Morality

[Sebastian Michaelis]

It took me awhile to figure out how to word this so I may change the wording depending on the answers I get.
Anyways………
Question #1
For gay or bisexual guys/girls:

Do you think it's morally ok to experiment or mess around sexually with a straight friend who thinks you are straight too?

What if you think you might want to come out to them some time down the road?

Question #2
For straight guys/girls:

How would you feel if you found out that a friend you were experimenting or messing around with was gay or bisexual?

How would you feel if he/she came out to you any time after you messed around?

UPDATE: Just so you know, I haven't done anything with a straight friend. So… yeah I just wanted to clear that up. These questions were just to see what people thought.

[joshwinston]

Question #1: i think it depends on what your intentions are
Question #2: i don't think it would matter to me

[Noirtier]

I'm bi, so...

Question 1: I honestly wouldn't. You'd be hiding something big from them doing something like that, and IF I was straight and that happened to me, I'd honestly feel a little like the person used me and tricked me.
Question 2: Coming out to them wouldn't be a bad thing to do, whether you "experiment" with them or not.

[Short Circuit]

To experiment, you would have to be at least curious, so your question is invalid

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

If your straight friend wants to experiment with you, he probably trusts that you too are questioning your sexuality--if you are already confident that you are not straight and you just want to "mess around" with him for fun, then it's a betrayal of his trust.

However if you want to do it, go ahead. If you do come out to him later, perhaps he'll just think the experimenting helped you discover your sexual identity.

[OregonStateDude]

I voted no, it's not morally okay.

My best friend and I didn't start to mess around until about a month after I told him I was gay. And he was the one who approached me; I never asked him first.

I agree with Clint, there's no chance in Hell that I would have asked Justin to fool around if he still thought I was straight. I care about him way too much to trick him or stab him in the back like that.