I Got My Girlfriend Pregnant At 15

[loulouie11]

3 Weeks ago my girlfriend told me that she was pregnant. She said she knew it was mine because i was her first. This isn't the first time this has happened to me. It my seem wrong, but i also got my ex girl pregnant. She lost the baby due to her then boyfriends abuse. Now I have no idea what to do. I was just getting over the ex girls baby. Now theres a new one on the way. I need to know how to handle this. Any help ANYONE?

[Darknova8]

Learn how to use a damn condom.

[StoppingTime]

You need to handle it by taking responsibility. Whether that means abortion or not, you can't just run away from the situation. Talk to her about what you two want to do, and get it done. If you do end up keeping it, then tell your parents, and make sure she is healthy.

Next time, please, just be careful. For this to happen to you twice, yes, that does seem immature and "wrong" of you. Take responsibility.

[Ambrosia]

Tell your parents and take responsibility for your actions. You knew better. These days there is no such thing as "I didn't know any better". If you got one girl pregnant, you should have used protection with this girl.

[Virgoteen]

Obviously condoms aren't your friend so you might want to lay off sex for a while. But back to your situation, take responsibility with the baby. Just work it out with your Girl, I'm not for abortion because if you think your responsible enough for sex than you are for a baby. Don't kill a baby because you made him/her so it's your responsibility. Another option is adoption, at least give it to another family than abort it. Good Luck.:)

[dontfiguremeout]

What's up with young girls getting pregnant these days? It's the guy didn't use protection, then next thing he leaves the girl because he can't handle the thought that it's his baby too. So don't leave the girl like most guys do, and take responsibility and support the girl throughout the whole thing!

[ImCoolBeans]

Tell your parents and take responsibility for your actions. You knew better. These days there is no such thing as "I didn't know any better". If you got one girl pregnant, you should have used protection with this girl.

This sums up my thoughts.

You knew what you were doing and you should have been more responsible. If you think you're ready to be sexually active you have to be ready with the responsibilities and consequences that can arise from it.

Talk to your parents, talk to the girl. If you both want to get an abortion, so be it, if not then I really hope you learned a lesson with this one.

[andrethaiss]

How old are you? I dont even know what to tell you.... I mean one girl is bad enough, but two?! Seriously stop putting your penis in any random holes and start caring more about your education and future rather than being horny and thinking about sex all day.

[Christheman]

If you believe you are ready for sex use a freakin condom. Holy hell! two girls and you're only fifteen. Stop sticking your dick everywhere. Maybe you can ask your girl to get an abortion unless you want the kid.

[Sean4U]

Tell your parents and take responsibility for your actions. You knew better. These days there is no such thing as "I didn't know any better". If you got one girl pregnant, you should have used protection with this girl.

This is definitely what you should do. We all may be teens here but most of us know that not using protection to prevent pregnancy AND STD's is wrong. Help her out and whatever you do, learn from these two experiences and wrap it.

[Curtis96]

Why do you need help from us to to help you put a condom on not very fucking hard to do, if you don't have that a plastic bag will do the trick

[OregonStateDude]

How old is the girl, is she 15 too? Didn't she know what could happen if she had sex without protection?

I honestly think my dad would disown me if something like this ever happened to me. Luckily, I know better.

[FreeFall]

You're immature and irresponsible for not using a condom.
Those girls were irresponsible and immature having sex with you without a condom.
If the condoms broke, get better condoms.
If they were on bc, either they were lying or it really failed.

Practice safer sex or stop it for a long long time.

[havingfun]

If you keep the child, you will look back on it as the best thing you ever did. If you guys don't, you will be wondering what if for the rest of your life. Trust me. My Mom had me at 16, yeah she could have easily gotten rid of me. My parents had it tough starting out, but now they are glad everything worked out the way it did.

[hey_mister]

Well, one you need to learn how to use and get a condom, there are so many ways to get them now, I'm surprised you didn't have (or at least use) one. And second, you need to be responsible for your own actions, if your girlfriend decides to go through with the pregnancy, then manning up, and being there and supporting for the kid is a good way to handle this.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

Learn how to use a damn condom.

^

And also..be there for her, no matter what you decide to do.

There's things you can do. Adoption is one. If you put the baby up for adoption, you could possibly be giving he/she a better life by giving he/she to a family more..I guess..ready to raise a child? But, you'd probably always be thinking about this child for the rest of your life. If you do decide to put the child up for adoption, and serial want to be in his/hers life, you could probably set up something where you'd get to visit them at least a couple of times a year.

Abortion. Not my choice, but everybody has the right to do what they want. Of course, you need to see if the girls okay with the first.

Keeping the child. You could help her raise the baby. It's not going to be easy (I'm assuming, since I know a couple of people in their thirties with babies, and it doesn't look like an easy job). You're going to be responsible of a little being. You'll need to get a job, feed it, hold it, and just be there for the kid.

Go check out Plan Parenthood or something. Talk to a doctor, clinic, family, etc. Because honestly, I'm nuts taking everything I learned from Sex Ed and my friends and family.

Also...please, if you're going to have sex after this, use a condom. Or check to see if the girl you have sex with is on birth control. Yes, none of these are not 100 % effective, but you're a lot safer using these methods then none at all. Plus, STD's! No protection=higher risk of STD's. You could've contracted an STD and you might not even know it. (depends on what it is)

The only safe sex though, is no sex.

I would recommend to get checked by your doctor just in case, same with her too.

[Noxail]

Wow.

A. If you knew your Ex was being abused while pregnant, why the hell didn't you tell someone?

B. Condoms. Try 'em sometime.

C. Unless you plan to let some half-ass beat the shit out of this girl too, you're a dad now. Please don't leave your kid. You where old enough to have sex, your old enough to take care of your girlfriend and that baby.

**Do you know how much physical force is needed to actually kill an embryo? This f*cker beat her hard. And you have tha balls to get another girl pregnant? You're a brave man.**

[Abyssal Echo]

Wow.

A. If you knew your Ex was being abused while pregnant, why the hell didn't you tell someone?

B. Condoms. Try 'em sometime.

C. Unless you plan to let some half-ass beat the shit out of this girl too, you're a dad now. Please don't leave your kid. You where old enough to have sex, your old enough to take care of your girlfriend and that baby.

**Do you know how much physical force is needed to actually kill an embryo? This f*cker beat her hard. And you have tha balls to get another girl pregnant? You're a brave man.**

Idk what else I can add that hasn't been said already. you're gunna have to man up and take care of both her and the baby.

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

You need to handle it by taking responsibility. Whether that means abortion or not, you can't just run away from the situation. Talk to her about what you two want to do, and get it done. If you do end up keeping it, then tell your parents, and make sure she is healthy.

Next time, please, just be careful. For this to happen to you twice, yes, that does seem immature and "wrong" of you. Take responsibility.

I agree, this ia not something you can just run from. It's time to take respincibility fir your actions. Tell your's and her parents to get some help. They can help with somethings. If you both can, please stay in school. This is where mistpeople make their mistakes.

[inexracercjd]

as mean as it sounds get a abortion ur only 15 u cant even take care of urself obviously theres no way u can take care of a baby if ur not mature enough to have learned after the 1st time and use condoms then ur not mature enough to be a dad and u have no excuse if i ever had a girl tell me she was preggo 1 time and no matter what hapened with the baby at my age or even a bit older id be scared shitless and never have sex again without a condom until i was ready for kids u need 2 grow up man i dont feel bad for u 1 bit theres no excuse for this at all this is ur fault now u gotta deal with it

[Mirage]

How old are you? I dont even know what to tell you.... I mean one girl is bad enough, but two?! Seriously stop putting your penis in any random holes and start caring more about your education and future rather than being horny and thinking about sex all day.

A little harsh, but I agree! You need to calm it down with sex and seriously stop impregnating girls. Now that there is a baby involved you better take good care of it, because it was wholly your decision and now you will face the consequences of your actions.