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turtleman
July 10th, 2012, 10:41 PM
Hey people. I'd like to start by saying I definitely support lgbtqa and such rights :)
OK. So a while ago, I was completely confident that I was heterosexual, and I had never been attracted to men. But then, people started calling me gay nonstop for no apparent reason. Luckily though, I moved away and the bullying thus stopped. Even though no one calls me names any more, I'm starting to think that I am gay though even though I'm not at all attracted to men and I'm attracted to women! Please help me, I'm confused :(

Darknova8
July 10th, 2012, 10:42 PM
Well you just said you aren't attracted to men but women so whats the problem?

Desuetude
July 10th, 2012, 10:43 PM
Well if you're in no way attracted to guys I can tell you now that you're not gay. In what way do you think that you might be?

Cognizant
July 11th, 2012, 03:01 AM
If you aren't attracted to guys, and bullies are just calling you that, then you're not gay. Simple as that.

Skyhawk
July 11th, 2012, 04:02 AM
I'm not at all attracted to men and I'm attracted to women

You just answered your own question.

Not attracted to the same sex = straight.

DerBear
July 11th, 2012, 07:55 AM
Hey people. I'd like to start by saying I definitely support lgbtqa and such rights :)
OK. So a while ago, I was completely confident that I was heterosexual, and I had never been attracted to men. But then, people started calling me gay nonstop for no apparent reason. Luckily though, I moved away and the bullying thus stopped. Even though no one calls me names any more, I'm starting to think that I am gay though even though I'm not at all attracted to men and I'm attracted to women! Please help me, I'm confused :(

Since you have been bullied it probably has damaged your confidence. Being called "gay" for long periods of time by stupid people has probably had an effect on you and the way you think.

Your confidence has been damaged and thus might be leading you to think they are right. When chances are like you said your heterosexual. Also what can't help is your age as at your teenage years a lot of things can be confusing for you.

I think you should reflect and think about the time before you were bullied. As chances are I don't think you are "gay" but again I don't know you. However from your post I can think that you might not be as you said you don't have much of a physical attraction or emotional attraction.

Anyway I wish you the best for your future.

SkeptiqL
July 14th, 2012, 05:51 AM
You're not gay just cos someone called u it don't worry :)

Silver Fox
July 14th, 2012, 11:45 AM
Your only gay if you are sexually and emotionally attracted to men and if you are straight it's vice-versa :D

Sean4U
July 15th, 2012, 08:44 AM
Everyone has told you what you already know....you're not ga if you are NOT attracted to guys and are attracted to girls....people calling you gay as was said has made you wonder....but only YOU know who you are....just be yourself....

KenBoy6
July 16th, 2012, 10:19 AM
Your not gay if your attracted to women?