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CountryBoy223
July 10th, 2012, 10:45 PM
To start i wasnt sure where to post this

My cousin who is a girl, has always told me about personal things in her life. The other day she came clean to me about how she had had sex. It has troubled me deeply because i was raised in a family where there are no secrets and we are big christians , she dosent want me to tell anyone, im just really confused and dont know if i should let someone know or not she has trusted me not to. Shes had a rough childhood and i feel bad for her i dont what to do, i just really need to get it off my chest

( i put this in puberty because shes going through a " change" and has became "more active")

ANY advice is greatly appreciated
destaney
July 10th, 2012, 11:12 PM
i would keep it to my self but tell her how it is making you feel and tell her about the situation that she has put you in

good luck
scer123
July 11th, 2012, 01:03 AM
She trusts you, and that's something you should cherish. If it is truly bothering you that much, talk to her about it. She came to you, and she'll be there for you too, especially when it concerns her.
Anyone51
July 11th, 2012, 02:06 AM
You only have the right to tell anyone if you feel for her safety
She came to you with something private and special and trusts you
Being a Christian doesn't mean being a snitch - let God judge not you or your family
VeryWell
July 11th, 2012, 07:00 AM
Being a Christian doesn't mean being a snitch - let God judge not you or your family


^This.
Ghostspectre
July 11th, 2012, 09:44 AM
There isn't a problem there at all. You shouldn't tell your parents if she doesn't want you to. You have gained her trust and shouldn't loose it. Even if you did tell your parent/her parents, they would most likely just have a chat about protection and all that.
Mollypop
July 11th, 2012, 10:35 AM
She trusted you. Keep it to yourself.
Sean4U
July 12th, 2012, 02:28 PM
You only have the right to tell anyone if you feel for her safety
She came to you with something private and special and trusts you
Being a Christian doesn't mean being a snitch - let God judge not you or your family

She obviously felt comfortable with you and that you would keep it between the two of you...think of how you would feel it she betrayed a confidence that you told her?....