** Post ALL Masturbation Questions HERE **

[Scoobysnkk]

N?!?

[dogman]

you cant force yourself, all you can do is masturbate till the point of orgasm, and when you body is ready, you will produce cum and you will have cummed

[micfail]

how is masturbating with a friend? is it weird? I have never tried...:D

I would advise against this, due to the fact that after I masturbated with a few of my friends, the friendship changed so much that we simply parted ways.

[CollegeHockey]

I dont know if this question belongs here but, I am 13 and turning 14 in a couple of days. My penis I know has not grown fully and I have alot of hair on around my penis, on my thighs, and on my legs, and I was wondering if you Masturbate before a Penis matures will that affect the growth of the penis or any hair on the body? Because I masturbate probably every other day and I cum when I do it.

[The Batman]

Don't worry it won't affect it in any kind of way.

[Gavin]

I dont know if this question belongs here but, I am 13 and turning 14 in a couple of days. My penis I know has not grown fully and I have alot of hair on around my penis, on my thighs, and on my legs, and I was wondering if you Masturbate before a Penis matures will that affect the growth of the penis or any hair on the body? Because I masturbate probably every other day and I cum when I do it.

No, it wont affect it, just carry on masturbating every other day

[CollegeHockey]

No, it wont affect it, just carry on masturbating every other day

Ok, Cool! Thank you guys! :D

[Ole D]

At what age do you normaly start to get a feeling whilst masturbaiting cuz my friends say they do, i have just turned 13 and so have my friends, is there something wrong with me or are my friends just liars? please reply, thanks

[CollegeHockey]

It matters on certain things, but I started around 13 where you are.

[cuckoo_clock]

Hi,

You will find that most people of your age lie about it.

[Sugaree]

I dont know if this question belongs here but, I am 13 and turning 14 in a couple of days. My penis I know has not grown fully and I have alot of hair on around my penis, on my thighs, and on my legs, and I was wondering if you Masturbate before a Penis matures will that affect the growth of the penis or any hair on the body? Because I masturbate probably every other day and I cum when I do it.

No it won't affect your penis size. It will still grow like all others.


At what age do you normaly start to get a feeling whilst masturbaiting cuz my friends say they do, i have just turned 13 and so have my friends, is there something wrong with me or are my friends just liars? please reply, thanks

Well most people start before puberty, some start when they enter puberty, and others don't masturbate at all. So this is normal. Your friends are probably lying.

[CollegeHockey]

Hi,

You will find that most people of your age lie about it.

Were you saying that I am lying?

[Sugaree]

We're not saying that you are lying. We're saying that your friends may be lying just to impress you.

[CollegeHockey]

Oh, Sorry. Im just having a bad week.

[Ole D]

k thanks man

thanks

[Mannequin]

I masturbated today. :)
just wanted you guys to know. :)

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[Gumleaf]

I masturbated today. :)
just wanted you guys to know. :)

</not spam>

how nice for you. please keep your posts constructive otherwise it will be considered as spam.

[marktheman]

how is masturbating with a friend? is it weird? I have never tried...:D
I masturbate with my best friend and we've been doing it for several months. I know some people say it might hurt your friendship, so I'm not saying you should do it. I might just be lucky.

[fohn]

Man I wish I had a friend like that. BTW I'm m'ing as I read your posts. They're very enlightening. Oh, and as for the question about what to do with the cum...I've found it helpful to have another guy suck it out of you.....

[notsure101]

well thast if ur gay or if ur curious or Bi.

[GoPackGo]

Is it normal to get sort of a pain on the head of the penis after an orgasm?

[saced]

Yes. It actually makes me more horny and then I wait a few minutes and masturbate again.

[notsure101]

Is it normal to get sort of a pain on the head of the penis after an orgasm?

that happen to me but inside the shaft beforer i cum i dont no wats up iu have to bring it up at my next physical

[Brandini The Great]

is it normal that i cant orgasm again until 30 minutes or more after my previous one? people here talk about doing 2 or more j/o sessions in a row but i cant orgasm or even feel any pleasure right after so how do they keep masturbating?

[MoveAlong]

is it normal that i cant orgasm again until 30 minutes or more after my previous one? people here talk about doing 2 or more j/o sessions in a row but i cant orgasm or even feel any pleasure right after so how do they keep masturbating?

many guys are unable to jack off, and then jack off again, because they feel like they've lost all sexual interest after they've jacked off the first time. It's called the refractory period - the point where a body part cannot produce the same function again for awhile. This is completely natural and normal, and many of us feel like this, even those ones who talk about doing it 2 times in a row.

I only usually jack off right after I've already jacked off if I'm really horny. Otherwise I can't do it and I'm the same as you. You're not alone and in fact, completely normal!

[puberty liberty]

i am 12 and have masturbated since i was 10 but semen,sperm ect. never came out why is that.

[MoveAlong]

i am 12 and have masturbated since i was 10 but semen,sperm ect. never came out why is that.

first of all, you're too young to be on this site. You must be 13 years or older

second I'll answer your question anyway, but by tomorrow you might be banned. You can come back as a guest and read this post, though!

Anyway it's safe to say that you're too young (obviously) and underdeveloped to ejaculate semen. That's ok - this is how puberty starts out. You'll soon develop the ability to in a few years, or maybe even months!

[Requin]

Yeah be patient, not everyone could cum at 12, i can't remember if i could so i'll leave it to someone else to answer that bit.

[GoPackGo]

Bohn,
Thats only if you are gay, or bisexual otherwise its just wierd

[iJack]

Bohn,
Thats only if you are gay, or bisexual otherwise its just wierd

What?

[sage of craze]

Ummm... I was able to ejactulate at age 12... I didn't realize I was gay. I guess I should just hop on out of the closet now, thank you for clearing THAT mess up. xD

[Sugaree]

Bohn,
Thats only if you are gay, or bisexual otherwise its just wierd

What?

I think what he's saying is that if you are able to ejaculate at an early age it means you're bisexual. I'm not sure but that's what it sounds like?

[iJack]

I think what he's saying is that if you are able to ejaculate at an early age it means you're bisexual. I'm not sure but that's what it sounds like?

Maybe, thats wrong tho

[Brandini The Great]

Bohn,
Thats only if you are gay, or bisexual otherwise its just wierd

I was able to ejaculate by the time I turned 12...I am not gay, and most likely not bi either.

[byee]

Answers to the last bunch of questions:

1) First ejaculation can occur anywhere from 11-16. Age of onset doesn't mean anything other than you're able to ejaculate, that those parts are maturing. It does NOT mean you are bi, or gay.

2) The head of the penis gets red after ejaculation (actually before) because there's a rush of blood to the head just before ejaculation.

3) The head is sensitive after ejaculation just because it is, being the most sensitive part of the penis, it makes sense that it would be the most affected by orgasm.

4) The amount of time needed between orgasms is called the 'Refractory period', it's the time when the body needs to recharge before performing again. This is normal, it varies from guy to guy, and situation to situation.

[GoPackGo]

Thats not what i mean. He said that a good way to clean up your cum is to have another guy suck it out.

[GoPackGo]

and i know that you dont have to be gay or bi to ejaculate early

[ssgliberty]

I masturbate with my best friend and we've been doing it for several months. I know some people say it might hurt your friendship, so I'm not saying you should do it. I might just be lucky.

really!! i would i know one of my friends masurbate but if i ask him to masurbate with me he will think i`m gay or bi so i havent asked :)

is it a bad thing to masturbate:)

Wow y did he do that, that was stupid he put 12 twice then said he was 13

yea i know what an idiot:)

i dont know why but sometmes when i masurbate a boy pops into my thoghts and i know i`m not gay but why dose that happen

[Serenity]

alien: Please do NOT post several times in a row. Use the Edit button to add to your post.

[ssgliberty]

ok thanks for the tip

[Sugaree]

really!! i would i know one of my friends masurbate but if i ask him to masurbate with me he will think i`m gay or bi so i havent asked :)

Usually masturbating with a friend can break your friendship or destroy it. It's not going to be good. I did it and my friend seemed distant but we are closer now.



is it a bad thing to masturbate:)

Well, that depends on peoples views of it. Some think that masturbation is a good thing because it keeps your prostate working. Some think it's bad because they think that it will make you go blind or go insane among other things which isn't true. If it was then all men would be insane.

But not all people masturbate. Some masturbate before starting puberty, some start it when they are in puberty, some don't start until after puberty, and some just don't masturbate at all! But, people have different views on this delicate subject.



i dont know why but sometmes when i masurbate a boy pops into my thoghts and i know i`m not gay but why dose that happen

Well when you are young and masturbating, some thoughts like these pop into your head because your hormones are raging at this time. It's normal and it doesn't mean you're gay...it just means that you may be a bit curious about other boys' bodies which is normal.

[ssgliberty]

thank you dragons

[Sugaree]

No problem. It's what I do.. I help :)

[irishguy]

hey so do you think how long i last before i cum while masterbating will be the amount of time i last when im having sex??

[curiousteen]

it depends how good it feels and all

[Gavin]

hey so do you think how long i last before i cum while masterbating will be the amount of time i last when im having sex??

well, that depends masturbating and having sex are totaly different, you can't have a set time on both of them, but masturbating does help to control and steady yourself when you do have sex.

[GoPackGo]

why is it that when I am about to ejaculate pre cum comes out but not actual cum?

[Sugaree]

Because if your urine leaves any type of acid in the uretha it could possibly ruin the ejaculation and hurt. Pre-cum is like a lube for the inside of your penis that helps the actual ejaculate able to pass through without difficulty

[GoPackGo]

ok thanks

[gilley]

hey, i was wondering, why is it that when i am like in my boxers or completely naked, i get an erection?

[superstar2067]

When i J/O i can have a organsim in about 2 mins is this normal?

[Rutherford The Brave]

1.) its normal
2.) Its spelled masturbation
3.) not sure this is puberty related.

[dogman]

this is defiantly puberty related

To the OP, yes it is normal, the time it takes you to orgasm can vary alot, but 2 minutes is not uncommon

[Gavin]

Yeah, it's sometimes quite normal to last 2 mintues, it can all depend on how horny you're at the time.

[Requin]

People are different, some can ejaculate in a few minutes, some in about five. No problem there.

[Jam1817]

uhh guys, this seems kinda embarrassing but,
im 15 1/2, and i still havent ejeculated yet.... do i got a problem? :|

[Antares]

The last 5 posts have been:

Merged with Masturbation Sticky

[Antares]

uhh guys, this seems kinda embarrassing but,
im 15 1/2, and i still havent ejeculated yet.... do i got a problem? :|

Well there are some different possibilities that can result. The first being that you have not masturbated long enough to the point where you have ejaculated. In this case just masturbate longer and possibly use a lubricant or find some other type of stimulant. Another possibility is that you have not matured to the point where you can ejaculate. In that case all you have to do is wait.

hey, i was wondering, why is it that when i am like in my boxers or completely naked, i get an erection?

This is probably because your penis is rubbing and moving around so much that it is causing the stimulation to become erect. It is completely normal because most guys get erections for no complete reason. It is all part of puberty.

[Sugaree]

hey, i was wondering, why is it that when i am like in my boxers or completely naked, i get an erection?

It's because it's being stimulated as John said.

uhh guys, this seems kinda embarrassing but,
im 15 1/2, and i still havent ejeculated yet.... do i got a problem? :|

This isn't a huge problem. People will develope at different times and you obviously aren't developed enough to ejaculate yet.

[empar]

when i jerk off, im normally naked, and i ejaculate on my stomach and chest(if it was a good orgasm), will this cause any acne or pimples or rash in the long run, nothing has happened so far..

[Sugaree]

It really shouldn't cause any acne or pimples.

[Supermario64]

hey, i turned 13 a few weeks ago i am barely into puberty and i started masturbating a couple days ago, it feels good but i don't have any sperm come out until about 30mins - 1hr after i masturbate... is there something wrong am i not far enough into puberty to get sperm? my left teste hangs lower than righty. please help me and give tips.. i'm pretty sure i'm doing it right
-Thanx, adam

[japanman]

Dam dont worrytis normal to masterbate that long to come and tis normal to have one testy lower then the other.

[Gavin]

hey, i turned 13 a few weeks ago i am barely into puberty and i started masturbating a couple days ago, it feels good but i don't have any sperm come out until about 30mins - 1hr after i masturbate... is there something wrong am i not far enough into puberty to get sperm? my left teste hangs lower than righty. please help me and give tips.. i'm pretty sure i'm doing it right
-Thanx, adam

Don't worry Adam, you're just not developed enough yet to produce cum so it's nothing big to worry about.

I think if you mean that one testes if bigger than the other, then it's ok.

[Its Me]

hi,

im 16 and have masturbated since i was about 13ish, the thing is bout 10 mins after i masturbate i am always desperate to go to the toilet. Is this normall does this happen to anyone else?

thanks

[Sugaree]

Your body is releasing any left over sperm or fluids that may have gotten stuck during ejaculation. It's all normal.

[Its Me]

ok thanks i was just checking

[BelAir]

how do u masturbate

[ember5060]

i'm gonna take a 12 day break from masturbation (birthday in 12 days woot) and then when its my birthday i will fap like never before!! MUAHAHAHA!!! wish me luck:D

[Maverick]

Merged with sticky.

[raiders rule]

How come sometimes when I masterbate a lot of cum just comes out when other times it shoots out, I have had it go up to my chest. And why most of the time a normal amount comes out while sometimes a lot comes out while sometimes little comes out?

[Mzor203]

The amount of cum that will come out when you masturbate will depend on a number of factors including how horny you, are, how far into puberty you are, the foods you eat, how much water you have drank recently, etc. If you want to shoot a lot, drink a lot of money beforehand and wait to masturbate for a couple of days.

[Gumleaf]

drink a lot of money beforehand and wait to masturbate for a couple of days.

i assume you mean water, not money???

[Mzor203]

WTF? :confused:

Apparently my brain is too busy figuring out ways to get cash...

I'm staying up waaaaaaaay too late.

Yes, I meant water. I'm gonna sig that though.

[macaulay]

I try to masturbate as often as possible, but when i do i feel as if i am going to throw up! is this normal? :confused:

[raiders rule]

Well I usually masterbate 1-3 times a day so I usually dont go a few days without masterbating. Oh yeah I got a 3.8 on the puberty test, Im 13.

[Sugaree]

I try to masturbate as often as possible, but when i do i feel as if i am going to throw up! is this normal? :confused:

It could be the feeling of orgasm. It's fine. Different people get different feelings before they orgasm and this could be your feeling of wanting to vomit.

[MoveAlong]

It could be the feeling of orgasm. It's fine. Different people get different feelings before they orgasm and this could be your feeling of wanting to vomit.

umm actually no, that sounds a bit weird...

Maybe you're masturbating too often or too rough. I mean, do you get this feeling when you cum, or when you masturbate? It's sort of weird...

[sportsdude359]

I have a question. I don't have any problems with the orgasms I have now, but I am craving more powerful ones. How can I have more powerful orgasms if there are any ways? Thanks.

[MoveAlong]

I have a question. I don't have any problems with the orgasms I have now, but I am craving more powerful ones. How can I have more powerful orgasms if there are any ways? Thanks.

There are a couple ways you could do this:

1. using a good technique
2. increasing the volume of your semen (cumming more)
3. being more horny

1 - you can search www.jackinworld.com for different techniques. a favorite is "stop and go" - basically you jack off, stop just before you cum, jack off some more, etc, until you're ready to pop it. You have all this buildup and you're just waiting for it.

2 - You could also try to increase the volume of semen. try drinking more water, and eating fruits and veggies (bananas and stuff) because semen is packed with nutrients to nourish sperm, so by eating more fruits and veggies, your body has more nutrients to put towards cum.
+you could also stop jacking off for a few days/week, so you can save more cum for the next time you jack off.

and 3 - try looking at porn or fantisizing, and maybe trying other things to turn you on like playing with your nipples, massaging yourself, etc.

All of these things can build up and make an orgasm so much better! But this all won't happen in a single day. You need to experiment with stuff to see what you like!

[sportsdude359]

There are a couple ways you could do this:

1. using a good technique
2. increasing the volume of your semen (cumming more)
3. being more horny

1 - you can search www.jackinworld.com for different techniques. a favorite is "stop and go" - basically you jack off, stop just before you cum, jack off some more, etc, until you're ready to pop it. You have all this buildup and you're just waiting for it.

2 - You could also try to increase the volume of semen. try drinking more water, and eating fruits and veggies (bananas and stuff) because semen is packed with nutrients to nourish sperm, so by eating more fruits and veggies, your body has more nutrients to put towards cum.
+you could also stop jacking off for a few days/week, so you can save more cum for the next time you jack off.

and 3 - try looking at porn or fantisizing, and maybe trying other things to turn you on like playing with your nipples, massaging yourself, etc.

All of these things can build up and make an orgasm so much better! But this all won't happen in a single day. You need to experiment with stuff to see what you like!

Thanks, I plan on trying those suggestions.

[themanwhoneverwould]

well interestingily enough, i drink loads of water, and i do produce alot of sperm and semen!
So thats the technique i would use if i were you!

[Toasty]

[Sorry, I decided to remove this post.]

[Crisn123]

I need a little advice...

Well, I'm 13, and I didn't really discover masturbating 'til a a week or two ago... I did a lil' research on it last night, and I've found out about what's normal and all. And I've read a few articles and I dunno what to believe.

See, I'm Christian. The Bible gives absolutely NO sides on masturbating, but it says not to lust... I suppose mastubating would be lust, in a way...? But then again, it's a natural thing that teens do... Some Christians think it's okay. Some don't. Other unidentified people say it's completely natural and healthy. I dunno what to believe... Should I masturbate? I get the urge, and then I have to struggle on deciding to do it or not... I end up doing it, then feeling guilty, then telling myself I just won't do it again, then I end up doing it again. >_<

If I only I could just up and ask my Dad, or my friends, or something...

*Sigh* This is so new and confusing. I didn't go to bed last night, it barely even feels real... O_o Am I dreaming?

So... Just some advice, please?

well im christian to and its ok to jack off. it even helps to prevent prostate cancer!!! so yeah it is ok. i started jackin off a yr ago and i felt weird about at the first time but it goes away. all you need to make sure is that you dont get caught. dont get caught and im sure youll have a good jackin life:D

[Sugaree]

I need a little advice...

Well, I'm 13, and I didn't really discover masturbating 'til a a week or two ago... I did a lil' research on it last night, and I've found out about what's normal and all. And I've read a few articles and I dunno what to believe.

See, I'm Christian. The Bible gives absolutely NO sides on masturbating, but it says not to lust... I suppose mastubating would be lust, in a way...? But then again, it's a natural thing that teens do... Some Christians think it's okay. Some don't. Other unidentified people say it's completely natural and healthy. I dunno what to believe... Should I masturbate? I get the urge, and then I have to struggle on deciding to do it or not... I end up doing it, then feeling guilty, then telling myself I just won't do it again, then I end up doing it again. >_<

If I only I could just up and ask my Dad, or my friends, or something...

*Sigh* This is so new and confusing. I didn't go to bed last night, it barely even feels real... O_o Am I dreaming?

So... Just some advice, please?


Well, I'm christian, but I don't think that masturbating is against God. I'm not sure if I could see masturbation as lust but I could see if you fantasize.

[jack62]

i've been having some troubles at school. i have this really hott teacher, and i find myself masturbating to her in the bathroom more and more. ive been going to the bathroom so many times. is there any way i can control this? whenever she comes over, i cant help but get an erection. her breasts are humungous, and i'm just having a rought time dealing with itl

[Gumleaf]

i've been having some troubles at school. i have this really hott teacher, and i find myself masturbating to her in the bathroom more and more. ive been going to the bathroom so many times. is there any way i can control this? whenever she comes over, i cant help but get an erection. her breasts are humungous, and i'm just having a rought time dealing with itl

all i can suggest you do is try hard and think about something else when you see her. maybe think of a disgusting sexual vision, like your parents having sex or something. that might help.

[jack62]

idk if that will help. i mean, i've fantasized about her tons of times. i even touched my penis during class, and no one noticed. is this normal?

[Gumleaf]

idk if that will help. i mean, i've fantasized about her tons of times. i even touched my penis during class, and no one noticed. is this normal?

it is normal to get aroused like that, but i would strongly suggest that you don't start touching yourself in class. otherwise there isn't much else i can suggest, you'll just have to try and get over her i guess.

[phan4ever]

I've noticed that the upper right front, and lower right front of my penis has a area with small cuts, and the skin surrounding the cuts is white and flaking. This spot is slightly reddish, especially after a shower. I noticed after masturbating today, the spot seems to be worse, and I'm pretty sure from what I have read on the internet this is Chaffing from masturbation. Right before this area started chaffing, I was masturbating for a few days in a row, which is more then I normally do. After the area started chaffing I started masturbating every four days, but this is not apparently enough time for the chaffing to heal. I am 14, circumcised , and masturbate somewhat roughly without lube. Has anyone else had similer chaffing, and how should I heal/avoid it?

[byee]

Answers to the last bunch of questions:

1) No one knows what God's perspective on masturbation is, regardless of what religion you are. He didn't write the Bible, you're on your own with this. But, everyone masturbates, it's a normal biological drive. No one gets hurt, it reduces stress, it feels good. And you should ask yourself if you see your God as one who would torture you by giving you powerful urges and no way to relieve them without burning in Hell for all eternity.

2) If your teacher turns you on, you should try to keep that to yourself. Touching your penis in class is really flirting with real disaster. Likewise is going to the bathroom to masturbate. Remember you're in school and eventually you'll get caught and the consequences will be beyond humiliating. Distract yourself, and save it for when you get home. Exercise some self control.

3) The best treatment for friction burn is to adjust your grip and use a less aggressive technique. If you've got it, apply a little Vaseline JELLY (not the lotion) for a few days, and either leave it alone, or be sure to not rub that part until it heals.

[addikt7]

phan4ever, i had a similar situation like you, but my penis had a lot of red spots and it hurt to even touch it for a week. i had to walk really funny so that my pants wouldnt brush up against it. the redness and the pain went away after a week, so just wait until the pain goes down (obviously) and you feel ready to masturbate again. what got me to take my mind off of masturbation during that time was thinking that it would just get worse and worse if i masturbated. so all you have to do is try to stop masturbating for about a week and i think you'll be fine.

EDIT: after reading around, it was probably chaffing because people have the same problems and they dont use lube, which i dont do either.

[eskimogal700]

hey sry about being a girl in this forum n everything but someone told me that orgasms are more intense for guys when they have their finger in their anus, or just anal stimulation. is this true for guys, and even for girls?

[MoveAlong]

hey sry about being a girl in this forum n everything but someone told me that orgasms are more intense for guys when they have their finger in their anus, or just anal stimulation. is this true for guys, and even for girls?

this can be true, if the guy or girl likes anal stimulation. But it's only if they enjoy it; if they hate it, then it could pretty much ruin orgasm

[curious211]

For myself, I'm not sure about anyone else but its alot easier for me to masturbate laying down other that sitting or standing, Does anyone know why?:confused::confused:

[ericstone98]

hey after u jack off and stuff does any one like eat there cum or try it????

[Antares]

some people does and some do. However a good number does not like the taste. I however think there isn't a huge taste. So just try it I say LOL

[basketball fan]

wen i masturbate I get really guilty afterwards does any1 else get this feeling

[byee]

OK, answers to the last bunch:

1) Anal stimulation works for those of either sex who like it. There's nothing 'automatically' wonderful about it, it's a personal thing.

2) it's a biological/physiological fact that it's easier to masturbate lying down. This is because the whole erection/ arousal thing is governed by blood flow, and when you stand, you're fighting gravity. Also, biologically speaking, (and remembering about the effects of gravity) the purpose of sex is procreation, and there's a better chance of that happening if the semen/sperm stays in the vagina. Lying down has obvious advantages over standing.

3) A lot of people try their own cum, out of curiosity. It's new, it's yours, and it's erotic. There's nothing harmful in it, the ingredients in semen aren't toxic, it won't make you ill.

4) A lot of people feel guilty masturbating, probably b/c they don't have permission to do it. When we do something that's very private (secretive, really) without permission, we feel guilty, b/c most people were raised to ask for permission before doing something new. Likewise, we're taught not to keep secrets. So, the guilt arises b/c we think we're doing 2 things that are 'wrong'. However, masturbation is different, it's biological, perfectly normal, and safe. Your parents probably don't give you permission for this b/c it's awkward, not b/c they don't approve. Remember, everyone masturbates, so do/did your folks. They know you do, too. It's OK.

[magicman0922]

if i wanted to try out same-sex masturbation, how could i bring it up with a friend in a way that isn't weird for the two of us?

[teepayts23]

how many times do all of you guys masterbate a day?

[addikt7]

usually once, but most of the time i do it every 3-4 days so i have a good orgasm. its all for the better :)

[MoveAlong]

how many times do all of you guys masterbate a day?

these is a poll for this that may be more helpful than the answers you get here :)
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=26102

[jack62]

i have a problem.

i find myself watching porn 3-4 times a day. how do i stop watching so much porn?

[lewis99]

hi i am just wondering does masturbation effect you penis growth?

[MoveAlong]

hi i am just wondering does masturbation effect you penis growth?

No.
.

[lewis99]

cheers flex so if i wank 1-2 a day my penis will still grow big right?....i know its silly but my penis size changes all the time and i dunno if its because i masturbate to much.

[MoveAlong]

your dick size will fluctuate - that's normal for everybody. It's bigger when it's hornier, and stuff that has to do with your blood pressure and stuff, but that's hard to explain. Also, it shrinks (temporarliy) when it's cold. So it's slightly different every time. That's why some people use a range to describe their penis size - like "5.5 to 6 inches"

Your penis will grow normally.

[lewis99]

thats great to know....thanks flex
well im of for a wank...only kidding :)

First of all, a huge burden has been lifted off my shoulders because I hasve found a place where I can feel comfortable discussing "issues." And now to cut to the chase. What can I do to keep my parents off my back when im masturbating? I lock my door, and they just come up to it and knock, so I have to compose myself before opening my door and theyre suspicious. PLEASE HELP ME! :confused:

hey vicious i read your thread and a good idea is have an item that you would do next to you ready for when your parents are coming in, like a book or console is good just to have at your side when they come in, then when they walk in just grab the item and play it

After I masterbate why is there always some urge to go to the bathroom? Has it happened to anyone else here before?:confused:

hey i read ur thread about needing the toilet after jacking, that is very normall i always do it and its quite refreshing i dont know the science behind it im not the person to ask but most boys need the toilet after.

hi, just wondering is it actually possible for your penis NOT to grow so when you hit say 14 your penis will just stay that size?.....basically is it possible to not go through puberty?

[byee]

You have lotsa questions, Lewis! Here are some answers.

First, you'd have to have a really rare metabolic disorder in order to NOt go thru puberty. You'd know this by now, so we can assume that in your case, the answer to your last q is "No", you can't not go thru puberty.

Second, one of the things that makes a lot of guys believe their penis has a mind of it's own is that it does change, alot, and quickly! This is in response to temperature changes (hot=lower, bigger; cold=smaller, closer to body). That's b/c the skin on the penis and scrotum are both very elastic, and filled with blood vessels and tissue that resembles a sponge. So, the more blood flow there (like when it's hot or you're aroused), the spongy tissue fills with blood and expands, and when it's cold, it drains, and contracts. Zach is correct in noting that this is why the size changes throughout the day.

Using the toilet after masturbating often happens because that area is excited, so the there's additional pressure on the bladder, signalling a need to urinate. Also, less exotically, many guys masturbate after dinner (before bed), when the body is still digesting the food and fluid you've eaten at the last meal/snack. So, by staying up a while, digestion occurs, resulting in the need to go.

[lewis99]

my name isnt lewis by the way thats just a name i gave one of my warriors on a game and i use it ever since :)

[Whisper]

Please do NOT post directly after you've already posted
just use the EDIT button

[Tis_Sam]

All questions end up about size. Heh.

[Freshprince]

i want to make my masterbating experience longer i dont want to cum to fast...any ideas?

[MoveAlong]

Stop and Go method

second one down on the following link: http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/00favorites.html

[NickZeGreat]

Ya Stop and Go is pretty much the best way i've found.:D

[raiders rule]

when i do stop and go i cum soooo much and have STRONG orgasms.

[lewis99]

i heard if u drink a lot of water a bit before mastubating you cum a lot more, is this true?!?!

[Sugaree]

Yes it is. It's recommended that you drink at least 8 glasses of water a day. You could also eat a lot of bananas because they help to. But you may want to quit jacking for one or two days if you want to cum more. So just quit for a few days and drink plenty of water and eat plenty of bananas.

[MoveAlong]

^^^^^^^^^^^ummm.....m.mmmmmmm..........bananas.???

I'm just curious really, but do you even know the logic behind that? I KNOW you heard that from me because I'm the only one who's said that on this forum in the past 2 years

The truth: SOME men report that eating bananas increases the amount of cum they produce. But still others say that zinc tablets work best for them, and others like fish oils, others like different fruits, etc.

Nothing is a miracle, and they all contribute, and bananas do not work THAT well.

The logic: Because semen contains a whole lot of stuff (protein, vitamin B6, B12, zinc, calcium, DNA, vitamin C, potassium [and the list goes on for about 20 more ingredients]), there could be a link between eating healthier and more cum. Also, healthier people are better in all-round performance, every-day or every-night.

I would not recommend eating a bunch of bananas, that's baloney. But by eating healthier, maybe having 1 banana a day (which is healthy and probably more than you regularly eat), you might experience more cum, or at least it would be a bunch better for your body.

[cakemeister1]

Ok so I know masturbation is completely normal for a 15 year old, so is watching porn? I tend to look at porn quite alot, and sometimes the warnings about being over 18 make me feel guilty. Should I be?

[hobo]

no, you shouldn't feel guilty at all. any fifteen year old who hasn't looked at porn is weird. i'm not saying it's right, that's just how it is. and it's not a big deal if you're not 18.

[Sugaree]

Ok so I know masturbation is completely normal for a 15 year old, so is watching porn? I tend to look at porn quite alot, and sometimes the warnings about being over 18 make me feel guilty. Should I be?

Well, it's usually best to stay away from pornography until you're 18. But, as a 15 year old you're probably curious about it and want to give it a try. If you really feel guilty then just don't watch it.

It's fine to feel guilty because sometimes it feels wrong to watch porn. Of course, it is illegal and that's what probably causes these feelings. If you don't feel right watching porn then just don't.

[byee]

It's time for some more answers to the last bunch of q's:

First, if you drink lots of water before you masturbate you'll have to urinate. That sensation, the pressure inside your bladder, will most likely interfere with the pleasure of orgasm. It will NOT make you ejaculate more, water goes to the bladder and out as urine, not as semen.

Second, bananas have a lot of very essential things in them, you should eat one a day, but not for semen. If you eat a lot, the fiber in them will make you poop more, and it will be easier to go. I'm not sure this is an aide to masturbation, nor do I understand how it could possibly increase semen production.

If you wait between masturbation sessions (like a day or so), you will 'fill your tank', and ejaculate whatever amount you typically do, based on your development. Most adult guys ejaculate about a teaspoon or so, that's pretty much the max, although it might seem like more if you're really excited or wait longer.

The issue with porn (and this comes up a lot), is that it is NOT educational, it is for entertainment. So, like most things that are entertaining, what you see is largely acted, the action you see, the 'plot', is determined by what the producers think the audience will find pleasing and amusing. That's entertainment. With porn, things like size, noise, length of time, positions, the way the actors treat and relate to each other, it's all acted, it's manufactured. It's not necessarily a reflection of 'real life'. It's assumed that by the age of 18, most people have the experience and maturity to recognize this. You young 'uns don't have that frame of reference, so you're more vulnerable and impressionable, hence it's illegality.

Everyone has to make a choice about this, and that choice should be made based not just on the availability, but your reaction to it. If you choose to watch porn, make sure you keep it clear that it's exciting and arousing, but not necessarily real. If you cannot, or if you feel too uncomfortable with it, don't go there.

[pyromaniac]

hey
i masturbate mayb twice a day
sometimes 3 times if im in the mood;)
i always get an orgasm and i always have pre-cum but i never ejaculate
is this normal?

[Sugaree]

Yes that is normal. You're sexual organs have not yet developed enough yet to ejaculate.

[frogg13]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

DONT KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO MASTURBATE WITHOUT FORESKIN BECAUSE I TOO AM UNCIRCUMCISED......BUT I DO KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO MASTURBATE IN A CONDOM ITS MORE EROTIC THAN NORMAL AND WITH A CONDOM THERES NO MESS TO CLEAN UP:yes:

[alexander]

is it bad to mastrubate with a friend? i feel so uncomfortable

[MoveAlong]

DONT KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO MASTURBATE WITHOUT FORESKIN BECAUSE I TOO AM UNCIRCUMCISED......BUT I DO KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO MASTURBATE IN A CONDOM ITS MORE EROTIC THAN NORMAL AND WITH A CONDOM THERES NO MESS TO CLEAN UP:yes:

please don't post in all caps. It makes everyone feel like you're yelling at them.

is it bad to mastrubate with a friend? i feel so uncomfortable

No, it's not necessarily bad. It's normal to want to or try to masturbate with a friend. Many guys are curious about how it would be like.
The thing is, it might seem a little uncomfortable if you do it because it might change your friendship. It might make you feel a little weird around each other, so you may not want to try masturbating with a friend, and VirtualTeen does not promote masturbating with a friend, so we can't give you any tips.

It's your choice whether or not to, just know the possible consequences.

[byee]

Answers to this page of q's:

1) Yes, it's OK to masturbate as much as you want as long as it doesn't interfere with your other responsibilities. You 'pre cum' b/c you're producing 'stuff', but it quite enough to ejaculate. Soon!

2) Masturbation (with or without) foreskin really feels very similiar. That's because the sensations are very similiar, there's nothing truly 'unique' about either. All you feel is 'Ummmmmm!'.

3) Masturbating with a friend is not that unusual IF both want to do it and both are the same age. There are always complications whenever you do anything that personal with someone else, so you might want to take that into consideration before you attempt this.

[Sugaree]

is it bad to mastrubate with a friend? i feel so uncomfortable

No, it's not. If you feel uncomfortable with it then just tell your friend that you aren't comfortable with doing it.

[alphus]

Hi
I don't ejaculate.
Is that because my balls haven't dropped or what i'm 14 and am worried about it.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Hi
I don't ejaculate.
Is that because my balls haven't dropped or what i'm 14 and am worried about it.

This whole thing about the balls dropping is a myth dude. They never "drop" when you're a teenager. They drop into your sack when you're still forming as a baby in your mother's womb. Your balls just get bigger and start producing sperm during puberty. Don't be worried at 14, its an age where it's normal if you just haven't started producing sperm yet. It's ok, in time (maybe sooner than you think) you'll start producing sperm.

[Requin]

People develop at different times. You'll be able to eventually so don't panic. Hey at least you don't have to clean up.

[basketball fan]

one day i was j/o in the shower and wen i got out I looked at my penis and it was swollen not an erection but like puffy on the end of it does any 1 have an explanation 4 this

[BigE69er]

I like getting nude, laying under the covers and getting a hard on. Then, grab my penis and start tugging. I last like 15-20 min on this method, so try it. It feels awesome

[pyromaniac]

a good way to masturbate is if u have a powerful shower and are un-cut
hold onto the end of your foreskin and put ur penis under the spray of water
find the bit where the end of your glans ends inside the skin and focus the water on that area
guaranteed orgasm in seconds

[Rubber]

how long did it taek you to masturbate the first timee you did

[jack62]

I have a problem. I watch porn every day when I'm home about 3 times a day on average. I used to do it way more. Please, how do I stop?

[pyromaniac]

30 secs

[MRcongeniality]

well, an answer to jack67, is that there is a question quite similar to this in puberty for boys, its a recent one, so look at my three tips i posted on there.

[parkpark]

i'm 15 and my penis is 8inches long yesterday i stated masterbateing and when i did i started to sperm it felt so good is it suppose to feel really good and i didn't stop for like 40mins i was wanting to know if thats normal and when a lot cums out at ones my penis jerks up and feels even harder

[Joshie]

im gonna try that

[BlackBetty]

Stop and Go at Jackinworld.com

[baseball34]

why is it that when u jack off every day or alot that when u come the 1st time its a whole lot but after doing it alot only squirts come out and less than before

[Jesse]

Because in between jack off sessions your body doesn't have enough time to fully replenish the supply of semen. It's fine.

[BlackBetty]

Because you have already expled some of it.

[LMNOP]

Do it slower.

[Montreal_Rox]

i could cum but cant ejaculate why is this

[Jesse]

i could cum but cant ejaculate why is this

"Cumming" and "Ejaculating" are EXACTLY the same thing. So your question makes no sense at all....

[iGame]

I am Uncircumsized and i masturbate with my foreskin but i can lube but how can i hold back my foreskin without my second hand if i need to cover myself up with my bed sheets or something incase someone knocks on my door. Like any kinds of string or someting i dont have to buy cause i am 13

[Montreal_Rox]

"Cumming" and "Ejaculating" are EXACTLY the same thing. So your question makes no sense at all....

sorry im new at this maybe pre ejaculating

[iMark]

I've tryed masturbating in the shower, but I'm not sure if I ejaculated. I did have liquid come out of my penis but it was clear and was more liquidy than I've heard sperm is, and I think I had orgasms but I'm not sure I had a sensation in my stomach but it did not seem like it was inbetween my scrodum and anus. Can somebody answer my questions?

[Antares]

sorry im new at this maybe pre ejaculating

Are you talking about precum. That is the most common term for a clear liquid that comes out before orgasm.

[Zan0ra]

Just a question.

Is the orgasm when your muscles contract and you feel the seamen comes up through your penis?

[Jesse]

Just a question.

Is the orgasm when your muscles contract and you feel the seamen comes up through your penis?

Yes.

[Zan0ra]

Great :) Just wanted to make sure

[Gavin]

Just a question.

Is the orgasm when your muscles contract and you feel the seamen comes up through your penis?

Yeah... that would be the o-Mighty orgasm :)

[Zan0ra]

You can experiment with you anus. *be sure to wash after though* or you could try moving you penis around in a circle. Or when your non erect. Push you penis down and put 2 fingers in there and just twirl it around. That helps you become erect. *did anyone understand that?*

[Cristiann123]

hey guys iv got a question...

so what happens is every time i j/o, i always feel a sensation all over my dick (if i cant say that word im sorry) so what happens is i dont mind it but then the head starts having a kind of tension on it and it feels so GOOD!!! and then i stop, wait for a while then continue. what is this "tension" and is it normal?:whoops:

[Jesse]

Explain this "tension" you are talking about. Is like a tingly feeling? Or, like your head is firmer than usual?

(Both of which is normal BTW ;) )

[lewis99]

hi guys just wondering does masturbation effect your penis growth, i mean if you wank 1-2 a day that wont effect the growth right?

and one last thing whats the latest age for your penis to grow like what is the oldest age you can be for your penis to grow?

[MoveAlong]

hi guys just wondering does masturbation effect your penis growth, i mean if you wank 1-2 a day that wont effect the growth right?

No.
(filler)

[lewis99]

flex are u always online?!?!.....are a monitor or something?

[Gavin]

Definately not,

It won't harm your penis growth.

[lewis99]

is there anythings or thing that can effect your penis growth cause im concerned because i have got everything else like pubes and marks, and i can cum but its just the size im worried about?

[Gavin]

Firstly how old are you?

If you use stuff like penis pumps then that can harm your penis and sometimes the growth of it.

[lewis99]

im two months from 15 and i dont use anything like that i dont add anything to it i just masturbate 1-2 a day

[Gavin]

It will grow bigger so i dont think you have anything to worry about.

[Master Bait]

Will something happen to my penis if I masturbate for a long time? Not like a few hours straight long, but like over 10 years or something?
A few time I overheard 30-35 year old say that the had had a masturbation addiction and that their penis was all deformed for a couple of years.

[Jesse]

No, you penis shouldn't get deformed from masturbating. Masturbating is actually healthy for you.

[normanford]

ya, but if you do it w/ someone else, make sure they dont have an STD or something like that

[Jesse]

Whoa! When did this turn into a discussion about group masturbating and STDs? ;)

[normanford]

ssry my bad :P

[Musicalmonstar]

Group Masturbation...........hmm.............interesting

STD's not so much

Does anyone have any tricks for a better Orgasm??

[Jesse]

I suggest the stop n' go way.
But refer to jackinworld.com for more ways.

[Musicalmonstar]

ok cool will most defiantly check it out!

[Jesse]

Yes. You are completely normal! You are 13, you can't expect everything to work right now! Give it time man. And just an FYI, some grown men's semen isn't completely white. :)

[Master Bait]

Apart from stop and go, I think you should do the Ice cold hand..

Masturbate normally with one hand, with a bowl or pot of ice water nearby. When you feel yourself start to get close to orgasm, put your other hand in the cold water. When you are about to ejaculate, put your now-freezing hand onto your testicles. It might give you the biggest orgasm ever!

[Requin]

I read that one and wasn't too sure about it. Couldn't you get blue balls from doing that, not to mention a nasty shock to your body's system.

[Zan0ra]

Tip. Lay flat sitting up. stretch you muscles like never before curl your toes and lift your body up. Keep trying to stretch your body as you masturbate like mad. Keep the arm you're not using out of the way. If your arm gets tired simply switch hands shake it at the shoulder for a few secs then switch back and then continue. Very good results in 1 minute and 30 seconds! always works for me. ;)

[Requin]

Sounds hard.
Couldn't that damage your back?
We have to be careful when giving advice on these things.

[geiri94]

I have a question i was masturbating today and i had an orgasm but no cum and this is the second time but like 3 days ago i was ejeculating when i orgasmed. Why is this?

[Zan0ra]

Sounds hard.
Couldn't that damage your back?
We have to be careful when giving advice on these things

I think the word I should have used was tightening. Your arm really gets tired and heavy but still its a splendid way I think.

[Gavin]

I have a question i was masturbating today and i had an orgasm but no cum and this is the second time but like 3 days ago i was ejeculating when i orgasmed. Why is this?

well you might not be delovoped enough to ejaculate yet.

How old are you?

[geiri94]

i am 14 but i have many times ejaculated before, but now suddenly i am having a proplem.

[Master Bait]

I have a question i was masturbating today and i had an orgasm but no cum and this is the second time but like 3 days ago i was ejeculating when i orgasmed. Why is this?

Possibly a dry orgasm? How old are you? And maybe your out of cum temporarily?

[Requin]

He said he's 14, and you can never be out of cum. YOu always have some, it might not be as much as normal, but you always have at least something. YOur testicles are always producing semen. So that's not his problem.
Leave it a few days then have another masturbate and see if you cum. If not, make an apointment with the doc.

[Jesse]

Actually, you CAN temporarily "run out" of "cum" (Or semen). Although you are right, the testicles are always producing sperm, and your prostate seminal fluid, they sometimes don't produce as quick as you are expelling it from your body. Thus, the temporary shortage.

[geiri94]

He said he's 14, and you can never be out of cum. YOu always have some, it might not be as much as normal, but you always have at least something. YOur testicles are always producing semen. So that's not his problem.
Leave it a few days then have another masturbate and see if you cum. If not, make an apointment with the doc.

Ok i will do that. Thanks for the advice.

[Gavin]

Drink plenty of water ^^

[soccerboy2314]

Im 14 and I was wondering if anybody could tell me how to masturbate

[Ryandel]

um... we cant say. but look on this site www.jackinworld.com

[optimashprime]

i havent been on in a long time but we still cant tell

[Maxismax123]

:D I shot today for the first time today.

[Gavin]

Do you mean as in your first time or your first of the day ?

[Maxismax123]

For the first time ever. :lol:

[Gavin]

Congratulations Maxi :)

[Ryandel]

Congrats Max!

[Maxismax123]

Thanks! :D