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Darknova8
July 10th, 2012, 11:25 PM
Hey I was curious to know have you guys/girls ever cheated on a bf/gf and why?

Incompris
July 11th, 2012, 02:56 AM
I never have, idk why just didnt seem right to do that to someone.

Kirsi
July 11th, 2012, 03:01 AM
I never have cheated before and I don't plan to. I only had 2 boyfriends and i broke up with my first one because I started to like my boyfriend i am with now i didnt date him until almost a month after i broke up with the other guy though. so no cheating no plans to.

AnnaBeesley
July 11th, 2012, 04:42 PM
No I've never cheated and I've had two boyfriends. I broke up with my first for other reasons.

whiteyrhys
July 11th, 2012, 07:08 PM
I'm faithful, I'd never want to be cheated on so will never cheat on someone I am with. If I ever feel the need to cheat on someone, I think I have to question whether or not I really want to be with the person that I am partnered with at the time as they cannot be fufiling my needs.

RachelW
July 11th, 2012, 07:17 PM
never have cheated only had one bf

jessiecox1
July 11th, 2012, 07:29 PM
No, I have never cheated on a boyfriend and I don't plan to.

Noirtier
July 11th, 2012, 07:56 PM
I have never cheated on anyone and NEVER will because, and here comes the rant, my dad cheated on my mother, which led to their divorce. That was about 8 years ago. Since then, because of that, his life has been ruined, as has mine, my mother's, various members of his family's, and my little half-sister who I've never met. Seeing the damage that was done by that, I would never cheat on anyone. I was hurt by that, and so were many other people, and we still hurt to an extent from that.

Jess
July 11th, 2012, 10:48 PM
still single BUT if I was in a relationship I would never cheat.

Cognizant
July 12th, 2012, 02:55 AM
Well, seeing that my mom cheated on my dad I don't really see what would drive me to want to cheat :\

Iron Man
July 12th, 2012, 02:57 AM
Never have, never will.

Darknova8
July 12th, 2012, 03:26 AM
All you guys deserve big :hug:

FreeFall
July 12th, 2012, 12:49 PM
Never have. I have been cheated on. My biggest worry afterwards was is he'd picked up something from the guy he'd cheated with me on, and passed it to me. I could never give that worry to the one I'm with, and I'd never hurt them that bad. It violates trust, messes with your mind, and destroys the sanctity of being in a relationship.

Harley Quinn
July 12th, 2012, 01:08 PM
Not going to lie, I have cheated, but I do regret it and I am faithful now. Not that it's any consolation.

Sogeking
July 12th, 2012, 01:53 PM
Never cheated, however I did have the urge to.

But being cheated on, and knowing the pain that comes with it, I would never cheat on anyone whom I'm in a relationship with. If I'm not happy and I can never be happy, I'll break it off.

FullyAlive
July 12th, 2012, 01:59 PM
Haven't cheated when the opportunity has presented itself once it was hard to say no.

However I have been the one that someone cheats with but personally I think that's different..

Danny016
July 12th, 2012, 10:30 PM
I have never cheated and NEVER will becuase it is so wrong and I have been cheated on in more then a faw of my relationships so I know the pain and never want to make anyone feel that pain

unnamed94
July 12th, 2012, 11:22 PM
Haven't cheated when the opportunity has presented itself once it was hard to say no.

However I have been the one that someone cheats with but personally I think that's different..

how is it different? its still wrong if you knew the other person wasnt single
OT: ive never been officially on a relationship (always screwed things up when they were about go get serious) but i never cheated when i was kinda dating these girls

User Deleted
July 13th, 2012, 02:52 AM
Never dated, don't want to either, so I suppose I rest in a quantum state of complete and no faith.

Jimmy Page
July 13th, 2012, 03:14 AM
Never cheated on my bfs
But I have been cheated on,and that hurts...

Darknova8
July 13th, 2012, 03:40 AM
Never cheated on my bfs
But I have been cheated on,and that hurts...

Sorry to hear that killer. u gets a :hug: lol

Darknova8
July 13th, 2012, 03:42 AM
Haven't cheated when the opportunity has presented itself once it was hard to say no.

However I have been the one that someone cheats with but personally I think that's different..

Did you know the other person was currently in a relationship?

If you did i don't see much of a difference you still hurt someone in the process.

Incompris
July 13th, 2012, 03:42 AM
haha fml, as I said, I have never cheated but I just found out I have been cheated on. *sigh*

Darknova8
July 13th, 2012, 03:43 AM
haha fml, as I said, I have never cheated but I just found out I have been cheated on. *sigh*

Sorry I know it hurts but your partner didn't deserve you if they bothered to cheat.

johngotti
July 13th, 2012, 05:15 AM
yup, i done cheat a couple times.

Love.Hate
July 13th, 2012, 05:29 AM
Yes i've cheated and im not proud of it, but thats now in the past and i wouldnt again. I felt so guilty. I was drunk and someone kissed me and i just carried on.. :/ i trust myself normally, but under the influence of alcohol if my boyfriend wasnt with me.. i can say i wouldnt trust myself

takemyh-nd
July 13th, 2012, 05:38 AM
I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, just meaningless hook ups. But whenever I do get into a relationship, I will not ever cheat. It's not even an option for me.

xDarkAngelx
July 13th, 2012, 07:48 AM
It's years and I doubt I will ever have another girlfriend but no, I would never cheat on that person.

Fiction
July 18th, 2012, 04:16 AM
Personally anyone who says "I will never cheat" can't say that unless they've been in every relationship situation possible.

I always said that and then I did cheat, but I don't feel guilty for it in the slightest. I'd broken up with my boyfriend the day before, he had told me he was going to kill himself because of it, I attempted suicide and ended up in hospital, I got back with him to stop him doing anything. He lived miles away and there was no chance I was going to see him even though i'd just been in hospital. A friend offered to meet me from the hospital, so I took him up on that offer. He kept trying to kiss me and I kept trying too avoid it, not wanting to cheat. In the end I gave in, and I don't regret at all that I did.

I may have cheated, but I don't count myself as a cheater. It was exceptional circumstances and I don't see myself doing it again. We'll see though.

FullyAlive
August 3rd, 2012, 04:05 PM
Did you know the other person was currently in a relationship?

If you did i don't see much of a difference you still hurt someone in the process.

Sorry, only just seen this. But yeah I did know and I think there is a difference.

It wasn't my relationship I wasn't claiming to love someone yet looking elsewhere. I maintain I'd never cheat on my partner because I wouldn't want to hurt them, but it wasn't me hurting them then it was him for cheating with me.

loz4
August 3rd, 2012, 05:50 PM
Nope, it's just not me

christer
August 4th, 2012, 11:29 PM
I've never cheated I just don't see the point. But i have been cheated on turns out my previous girlfriend had cheated on me with four different people before I found out So I wouldn't want to cheat on anyone cos it hurts so bad.

LitBlackRose
August 5th, 2012, 06:16 PM
I've dated 3 guys ever still no first kiss but I never cheated the first broke my heart for another girl but she's very nice I'm still friends with him the next one move to another state wa still talk ..... The third I revert so much he went to another school like a best friend and hw cheated on me... I have no contact with him anymore

Bluesman
August 6th, 2012, 09:07 AM
I feel horrible to say that yes, I kind of have. I had just started dating this girl and about a week in my ex called me at 2:30am, we started talking and the topic ended up being the stuff that we had done (sexually) while together. It ended in both of us masturbating. Even though it was over the phone, nothing was seen or done physically, I still felt awful. The next morning I woke up and was legitimately depressed about it. I felt like I had just lost the girl of my dreams over one stupid night of feeling some half hearted pleasure. I talked to my girlfriend about it and somehow she forgave me.. I still do feel absolutely awful about it though. It's something I'll probably never forgive myself for. Let me end with a quote from How I Met Your Mother: "Nothing good happens after 2AM. If it hits 2AM, and you're still up, just go to bed."

Bath
August 6th, 2012, 11:59 AM
I've had problems with staying faithful in the past, for a whole big mix of reasons. I've also been cheated on. I haven't had great luck in romantic life, but I think that's why things are going so well with my current boyfriend. Things happened so organically.

White
August 7th, 2012, 05:36 PM
I've never really "cheated" I guess. But I have flirted with girls while in a relationship before. Now, with my current girlfriend, I try to talk to only girls she and I can trust cause with girls I know and talk to it always ends up with us flirting, some how. So technically yes, but I never will again.

Perfectly Flawed
August 8th, 2012, 04:54 AM
I've never cheated. I doubt I ever will, but I can't really say considering what I've done in the past.