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[pontiacdriver]

ok so i've been masturbating for awhile and recently after a couple times in a row my penis gets sore. is this normal? Also is watching porn ok?

It is totally normal for your penis to get sore especially if you masturbate in back to back sessions. My suggestion is to take it easy when you masturbate and reduce the number of times you jack off in a row so that you don't wear yourself out. Also, use some sort of lube, be it the actual sexual lube or a cream or lotion, so that you are reducing friction. Clearly, after you masturbate and you are experiencing discomfort, then hold off on doing it for a while until things calm down.

As for porn, I had given a response about this topic in the following thread, and you should visit: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=31075&highlight=porn.

I need some advice. I just got a girlfriend around a week ago, and already she is wanting to 'toss me off'. She has done a few times now, but I find myself coming really quickly, as in within around 2 minutes of her starting. Sometimes I will even come in my pants before she has touched me. I assume this is premature ejaculation, but now i'm getting worried. Should this stop after I've gotten more experience, i have never done anything with a girl before, is it just becasue i am so aroused and inexperienced I can't control myself or might there be something wrong with me. It's really embarrassing, and i'm not sure whether to be worried or not. :what:

Your basic problem, as mentioned in your post, is that you have not done anything with a girl, and my guess is that the novelty of the situation of doing something sexual with another person gets you so aroused that you ejaculate spontenously; that is fine, and you have no worries. Just give yourself time, and once you start getting used to handjobs and doing stuff with a girl, then you won't have the problem as much. You are just hyper aroused and and inexperienced, and it will take time for you to control yourself. If anything good comes out of the situation, then at least your girlfriend knows that she turns you on so much that she doesn't even need to touch you for you to cum! As the post before said, you might want to masturbate a couple of hours before you get a handjob so that you won't cum so suddenly and can maintain control. Don't worry about ejaculating so fast as you will learn things with time, and if your girlfriend really care about you, then she will be understanding.


I am 13 years old, and I have always used the prone position. I recently tried switching to the fist method. I have ejaculated 3 times. I can ejaculate once in a while, but most of the time I don't. Can anyone help me? Has anyone ever had this problem? Thank you in advance to all who answer!

I have had the same problem, and it can really be frustrating when you can't ejaculate all the time. Are you getting an orgasm and just not cumming, or are you not even achieving orgasm, too? I would definitely invest in some lube such a cream or a lotion as your problem might be something as simple as too much friction. Also, make sure your mind is clear because if you have a lot on your mind, then you won't be able to cum. Finally, make sure you are sufficiently aroused as if you are just masturbating when you are not really horny, then things are not going to work.

[Johny]

Hey im new,... I have a question... Why do i get horny in class and why is it much more fun when my friends give me a handjob (usually in the boys bathroom at school)

[lotrfanjon]

Most people get horny in class, cause they are either really bored and thinking about things that turn them on or they just get them randomly. It's perfectly normal. Well, it feels good when friends do that to you because it's a sexual act, it's going to excite you. You might also have an attraction for boys. Just be careful though, you prolly dont want to get caught by other boys or teachers.

[pontiacdriver]

Hey im new,... I have a question... Why do i get horny in class and why is it much more fun when my friends give me a handjob (usually in the boys bathroom at school)

My only guess is that you are a person who likes excitement and challenges, and maybe the thought of getting caught adds flavour to getting a handjob at school?

You can take it or leave it, but masturbating in school is a really bad idea as you can definitely get in trouble for doing a lewd act in public place. Also, if you are not openly gay or bi-sexual, then doing things with other boys in school will only cause you issues with your classmates especially if your school is not in a gay friendly place. Basically, if you have to do sex play, then do it at home.

[HikaruTheHunter]

What would be a good way to come at a friend about masturbating? As in like doing it together, but not touching each other's penises?

Like watching something very arousing, then masturbating?

[vito22andolini]

is masturbating with a condom considered normal?:confused:

my penis bends lightly to the left , is this caused by masturbation ?

[HikaruTheHunter]

Its a good thing i found this thread right off the bat, cause i just now have masturbation related issues to ask you guys.

Recently, I've found it relatively hard and almost impossible to masturbate in the shower. But when i do and ejaculate, my "orgasms" are incredibly strong. Why is it so hard to ejaculate in the shower, but when you do, its so strong like that? Plus, I've read this a while ago in a question saying something about using one hand to masturbate and using the other to finger yourself in your anus. I've tried that a couple times and at climax, my "orgasms" are really strong, enough to me make shut my eyes and pant for a while. Even though i am straight, (and i know that for a fact because guy/guy sex is really disturbing), why do i find it very arousing when i fantasize that I'm the female having sex and not the male like i am?

To answer your question, I do this all the time. Its hard like that because the water makes it more difficult to concentrate on warming the feelings, as in if the water is cold or even warm, the feeling against it makes it hard for a male to do that. Its so strong because all the tension that is built up brings you to a more pleasurable and longer ejaculation.

my penis bends lightly to the left , is this caused by masturbation ?

No, at least I don't believe so. Its usually a difference in the penis. Every penis is different, I believe, some people are circumcised, some aren't. Some are short, some are long. Its just a matter of uniqueness.

is masturbating with a condom considered normal?:confused:

Some people find it that way. All it is is masturbating with an extra layer. Its definitely normal! Everyone has their own techniques!

Hey im new,... I have a question... Why do i get horny in class and why is it much more fun when my friends give me a handjob (usually in the boys bathroom at school)

Um not to burst your bubble, but giving handjobs/blowjobs or receiving isn't exactly okay. Its considered lewd, and you could get in so much trouble.

ok I will drink more water and will try again tommorow (i dont want to try today because i probably would be out of semen?) can someone run out of semen?

thanks in advance for all of the advice zach

Hey you can't run out of semen. After done masturbating, it takes, I believe, 3 hours for the regular amount of semen to return to the body.

Okay, this is getting a little bit silly, earlier you did a triple post, now you've done a cent post, posting 5 times in a row is just ridiculous. Please do not double post or any other number that's higher than that, if you want to add something, use the edit button at the bottom right. Thank You. ~Joe

[vito22andolini]

i heard that masturbating while watching porn may cause erection problems later ...is it true ?

[pontiacdriver]

What would be a good way to come at a friend about masturbating? As in like doing it together, but not touching each other's penises?

Like watching something very arousing, then masturbating?

We are not allowed to discuss such topics on this website. You can take it or leave it, but the quickest way for things to get weird with a friend is if one does sexual things with him/her.

is masturbating with a condom considered normal?:confused:

my penis bends lightly to the left , is this caused by masturbation ?

It is not weird to masturbate with a condom, and I would imagine it would make sense to do so as you don't have to worry about much, if any, clean up. There is nothing wrong or odd about doing what you do.

As for your penis' curvature, many guys have bends on their penises, and you are hardly alone. If anything, a penis bent is a good thing in the distant future when you become sexually active so that it is able to adjust to the vagina (or a fellow's anal cavity). Having a bend is not a bad thing at all, and don't worry about it unless your bend is at an extreme.

i heard that masturbating while watching porn may cause erection problems later ...is it true ?

That is not true as porn has no actual impact on your body to cause such a problem. You need to suffer an actual physical injury to affect your sexual functions such as circulation problems, brain damage, or damage to your penis for troubles with an erection. Also, some medications may cause problems with erections as well as some mental disorders. Generally speaking, unless you are an older guy (50+) getting an erection should not be a problem for you for a long while yet.

[Gabriel Y.]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

Cant answer the 1st question, but I've masturbated with a condom before. It was amazing and felt rly good cause its kinda like putting ur... into something warm and squishy :D

[MykeSoBe]

Does it say anything about masturbation in the bible
also is it bad for you????

Interestingly despite all the debate over the sinfulness of masturbation, there is not one quote from the bible referring specifically to masturbation. Some people may tell you about the story of Onan, where they say he "wasted his seed." Recently they found out that it wasn't that he masturbated, it was that he took his penis out of her (I don't know "her" name) right before he ejaculated. It was his duty to provide offspring for the family because of the death of his brother but he didn't fulfill that so he eventually ended up getting killed.

I don't find it fair though how the Vatican made up those silly rules in the Catechism. If something wasn't in the Bible it's not in their. From a Catholic view, it's a disordered sin, not exactly a full sin but I don't wanna make a big commotion or anything like that. Many priests will most likely be supportive of you because of the changing attitudes towards this. I'm not much of an expert in religion but my family's very religious so I normally get hyped up about these things.

Am I able to post stuff that's a bit religious? I guess it probably doesn't have much to do with puberty for the most of you guys but it may potentially help (or limit) a bit. Just delete this then if it's not OK. Because I never wanna be banned from here.

[aaroniofjm]

hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllp i dont know how

to masturbate please reply,

[Oblivion]

hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllp i dont know how

to masturbate please reply,

Please don't ask for techniques.
Like the poster above, Jackinworld is the best and only technique sharing advice we can give.

[pontiacdriver]

hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllp i dont know how

to masturbate please reply,

Not knowing how to masturbate is normal especially if you are new to puberty. While most of us kind of learned by instinct you just might be a guy who might need some additional help. Masturbating definitely falls into the optional category, and don't think you are a freak if you don't do it. As the others have said www.jackinworld.com is your best resource on how to masturbate as it is an extremely comprehensive as well as safe website to learn about masturbation. We are not allowed to discuss specific masturbating methods on here as the others have said.

[Zergling16]

I can ejaculate in 15 sec xD

[panther 09]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

i too am uncircumcised an i have wondered the same thig? but i have masterbated with a condom an it fells different but in a GOOD way:yeah:

ok now ie been masturbing for long time now, and no i want to masterbte with someone how should i do this ? is this right?

Please don't double post. Use the edit button instead. Thanks.
~Shattered

[jasoncannon]

I jerk off with my friends next to me.

[pontiacdriver]

ok now ie been masturbing for long time now, and no i want to masterbte with someone how should i do this ? is this right?

We are not allowed to discuss how to find jacking buddies around here.

As for experimenting you need to keep in mind the following:

1) Your friend may not want to do anything sexual with you and get creeped out and may no longer want to be your friend.

2) You two would most likely would want to keep your experimentation secret from your other friends as it could really be embarassing if what you do with your friend became common knowledge.

3) Experimenting could lead to more serious stuff with one another, and things could get awkward between you both.

4) You might question your own sexuality, and there is always the danger of one of you developing an attraction for the other while the other does not feel the same way.

5) Either of your parents could find out about what is going on and could disapprove of your conduct.

In short, be careful, and make sure that you look at the whole situation and the consequences that could result from masturbating with your friend.

[samas]

whenever i masturbate i cant spurt semen or cum why

[Requin]

whenever i masturbate i cant spurt semen or cum why

Most likely is that your not developed enough yet. When you've matured a bit, you'll be able to produce semen.
So for now you'll just have to wait until then. It doesn't stop you from masturbating though.

[Bonesy555]

hey again
so a week or two ago i asked about a clear liquid i was spurting. well now it is semen, white and sticky, but i've realized that i have to pee before i masturbate or else after i ejaculate a little bit of semen i have to hold back pee. is this normal? any solutions?

[volklracer15]

Ok. well i mastrubated before puberty and i was wondering if this would make puberty farther away. is it normal to mastrubate????

[Oblivion]

i too am uncircumcised an i have wondered the same thig? but i have masterbated with a condom an it fells different but in a GOOD way:yeah:

ok now ie been masturbing for long time now, and no i want to masterbte with someone how should i do this ? is this right?

Please don't double post. Use the edit button instead. Thanks.
~Shattered

Sorry, we aren't to share ways to ask friends to masturbate with us.
Please read and follow all VT rules.

[pontiacdriver]

hey again
so a week or two ago i asked about a clear liquid i was spurting. well now it is semen, white and sticky, but i've realized that i have to pee before i masturbate or else after i ejaculate a little bit of semen i have to hold back pee. is this normal? any solutions?

If I am reading your post correctly, then you have are you asking if it is normal to to urinate after ejaculating? If that is your question, then the answer is yes, it is completely normal to urinate after masturbate as that is your body's way of getting rid of excess semen in your system. As for urinating before masturbating, that is a good idea, too, to ensure you are not holding back any urine. However, it is usually a good idea to urinate after ejaculating, if possible, so that you can totally wash out any residual semen.


Ok. well i mastrubated before puberty and i was wondering if this would make puberty farther away. is it normal to mastrubate????

Masturbating has absolutely no effect upon whatsoever on when you shall start puberty. Masturbating before puberty simply gives you orgasms, but you just don't have the necessary sexual development to follow through beyond getting an orgasm. Basically, masturbating before puberty will give you good feelings and have no other effects.

It is perfectly normal to masturbate. As long as masturbating is not taking up all of your free time or you are doing it all of the time, then you are fine. Also, as long as you are not masturbating to the point of rubbing yourself raw or hurting yourself, then masturbation is fine. One way or another your body is going to get sexual release either through conscious masturbation or wet dreams.

[Ladysman]

Would masturbating calm my hormones down they are raging I can't take my mind of girls would that help any?

[pontiacdriver]

Would masturbating calm my hormones down they are raging I can't take my mind of girls would that help any?

Actually, masturbating should help you a lot, and doing so will at least get a good part of your feelings under control. Keep in mind that if you have just started puberty or are new to it that the feelings you have are going to be overwhelming at first because you never had them before and had experience on how to control them. However, once you get used to sexual feelings, then you will find it much easier to keep your thoughts under control.

[Hdhagsggdui]

:D masturbation is fun!

I masturbate for 1 Hr.

Please don't double post.
~Shattered

[Oblivion]

First off, please don't double post. Just use the edit button. Secondly, please don't post if its not a question, or doesn't contribute to the topic.
Both of those posts were spam.

[bleach]

sorry i am deleting this

[jack straw]

Hey guys, I was wondering, is it normal to be almost 16 and to NOT ejaculate? To clarify the "Not ejaculate", I mean: having an erection for long time/masterbating for a long time/ANYother time. It's a slightly odd question, but it has been bugging me for some time now. I'd like to know what is causing it?

Any ideas guys?
thanks.

[pontiacdriver]

Hey guys, I was wondering, is it normal to be almost 16 and to NOT ejaculate? To clarify the "Not ejaculate", I mean: having an erection for long time/masterbating for a long time/ANYother time. It's a slightly odd question, but it has been bugging me for some time now. I'd like to know what is causing it?

Any ideas guys?
thanks.

I would definitely not say that you are unusual with your being 16 and not ejaculating. Puberty is super weird in that for some guys they can get all the stuff that comes with puberty such as increase in size and things like a bigger penis and erections but don't ejaculate until the end of puberty. I have seen some guys go through all parts of puberty but not go through a voice change until the end. Assuming that you have everything else with regards to puberty, then I would not worry just yet. If you have not had any signs of puberty or if you don't ejaculate by 17, then I would definitely see a doctor to be checked out. I suppose you can even be checked out now, but there is not a small number of 16 year olds who cannot ejaculate. My guess is that you are fine, and you should be able to ejaculate soon. Can you at least orgasm?

P.S. You might want to check out the following thread as the guy only started ejaculating when he was 17: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=39884

[jack straw]

pontiacdriver:
Thank you, as I have been worried for a while.
while I hit puberty earlier than my friends, when they hit it, they shot through almost immeadetly. Leaving me behind, they quickly ran the bases, as i struggle for a hit.
So for now at least, I know I'm not doomed:)

[pontiacdriver]

pontiacdriver:
Thank you, as I have been worried for a while.
while I hit puberty earlier than my friends, when they hit it, they shot through almost immeadetly. Leaving me behind, they quickly ran the bases, as i struggle for a hit.
So for now at least, I know I'm not doomed:)

Don't worry about your friends as you will catch up, and that is a guarantee. I have had at least two cousins who were almost as late as you, and things turned out fine for them. To be honest, I would much rather be a late bloomer as you folks at least understand what is happening to you as opposed to an earlier bloomer who is utterly shocked at the changes and does not have a vocabulary for it. You can't compare apples to oranges, and you are unique. Hopefully, no one is giving you a hard time about your development, and just know you are just as masculine as anyone else. While not being able to produce semen at 16 is not commonplace the reality is that there is a large number of guys out there like you. In short, you are not doomed to be a eunich, and just give yourself a little bit more time. If you are pushing 16 1/2-17 and not ejaculating, then definitely talk to your doctor just to make sure you are all right. However, at this point you are normal, and don't ever think you are a freak. If anything, I would imagine the opposite sex would like a dry shooter as there is no mess and you folks can have multiple orgasms without any refractory periods like folks who ejaculate.

[david1090]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

its just the same without

becos u havent got far enuf into puberty yet

Posts merged, please do not double post. Thanks. ~Joe

[Starlight Blaze]

My friend wants to start masturbating, but I'm not sure about it
This is because he is nine and hasn't started puberty
Is it okay morally and phisically for him to masturbate?

[pontiacdriver]

My friend wants to start masturbating, but I'm not sure about it
This is because he is nine and hasn't started puberty
Is it okay morally and phisically for him to masturbate?

It is said that kids as young as toddlers can masturbate though such children obviously do not make the sexual connection at that point. As for the moral aspect of masturbating pre-puberty that is a really hard question with no right answer. Everything depends upon how developed such a child is mentally as children don't often understand that with actions come consequences. The last thing you want your 9 year old friend to do is to think that sexuality is all fun and that there is not responsibility that comes with it.

As for your friend specfically, is he the one coming to you asking you to teach him about masturbation, or has he just heard about the concept and is curious about what it is as opposed to actually wanting to do it? The last thing you want to do is make a kid prematurely sexual, and I would discourage you from teaching him how to masturbate. Just talk to him very generally about sexuality and how that it does involve responsibility and that it is just not good feelings. Ideally, your friend should have a sex ed talk with his Father, and if his Father is around you really need to coordinate any sex ed talk with his parents. After all, 9 year olds still are very open about things in general, and the last thing you want happening is your friend masturbating one day, his parents walking in, and they finding out that you taught him how to do so. In this day in age of folks being afraid of sexual predators the last thing you want is to get that label. Basically, you absolutely need to talk to his parents about your friend's feeling. If talking to your friend's parents is not possible, then talk to your own parents to get their opinion on things. Perhaps your parents can talk to your friend's parents? Many times boys are more comfortable talking with boys their age about changes than their parents, but the parents have to be on board with any sex ed between you and a 9 year old as you don't want to have an ugly situation.

[Starlight Blaze]

Ok thanks A LOT!!!!!!!!!

[kenny00771]

Hello. I was in a program called "Family Life" at school, which talks about sex and puberty. From that, there were some words I didn't understand but everybody else did and started laughing. Please help me!
A couple questions I want to ask that I don't know the answer:

1. What is masturbation? :what:

2. What is a latex condom and what does it do? (my teacher told us that it can't have rips and it needs to be put on properly. what does she mean? what would rips have to do with it? I dont even know what a latex condom is) :what:

3. What is ejaculation and how does it come from "masturbation"? :what:

4. Also, how does masturbation "feel good"? :what:

5. How is masturbation normal? (we watched a video and it said that masturbation is normal. I still dont know what masturbation is)


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Please try and answer all my questions. Thanks! :yes:

[Cloud]

Hello. I was in a program called "Family Life" at school, which talks about sex and puberty. From that, there were some words I didn't understand but everybody else did and started laughing. Please help me!
A couple questions I want to ask that I don't know the answer:

1. What is masturbation? :what:

2. What is a latex condom and what does it do? (my teacher told us that it can't have rips and it needs to be put on properly. what does she mean? what would rips have to do with it? I dont even know what a latex condom is) :what:

3. What is ejaculation and how does it come from "masturbation"? :what:

4. Also, how does masturbation "feel good"? :what:

5. How is masturbation normal? (we watched a video and it said that masturbation is normal. I still dont know what masturbation is)


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Please try and answer all my questions. Thanks! :yes:

Masturbation is playing with yourself or rubbing the penis to cause stimulation which usually causes ejaculation nad orgasm if ur developed enough. ejacualtion is cuming or when you expel semen from your penis(semen contains sperm). masturbation will feel good because it is stiulation of the sensitive genitalia like the penis or prostate. Masturbation is normal as it helps stop wet dreams(ejaculatingin your sleep) and helps to stop random erections.

Now a condom is a plastic sleeve that goes over the penis. A condom is a form of contraception wich stops pregnancies and std/sti's(sexualy transmitted infections/diseases) being transmitted. It must be on properly so that the semen doesnt leak out becasue this will cause risk of pregnancy and std/i if it is ripped then it will not work and could also result in pregnancy or sti/d.


YOU CAN ONLY GET AN STD/I IF YOU HAVE SEXUAL CONTACT WITH AN INFECTED PERSON

hope i helped just ask if theres anything else your unsure of

[pontiacdriver]

Hello. I was in a program called "Family Life" at school, which talks about sex and puberty. From that, there were some words I didn't understand but everybody else did and started laughing. Please help me!
A couple questions I want to ask that I don't know the answer:

1. What is masturbation? :what:

2. What is a latex condom and what does it do? (my teacher told us that it can't have rips and it needs to be put on properly. what does she mean? what would rips have to do with it? I dont even know what a latex condom is) :what:

3. What is ejaculation and how does it come from "masturbation"? :what:

4. Also, how does masturbation "feel good"? :what:

5. How is masturbation normal? (we watched a video and it said that masturbation is normal. I still dont know what masturbation is)


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Please try and answer all my questions. Thanks! :yes:

To start off, your class sounds like a health education class, and don't ever feel embarrassed to ask a question during it. After all, you are not going to be the only one who is confused, and no one is going to give you a hard time as I am guessing everyone else is your age in the class. However, we are always here to help, and I hope my answers below answer your questions:

Question 1) Masturbation is basically stimulating one's genitals for pleasurable sensations. For guys that involves stroking or rubbing one's penis which usually creates very pleasurable sensations. Don't worry if you don't masturbate or don't know how to do so as most guys learn on their own once they start puberty. A great website that goes into detail about what masturbation is and how to do it is www.jackinworld.com which is a safe website which offers information and is not a bad place by any means.

Question 2) Most people who have sex generally do not want to have children. Also, folks who have sex want to have a physical barrier between their respective genitals just in case one partner has an infection. A condom is a thing made out of a balloon like material that one puts over one's penis to capture semen, which fertilizes a female's egg, and it also prevents the penis shaft from coming into contact with a female's vagina and/or anus (a condom can also be used for gay sex to protect one guy's penis when he inserts it into another guy's anus). Most condoms are made out of a material called latex which, again, is similar to the material of balloons. Latex is very stretchable, and it generally has a pleasant feel. The way a condom can tear is if it is not put on properly or if one has particularly rough sex. Also, using the wrong kind of lube can also break down a condom. A final thing to add about condoms is that there are people out there who are allergic to latex thus forcing them to use condoms made out of polyurethane which is similar to latex but has a different chemical makeup thus preventing problems for the latex sensitive person.

Question 3) When a boy is sexually mature he will produce a fluid called semen which carries sperm. Generally, a boy/man needs to masturbate in order for this fluid to come out. The ejaculation usually happens when a guy is really aroused, and the ejaculation is a reflection of the guy's sexual feelings.

Question 4) Masturbation definitely feels good, and it is really hard to put into words. Kind of how a massage feels super good imagine doing that to your penis. Once you do it, then you will know what we mean, and www.jackinworld.com is your best resource on this issue.

Question 5) The reality is that humans are sexual for the most part, and masturbation is a way for people to get release. After all, sooner or later you will find others very attractive, but you cannot obviously have sexual contact with them all. A way folks deal with their sexual feelings is by masturbating which enables them to virtually live their fantasy out of a lack of better words. Masturbation is definitely not bad, and it is used by men and women to have fun as well as learn about their own sexuality.


I hope my answers were all right, and feel free to ask any other questions as sexuality is really tough. Sexuality can be really abstract, and it is kind of hard to put into words, but we will try out best to put things in context for you.

[Oblivion]

1. What is masturbation?
The stimulation of your own genitals to replicate sex.
2. What is a latex condom and what does it do? (my teacher told us that it can't have rips and it needs to be put on properly. what does she mean? what would rips have to do with it? I dont even know what a latex condom is)
It keeps sperm from entering the vagina, thus 'safe sex' where no baby is made. It also helps prevent sexually transmitted diseases.
3. What is ejaculation and how does it come from "masturbation"?
After climax [the peak of masturbation], your muscles spasm and release semen, which would enter the vagina during sex.
4. Also, how does masturbation "feel good"?
It just does. It's pretty hard to say how it feels, other than good.
5. How is masturbation normal? (we watched a video and it said that masturbation is normal. I still dont know what masturbation is)
Masturbation is normal because most people, probably at least 90% of males, do it, most regularly. See #1 for what it is.

[byee]

Correct answers:

1) Masturbation is the manipulation of the genitals to achieve orgasm.

2) A latex condom is a sleeve that fits over the erect penis which is made of latex (a rubber like material) that acts as a barrier between the penis and the vagina to prevent conception (pregnancy) and STI's, because it keeps the guy's fluids physically seperate from the girl's.

3) Ejaculation is the process by which sperm are released from the body thru a series of rhythmic muscle contractions. It results from stimulation of the genitals for a period of time.

4) Masturbation feels good because the specialized nerves transmit signals ('Feelings') to a specialized part of the brain which experiences them as pleasurable. Also, during sexual activity, there is sexual tension built up, and the release of it during orgasm is pleasurable. These changes also include a sudden increase in heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing, which intensify the sensation, and are pleasurable. Think of those toy planes with the propeller attached to the rubber band: When you masturbate/have sex, it's like twirling the propeller to tighten the band, and during orgasm, you'd be releasing the plane, and it would fly on it's own as the energy is discharged.

5) Masturbation is 'Normal' b/c everyone does it (that's 100%!), and it is entirely caused by biology, the sex drive. It is as biologically normal as blinking your eyes or sweating.

[yato]

Hey guys, I was wondering, is it normal to be almost 16 and to NOT ejaculate? To clarify the "Not ejaculate", I mean: having an erection for long time/masterbating for a long time/ANYother time. It's a slightly odd question, but it has been bugging me for some time now. I'd like to know what is causing it?

Any ideas guys?
thanks.
Given that I didn't start until well into 17, who would I be to say it is not normal? :p It is uncommon for sure not to be able to ejaculate at 16, but it is not necessarily the indication of a problem. Sexual characteristics may appear sooner or later from one individual to the next, mostly based on your genetic heritage.
If you want to be reassured, I'd suggest having a talk about it with your doctor - that's what I did myself, and indeed, I was glad I hadn't get any nasty disease, but that it was only Nature having fun :).

Don't be shy because of it, you aren't any less of a man because of it. And as pontiacdriver said, there are definitely advantages to not have to worry about the mess or refractory periods :).

[FroBro16]

I was wondering if using your semen as lube is good or not
any thoughts?

[pontiacdriver]

I was wondering if using your semen as lube is good or not
any thoughts?

Using one's semen as lube is totally fine, and there is no problem with it. Semen is probably the ideal lube as it is very slick, and it can definitely help one's hand glide quite easily. There is nothing wrong with using one's own semen as lube. Just be careful about using someone else's semen as lube, however, as unless you know for the fact the person is clean you could risk contracting an infection.

[ezduzit323]

i start dry but i precum a lot when i masturbate so i use that as lube. it's safe but it's a matter of whether you think it feels good or not. i just always wash afterward!

[jack straw]

Hello again, i'm back with another problem.
More disturbing than the first problem (no ejacutlation) , I'm now not able to get an erection at all, which REALLY worries me. When I do get one, it's random and dissapers fast. What could be causing this???

[pontiacdriver]

Hello again, i'm back with another problem.
More disturbing than the first problem (no ejacutlation) , I'm now not able to get an erection at all, which REALLY worries me. When I do get one, it's random and dissapers fast. What could be causing this???

At first glance, my guess is that you must not be sufficiently aroused in order to get an erection. Sometimes, if you focus so much on getting aroused that in itself is a turn off. Let things happen naturally, and you should get an erection with no problem.

The second reason why I think you could be experiencing problems is if you have a lot of things on your mind which can be distracting from your sexual feelings. Nothing kills the sexual mood faster than bad feelings or a lot on your mind. Clearly, if you having things bothering you, then you need to address them otherwise you will find it most difficult to get aroused thus getting an erection.

[jack straw]

At first glance, my guess is that you must not be sufficiently aroused in order to get an erection. Sometimes, if you focus so much on getting aroused that in itself is a turn off. Let things happen naturally, and you should get an erection with no problem.

The second reason why I think you could be experiencing problems is if you have a lot of things on your mind which can be distracting from your sexual feelings. Nothing kills the sexual mood faster than bad feelings or a lot on your mind. Clearly, if you having things bothering you, then you need to address them otherwise you will find it most difficult to get aroused thus getting an erection.


Well, my mind is a little crazy right now, I cant seem to focus on anything for more than a minuete. I wish I was able to concentrate, it's not only affecting my private life, but my school life as well.

Also, does anybody know if certian prescription medications can be causing all this crap? The doctor I go to has prescribed very high doses of medicine for years now, and I cant stand it!

[pontiacdriver]

Well, my mind is a little crazy right now, I cant seem to focus on anything for more than a minuete. I wish I was able to concentrate, it's not only affecting my private life, but my school life as well.

Also, does anybody know if certian prescription medications can be causing all this crap? The doctor I go to has prescribed very high doses of medicine for years now, and I cant stand it!

Mental issues really do affect one's sex life, and my strong suggestion is to deal with your personal issues first as your sex life will improve dramatically once outstanding matters are settled. There are some great forums around here in which you can discuss your problems with others, and if you do not have a good support structure at home or at school, then it would be good for you to vent here. However, you really should try to find a live, responsible person in whom you can confide your thoughts about anything, and the best people for that role really are your parents. Also, an older sibling, cousin, uncle, aunt, or even a teacher, guidance counselor, or trusted adult can fill that role, too, if your parents are not possible to use in that role.

As for the medication issue, there absolutely no question that medication can impact one's sexual performance. You can always visit your pharmacist and figure out what side effects your medication has, or you can leave a message for your doctor by calling his/her office. Clearly, if your medication is affecting your sexual abilities, then you need to vocalize that concern with your doctor and see if there is another medication which can be used that won't affect you as badly.

[jack straw]

Mental issues really do affect one's sex life, and my strong suggestion is to deal with your personal issues first as your sex life will improve dramatically once outstanding matters are settled. There are some great forums around here in which you can discuss your problems with others, and if you do not have a good support structure at home or at school, then it would be good for you to vent here. However, you really should try to find a live, responsible person in whom you can confide your thoughts about anything, and the best people for that role really are your parents. Also, an older sibling, cousin, uncle, aunt, or even a teacher, guidance counselor, or trusted adult can fill that role, too, if your parents are not possible to use in that role.

As for the medication issue, there absolutely no question that medication can impact one's sexual performance. You can always visit your pharmacist and figure out what side effects your medication has, or you can leave a message for your doctor by calling his/her office. Clearly, if your medication is affecting your sexual abilities, then you need to vocalize that concern with your doctor and see if there is another medication which can be used that won't affect you as badly.


Thank You!
My crazyness is alittle untreatable, it will just pass with time... I would talk with my Guidence Councler, but she recentally became ill and was replaced by a jackass, who does'nt care about anything. I dont know Who I really could talk to, most adults in my life I view as causall friends, who it wouldn't really be appropriate to talk about my issues with. I dont even really know what the hell is going on, i'm just living with it, and it will pass as allways.

As for the medication, I think I will talk to my pharmicist, or seek some sort of profecional advice. Thank's!!!:)

[pontiacdriver]

Thank You!
My crazyness is alittle untreatable, it will just pass with time... I would talk with my Guidence Councler, but she recentally became ill and was replaced by a jackass, who does'nt care about anything. I dont know Who I really could talk to, most adults in my life I view as causall friends, who it wouldn't really be appropriate to talk about my issues with. I dont even really know what the hell is going on, i'm just living with it, and it will pass as allways.

As for the medication, I think I will talk to my pharmicist, or seek some sort of profecional advice. Thank's!!!:)

Far be it from me to tell you how to live your life, but generally problems don't resolve themselves, and we all need someone in whom we confide. I am sorry to hear about your guidance counselor, and it is too bad she was replaced by a bad person. You can take it or leave it, but you really should find a responsible adult with whom you can talk as it is helpful to put things in perspective. Who that person is depends upon your situation. I suppose if you are religious such a person can be a member of the clergy, too. Basically, don't suffer in silence as that is the worst thing you can do.

I would say the biggest benefit, at least in terms of the subject matter of this thread, of venting is that your sex life will definitely improve due to your mind being in a good shape.

[jack straw]

Far be it from me to tell you how to live your life, but generally problems don't resolve themselves, and we all need someone in whom we confide. I am sorry to hear about your guidance counselor, and it is too bad she was replaced by a bad person. You can take it or leave it, but you really should find a responsible adult with whom you can talk as it is helpful to put things in perspective. Who that person is depends upon your situation. I suppose if you are religious such a person can be a member of the clergy, too. Basically, don't suffer in silence as that is the worst thing you can do.

I would say the biggest benefit, at least in terms of the subject matter of this thread, of venting is that your sex life will definitely improve due to your mind being in a good shape.


The problem with telling someone is, that my problems cover almost the entire spectrum of problems; from family to friend, and from sexual to slightly insane. there really is no one person I can talk to who wont be horrified by what is going through my mind;
although i'm religious, my priest/other clergy members would definately dissaprove of nearly everything; my teachers/guidence counclers would most likely make it worse, getting more and more people involved to try and figure out what is going on; my parents would only make it worse by talking about it non-stop for days; my adults that I view as friends ( they're just a buncha kids in adult bodies; they may be 40+ years old but still act like teens, always having fun :-) )would just laugh, and that's about it. my list runs dry from that point on.

besides, I've gone through short periods of crisis before, and this isn't much different. In a few weeks, I'll be back to "normal" and the cycle will continue on from there... (the problems all intertwine, and one cant be fixed until all the others are. It's working it's self out now.)

[Bonesy555]

hey back again
so i have realized that when i masturbate, when i get to the climax, i always release white gooey liquid im assuming is semen but its not "shooting out". its more just dribbling out. is this normal?

[pontiacdriver]

hey back again
so i have realized that when i masturbate, when i get to the climax, i always release white gooey liquid im assuming is semen but its not "shooting out". its more just dribbling out. is this normal?

The white gooey liquid is indeed semen, and if that was the first time that happened, then congratulations on your first ejaculation.

As for your dribbling semen out, that is normal, and not all guys shoot out semen. Being a dribbler is fine, and as long as you get an orgasm that is what counts and not how your semen leaves your penis. Some guys just don't have the ability to shoot which is fine. Also, for guys who are new to masturbating they just may not have gained the ability to shoot, yet, and they just need to mature more physically. Another big factor that affects whether one shoots or not is how aroused one is. Being very aroused can cause one to shoot, but then again that is not always the case if you just don't have the ability to shoot in the first place. To be honest, being a dribbler is easier as such folks don't have to worry about accidentally making a mess by sending their semen to an inconvenient place as a shooter does.

Basically, you are fine, and don't worry. Shooting is not some out of the world experience, and as long as your orgasm is good, then that is what counts.

[JepJep92]

lol just a random here... you know in australian sex -ed classes we never talked about masturbation... except like once a few years ago... right now i am in year 11 (11th grade) and that time was like in year 8, so just wondering... what do they discuss in the US and other places...??

but just also adding sex- ed here is very liberal, you should see some of the book they use to describe sex HAHA... my first sex- ed class was in year 3 in primary (elementary) school... quite odd :D:D

[mozley101]

i am not cut but in the shower when i rub the tip of my penis while im cleaning with soap it feels really good kinda lyk i need to piss but yeh is that normal?

i masturbated last night and somthing hapend wich i dont no wether was normal. i was doing wat u do for lyk 3 minutes i had and erection and it started to feel hell gwd for lyk 2 minutes [god it was gwd] and once that was over i couldnt keep up my erection and i didnt feal as gwd is that normall?

[JepJep92]

well yeah it's normal after you have an orgasm (and ejaculate if you're old enough) you lose your erection pretty quite most times, and depending on each individual, most men cannot get an erection soon afterwards for a while, unless of course you are really horny LOL :cool: but yes, i've also read your ability to get an erection soon after ejaculating reduces with age.

[pontiacdriver]

lol just a random here... you know in australian sex -ed classes we never talked about masturbation... except like once a few years ago... right now i am in year 11 (11th grade) and that time was like in year 8, so just wondering... what do they discuss in the US and other places...??

but just also adding sex- ed here is very liberal, you should see some of the book they use to describe sex HAHA... my first sex- ed class was in year 3 in primary (elementary) school... quite odd :D:D

I don't know much on how sex education is handled in your country so it will be hard to compare our two systems. If memory serves me correctly, then in my part of America sex education was started at 7th grade. At least when I took that class it was pretty much from a biological standpoint about the changes a person will undergo and what sex actually is. I think references were made to masturbation, but sex education when I took it was basically like a biology class talking about the changes of the human body. The other component of the class was about safe sex and how one had to use protection and the warning signs of STDs.


i am not cut but in the shower when i rub the tip of my penis while im cleaning with soap it feels really good kinda lyk i need to piss but yeh is that normal?

Yes, such a feeling is quite normal as the head of your penis is going to be quite sensitive to touch especially when you rub it. The pissing feeling could be that you are getting an orgasm through the way you are touching yourself. As a rule of thumb, if you do masturbate in the shower, then never use soap, hair care products, or anything with which you use to clean yourself as a lube. Cleaning products will only irritate your penis which is not what you want to do.

i masturbated last night and somthing hapend wich i dont no wether was normal. i was doing wat u do for lyk 3 minutes i had and erection and it started to feel hell gwd for lyk 2 minutes [god it was gwd] and once that was over i couldnt keep up my erection and i didnt feal as gwd is that normall?

Your feeling is normal, and you had your orgasm when things "felt good" (An orgasm is like a pumping sensation coming from your body working its way out your penis. When your penis has convulsions/contractions, then that is your orgasm). However, much like how a runner needs a rest after a race your penis needs a break after its orgasm, and the point when your penis goes soft is when it is essentially taking a short nap (out of a lack of a better word).

[GoingThroughPuberty]

I want to masterbate with a friend am i gay?:what:

[kenny00771]

:what:
Hi!
Well I have a few questions 0.o
First, is there a proper way to masterbate?
I have at least a couple orgasms everyweek, but nothing comes out ever. I am only 14 btw.
How do i prevent random erections? I always do at school and sometimes it hurts alot because my pants are tight.
It seems that it's harder to have an orgasm in the shower, why is that?
Even though i said before nothing "comes out", actually I have the feeling I have to pee so then I go to the toilet and pee comes out for like a minute. I am not sure what it is but it's yellow and has a strong smell.
For my age, is it normal to do what I do?
Should I tell my parents what I am doing every night? (i would be totally embarrassed though) :what:
++Please try and answer all or even some of my questions.
+++I might think of more to ask later.

[nick]

:what:
Hi!
Well I have a few questions 0.o
First, is there a proper way to masterbate? no, whatever feels good for you
I have at least a couple orgasms everyweek, but nothing comes out ever. I am only 14 btw. be patient, you'll get there soon enough
How do i prevent random erections? I always do at school and sometimes it hurts alot because my pants are tight. fact of life, welcome to the club
It seems that it's harder to have an orgasm in the shower, why is that? I dont find it easy in the shower, the water's kinda distracting
Even though i said before nothing "comes out", actually I have the feeling I have to pee so then I go to the toilet and pee comes out for like a minute. I am not sure what it is but it's yellow and has a strong smell. cum isnt normally yellow although my first few times it was quite yellow to be honest. perhaps there's some sperm in your pee even though its not quite ready to come out in an ejaculation
For my age, is it normal to do what I do? sure, stay cool
Should I tell my parents what I am doing every night? (i would be totally embarrassed though) :what: no, it would be embarassing for them and for you, and pointless too. They will expect you to be doing it unless they dont think you're normal so they dont need or want to be told.
++Please try and answer all or even some of my questions.
+++I might think of more to ask later.

answers above. lol

[liam14]

does anyone know any good techniques

i just started i use a fist its getting boring

[Tommy]

It gets boring, you're hard to please!:eek:

[Brendon]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

Yes I have. It feels so cool:) I love the feeling

[pontiacdriver]

I want to masterbate with a friend am i gay?:what:

You are not necessarily gay for masturbating with a friend, but if you find that you prefer sex acts with someone of the same sex rather than the opposite sex and are repulsed by the body of the opposite sex and only find the bodies of the same sex appealing, then there is a chance you could be gay.

As for masturbating with friends in general you have to be really careful. In a lot of cases guys just do that out of curiousity and/or a cheap thrill, but there are times when the other guy might read more into the sex act and develop an emotional attachment to the other. If you view masturbating with a friend as something more than just hanging out with him, then you need to make sure your friend feels the same way otherwise you will seriously mess up your friendship if he doesn't feel the same way as you.


:what:
Hi!
Well I have a few questions 0.o
First, is there a proper way to masterbate?

There is no "proper" way to masturbate. Basically, as long as your masturbating method doesn't cause pain, discomfort, or physical issues, then your method is fine. There are multiple techniuqes out there (of which we cannot discuss on this forum), and you should visit www.jackinworld.com which has an exhaustive list on masturbation methods. I am sure almost every variation of masturbating is found on that website as there are a lot of techniques there.

I have at least a couple orgasms everyweek, but nothing comes out ever. I am only 14 btw.

There is nothing wrong with you, and you are just a late ejaculator which is fine. There are guys on here who are as old as 17 who only had their first ejaculation then. As long as you are getting an orgasm, then you are more or less getting most of the experience anyway, and you don't have to worry about clean up. Don't worry as you are fine, and you will ejaculate sooner rather than later. Enjoy your dry orgasms for now.



How do i prevent random erections? I always do at school and sometimes it hurts alot because my pants are tight.

This is a hard question to answer especially if you are new to puberty because you have so many hormones going through you causing you to get an abnormally high number of erections. The reality is the most you can do right now is to think about other thoughts when an erection happen such as something that will be guaranteed to turn you off such as your grandparents naked or something along those lines.

As for your erection being painful in your clothes it seems like you are going through a growth spurt, and your clothes are probably becoming too tight all of a sudden. It is for that reason why you should really start investing in new clothes and especially new underwear. Overcompensate for your growth, and don't just buy the correct size as if you do, then you will quickly outgrow your clothes. Loose clothing, especially during puberty, will help you a lot with erections.

Finally, you should check out the following video on dealing with erections: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWG3mlxsuUk


It seems that it's harder to have an orgasm in the shower, why is that?
Even though i said before nothing "comes out", actually I have the feeling I have to pee so then I go to the toilet and pee comes out for like a minute. I am not sure what it is but it's yellow and has a strong smell.
For my age, is it normal to do what I do?

For a lot of us it is kind of hard to masturbate in the shower especially if one is used to masturbating lying down. It does take more work masturbating standing up, and if you can't masturbate standing up, then you are like a lot of us.

It is totally normal what you are doing by masturbating in the shower as a lot of guys do so due to it being easy for clean up in the shower.

As for the fluid that comes out, my guess it could be urinate, but then again it could be pre-cum. Basically, you are fine, and don't worry. My guess is that your first ejaculation is not too far off.


Should I tell my parents what I am doing every night? (i would be totally embarrassed though) :what:
++Please try and answer all or even some of my questions.
+++I might think of more to ask later.

My view is that parents are always the best resource for puberty questions. If your Father is around, then pull him to the side one day and ask him about development. You are not going to get in trouble, and I can promise you that your parents would rather you learn about sexuality from them rather than some strangers like us. You can also talk to your Mum, older siblings, uncles, or even older cousins. Don't be embarrassed to talk with your parents or family as they are there to help you.


does anyone know any good techniques

i just started i use a fist its getting boring

You should visit www.jackinworld.com as that is your best resource for masturbation techniques. If you cannot find a good technique there, then you can't find one anywhere.

[turtle]

when i masturbate i cum after a ery short time is there any way to lengthen the masturbation time i guess. also when i get a boner my dick it thicker at the base like i have a rig ring under my skin i guess does that mean its starting to grow or what?

[pontiacdriver]

when i masturbate i cum after a ery short time is there any way to lengthen the masturbation time i guess. also when i get a boner my dick it thicker at the base like i have a rig ring under my skin i guess does that mean its starting to grow or what?

You might want to go onto www.jackinworld.com and look up the stop and go technique which is a way a lot of guys prolong their masturbation time. We are not allowed to go into specifics around here.

The ring which you describe could be a sign of future penis growth. The reality is puberty is a 4-5 year process, and that any part of your body can grow during this time. As for when that growth will actually happen and how long and big your penis will get is something that none of us can answer with certainty. As long as your penis works that is what counts, and its size is really not important.

On a side note, your gender is listed as female on your profile. Clearly, you are a guy, and you might want to update your profile.

[AmazingHomage]

I have masturbated with a lube condom and it's actually pretty fun :P The lube is GREAT, much better than vaseline

As far as masturbating and you're circumcised, circumcised guys couldn't really tell you, since that's all they know. I've read articles and stories about after getting circumcised, the guys were unhappy with it. See, your foreskin glides on your head (which is the most sensitive part of the penis), and makes the feeling so much more intense. Without foreskin, you won't have much stimulation on the head.

Uncut guys, try this: masturbate to orgasm with your foreskin back - this is as close to being cut as you can get. Yeah I masturbate, but I dont use lotion lube etc, do those things heighten the orgasm or something?

[AmazingHomage]

Ahhhhh! I just got caught jerking of by my step brother, Jesus it was awkward!

[newfiee 13]

I'd rather get caught by my step bro or a friend then my mom or dad that would be way worse

[pontiacdriver]

Ahhhhh! I just got caught jerking of by my step brother, Jesus it was awkward!

Being caught is what happens to a lot of us, and at least you were caught by someone who is near you age and another guy as opposed to your Mum.

If your brother is older than you, then it really is not a big deal as he certainly masturbates, too, and he most likely wants to forget about the whole thing as much as you do. Just act normal around him, and he won't make a big deal about it if you don't.

If your brother is younger than you (especially if he is pre-pubescent), then that can be really hard. However, the reality is that he has seen you, and you have to be honest about what you were doing. Of course, you should provide an age specific response that provides information without making the kid prematurely sexual.

In the future you need to ensure that your privacy is not infringed upon again, and take steps to ensure that you are better protected. For example, make sure your door is locked or that you masturbate in a place where you know you won't be disturbed. If you share a room, then come to an understanding with your roommate about what you are doing. For example, putting a tie around the door knob could be a signal to your roommate that you are having "private" time.

[Prowler]

Why would it be an innapropriate post? :P
What probably happened (if this was your first orgasm), is that your cum didn't come out during the orgasm. So it stayed in there, and when you went to piss, it came out then. This could be either caused by 1) you can't produce enough cum to make it come out easily, or 2) you're not used to orgasm, and it all of it didn't come out that time.

This happens to me sometimes, especially when I have a dull orgasm or hold it in. After awhile, this'll go away. Does this keep happening? If it doesn't, it's fine! :D

Remember, if something weird happens to you only once, and then after a few days it stops and there's no problems, it's probably nothing to worry about! =]
Actually when this happens it's called "retro-grade ejacuation" which is when as MoveAlong said the semon is not ejacuated or you hold it in, the semon is then backed-up into the bladder which can cause your urine to seem as though it's semon.

I'd rather get caught by my step bro or a friend then my mom or dad that would be way worse
I've been caught too; by my uncle, although he really didn't care. But have you ever heard the saying, "95% of men masturbate (this part is true) and the other 5% lie?"

I want to masterbate with a friend am i gay?:what:
Not at all! It is completely normal to masturbate with other boys/men, I've done it a few time before and it was quite fun. But at your age, if I'm not mistaken it's completely normal to experiment with friends.

Please do not double or triple post, if you want to add something, use the edit button. Thanks. ~Joe

[Fira]

I want to masterbate with a friend am i gay?:what:



I wouldnt know if its gay or not but if both of you are OK with it and aren't related its perfectly legal. And nobody else has to know :yummy:

[Requin]

No its not gay. Being homosexual isn't just about what you do, it's how you feel as well.
So its fine.

[Green Lantern]

Update remeber i told you guys i had never had an orgasm before? well will spare you the details but 2 days ago i was in the mood and well i started you know whatting (can i say W*nk on these forums? lol) and then i got this really nice feeling however nothing came out:( then i really need a piss and half way through some gooie stuff came out allong with the urine there wasnt much maybee enough to fill a teasspoon...(lol is this normal? has this ever happened to any of you guys?)

If this is an innorpriate post or it dosnt belong here please dont ban me :D

It's a perfectly fine post and yah it's fine that's happened to me tons of times it makes me want to do it more

[lilbilly]

lilbilly (16)


-- I am sixteen years old and i have lots of friends who are fully developed. Although i masturbate often, like more than three times a week, i am worried that this much ejaculation will decrease my penis size or maybe prevent me from starting puberty somehow. is any of this true? :confused: i am very heavy also, like in weight, might this affect my late blooming?

[Oblivion]

lilbilly (16)


-- I am sixteen years old and i have lots of friends who are fully developed. Although i masturbate often, like more than three times a week, i am worried that this much ejaculation will decrease my penis size or maybe prevent me from finishing puberty somehow. is any of this true? :confused:

No! Many pubescent boys even masturbate three times a day. Masturbation doesn't affect penis size at all, nor does it affect your puberty sequence.

[lilbilly]

does a persons weight affect either of those?

[Oblivion]

Nope, although heavily overweight people may seem like they have a smaller penis, because they fat around the pelvic region pushes out more.

[lilbilly]

cool thanks. so it is normal that i am just begining to grow hair and cracking my voice at age 16 but i have been masturbating for longer?

[pontiacdriver]

lilbilly (16)


-- I am sixteen years old and i have lots of friends who are fully developed. Although i masturbate often, like more than three times a week, i am worried that this much ejaculation will decrease my penis size or maybe prevent me from starting puberty somehow. is any of this true? :confused: i am very heavy also, like in weight, might this affect my late blooming?

As mentioned above, masturbation has absolutely no effect, either positive or negative, upon one's penis size.

As for your being overweight, I have have noticed from personal experience that overweight folks tend not to get much hair. I know this really depends upon the person, but based upon overweight people I have seen I have noticed that they don't have much hair on their legs and arms. My strong suggestion is that if you are genuinely overweight, then you really should make every attempt to start loosing weight and begin eating right. If anything studies out there point to overweight folks starting puberty abnormally early rather than the other way around. However, beyond the puberty issues being overweight at a young age will undoubtably cause you health problems sooner rather than later especially with diabetes and heart issues. In short, develop a healthy lifestyle with a good balance of diet and exercise so that you can hopefully reach a normal size for someone your age.

Finally, I want to agree with the post above that folks who are really overweight tend to have penises that are masked by their stomachs. Even though such folks have normal penises their stomach obscure the penis causing it to look small.

[Sbro]

Ive heard that you can't ejaculate cum and pee at the same time

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Thats right, its physically impossible

[lilbilly]

so it is normal that i am just begining to grow hair and cracking my voice at age 16 but i have been masturbating for longer?

[Cloud]

yep tyhats normal.

[pontiacdriver]

so it is normal that i am just begining to grow hair and cracking my voice at age 16 but i have been masturbating for longer?

Without a doubt that is perfectly normal. There are definitely guys floating around here who started masturbating before puberty started for them. There is no set order to puberty, and for many guys they start masturbating before the changes actually happen. In short, you are just like the rest of us.

[YourFriend]

I have another question, every time I cum, all about masturbating or anything related to it becomes so disgusting to me.

Anyone has some similar problem?

[Cloud]

you jsut lose your sex drive is whats happening by the soudns of it

[vito22andolini]

is olive oil realy a lube????

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Some people use it as a lube. ive never tried it

[jairooh]

I have masturbate alone, but with friends too. I'm straight, but I like to masturbate with boys. Why does it happen?

[Patchy]

I have masturbate alone, but with friends too. I'm straight, but I like to masturbate with boys. Why does it happen?

During puberty you can become curious about other guys for example the common question "am I normal" so boys do masturbate with each other to compare and to have fun doing it.

It's Normal :)

[andrewgonzalez]

yeah, straight guys often masturbate together while they think about girls :)

[Teen20]

Hey all wazzup so I was just jacking 2day and a small amount of yellow stuff came out with like a [wssssssst!] sound. My first reaction was, "////, I pissed all over myself!!". The fluid looked like pee, and appeared to have the same consistency, but I had already urinated. I'm 13 going on 14 again, already peed b4 showering any idea if that's cum or wat?
Thx in advance :)

I am cut. Is there any tecniques anyone could suggest?

I have a technique that (well at least me) will have you going in around 10 seconds. Make a luck sign (entwine your index and middle fingers) and put it in between your groin and leg. Stick your penis so that the split part is touching your upper finger, and the opening is touching the lower finger. Using the hand that's not in a luck sign, get grip your shaft with three fingers and slide it around.

NOTES:
A) use some lube for best results; works without.
B) works best sitting in shower.
C) go slowly if your cut. Otherwise you will be feeling so good so fast that it won't be enjoyable, and you'll want to stop too soon because it's such a huge buildup.

[Johny]

Hey i was just wondering... does masturbating shorten your orgasm period?? Because i masturbate a lot.....

[MisterAndrews]

Yes, if you refrain for about 4 days your orgasm will improve. I lasted 3 weeks and nearly drowned!

[curiousteenager]

I have a really complicated question...

Ok heres the situation, i am straight and so is my friend. I have thought about watching porn on my computer with him ad masturbating with him. First is this gay. Second, is this the best way to get him to do it or is there a better way?:confused:

curiousteenager

[optimashprime]

no its not gay your just curious
and we talked about that sencond part

[Melodius Nocturne]

don't worry curious teenager, it isnt gay, and as your name suggests your a curious teenager. I've thought that alot, but when you go through puberty thats what happens, i asked that when i first joined up, cause i really wanted to masturbate with my friend. But simply no it is not gay

as for your second part that is one way of going about it, you can always do truth or dare
1) Compare sizes
2) gross me out
or something like that, i hope that helps to some degree. Those were the suggestions i was given

[BirdsandtheBees]

Okay...I'm a new member and I have a question....I'm 13 and I masturbate usually once a day every day. I have gone without masturbating for a week before and didn't really know what to expect. Needless to say, I kinda had some cleaning up to do when I was done...anyway, I know a lot of guys (Especially when they just start) masturbate a lot. I've only been doing it for about a year and a half, and when I first started I didn't do it this much. Would you guys consider masturbating every day an addiction?

[pontiacdriver]

Okay...I'm a new member and I have a question....I'm 13 and I masturbate usually once a day every day. I have gone without masturbating for a week before and didn't really know what to expect. Needless to say, I kinda had some cleaning up to do when I was done...anyway, I know a lot of guys (Especially when they just start) masturbate a lot. I've only been doing it for about a year and a half, and when I first started I didn't do it this much. Would you guys consider masturbating every day an addiction?

Masturbating everyday is definitely not an addiction especially at 13 when your hormones are in overdrive. A masturbation addiction is when masturbating interferes with your day-to-day life; when you are not doing things that you should in place of masturbating; when you stop doing other fun things in place of masturbating. As long as masturbating doesn't take over your life, then you are all right.

[BirdsandtheBees]

Masturbating everyday is definitely not an addiction especially at 13 when your hormones are in overdrive. A masturbation addiction is when masturbating interferes with your day-to-day life; when you are not doing things that you should in place of masturbating; when you stop doing other fun things in place of masturbating. As long as masturbating doesn't take over your life, then you are all right.

Yeah, I didn't really think I had one, but sometimes it's like I'm thinking: Go home, start homework, eat a snack, jack off. :lol: and it just seems like I'm a little overzealous...

[pontiacdriver]

Yeah, I didn't really think I had one, but sometimes it's like I'm thinking: Go home, start homework, eat a snack, jack off. :lol: and it just seems like I'm a little overzealous...

To be honest, many of us were exactly like you when we were 13, too. The reality is that masturbation is a totally new feeling for you (assuming that you have started up within the last year or so), and of course with all the hormones within you masturbating is going to be something you are going to want to do. As long as masturbating is not something that impedes your normal routines, then you are good. Based upon what you describe above you seem fine to me, for what that is worth.

[BirdsandtheBees]

Okay, thanks. Just looking to get some answers that's all.

[BirdsandtheBees]

Okay since Im new I dont want to try and get a new thread i post locked, so I'll post this question here:

Lube or no lube?

[The Joker]

Lube is OK, but I don't like the loudness of it. Only use it if your not paranoid and don't mind the noise.

[MisterAndrews]

Yea i found that aswell.... it sounds a bit like soap squelching through your hands. I prefer no lube.... i think its unnessicary.

[Huskyboy132]

What age did you guys start to ejaculate?

[andrewgonzalez]

What age did you guys start to ejaculate?

my first ejaculation was at age 11. so was my brothers. however i know guys who didn't ejaculate until they were 13. nothings wrong with them, we just all develop at different ages

[Jonathan M.]

I just recently started masterdating...and i relly liked it but then i got something like a carpet burn on the top of my penis it hurt quite bad the first 2 days then stopped,also sometimes i am really liking the feeling of masterbting but theni just lose it and its also hard to masterdate because i feel my penis is small and i cant just do the normal teqnique wat does all this mean?Oh and all the time i think about sex is this normal for my age?

[doyama]

Is it true that masterbation is harmless?But I really felt fatique,eyesight blured,discouraged after masterbation

[jack straw]

my first ejaculation was at age 11. so was my brothers. however i know guys who didn't ejaculate until they were 13. nothings wrong with them, we just all develop at different ages

I'm 15 and have just started, and I know somebody who didn't ejaculate until they were 17. It's all normal

[Oblivion]

Is it true that masterbation is harmless?But I really felt fatique,eyesight blured,discouraged after masterbation

It is completely and absolutely harmless. Some say it's even good for you, and it helps prevent prostate cancer.
Fatigue is normal, because masturbation is actually rather energy consuming. Also, there is a natural reaction to help you fall asleep after sex (which is faked with masturbation).
Going blind is a complete myth to keep people from masturbating, especially used in the olden day when it wasn't acceptable to masturbate.
Discouragement/guiltiness is also normal, because (especially when you first start) many people feel as if they shouldn't be doing it, and that it's a bad thing to do.
It's completely normal however, and most guys do it on a regular basis, even adults.

[pontiacdriver]

I have another question, every time I cum, all about masturbating or anything related to it becomes so disgusting to me.

Anyone has some similar problem?

I had that same problem when I first started masturbating and ejaculating. My thinking at the time was anything associated with sex was dirty and not proper. However, once I learned that masturbating and ejaculating were perfectly normal and a sign of physical maturity through which all men must go through, then I no longer had that problem. I think I had originally viewed anything related to sex as "adult," and I had first viewed sex when I was 11/12 as something related to adult stores. All that changed when I realized that folks around that age do become sexual and that sexual feelings are a part of growing up. Basically, once I developed a positive sexuality things related to sex such masturbation no longer became disgusting.

is olive oil realy a lube????

Olive oil can be used as a lube as well as a skin moisterizer. I think olive oil is a pretty good lube albeit a very messy one. You are better off buying actual sexual lube or using creams or lotions which are not as messy or as expensive.

I have masturbate alone, but with friends too. I'm straight, but I like to masturbate with boys. Why does it happen?

As mentioned earlier the reality is that you might be curious about how other guys are developing and whether you are normal in relation to them. Also, the thrill of doing something sexual with anyone else, even if it is with someone of the same sex, is probably exciting, too. Basically, why this happens is that you probably find doing sexual acts with someone else is more satisfying rather than being alone.

Just be careful when you are doing sexual stuff with anyone else, be it with the same sex or opposite sex, and make sure that you are adequetely protected and that things don't go too far if you are not ready. You might want to visit the following thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=40990

Hey i was just wondering... does masturbating shorten your orgasm period?? Because i masturbate a lot.....

Masturbating in of itself does not shorten one's orgasm period. However, if you masturbate multiple times per day in quick succession, then obviously your orgasms will get progressively shorter after each session. The reality is that your penis, like any part of your body, will get tired out after intense excercise, and like how your legs would get tired after a long run your penis will get exhausted after masturbating a lot.

I have a really complicated question...

Ok heres the situation, i am straight and so is my friend. I have thought about watching porn on my computer with him ad masturbating with him. First is this gay. Second, is this the best way to get him to do it or is there a better way?:confused:

curiousteenager

It is not necessarily gay to masturbate with another guy, but if masturbating with your friend goes beyond that to the point where you both are performing sex acts on each other such as oral or anal sex, or you both start to develop a sexual attraction to each other, then there is a chance you both are developing a homosexual relationship. Being gay is so much more than physical acts as being gay involves an emotional relationship, too. If you find that you want to be more than jacking buddies with your friend, then chances are you might harbour same sex tendancies.

As for how to get your friend to jack off with you that is forbidden to discuss around here.

Okay since Im new I dont want to try and get a new thread i post locked, so I'll post this question here:

Lube or no lube?

This is basically a personal choice, and there is no right or wrong answer. If you are a guy who is cut and finds that you are getting a lot of friction during masturbating, then lube really should be used. If you are a cut guy who can masturbate without friction or if you are an uncut cut, then lube may not be necessary. Again, everything depends upon how much friction a guy gets when masturbating and if the guy gets rough skin from masturbating.

I just recently started masterdating...and i relly liked it but then i got something like a carpet burn on the top of my penis it hurt quite bad the first 2 days then stopped,also sometimes i am really liking the feeling of masterbting but theni just lose it and its also hard to masterdate because i feel my penis is small and i cant just do the normal teqnique wat does all this mean?Oh and all the time i think about sex is this normal for my age?

Regarding your "carpet burn" issue my guess is that you are either going too rough when you masturbate or just need to use some sort of lube like cream or lotion when you jack off. I had the same problem when I first started masturbating, but adjusting my technique along with using lube prevented the skin problem. Visit www.jackinworld.com for an exhaustive list of techniques and methods to ensure your method of masturbating is not the root of your problem.

As for loosing interest in masturbating it entirely depends on how aroused one is. Especially when a lot of us first started out masturbating we had points when we would masturbate a lot or not at all. Everything depends upon how much hormones you have within you and if there is anything to arouse you. If your hormone level is low and there is nothing around to turn you on, then masturbating is not going to be enjoyable or something you will want to do.

Penis size, especially for someone who is new to puberty like you, should be a non-issue. No person who is new to puberty is going to have a full size penis. Even if your penis is "small" keep in mind that it is a temporary thing and that there is plenty you can do with a penis of any size. Your penis does not need to be as long as a Buick to make masturbating fun. Visit www.jackinworld.com for good techniques and methods on masturbating if you have not done so.

Thinking about sex all the time is totally normal especially during puberty. With sexual thoughts being something totally new to you the reality is that you are still learning how to handle them. It is fine to have sexual thoughts as that is part of being a human. Just don't let your sexual thoughts overtake you, and don't let sexual thoughts make decisions for you that may not be rational or proper. Basically, it is normal to have sexual thoughts, and develop positive sexuality in that don't let sexuality control your life but have it so that you can appreciate the beauty of the human body.

Is it true that masterbation is harmless?But I really felt fatique,eyesight blured,discouraged after masterbation

The post above answered your question very well, and I will agree that masturbation is harmless. Fatigue is normal, as mentioned above, as masturbation is an intense activity and drains a lot of energy. Blurry eyesight can happen especially if your masturbating session is really big as you are probably so focused on the image or fantasy you are having. As for feeling discouraged after masturbating, if you are referring to guilt, a lot of us had that when we first started out masturbating. I think that masturbating is viewed as an adult activity, and when we are 11/12 with one foot in childhood and one foot in adolescence we kind of feel weird to have adult capabilities with a child's mind. However, sexuality is normal as long as it is used properly.

[MisterAndrews]

I first ejaculated when i was 12 i think. And i think the feeling of disgust is normal. I wouldnt describe it as disgust, but i often think 'why the hell did i do that?'. I know most of my friends get that feeling as well.

[Jonathan M.]

Yes i also felt gilt until i saw some examples at puberty101.com claiming that its human nature to masterbate and i now feel A LOT beter about it.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Ahh yea, there is not a single human being on earth who has not tried it at some point in some form. Most do it consistently

[BirdsandtheBees]

I started masturbating when I was twelve and that's when I first ejaculated. I had tried before around 11 or so but couldn't...

[LUCKY555]

i was wondering what it felt like to jack off in a pool/hot tub?

[BirdsandtheBees]

i was wondering what it felt like to jack off in a pool/hot tub?

i have in a hot tub and it is amazing!!! You either push your penis/balls against a jet and let it blow your stuff around (Very good, you could even CAREFULLY push it in) or just sit against the bubbles and have it blow on your back while jacking off regularly.

[Jonathan M.]

i thought i posted this but i guess i 4got to press post....watever i asked can Vicks®vapor rub be used as a lube?or would it cause irritation?

[nick]

i thought i posted this but i guess i 4got to press post....watever i asked can Vicks®vapor rub be used as a lube?or would it cause irritation?
Well I haven't tried it but I wouldnt go there, I recon that stuff would sting like hell.

[pontiacdriver]

i thought i posted this but i guess i 4got to press post....watever i asked can Vicks®vapor rub be used as a lube?or would it cause irritation?

I would say a big NO to using Vicks Vapor rub as lube. Never, never, never use anything that is medicated as a lube as those things can no only hurt but also cause irritation. Also, with the product having medicinal qualities there is a real chance you can overdose using it. Basically, never use anything that is medicated as lube, and stick to body creams, body oils, or actual sexual lubricant for lube.

[Jonathan M.]

thnx i figured it would but its all my parents keep in the house and i'd rather not ask them for lube so oh well just have to go no lube.....oh well maybe i'll find som lotion-shrugs-

[pontiacdriver]

thnx i figured it would but its all my parents keep in the house and i'd rather not ask them for lube so oh well just have to go no lube.....oh well maybe i'll find som lotion-shrugs-

Don't you have any cream/body lotion in your house? That is the most common lube out there, and nearly everyone has cream in there house. Especially if you are cut, then having some sort of lube, be it cream, baby oil, etc. is advisable so that you don't pull too tightly on your skin.

[Jonathan M.]

might?my family usually doesnt use lotion plus the thought of my penis feelin all lotiony is just kinda wierd

tonight's gonna be a lllooonnggg night its gonna be the first day that i havent masterbated since i started(i just started maybe last week)pplus it needs to be i havent been edjeculating(not sure how to spell that) very welly.

about 3hours l8er
nevermind lol i gave in i just made sure i didnt egeculate(same as last time)lol

[HelloWorld123456]

hi i am 15 yrs old .. i kind of masturabate 3-4 times a day (minimum) .. and seem of not getting enough .. when i have nothing to do i just go for it .. again ... sometimes i even reach 9 jack offs a day .. or even 10 .. i mean i ejaculate everytime a do it even the 10th time .. but i feel i need to do it again .. i know this is addiction ... is there a way to stop ? I really want to reduce the nunber of masturbations a day ..

[Jonathan M.]

i do bout 3-4min but i've never went to 10 maybe if u just did longer sessions or found something to do i cant believe u egeculate everytime!me doin wat i do im barely so find stuff to do and maybe longer sessions could work

[CoolCool09]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?


Masturbating without foreskin I think is harder because there isnt any shaft to move up and down. First of all you need lube like moisturizer or lubriderm and u need to deal with that. Then u just masturbate regularly.

thnx i figured it would but its all my parents keep in the house and i'd rather not ask them for lube so oh well just have to go no lube.....oh well maybe i'll find som lotion-shrugs-

Ask your parents for hand moisturizer because your skin is peeling, it works for me

[Jonathan M.]

I may have to,im not cut though i just wonder wat its like with lube
i already hav som kinda carpet burn and cut thing on it ill prob fine som lotion som wer oh well

[Jonathan M.]

does any1 no if u can use eucerin calming creme as lube?

[vito22andolini]

i was wondering what it felt like to jack off in a pool/hot tub?

Try it , you'll know what its like :cool:

[Jonathan M.]

nvm i found som lotion

[BirdsandtheBees]

Yeah, the best lube is really lube (KY, etc) or spit if you don't mind that. Hand cream can be okay, but be careful. good stuff is cocoa butter. It's a thick cream and is very smooth, but if you use it a lot your dick could get dry.

[Jonathan M.]

Really?U'd think it get to moisrerized.

[jack straw]

I would say a big NO to using Vicks Vapor rub as lube. Never, never, never use anything that is medicated as a lube as those things can no only hurt but also cause irritation. Also, with the product having medicinal qualities there is a real chance you can overdose using it. Basically, never use anything that is medicated as lube, and stick to body creams, body oils, or actual sexual lubricant for lube.

Thank You once again pontiac!

I know an idot who tried to masterbate with Bengay®... OUCH!!! he said it was the most frightningly painful yet strangly pleasing sensation he had ever felt. then he did it again

[jack straw]

I would say a big NO to using Vicks Vapor rub as lube. Never, never, never use anything that is medicated as a lube as those things can no only hurt but also cause irritation. Also, with the product having medicinal qualities there is a real chance you can overdose using it. Basically, never use anything that is medicated as lube, and stick to body creams, body oils, or actual sexual lubricant for lube.

Thank You once again pontiac!

I know an idot who tried to masterbate with Bengay®... OUCH!!! he said it was the most frightningly painful yet strangly pleasing sensation he had ever felt. then he did it again lol

[pontiacdriver]

hi i am 15 yrs old .. i kind of masturabate 3-4 times a day (minimum) .. and seem of not getting enough .. when i have nothing to do i just go for it .. again ... sometimes i even reach 9 jack offs a day .. or even 10 .. i mean i ejaculate everytime a do it even the 10th time .. but i feel i need to do it again .. i know this is addiction ... is there a way to stop ? I really want to reduce the nunber of masturbations a day ..

To outright stop masturbating is a hard thing to do, but I believe you are being very realistic in seeking to reduce the number of times you masturbate a day. I think that masturbating up to ten times per day is excessive, and you definitely need to reduce jacking off to something to more reasonable like around twice per day at most. My thinking is that if you masturbate before you go to school, after you come home from school, and before you go to bed, then you will be in much better shape than you are now. My suggestions for reducing the number of times you masturbate are the following:

1) Pick a day in advance such as an important day such as the beginning of the week to make your change. That way you can mentally prepare yourself for the limitation that you will place upon yourself.

2) Prevent yourself from being in a private situation at all costs. For example, you can keep your bedroom door open when you sleep, do your homework in a public place of your house like the kitchen or a public place like a library, and try to stay out of places where you masturbate. When you take a shower (if you masturbate in the shower), then keep your shower as short as possible keeping the water at a temperature of the water as hot or cold as you can tolerate it so that the water is not arousing.

3) You need to keep your body busy by engaging in productive activites such as riding a bicycle, exercising, or some sporting activity. The advantage of intense physical activity is the afterglow of such activities can mimick the feel of an orgasm, and you are getting the benefit of keeping yourself in shape.

4) Take up a hobby and focus on it rather than the time you would have spent masturbating.

5) Don't look or touch your penis except to urinate or bath, and make it an absolute rule that you won't play with your penis except for the predetermined times which you have set forth. When the urge to play with your member becomes overwhelming, then focus on points #3 and #4 to fight the urge to masturbate. While this may sound silly, you might want to consider wearing a jock strap over your underwear at night to act as a type of chastity to make things hard to reach. (Don't wear a jock strap to sleep over your penis as that will cause excess sweating and jock itch).

6) Don't think about how long you have gone without masturbating but rather how that your situation is bearable until the next time you have set for yourself to masturbate.

7) If you fail, then don't feel guilty, but at the same time you need to use that failure as further motivation to work harder to resist the urge to masturbate beyond the times you find acceptable.


does any1 no if u can use eucerin calming creme as lube?

As long as the product is not medicated like a Vick's Vapor Rub and is a regular skin cream, then it is fair game to use as a lube.

[frankie44]

the best masturbation session I had was with a condom on.but before I put it on I masturbated until I almost cummed but with just lube. try it

[Jonathan M.]

cool if i can ever get my hands on 1 :( i had a chance today but it seems to ackward

[The Joker]

I thought I ejaculated for a while, but it became much whiter and thicker in February, at 13.

[andrewgonzalez]

sign of sexual maturity! the only thing is, you can get a girl pregnant now. thats bad at the wrong age, but wonderful at the right one

[The Joker]

Me and my mom talked about this. I will at least wait until I'm in a relationship, and when I'm in high school. Don't want to do it with a random chick in elementary!

[pontiacdriver]

Me and my mom talked about this. I will at least wait until I'm in a relationship, and when I'm in high school. Don't want to do it with a random chick in elementary!

It is good that you have an open relationship with your parents, and you should definitely keep it that way and always go to them if you have question about sex. After all, they are usually your best resource for sex related questions as they obviously have had sex before and been down the same road as you. Remember that when you eventually become sexually active to always use protection as well as ensuring your partner does the same.

As mentioned above, the darkening/increased white colour of your semen is just a sign that you are producing sperm and not just seminal fluid.

[Jonathan M.]

It is good that you have an open relationship with your parents, and you should definitely keep it that way and always go to them if you have question about sex. After all, they are usually your best resource for sex related questions as they obviously have had sex before and been down the same road as you. Remember that when you eventually become sexually active to always use protection as well as ensuring your partner does the same.

As mentioned above, the darkening/increased white colour of your semen is just a sign that you are producing sperm and not just seminal fluid.

Yes keep that relationship!I don't have 1 and my parents dont even know i've hit puberty! :(

[jack straw]

As mentioned above, the darkening/increased white colour of your semen is just a sign that you are producing sperm and not just seminal fluid.

If it gets thinner, is it still seminal fluid with no sperm? the first time, it was thick but every day since then it has gotten thinner (not much color difference, though).

[pontiacdriver]

If it gets thinner, is it still seminal fluid with no sperm? the first time, it was thick but every day since then it has gotten thinner (not much color difference, though).

Now that you mention it you raise a good point. My first time was really thick, but subsequent times were thinner. From my experience when one does not masturbate in a while or if one is really, really aroused, then one's semen can get pretty thick. My guess is that if thick semen is truly important to you, then masturbate as few times as you can so that you can get a maximum amount of arousal from your masturbation session.

Personally, as long as the orgasm is good, then it really should not matter how much semen one is ejaculating or whether it is white or clear. Unless one is hoping to conceive a child at this point one's semen consistency really should not matter.

[jack straw]

Now that you mention it you raise a good point. My first time was really thick, but subsequent times were thinner. From my experience when one does not masturbate in a while or if one is really, really aroused, then one's semen can get pretty thick. My guess is that if thick semen is truly important to you, then masturbate as few times as you can so that you can get a maximum amount of arousal from your masturbation session.

Personally, as long as the orgasm is good, then it really should not matter how much semen one is ejaculating or whether it is white or clear. Unless one is hoping to conceive a child at this point one's semen consistency really should not matter.

Thanks,
:DOh no. that would be the last thing I need, is for when I finally lose my virginity:yeah: to somehow screw up and get her pregnant.:eek: I'm just hopeing when the time comes for me to have a kid that I actually CAN have a kid. before when I asked about not being able to ejaculate*, I was worried I might not be able to have kids.

*When I posted the question on weather or not being almost 16 and not being able to ejaculate was a problem, that night it finally happened... :)

[pontiacdriver]

Thanks,
:DOh no. that would be the last thing I need, is for when I finally lose my virginity:yeah: to somehow screw up and get her pregnant.:eek: I'm just hopeing when the time comes for me to have a kid that I actually CAN have a kid. before when I asked about not being able to ejaculate*, I was worried I might not be able to have kids.

*When I posted the question on weather or not being almost 16 and not being able to ejaculate was a problem, that night it finally happened... :)

You definitely sound like a late bloomer, and you guys are known to be kind of slow when it comes to producing thick semen. Especially if you have only been producing semen for a short while, then the reality is that you will catch up really fast within a year. I seriously doubt you will have trouble having kids especially if you are ejaculating. The reality is ejaculating is pretty hit or miss the first year one does it until things get pretty consistent once the body can meet the demands.

That is funny how you were concerned about not ejaculating, posted a thread about it, and to ejaculate that night! I hope your first ejaculation went by all right, but to me I would rather be older like you and ejaculate because you are at an age where you understand what is going on rather than being 11/12 and an ejaculation happen when one is still like a little kid.

[Jonathan M.]

OK so i just started masterbating maybe...2weeks ago.i ejuculated the 2nd night and it wasnt very much and i heard if u wait a couple o days i'll hav more so i did 4 bout 3 days and now im not at all!soooo is this okay?

[The Joker]

Usually it's something for people who are used to doing it a lot. If you just started then it's OK.

[pontiacdriver]

OK so i just started masterbating maybe...2weeks ago.i ejuculated the 2nd night and it wasnt very much and i heard if u wait a couple o days i'll hav more so i did 4 bout 3 days and now im not at all!soooo is this okay?

You are fine as ejaculating is really hit or miss for a most guys during the first 7-8 months of developing the ability to ejaculate. The reality is that you are going to have dry orgasms alongside wet ones for a while, and even when you have wet ones you will probably just ejaculate clear fluid and not white semen for a while. Within a couple of months you will be producing semen like an adult, and you just need to give yourself time.

[MattiaFrasca]

exactly. when i first started, the first month no semen came out at all. i wasn't worryed, because i didn't even know what was supposed to happen! (i was like 10/11) i just knew that it felt good. after a while, i had my first ejaculation. i was surprised and looked it up! haha. so basicly, dont worry about dry orgasmss..

[Jonathan M.]

Thnx guyz makin sure nuttin was wrong :)

[master of puppets]

i always masturbate to orgasm, but i never cum.?

[jack straw]

i always masturbate to orgasm, but i never cum.?

You might not have entered puberty yet, or your testis haven't devoloped fully enough to cum. Dont worry, I was 15 when I first cummed, and a friend of mine was 19 his first time. You probably just haven't reached that stage of puberty yet :-)

[pontiacdriver]

i always masturbate to orgasm, but i never cum.?

I agree with the post above, and the reality is that many guys don't ejaculate when they masturbate usually because they have not matured enough physically to produce semen. Keep in mind some guys as late as 17 don't develop the ability to ejaculate, and as long as you have other signs of puberty, then you will be able to cum sooner rather than later. Enjoy dry orgasms while they last as they are easier than wet ones as you don't have to worry about clean up.

[master of puppets]

thx guys





you rock!

[FalconSmash]

Hello all.

Okay, here goes.

I am 15, and I'll be 16 here in a few months. Whenever I ejaculate it's always really thick. I don't mind it, it's easier to clean up personally, but my last girlfriend kind of finds it a turnoff.

Any way I can make it more fluidy?

[pontiacdriver]

Hello all.

Okay, here goes.

I am 15, and I'll be 16 here in a few months. Whenever I ejaculate it's always really thick. I don't mind it, it's easier to clean up personally, but my last girlfriend kind of finds it a turnoff.

Any way I can make it more fluidy?

I don't think there is a whole lot you can do about making it less thick other than perhaps intaking more fluids. Even then, you just might be a guy who naturally produces thick semen. The reality is that no one out there is perfect, and we all have something that might be somewhat of a turn off to our partner. You cannot really control the thickness of your semen, and not meaning to sound rude, but your girlfriend is just going to have to get used to it. Biological functions are just things that cannot be changed, and I think your girlfriend is being unreasonable if she is getting turned off by your thick semen. Much like I am sure you are very flexible about things your girlfriend does I would hope she would do the same with you. Clearly, if she cannot be understanding about the semen issue, then you both might have larger problems.

[FalconSmash]

Well, thank you for answering my question. I figured there wasn't much I could do, but I guess I could try taking in more fluids. And yes, she's just going to have to get past it :)

Rep +1

[jack straw]

Hello all.

Okay, here goes.

I am 15, and I'll be 16 here in a few months. Whenever I ejaculate it's always really thick. I don't mind it, it's easier to clean up personally, but my last girlfriend kind of finds it a turnoff.

Any way I can make it more fluidy?


Nothing to worry about falcon, and you're right, Thick is easier to clean up! so be happy about that, and WOW... your girlfriend was complaining about how thick your cum was??? Pontiacdriver is right, she's just gonna have to get used to it, and I think your girlfriend is being unreasonable if she is getting turned off by your thick semen. Much like I am sure you are very flexible about things your girlfriend does I would hope she would do the same with you. Clearly, if she cannot be understanding about the semen issue, then you both might have larger problems.

[Jonathan M.]

I have masturbated with a lube condom and it's actually pretty fun :P The lube is GREAT, much better than vaseline

As far as masturbating and you're circumcised, circumcised guys couldn't really tell you, since that's all they know. I've read articles and stories about after getting circumcised, the guys were unhappy with it. See, your foreskin glides on your head (which is the most sensitive part of the penis), and makes the feeling so much more intense. Without foreskin, you won't have much stimulation on the head.

Uncut guys, try this: masturbate to orgasm with your foreskin back - this is as close to being cut as you can get.

OK so this is a really old post but i dont understand wat u mean to pull 'back' could u like explain?

[gerry]

hi im new here and i just want to ask a question after i have masturbated aafter a couple of times around the third time my forskin becomse sore and i fell it strech

i can pull my forskin all the way back when im flasid but when im erect i can only pull it back half way and my forskin hurts alot im a little tight

maybe i just have a big erection and i cant ppull the forskin back over my big glans

im 2.5 inch flacid and 6.5 inch hard and 4 inch round

[HelloWorld123456]

hi im new here and i just want to ask a question after i have masturbated aafter a couple of times around the third time my forskin becomse sore and i fell it strech

i can pull my forskin all the way back when im flasid but when im erect i can only pull it back half way and my forskin hurts alot im a little tight

maybe i just have a big erection and i cant ppull the forskin back over my big glans

im 2.5 inch flacid and 6.5 inch hard and 4 inch round

maybe some lube can help you reduce the stress on your forskin from getting red and sore .. if you cant procure any lube, try your spit .. it is a lube N E way

[The Joker]

I have a question. I once heard that anal fingering is very dangerous and you should never try it. I believed it, but reading some things on here have made me question it. If you have good lube, you can do it without hurting yourself, right? I'm sure that if you do it a certain way it could hurt, because that area is quite sensitive.

[Konnor]

i have masturbated with my two other friends a few times. we took turns having oral sex and even tried anal. it really turned me on and i hope to do it again. is that weird?

[The Joker]

Nope, it's not weird. If you are older, it might mean you are bi-sexual or gay, but if your in your mid-teens you might just be experimenting. Either way, it is not weird.

[IanMilo]

umm just out of curiosity does any1 eat their cum?

[Jonathan M.]

Its not weird at all I wish I had friends like that your lucky! :(

[Jonathan M.]

umm just out of curiosity does any1 eat their cum?
i dont cum yet :( but i probably wont lol

[IanMilo]

does anyone know how to ask your friend to mastrubate with you

[Tenke-kun]

umm just out of curiosity does any1 eat their cum?

I does. i actually like the tase. when ever i j/o and some gets on my hand i lick it off

[mat7x]

Hi I'm new here, anyway
since were all talking about cum

sometimes when i cum
it shoots like super far (2 feet approx)
and sometimes it just kinda dribbles off
anyone know what determines this?

[MykeSoBe]

I have a really complicated question...

Ok heres the situation, i am straight and so is my friend. I have thought about watching porn on my computer with him ad masturbating with him. First is this gay. Second, is this the best way to get him to do it or is there a better way?:confused:

curiousteenager

Most boys don't tell a friend directly that they want to masturbate with them. Usually they compare sizes or "play" truth-or-dare. I would believe that most friends would know what the objective of the activity is, and it would probably be over quickly and easily. Besides, nowadays, truth-or-dare is almost synonymous with asking someone to masturbate; what I mean is that instead, friends will say do you want to play truth-or-dare instead of directly stating they want to masturbate. But I have never masturbated with anyone else and I don't plan on it, but I would really enjoy it likely. :D

[Jonathan M.]

Most boys don't tell a friend directly that they want to masturbate with them. Usually they compare sizes or "play" truth-or-dare. I would believe that most friends would know what the objective of the activity is, and it would probably be over quickly and easily. Besides, nowadays, truth-or-dare is almost synonymous with asking someone to masturbate; what I mean is that instead, friends will say do you want to play truth-or-dare instead of directly stating they want to masturbate. But I have never masturbated with anyone else and I don't plan on it, but I would really enjoy it likely. :D

same here but my friend thinks almost everything about a penis is gay (i think he's insecure bout his size or somthin <shrugs>) oh well i dont really plan on masterbating with other ppl anyways well exept my gf wen im older ;)

[thedisman]

i would love to do it wif a m8

[turtle]

when i get a boner it kinda curves up. is there any way to make it straight?

[pontiacdriver]

when i get a boner it kinda curves up. is there any way to make it straight?

In short, the basic answer is no as curves are something that are natural and cannot be straightened without major surgery. Keep in mind that folks with curves just have an imbalance in the spongy tissue in their penis (whose medical term I have forgetten), and when the penis fills up with blood the shaft goes more towards one direction than the other due to the lack of balance.

On a side note, if you are a boy, then you should update your profile as it lists you as being a girl.

[crjt]

Where could you even get a condom to masturbate?

[Jonathan M.]

i cant help u ther wen i worked up the courage to buy 1 at a gas station he said no which is illeagel! :(

[pontiacdriver]

Where could you even get a condom to masturbate?

Assuming that you are from these United States the best place you can get a condom is from a major discounter like a Target or a K-Mart. The condoms are usually found in the health/beauty area by the feminine hygiene things. Generally speaking, you can find the condoms and lube in the same aisle as tampons and pads or very nearby. You can always use the self checkout lanes to buy condoms, or just buy a bunch of stuff alongside the condoms.

You can also buy condoms online directly from the condom manufacturers such as Trojan and Durex, and many drugstores have online ordering capabilities such as Walgreens where you can buy condoms online. However, before buying anything online just make sure that you are allowed to buy things online in general from your parents.

Just as a word of caution, if you buy a condom, then make sure you have a plan on how to dispose of it. Also, be prepared with an explanation if your parents find your condom. Never flush a condom down the toilet as it will clog up your plumbing.

Finally, if you know for a fact that your parents would have a serious problem with your having condoms, then don't buy them in the first place to avoid problems.



i cant help u ther wen i worked up the courage to buy 1 at a gas station he said no which is illeagel! :(

If you are from Texas, then my understanding is that your part of the country is pretty conservative. My guess is that the gas station attendant probably was making the decision for you as to whether or not you should have sex. I would not be scared off on condoms just because you were turned down, and in the future you can always buy them from the places listed above. It is always better to be protected and safe than to not have a condom.

[hmmm]

has anyone masturbated in front of a girl

[MattiaFrasca]

i masterbated with a cousin once. just felt like saying that. and we masterbated each other.. it was experimentation but i really didn't feel anything so i'm just not gay.

[Hobocamp]

I just turned 14 and I am about 5" 2'. I am like 3.5 inches long. I don't have any hair on my body except for on my toes. My voice hasn't changed. Anyway, when I masturbate I can reach an orgasm But I can't ejaculate. Is that becuase I am not physically mature?

[nick]

I just turned 14 and I am about 5" 2'. I am like 3.5 inches long. I don't have any hair on my body except for on my toes. My voice hasn't changed. Anyway, when I masturbate I can reach an orgasm But I can't ejaculate. Is that becuase I am not physically mature?
Yes, its as simple as that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, nothing to worry about, you'll just have to be patient and wait for puberty to progress a bit.

[Hobocamp]

Thanks, that's reassuring

[pontiacdriver]

I just turned 14 and I am about 5" 2'. I am like 3.5 inches long. I don't have any hair on my body except for on my toes. My voice hasn't changed. Anyway, when I masturbate I can reach an orgasm But I can't ejaculate. Is that becuase I am not physically mature?

I totally agree with the post above, and your issue is a simple case of being a late bloomer. To be honest, I would have much rather been like you and started puberty later than start it early. What I mean is that folks who start puberty at 11/12 many times are still children suddenly getting adult abilities and bodies which can be really scary at the time. At least in your case you are old enough to know what to expect and know what to do when the changes happen.

As for hair, trust me, body hair is a pain, and be thankful that you don't have a lot. You don't need to have a lot of hair to be masculine, and the hairless look really seems to be in fashion nowadays as you simply have to go to the threads below with guys who post questions about how to remove body hair.

Finally, your size is not bad for your age, and assuming you are in eighth grade or a freshman in high school you are fundamentally not all that much smaller than your counterparts. The fact that you are getting some hair on your feet makes me think your changes are probably going to happen over the summer and into freshmen/sophomore year, and you will definitely be much bigger within a year from now.

[Hobocamp]

Thanks Pontiac, that helps.

[vito22andolini]

you will cum , just wait .

[Jonathan M.]

i dont cum either im younger but from wat people say thts good they say it means less clean up!lol

[iJoel]

i dont cum either im younger but from wat people say thts good they say it means less clean up!lol

Wow really? It's hard for me to imagine someone that cannot cum yet. No mean to offend of course. Hope you post about it as soon as it happens, it's great to know your starting to really become a man haha.

[matthew330]

ok so i got a few things. im just turned 13 and have very little pubic hair i cant cum but it still feels good to masturbate when i use vaseline i get little red dots on the head of my dick i am circumsized. they dont hurt and are very small and only accour when i use certain type of lotion like vaseline wht is this and is it normal i cant cum yet so is that normal to. i am only 4 foot eleven and 88 lbs to so... ya

[Jonathan M.]

Wow really? It's hard for me to imagine someone that cannot cum yet. No mean to offend of course. Hope you post about it as soon as it happens, it's great to know your starting to really become a man haha.

actually i might of last night i use a lotion and i do it at night so i wasn't very sure but the lotion or wat might of been cum was thick and a little whiter.....i think it was kinda like sticky lol and thicker like i said so is this probably cum or did te lotion get like....thicker on its on som how?

[nick]

actually i might of last night i use a lotion and i do it at night so i wasn't very sure but the lotion or wat might of been cum was thick and a little whiter.....i think it was kinda like sticky lol and thicker like i said so is this probably cum or did te lotion get like....thicker on its on som how?
That's quite hard to answer. The lotion could thicken up as a result of the rubbing action. You would probably feel the sensation of the cum rising from inside of you if you had an ejaculation.

[HardcoreIcon]

I masturbated for the first time yesterday and it felt all right i tried it again today something came out but it dident feel good or look like cum what happened?

i masterbated once and it felt all right that was yesterday when i tried toda it dident feel good and cum dident come out something else did can you explain what happened please?

[nick]

Hey, welcome to vt, hope you find it useful and helpful. One of the first rules is not to post the same question twice though.

I've already answered your question here http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=43804 and would suggest thats the best place for other guys to answer too.

[IanMilo]

ALSO HOW OLD WERE YOU FOR UR FIRST CUM? I WAS 12

Please do not as how to masturbate with friends.
~Oblivion

[The Joker]

I was about 12. Wow, my mom has been really strict about getting up during the night (I live with her on the weekends) and this will be my first chance in 3 days to jack.