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Liela-Bo
July 11th, 2012, 03:57 PM
Hey, as you can guess I'm not really liela haha, I'm her friend that just so happens to be gay, she said i can use her account to ask this question.

BASICALLY theres this guy in my school, and well when i'm around him i get butterflys (cliche I know) but seriously I have never felt this way about a guy before. of course there are rumors of me being gay but I have not "Came out" yet. However I can swear he is gay!
he gives me like weird seductive looks, and I flirt with him...and I CAN SWEAR HE FLIRTS BACK :O so my question to gay people out there that can help...how can I make aure he is gay? like is there any questions...other than are u gay? he said once onky gay people shave their pubes...so since he would have forgot this should I ask him if he shaves his pubes coz obviously if he says yes...then he would be gay right? PLEASE HELP! i sit opposite him in science class tommorw, and its really awkward!
many thanks for any suggestions :) -Jake

xDILLIGAFx
July 11th, 2012, 08:27 PM
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Sean4U
July 15th, 2012, 08:51 AM
If both of you are still not OUT then the only way really is to ask each other....they say that there is such a thing as gaydar....but I never found that mine was right or not....until I came out and others felt secure to come out to me even if they didn't to others...so unfortunately unless you tell him and ask him, then there is not way to go further in your relationship

eggy101
July 26th, 2012, 04:41 AM
Ask him, tell him your secret talk presonally