Cant get her out of my mind...

[Aquila]

About a year ago, i became close friends with this girl in my class. Weve known each other for years, but only became close then. She became the best friend ive ever had, and i eventually developed a crush on her. Thing is, she has a boyfriend, and about six months she told me she was uncomfortable with me. Since then, our relationship has completely gone downhill, ive become pretty much depressed with losing my best friend and other stuff. Its been six months now, but i still feel...obsessed with her almost. I want to have a best friend again, and to some extent weve been doing better-ish. But we only talk about once every two or three days, and i find myself missing her, and being... Too awkward and eager when we do talk. I dont know what to do any more. I want us to be friends again, but i cant stop obsessing... I feel more like her stalker then her friend anymore...

[Harley Quinn]

Ask if you can speak to her in private, or if she isn't comfortable with that, write down what you want to say to her on a piece of paper and show her it. Get out everything that's bothering you, and maybe it's the time to actually tell her that you like her because it might make more sense in her head why you feel awkward etc. However, sometimes it's best to move on even if that isn't what you want. It might be what she wants, and I guess you have to respect that if you can't salvage your friendship. Ask her why she's uncomfortable and if there's anything you can do to change that. You should take a step back and evaluate things and clear your mind so you don't feel like you're obsessing.

[DerBear]

Like Kryptonite said.

Try and speak to her in private and get all your feeling out the way and make sure to tell her everything. As currently you might just come on as too strong as you say you become too eager when speaking to her. My advice is plain and simple. Make sure you speak to her. If the worst comes to the worst she stop speaking to you but forcing your company on her is just not going to do any good.

Kryptonite gave a really good answer. Like she said it is completely best to move on rather than play at a "one sided friendship".

I hope everything works out between you and your friend.

[dontfiguremeout]

I honestly think the reason why she said it's awkward is because you developed a crush on her, which then made you act like you want her without you noticing, but she picked it up, and since with her boyfriend just didn't feel comfortable because she has a boyfriend, and now her best friend is liking her. So I know it's hard to, but you kinda have to back off! I know it hurts, because my best friend went through 2 boyfriends! Each one I had to pretend I didn't like her like that, and I acted that way too. I mean it was a way to keep the friendship and not make it awkward. But if it's too much to keep it in, just tell her so she knows so you won't make it awkward!

[Upgrade_U]

just try and be calm around her and it will all blow over.