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mobile
August 3rd, 2007, 07:31 PM
Right well basically, about 3 months ago I started going out with this girl I liked, it was a really good relationship and we both really liked each other. Unfortunately we had a big argument and didn't talk for days so we decided to just be mates and see how it goes from there. a month and a half on and we are still just mates, and I dont think shes interested in us getting back togethor again, but I still really like her.

When we went out it was really special and it really worked until we had a ridiculous argument which somehow spiralled into us taking a 'break'.

I dont know what to do, I want to get back togethor with her but I doubt she does, how do I find out if shes still interested in me? What sort of signs will she be giving off?

All advice is appreciated :-)

thanks :)

Maverick
August 3rd, 2007, 09:23 PM
What were the arguments about?

If you want to see if she's still interested in you call her up or contact her somehow see what kind of vibe you get when you invite her to go do something. If she's happy to it's possible she may be and you might have to go from there but if she rejects or brushes it off then I think it's pretty obvious.

If she shows any affection to you it's a sign.

But if you had 2 arguments that ended in disaster maybe it's just best to move on to someone else.

Gumleaf
August 4th, 2007, 02:05 AM
to put it simply, you need to talk about the arguement and solve that problem first (if it can be solved). then you need to tell her how you feel and that you want to get back together. that way she knows where you stand. then she can let you know where she is and you can work it out from there.