puberty. The urge will lesson as you grow into adulthood.

dablue: Maybe you're not using a technique that's suitable for you, just try something different and remember that not all masturbation is insertive.

sienna.: If you've never had the desire to masturbate then that's fine, and not judging people who do is really big of you. Some people won't ever feel the need to touch themselves sexually, and you're just one of those people.

[greenday1]

okay is this wrong im 13 and i just matrubated IT FELT GREAT i used a back masager but it on my clit and after i found the right spot the feeling was great not after im done it still tingles

[Neverender]

Its not wrong, masturbation is a normal, healthy thing to do.

Just make sure its not sharp and cant do any damage, and not to scratch anything with it :P

[bunnyluver]

is it normal to use a hairbush handle because i do and every time i can't get my self to orgy is that normal

[Neverender]

Well if its not sharp, and cant do damage to the vaginal wall then its fine to use.

Its normal as its hard for girls to get to orgasm. what you have to do is find your "G-Spot". after you do you'll get used to masturbating that area more and you'll reach orgasm easier.

[ashley_c]

A plain old vibrating back massager works wonders for me! ecspecially if it has diffferent speed settings. works like a charm every time :)

[damn almonds]

well sometimes ill like touch myself down there and all or ill touch my boobs, but its NOT like a sexual thing i dont get sexually excited at all its like i just like to touch myself but its not and kind of sexy thing at all...

is that normal?

[BeautifulSilence]

well sometimes ill like touch myself down there and all or ill touch my boobs, but its NOT like a sexual thing i dont get sexually excited at all its like i just like to touch myself but its not and kind of sexy thing at all...

is that normal?

Sure. It's just a habit that you've picked up.

[dablue]

i masterbat8 and well i dont feel anything special so how can a feel somthing good

[bergibaybee]

i normaly jus play with my clit it feels realy gd i love fingering to but prefer to play with my clit dooing both at the sme time izz amazing xx :P xx

[crazyshesmiles]

hi, Im new to this sort of thing got three questions for you all.

1:- What is insertion? Im curious and would like to try it.

2:- Is it normal for girls to pee them selves during masturbation?

3:- I hear people talk about the 'normal' way to masturbate what is this?

[TallAndSmall]

When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.

Yeah I know that problem, but I kind of solved it by imagening myself with the guy I like (not boysfriend unfortunatly) getting ready to do it with the most sexy forplay ever, and while I so that I silently start making sexy noices by myself and stimulain my clit.

Hope it helps.

but is it wrong to want to have sex really badly?

No It is not wrong but I advise you to give it alot of thought when you actually do it the first time and with who.... and ofcourse make sure its safe sex;)

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

how do you know if you have an orgasm?

[Requin]

You'll feel it. Believe me. Its not something you'll miss. You'll get the feeling.

[gothamgirl]

Use The Shower Head on your clit :yes:

[SOS14]

i masterbate in my room at night,,
but what if my mom or someone finds out somehow what do i do?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

i masterbate in my room at night,,
but what if my mom or someone finds out somehow what do i do?

Just make sure you don't make too much noise, or wait until you are sure everyone else is asleep. If you have a lock on your door, USE it (obviously :rolleyes:). Even if they "find out" you might be embarrassed, but trust me, they will be just as embarrassed as YOU are!

If people in the house are still awake while you're masturbating, make sure you don't do it in a way that is hard to "cover up". For example; its harder to explain why you're naked on your bed than to explain why your hand was just down your pants :lol:

[SOS14]

okay,, thanks (L)

[SlappyTwinkle]

.... cant belive i'm sayin this, but does it help anyone else sleep?

yes, i do it sometimes to fall asleep. it's not bad to use masturbation as a sleep aid, because there are a bunch of other health benefits that come from masturbating too. and it's better than using drugs or meds to aid sleep.

how do you know if you have an orgasm?

it's hard to explain, but trust me, when you have one, you'll know it.

~Please use the edit button and/or multi-quote feature(s) to prevent double posting. Thanks.

[SlappyTwinkle]

Why can't I masturbate without porn? I am not addicted, but I can't orgasm without it. Is masterbating to porn bad?
Masturbating to porn is not bad, but be careful. If you use it to much, as an aid, it can desensitize you, and you may not be as responsive when it comes to actually getting the job done.

[allie]

sometimes i use the handle of my hairbrush and sometimes i use a cigar tube . my dad smokes cigars and gives me the tubes that the expensive ones come in. they are dirffrnt sizes and work good lol

[nicole9695]

god, i love masturbating.

[rukiayua]

what's a g-spot? :(

[Contra]

A G-spot is a place inside the vagina, that when is rubbed or touched, gives the woman a lot of pleasure. I don't know exactly where it is, but if you google it up, maybe you can have more details.

[Tara_Ruble56]

ok so i dont masterbate that much, but when i do it never really works. like i use an electric toothbrush over my clit and it like feels goodd after a while, but is there anything else i can do? any suggestions

i totally agree after i read this i tried it and it works really well ! i have been masturbating since i was about 3 and i have just always enjoyed it but now i use an electric toothbrush or a drum stick i have :/

[Kartellmyst]

Um...don't know...any idea?

[Kartellmyst]

Well, you could stimulate the breasts, or insertion, but that would hurt at first. Just start, then go w/ what feels good.
^^

woah..Im really not the horny type person...I'm super-controlled and recently started masturbating..I don't think insertion/intercourse is good advice..b/c some girls want to remain virgins until they are married....
But stimulating breasts is good one...I do that with one hand and rub, rub with the other...lol...

First time...

[Sugaree]

Um...don't know...any idea?

Can you provide a more detailed (but not too detailed) question please. Maybe we can help you with an answer.

[narelle]

In response to the last post; I'm curious. How does one acquire sex toys if the law is 18 and up? Please don't take this post the wrong way (mods). I just was wondering what the law is and how it works. Does anyone know the laws for Canada? Because I've been wanting to buy... something and wanted to make sure it was legal. Please, I can't find the law anywhere! And I don't want to try and find out the hard way (i.e. getting kicked out of a "store" . I'd die of embarrasment!).
I use my fingers alot but now and then I will use my little vibrator.
My Dad was the one that bought me my vibrator. The first one he got me was a fleshy looking thing that also had a small thing that rotated. I didnt like it at all. It had a loud buzzing sound as well which wasnt good.It was creepy! So he got me another one called a pocket rocket. Its only a small plastic one, doesnt make a noise and feels much better than the other one.

[bigusdikus]

I use my fingers alot but now and then I will use my little vibrator.
My Dad was the one that bought me my vibrator. The first one he got me was a fleshy looking thing that also had a small thing that rotated. I didnt like it at all. It had a loud buzzing sound as well which wasnt good.It was creepy! So he got me another one called a pocket rocket. Its only a small plastic one, doesnt make a noise and feels much better than the other one.

GULP !! what ? !!! your dad bought you a vibrator, what the hell is going on here ? what the hell is he doing, going out buying his daughter a vib :eek: very odd

[narelle]

GULP !! what ? !!! your dad bought you a vibrator, what the hell is going on here ? what the hell is he doing, going out buying his daughter a vib :eek: very odd

Why would you say that its odd? There are lots of girls in here talking about wanting a vibrator. Are you saying that its bad that I have one? Or are you saying its bad that my Dad went out and got one for me. I understand what your trying to say.

Narelle

[mrmcdonaldduck]

its bad that your dad bought one

[mango2020]

Why would you say that its odd? There are lots of girls in here talking about wanting a vibrator. Are you saying that its bad that I have one? Or are you saying its bad that my Dad went out and got one for me. I understand what your trying to say.

Narelle

Come on! you do have to admit that your dad buying you a sex toy at the age of thirteen is a little creepy! I mean i' m not saying that you should'nt have one, a lot of girls your age experiment with things like that, its just that your dad may be over stepping his bounderies a little bit.

[Love.Hate]

Im Jelous I want a Vibrator But i Would never Ask My Parents for One.
Use a shower head :yes:

Works everytime. :)

[narelle]

Come on! you do have to admit that your dad buying you a sex toy at the age of thirteen is a little creepy! I mean i' m not saying that you should'nt have one, a lot of girls your age experiment with things like that, its just that your dad may be over stepping his bounderies a little bit.

Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.

Narelle

[TheKingDavis]

Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.

Narelle


To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.

[SlappyTwinkle]

To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.

I think you should but out, it's not your business, and if she needs any help she is probably capable of getting it. It seems, to me, like your the creepy one in this conversation because you are so worried about her and her dad.

[narelle]

um....I am abit confused......

:eek:
why are there boys posting in here?

I thought this thread was called was pubity for girls?

Narelle

[narelle]

To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.


Yes he does care about me.

You said at first you were thinking he bought me one for other reasons?

I dont know what you mean.

He bought me one because he wanted me to use it.

What other possible reason would he by buying one.

And what do you mean "so long as nothing ever developes".

Anyway i shouldnt have to explain myself.

Why are boys posting in a puberty for girls thread anyway?

I got home work to do, goodnight.

Narelle

[mango2020]

Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.

Narelle

Hey look I didn't mean any offense honestly! that was just my opinion, maybe i should have put in in a more tactful perspective. anyway your dad sounds like a good single father raising two young daughters on his own; that ain't a easy thing to do, i have much respect for that, i guess your dad was just doing what he thought at the time was redundant. oh and for the record i dont think your dad buying you cocoa butter is creepy at all, i completely understand that process hurts.;) By the way if you don't mind me asking what happened to your mother!:(

[mango2020]

I think you should but out, it's not your business, and if she needs any help she is probably capable of getting it. It seems, to me, like your the creepy one in this conversation because you are so worried about her and her dad.

The point of these posts is to place your opinion! she knew what would happen if she posted all that stuff about her. So technically it is his business if he came across her post, he has an account he has the right! and if being concerned for somebody is a sign of creepiness in your opinion then I would seriously suggest you get some help!:confused:

[mazza-min]

the best way I materbate is sticking a hairbrush in and moving it around at different speeds and hard or soft....another good way is with a cucumber or carrot.

I have been doing it for about 3 years now and it is amazing

[Jerrys_Baby]

A vibrator is a worthwhile investment.

[damn almonds]

im only 13 i wish i had a vibrator

[bigusdikus]

look basicaly, it just not seem right that a dad would go in to a sex shop or look online to see what kind of vibrator to buy his 13 yr old . you must realise that it is an odd thing t do. not normal.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

look basicaly, it just not seem right that a dad would go in to a sex shop or look online to see what kind of vibrator to buy his 13 yr old . you must realise that it is an odd thing t do. not normal.

It's been a few weeks since that was mentioned, and since this thread is just for masturbation discussion I don't think we really need to bring it back up in order to criticize the girl's dad.

[Love.Hate]

Why Are there loads of guys on this thread? Its Puberty For Girls Not Boys And I know most of you are trying to help but we need things from a girls point of veiw not a lads. thanks anyway x

[morganism]

I like to finger myself, and rub my clit. But I find massaging my breasts makes the masturbation so much more amazing.

[drunkonpride]

I recently started masturbating, but I'm having trouble trying to come.

I never used to touch myself before I got my first boyfriend, and I haven't had sex yet but I love him fingering me. I get horny now, and wanted to start pleasuring myself.

I tried fingering myself, but it didn't feel good like it does when he does it, it just hurts and makes my wrist ache.

So I've started rubbing my clitoris. I rub it gently till it gets hard and put on a porn. I rub it faster as I get more aroused until it gets to the point when I get an urge to rub REALLY fast. I use 3 fingers and furiously rub, my legs start shaking and I start squirming. Then about 3-4 seconds later, the area gets too sensitive and I squeeze my legs together on impulse to stop my fingers. I try and go back to rubbing, but I can't, it's way too sensitive to do. So I have to stop there.

This CANT be an orgasm, can it? It lasted about 3 seconds, and I don't do anything apart from the squirming and I'm silent. My boyfriend's never made me cum, but when he fingers me I cant help but gasp and moan and scream.

[laurita_21]

This CANT be an orgasm, can it? It lasted about 3 seconds

Since you just started masturbating you probs don't know much about it.
orgasms dont last really long... theyr only for a few seconds. :( too bad XD lol

[sztegosz]

Why Are there loads of guys on this thread? Its Puberty For Girls Not Boys And I know most of you are trying to help but we need things from a girls point of veiw not a lads. thanks anyway x

You're right. But for example do you (girls) read the surveys-for-boys? There are a lot... And for example I would be happy, if you (girls) wrote about the male surveys. :) So if you have time, please reply the surveys :P

[Moomanmatt]

I masturbat every day during class in the shower and at night

[DejaVu]

During class :O what if someone saw you

[Moomanmatt]

What does rubbing your breasts do

[damn almonds]

rubbing boobs suck...
also: masturbating hurts my wrists. ;[..
and to the point...
so ya heres how i do :
*Content removed. Please do not give graphic details of sexual things, thank you. Kaleidoscope Eyes*

[Natoja12]

rubbing boobs suck...
also: masturbating hurts my wrists. ;[..
and to the point...
so ya heres how i do :
*Content removed. Please do not give graphic details of sexual things, thank you. Kaleidoscope Eyes*

aha im glad i saw thatbefore they removed it...it helped lol

[patrick99]

is it bad to masterbate and have sex (pretected) with your girl friend at 14

[damn almonds]

plz dont double post... & yes. it is illigal 2 have sex (protected or not) if ur under 18

[MandaMass]

is it bad to masterbate and have sex (pretected) with your girl friend at 14

no, it isnt at all, as long as you are practising safe sex in addition to just protection.

plz dont double post... & yes. it is illigal 2 have sex (protected or not) if ur under 18
actually its only illegal in some places. for example, here, the legal age is 14 but if it is sex with someone over the age of 19 i believe, it is considered statutory rape.

[austin96]

god just get a nerd to fuck u that what all the chicks do at my school and apperently they do it good

[ashleighhxbby]

I never really masturbated until after my boyfriend fingered me, I just can't get it to feel the same way. When he did it, it was just utterly amazing, but when I do it, I feel like an idiot. Anyone know why? /:

[Sugaree]

I never really masturbated until after my boyfriend fingered me, I just can't get it to feel the same way. When he did it, it was just utterly amazing, but when I do it, I feel like an idiot. Anyone know why? /:

Try out different ways of masturbating. You should take some time to try and figure out what pleasures you.

[Love.Hate]

If You haven't started your period at the age of 14 is it ok not to wear a condom?
(i dno if the answer is obvious or not so im sorry if i sound stupid)

sorry if i have posted this in the wrong place... i didnt know wether to put it in period discussion or this.

[Stewart]

If You haven't started your period at the age of 14 is it ok not to wear a condom?
(i dno if the answer is obvious or not so im sorry if i sound stupid)

sorry if i have posted this in the wrong place... i didnt know wether to put it in period discussion or this.

You should always wear a condom. That is, unless you're trying purposely to get pregnant.

[emibuu]

also, i can never have private time to completely relax and explore my body without the chance of being disrupted by a family member.

any ideas about where i can masturbate in privacy???

yeah sometimes i have that problem too. its kinda hard to find some privacy where you can really explore, and get to that "Point" I masturbate at night when no ones awake, usually under the covers. Dont worry, you'll get some privacy sometime.
Goodluck:)

-Emibuu

[ashleighhxbby]

Thedog, thanks (:
But I was also wondering if I could get some other opinions as well.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Like he said look some stuff up on google but it wouldn't hurt to use your imagination now would it?

[ashleighhxbby]

Who are YOU talking to?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Who are YOU talking to?

You, you were the one with the question.

[patrick99]

have any of you girls masterbated with another guy

[beastly689]

:eek: I have never masturbated with a guy or had oral sex... is it good? Do guys find girls masturbating sexy?:rolleyes:

[MattHolyman41]

:eek: I have never masturbated with a guy or had oral sex... is it good? Do guys find girls masturbating sexy?:rolleyes:

Some guys find it hot.
I find any pleasuring of a girl hot... I just wanna do that girl again and again and see her feeling the pleasure, which is constantly pleasing me too.

[patrick99]

have you girls ever got naked and masterbated out side i always thought it was sexy to do that i was just wondering if you girls ever like did that

[murderousflower]

I've masturbated outside, but my boyfriend was there so...yeah. not the same, i guess.

[murderousflower]

i've been masturbating ever since i was really little. In fact, i can't remember a time when i didn't masturbate. I know it may be silly to ask, but is this unnatural? Or am i okay?

[Rutherford The Brave]

No some people just masturbate. I mean I think you should cut down on it, but there is nothing wrong with masturbation.

[shela]

so where is the g-spot because i kinda dont know and im curious

[Love155]

Hey! What are some normal household items i could use to masturbate? And whats the bedt way to get an orgasm? How do i get cum?

[Love155]

have you girls ever got naked and masterbated out side i always thought it was sexy to do that i was just wondering if you girls ever like did that



Ohh wow NO! why would we do that!? Someone would see us. Its like telling is to grab your dick and stick it in your moms face. :S

[BruceWalt]

Whats around your house thats in the shape of a penis?
lol
markers,candles, fruit, fingers, hairbrush handles.

[kavics]

Ohh wow NO! why would we do that!? Someone would see us. Its like telling is to grab your dick and stick it in your moms face. :S


Actually I think it can be exciting, and lol I'm pretty sure he didn't mean it, like you did it where everybody could see you. but the danger of getting caught can make it really exciting ;) It's like having sex on the hood of the car...

have you girls ever got naked and masterbated out side i always thought it was sexy to do that i was just wondering if you girls ever like did that

I don't say i have masturbated outside (unless the toilet of my workplace is considered outside [of home]) but i have done it with the door open, and my parents in the other room ;) (i can be really quiet if needed :P ) and lol if i remember right mom even came in once.. I just.. well I don't think she noticed anything.... (haha do i sound like a perv?)
I'm not sure it gave me a better orgasm, i simply just don't remember...

but I'd have sex in public (again, not in front of actually people, just outside)

[Jerrys_Baby]

I masturbate with my vibrator almost every day. Do y'all think it could cause nerve damage?

[LingeringLove]

Umm, I'm confused, I just masturbated for the first time( well I used but never knew I did, just rubbing against stuff and things like that ) with an electric toothbrush on my clitoris, it was very pleasurable, but I didn't reach oragsm. Does it take a few times of masturbAtion to have an oragsm?

-Katie (:

[LingeringLove]

I masturbate with my vibrator almost every day. Do y'all think it could cause nerve damage?
You'll actually increase sensation (unless it's unusually rough and harmful) and also increase your ability to orgasm more often with a partner. Your "Gspot" is a muscle like any other.
So really, no harm done (;
Hope that helps!

[Hannahgurl]

I am feeling better bout stuf now that I know that most all girls masterbate too.. I do it alot I think I do it more than any one. My cliit is very sincitive I get wet really fast.. wonder if there is somthng wrong with me

[jen691]

no nothing is wrong with you. i have the same problem as the girl above me. my clit is sincitive also. and i get wet really fast also so i think its normal

[JessicaUK]

I am feeling better bout stuf now that I know that most all girls masterbate too.. I do it alot I think I do it more than any one. My cliit is very sincitive I get wet really fast.. wonder if there is somthng wrong with me

I'm more or less the same. I get really wet too and I also thought I was a bit odd.

[John02Sandler]

so all ok with me

[JDB_95]

I just wanna know if it hurts the first time a girl fingers herself

[Young teen]

No, it doesnt hurt, it just, you know, feels different.

[thehouseboy]

ok, so ive never masturbated before and im 16 >< it never felt good for me. So i bought a vibrator (wich i found out u have to be 18 to get) and it works and feels really good on ur clit. woo trust me!

yea ur hot

[AnzotheBananzo]

why is it that sex is allowed at 16, but you cant buy a dildo or vibrator till your 18? WTF is that alla bout? I mean, isn't masturbation supposed to be about relieving sexual tension etc.???

Am I like the only person who doesnt masturbate by fingering?

No I just rub the clit

I'm not too sure on that. I wouldn't really advise anything outside of personal water-based lubricant as other stuff can harm the pH balance. If the hand cream is scented or contains parfume then I strongly reccomend keeping it away from your vulva. The area is MUCH more sensitive than your hands...



You may want to try less pressure or aggression as it creates friction which isn't pleaseant on any part of your body. To reduce friction, you may want to introduce a water-based lubricant.

Is it ok to use vaseline??????


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[maczed]

yeah, vaseline works great for girls and guys

[princessBrittany]

anyway to make me feel good sexually I will try it, I have let the fauset run over my clit love it, used my mom back massager it is awsome, basically the best thing is not just how I rub my self or whatvever but mentally being into it. letting my imagination flow..

[SEASHELL]

See My Private Message

To MACZED ... Re' ..... yeah, vaseline works great for girls and guys

Egg White Is good ... It's Not greasy like Vaseline.

I Like It !!! ... I Like It ... !!! (what you have said I mean). Anyway, I do it Anywhere ... When The Clitorus Calls ...lol... It Won't wait ...lol...!!!

Nahhh ... Go For It Girlfriend !!! ... :)

I masturbate with my vibrator almost every day. Do y'all think it could cause nerve damage?
Nahhh ... Go For It Girlfriend !!! ...

Umm, I'm confused, I just masturbated for the first time( well I used but never knew I did, just rubbing against stuff and things like that ) with an electric toothbrush on my clitoris, it was very pleasurable, but I didn't reach oragsm. Does it take a few times of masturbAtion to have an oragsm?

-Katie (:
Add Me as a Friend and we can Share Girly Secrets ... :)

I am feeling better bout stuf now that I know that most all girls masterbate too.. I do it alot I think I do it more than any one. My cliit is very sincitive I get wet really fast.. wonder if there is somthng wrong with me
No darling ... Nothing wrong With You !!! ... I do It 3 or 4 times a day !!!

I'm more or less the same. I get really wet too and I also thought I was a bit odd.
Nope ... Nothing Wierd Girlfriend !!! .... You are A Normal Healthy Sexy Girl. little Baby Girls even Masturbate ..... When they rock from side to side (especially wen naked) and They Giggle .... Their Volva Lips are Rubbing Together and Stimalating their tiny Clitorus. You even see wen they are laying naked and they put their fingers in their slit they Giggle. This is because they are ticling their Clit and it feels good.

No, it doesnt hurt, it just, you know, feels different.
You Can Say That Again .... And Feels GOOD TOO !!!!!

I just wanna know if it hurts the first time a girl fingers herself
Actually, so long as you are Carefull until you get your own Tecnique and learn wat feels good.

What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?
We not allowed to Discuss Grafic Detail on her. Even though its a Sex Discussion Forum. So Add me as a friend and we can Chat elsewhere.

What is a g spot?!?!
See the Private Message I sent you.

What are the different types of masterbation please tell?!!
See the Private Message I sent you.

a g-spot is the part in a womans vagina that gives her the greatest sense of pleasure,

their arnt really that many types of masterbation, just guys pull and girls poke, should give mor info,

ps dont double post click edit
Here's a LINK for G-SPOT ..... It has some great Pics and Diagrams. It Takes a while to Load, but then just Scroll Down The Page.

http://www.thefemalegspot.com/g-spot-pictures/

Go on Google images or another search engine and search for vaginal diagram or something along those lines.
Here's a LINK for G-SPOT ..... It has some great Pics and Diagrams. It Takes a while to Load, but then just Scroll Down The Page.

http://www.thefemalegspot.com/g-spot-pictures/

What is a g spot?!?!
Here's a LINK for G-SPOT ..... It has some great Pics and Diagrams. It Takes a while to Load, but then just Scroll Down The Page.

http://www.thefemalegspot.com/g-spot-pictures/

Hi kutethang

i wish somone woud tell me too coz i always did the same thing:)
but i guess that is what VT is for - i found out loads:whoops:

Laura
Add me as a Friend and I'll share some Techniques: 'cause we not 'spose to discuss grafic detail on here.

ok so i dont masterbate that much, but when i do it never really works. like i use an electric toothbrush over my clit and it like feels goodd after a while, but is there anything else i can do? any suggestions
Yeah ... Heaps !!! ... But we not suppose to discuss stuff in grafic detail on here, so add me as a friend and we can share Techniques on MSN. Anyway, in the meantime ... An Electric Toothbrush is for Cleaning Your teeth... keep it for that; you mite hurt your Clit.

Be careful what you say close, you don't want to get yourself an infraction.
Hi Andy,
I don't mean to be Rude, but, What exactly was it that CLOSE said that was Out Of Place. He used the correct Names/Terminology.

yh, im always home before mom comes home but im also scared of my cats walking in on me, i know they're my pets but that would just creep me out

i think its because i dont have a lock on my bedroom door and my brother and my mom dont care if they walk in on me getting changed even though im old enough to have some privacy!!!

i think its wierd...
Get a couple of Rubber or Plastic Doorstops and Jam Them under the Inside of your door; but put a small mat/floor rug in the doorway under the door and place them under it. As for them walking in on you, why not do the same to them and see how they like it.

but what if someone hears me or summat, now that would be embarassing!
Firstly ... the word is SOMETHING ... NOT SUMMAT !!! . . . . .
Secondly ... Just tell the truth and say "I'm Masturbating! ... and if you think it's dirty, Go Look It Up Online!!!"
Don't worry, they probably Masturbayt too.

im 13 is it ok to mastubate and will i still be consitered a virgin?:confused:
YES !!! .... It certainly IS, Nelly. Also, it's completely NORMAL for you to Mastabayt at 13. I started seriously Masturbayting at about 8 or 9 (thats when I knew what it Really was); but I really started (playing with myself) when I was about 4 or 5.

[Clayburn Chic]

In response to the last post; I'm curious. How does one acquire sex toys if the law is 18 and up? Please don't take this post the wrong way (mods). I just was wondering what the law is and how it works. Does anyone know the laws for Canada? Because I've been wanting to buy... something and wanted to make sure it was legal. Please, I can't find the law anywhere! And I don't want to try and find out the hard way (i.e. getting kicked out of a "store" . I'd die of embarrasment!).

you have to be 18 to do practically everything, even buying.... stuff:yes:

[JDB_95]

yeah, vaseline works great for girls and guys

why is it that sex is allowed at 16, but you cant buy a dildo or vibrator till your 18? WTF is that alla bout? I mean, isn't masturbation supposed to be about relieving sexual tension etc.???



No I just rub the clit



Is it ok to use vaseline??????


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Yea vaseline's gd it's nicer with it and i only used it cos a m8 said he did and told me it's more stimulatin (he's a gd m8)

[AnzotheBananzo]

Thanks - yea, i just used vaseline and it was well better!!!

[KMC11]

My boyfriend recently went out of town and this time he will be gone for about a month. I'm so heart broke right now. We've never been away from each other for this long in the whole 3 years we've been dating. And starting about a year ago, we normally have (protected) sex once a week at least. But now since he's gone, my sex urges are going crazy. I've tried masturbating. It doesn't really work. And fingering just hurts me. And rubbing my clit but that doesn't do much good either. Any suggestions?

[cindycrawford]

i also love to rub my clit with my fingers.
or sometimes i use a hand shower and run water on my clit.

[dancinggirl0220]

Lie under the shower faucet, parent's back massager

[cheergirl94]

I want to masturbate, and I sort of do, I like hump my pillow, but I really want to try actually masturbating. However, I'm kinda afraid to stick anything up there and such. Any advice?

[solosarah]

I was and am just like you. I have but dont always stick anything in me. I love vibration, and pool jets. try those, if you need ideas just post again, are we aloud to do that?

[ashleighhxbby]

I want to masturbate, and I sort of do, I like hump my pillow, but I really want to try actually masturbating. However, I'm kinda afraid to stick anything up there and such. Any advice?

lol.
Lie on your back under the faucet in your bathtub, that always works.
You could also use an electric toothbrush and just hold the brush part on your clit, and that gets me going.
haha,
but most of all, don't be afraid to try new things. Most people feel uncomfortable the first couple times 'shoving things up there', but in the long run, it's worth it
(:
good luck.

-Ash<3

[RubyLee]

This doesn't really go with the questions I've read here, but I don't know where else to post it... anyways, my situation is that I'm unsure about my moral opinion on masturbation... First off, I am agnostic and have considered myself such since I was around 13 (about 6 years)... before that, I was raised Catholic. I am very confused about whether or not masturbation is "wrong". I have studied several religions and have been interested in the beliefs and practices of Hinduism and Wicca. I usually think of sex as a wonderful thing :) but have always been confused about masturbation... it's kind of ridiculous, and I'm sorry if this post doesn't make a lot of sense and that it's lengthy, but I'd greatly appreciate any input you have.
-Ruby

[ashleighhxbby]

I don't really understand what you're saying. Simplify it, haha.

What do you mean by 'unsure about your moral opinion on masturbation'?
Whether or not you think it's wrong?

[mrdann]

wow you have a loving and understanding dad

[LocoManiac]

Not to be a pervert or anything...

But, what do girls think of when masturbating?

Please PM me the answer.

[bob g]

Well, you could stimulate the breasts, or insertion, but that would hurt at first. Just start, then go w/ what feels good.
^^

i like to do it in the shower, you should get your hands on a vibrator

[Bridgett]

is it a sin to masturbate?

[ModellePrincesse]

It depends on how you're raised and/or your religion.

[maczed]

in some religions it is, others it's not

[DeEnd]

....

[DeEnd]

,,,,,

[smile]

Sorry im not sure how to do this as im quite new, but i have a question; why is masturbation in men deemed as okay but in women not so much? :/

[Schreck25]

Well most commonly rubbing the clitorus work best, but as with everything else all girls are different. Just experiment with different techniques and find what works best for her :)

I put all fingers in and then suck my fingers and begin to rub my nipples then rub my clit I love it

[michaelnguyen]

have any long thick hard materials if yes shove that in your pussy first slow then fast

[LiTTleBrok3nDolly]

i know a why, dont ask me how, but if you have a shower hose, one where you can take it down when u take a shower put it near your vaginia and turn it to really warm and if you can put it on a little vibration then it may get u to an orgasm. but you have to make the hose touch your vaginia so theres no space in between, and a encouragement is licking the hose or laying down and putting ur legs up or rubbing ur clitorus

[allywood57]

seconded,but you could try finding your g-spot,that is good..

whats g spot? :what:

[allywood57]

i don't know much but is it normal to feel tingly?

[Tess182]

What kind of thing do you girls do to get you in the mood?

[dipsyhoney]

i stick my finger in there but i can't really feel anything... i even tried to pinch it but nothing... oh and its not a numb feeling

[solosarah]

Try pressure, or just plain old rubbing, gets me everytime.

[MooMooMoo]

I usually masturbate by rubbing my clit with my fingers or use the shower head aiming at my clit. A vibrator would be the best in my opinion, but kind of hard to get when you're young. :)

[RisaLeigh16]

i lick my fingers n then i rub my clit really hard and fast in circles that really get me goin ;)

[solosarah]

The girl above have the best description of doing it.

[Jazz_96]

Ok this might sound strange but i heard you can get really bad diseases from using your fingers. My friend said to put a condomon them as she said it's nicer and theres less bacteria. Is this right ??
Jazz

[CraddleRobber13]

Isnt that called endorphines ? ( soory bad spelling )

Bro, Firefighters for life

[CraddleRobber13]

yep!

[starrburst]

Ok this might sound strange but i heard you can get really bad diseases from using your fingers. My friend said to put a condomon them as she said it's nicer and theres less bacteria. Is this right ??
Jazz
Nooo, It's safe...Just...wash your hands, lmao...xP

[hawky-chan]

I've just started to masturbate... And I feel a little guilty about it. I have a feeling that none of my friends have ever even thought about it... They're all really clean and pure girls... and the fact that I'm keeping it a secret from my parents is kind of adding onto it...

Do most people not tell their parents about this?

[emily_smallfry]

I have felt the same way...I know a couple friends that do it, but I dont think most of them have. And I wouldn't tell my parents either, noooo way!

On another note, I just recently tried using a vibrating toothbrush to masturbate (not the brush end, the handle, and I have another one I use to actually brush my teeth)...I have had really intense orgasms that way. Anyone else tried that?

[titi]

ok im 14 and i realy wanna masterbate and i no im stupid but idk how and i try to rub my thingy u guys keap talkng about but after a min. it feals soo good for like a second then it just ends someone PLZ help me thank u :D

[katlove]

I've just started to masturbate... And I feel a little guilty about it. I have a feeling that none of my friends have ever even thought about it... They're all really clean and pure girls... and the fact that I'm keeping it a secret from my parents is kind of adding onto it...

Do most people not tell their parents about this?

i feel guilty too in the same exact way

[john909]

dont worry about it...everyone does it eventually nd theres nothing to worry about...theres nutin to feel guilty about because its your body and u can do watever u want

[katlove]

thanks

[bluejay]

i usally have a toy and my fingers fingers in my vagina and toy in my anal and rubbing my breast. i kno it sounds like alot but trust me feels sooo good

[NoName]

is it weird if i can orgasm from barley touching my vagina?
but playing with breasts alot

[Jayde]

Hey girl. Well I guess u could like hump the bed. Or u could use toys. Hope I helped a bit. ~Jayde

[missSuzi]

Rubbing in circles works.

[jet7up]

I'm fed up to masturbate myself with the fingers lol:D :D , I wish to buy a sexual toy , but I am afraid my mom will find this in my room .;)
If you have a toy , when do you keep it ? :D Thank you for your answer

[rachel16]

hey i am new to this masturbation scene im 16 and have only just discovered it after one of my female friends showed me a video on the internet and said i should try but the way i do it now doesnt feel right to me and i dont think i am getting an orgasm from it could some one please tell me the best way to do it i would be sincerly grateful to anyone who can help.

rachel xxx

[Bath]

Am I the only girl who hates cumming? Like, being a bit wet is okay, but once I cum it's just disgusting to me.

[johnnysbigday]

Am I the only girl who hates cumming? Like, being a bit wet is okay, but once I cum it's just disgusting to me.

Pretty much yeah.