Experimenting Consiqueces

[NeutraltEAm4za]

Ok so about a year ago a guy friend and I experimented with eachother at a sleepover. Of course it was pretty cool and all but I'm still kinda worried about his reactions. As far as I know, he is straight but he was very ok with it. The problem was that after we had finished, he had said that we should just forget it ever happened. Of course this really upset me because, being bisexual (he doesn't know but hears rumors from school that I am gay), I have always liked him and hadn't gotten as far as I had wanted to that night with him. It is also tough because he had said before we started that he would be comfortable with going as far as bj's. So what do you guys think I should do? Should I just forget it and never ask him about it again? Also, did I really freak him out or was he just in denial or what? Thanks for the help.

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

Well I think that when he said he would forget all about it, they he said it to protect you. You said there were rumors tgat you were gay. Well how would him telling everybody you guys experimented affect tge minds of those who aren't sure your gay. He also most likely said that because there are kind of awkward moments after people experiment. It's as if they dont know what to do next. Don't be hurt about what he said, take it in a positive way.

[Sean4U]

Well he probably had some regret afterward, even if he said he wold be OK with it....and you say it has been a year so I would just let him bring it up if he wants to again, since it has been that long

[Gigablue]

He might have been curious then, but isn't anymore. In that case, he wouldn't want to experiment. He might also think you're gay and doesn't want any rumours about him.

It's probably better if you forget about it. You will meet other people, some of whom would want to experiment. If he's not interested, don't force it.

[Idk what to put]

Talk to him in private say hey remember the time...

[Mynick]

As Gigablue said he might have been curious then and now he just move on. If you want you can try talk with him but i think is better to move on too.

[habbohop]

I would forget about it, he was just experimenting and thats it, I dont think there would be anything else to it,

[LSEagle2]

Its no biggy man, im sure you guys are still close

[dingo006]

I kinda went through something like this. sometimes its just a moment man, its not something you want to make a habit of and its not all relationshippy. some times its just about being like why not in the moment then all of asudden people start worrying about what happens if someone finds out or the social trouble that can come especially in a small school (i went to a small private school everything was very DL). I'm not bi (as in im not down for a relationship with a fellow) but i understand it can feel like ur being pushed away. that sucks.

[justinglives]

My roomate and I "experimented." Bottom line was we were both just horny and let the hormones take control. I was always really kewl with it but after about the second time we did oral mike said "we can't ever tell anyone and we can't ever do this again....."
That was until the following Wednesday when we got shut down at the parties. So we did it again and same thing..."we can't do this again....." btw....we both cummed every time we did stuff...
We did what "couldn't ever happen again" at least once a week until he moved out.
I think it was just his way of justifying how much he like messin around with a guy but since it could never happen again he wasn't bi or gay.
Go figure!

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