** Post ALL Masturbation Questions HERE **

[Patchy]

i would never do it we are realy good friends and i dont want to lose the friendship

Yeah, well thats good you will know his limits then :P

[optimashprime]

i would never force any one to do any thing they dont want to do

[Patchy]

i would never force any one to do any thing they dont want to do

Ok, we're not saying you are by the way.

[optimashprime]

its ok

[CHB-94]

what is a lube?

[Atonement]

lubrication that is to reduce friction when masterbating thus making it more pleasurable. Some people use it, some don't. personnally, i dont.

[Gavin]

you dont have to use it but though some people dont like the feeling of dry masturbating.

[The Entertainer]

I use both, Im not bothered. Lube doesnt feel THAT different to normal dry masturbation. Im not sure if this questio is allowed (forgive me if its not) but what is the longest time you have ever abstained from masturbation?

[Gavin]

it really depends if you're really horny or not sometimes you can last 2-4 mins or sometimes you can really last 10-20 mins (or longer) using the stop and go

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I always liked to use something for lubrication more (felt better to me) but for some reason lotion actually DRIES your skin in that area so the friction caused be "doing my thing" can cause the skin to crack and that well and truly SUCKS. So for me dry is actually SAFER for preventing that. Of course I think KY or something that is actually MADE for that won't dry out my skin... but I'm to embarrassed to go buy some and I certainly won't ask my parents for it! :whoops:

I dunno what to use? I'm getting tired of staying dry but I can't use lotion because it actually dries my skin out.... any suggestions?

[Bobby]

Just try different types of lotion. Make sure you by something that has a moisturizer in it. You could try vasaline too.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um I tried those kinds... I mean I know it's weird but the moisturizer and lotion DOES dry out my skin... and vaseline is kinda messy but I guess its ok if I HAVE to... is there anything else?

[Bobby]

Not anything that I can think of at the moment. Except maybe there are some baby lotions out that aren't as strong as normal lotions. You could look for those.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Ok then that could work.... unfortunately there are no babies in this house so we don't really keep a bottle of the stuff lying around...

If anyone has other suggestions please let me know!

Oh and I did check jackinworld.com but I really don't want to make some crazy concoction of mixing different things. I just want ONE thing that WORKS!

[The Entertainer]

I think I have a partial solution:
If youre in the shower, just wack on a load of conditioner and/or shampoo and then do it. It means then that the cleanup operation is much easier, and, with the prescence of water, it also means that you dont end up with the "lube" drying up your penis. Ive done it loads of times, and its worked 100%. Vaseline is messy, though you could take it into the shower and use it.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

That's actually a bad idea and really hurts! Be carefull with shampoo, soap, or conditioner. It can really burn if it gets inside your urethra! But thanks lol I guess you've been lucky to not get any burning so far. Be careful!

[optimashprime]

That's actually a bad idea and really hurts! Be carefull with shampoo, soap, or conditioner. It can really burn if it gets inside your urethra! But thanks lol I guess you've been lucky to not get any burning so far. Be careful!

i would not like stuff burning in my dick

[chicken_fingers]

....

[optimashprime]

i dont know

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I've heard of that... but it sounds like I'd have to take a shower to clean that stuff off! And it would smell like vegetables lol :D

[optimashprime]

nice
your girlfriends will be vegatrian or rabbits

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I really don't wanna hear "Nyahhhh What's up doc?" late at night....

lol back on topic....

Is there anything NOT like vegetable oil that I could use? Nothing related to food please lol!

[optimashprime]

baby oil

[PhillyBby]

Yea baby oil should work but then you would have to wash up in order to get the smell off. Unless you make outting on baby oil a daily routine.

[The Entertainer]

surely if you get THAT down your utherea (or however you spell it) then that would hurt? I swear, Ive used shampoo and contidioner 100s of times and not had one complaint. Im sure that youd have to practially be pushing it in for it to irritate, as its never happened to me.

[Zosomac]

baby oil.... in my urethra?

unheard of! i use K and Y lube, available at your local drug store, if not... then normal hand moisturizer

[Patchy]

baby oil.... in my urethra?

unheard of! i use K and Y lube, available at your local drug store, if not... then normal hand moisturizer

Baby oil wouldn't sting like soap or shower gel does that's why its really good. but I think its quite hard to clean off.

[The Entertainer]

shaving foam? Are we getting too extreme here?!

[Patchy]

shaving foam? Are we getting too extreme here?!

Who said shaving foam?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Baby oil wouldn't sting like soap or shower gel does that's why its really good. but I think its quite hard to clean off.

Yes, it IS very hard to clean off... Water based KY is the best:D

[The Entertainer]

Who said shaving foam?

Oh, it was me originally in the first place. I was just covering my own back and being self-critical! Plus the question was slightly rhetorical

[Patchy]

Oh, it was me originally in the first place. I was just covering my own back and being self-critical! Plus the question was slightly rhetorical

Ah ok, I looked back on the previous posts and couldnt find them on the last page.

[Chatsworth]

Why sometimes during masturbation i feel a little weird sensation on the right side of my penis. I usually just stop for a second and it goes away. And ontop of that its only happened 3 times out of 3 years of masturbation

just checking incase:yeah:

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I wouldnt be worried at all if its so rare!:D

[Chatsworth]

Yeh it was just a thing on the top of my head I decided to put down, never hurts to check:D

[Silent_Zoma]

I was wonderig what is another way to mastrabate besides the simplel 1 hand grip and using lotion, I know that jackin world is a mastrabation site but mostly adults are on their and I wanted some teenage opinions.
Thanks

[Patchy]

I was wonderig what is another way to mastrabate besides the simplel 1 hand grip and using lotion, I know that jackin world is a mastrabation site but mostly adults are on their and I wanted some teenage opinions.
Thanks

We cannot describe sexual acts in detail

but if you check out

www.jackinworld.com

You will find some methods.

[Sundaki]

I'm 14, and the other day I was masturbating before I went to sleep. I ejaculated, and then was exhausted. However, the erection wouldn't go away for another 5 minutes, and I couldn't fall asleep. It took an hour or so of reading till I finally was able to "hit the hay" for real.

Any opinions on why I couldn't sleep even though it was what I wanted to do most? Any ideas on how to sleep easier?

[Requin]

Ok, this has happened to me, and i think it's because your hormones are rushing around your body and because your body is fully awake you can't settle....it's something like that.
To sleep easier, I would either, not masturbate while i'm in bed and do it quarter of an hour before or something. OR you could read a really boring book, which apparently works.

[storms4real]

When you masturbate, does that cause you to get zits on your face and back? I've been masturbating for about 3 years and trying to quit...
(the reason Im trying to quit is because of this reason, zits, and because when I find my true love and...well multiply, I want it to be special, not like a feeling I get every other day or so...)

so is that the cause?

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Serenity

[Sugaree]

No masturbation does not cause you to grow zits. Zits are mainly caused by fatty foods and soda


And testosterone.
Because testosterone makes you get more serum in your pores and so they get clogged and tada theres a zit

[TheDude]

No masturbation does not cause you to grow zits. Zits are mainly caused by fatty foods and soda

And testosterone.
Because testosterone makes you get more serum in your pores and so they get clogged and tada theres a zit

[Sugaree]

Oh yes I forgot to add that on. Thanks then TheDude :)

[RaisingSand]

Grow zits? o.O Not really sure that's the correct wording right there. :P
But no, masturbating does not cause acne. Most acne and skin problems experienced by teenagers is caused by excess hormones (released during puberty), and while fatty foods and soda are not the cause (of acne), they certainly don't help.
Basically, teenage acne caused by excess hormones works a bit something like this: during puberty and your teenage years, your body produces more hormones than it's used to (to cause the changes you see in puberty), creating what is technically a hormonal imbalance in the body (and also, if you aren't a very healthy person, eating fatty foods all the time etc, those toxins also build up in the body, which really doesn't help this, either). Once you've got this build up of toxins and excess hormones (hormones which send "messages" back and forth in your body, such as to your organs and cells, telling them what to do), you get all the extra hormone sending the wrong "message" to the oil glands in your skin. This causes a build up of excess oil, causing a blockage in the skin pore. The body reacts with swelling, and sometimes infection, and that's the pimple or "zit" that you see on your skin.

[TheDude]

ALSO the reason that girls can get zits as well is that at certain times of the month they're testosterone levels are slightly higher than normal.
We don't get any randomness of estrogen it just stays normal

(And yes, girls do ALSO have testosterone and we ALSO have estrogen. Just not as much)

[RaisingSand]

Don't you mean their oestrogen levels?

[TheDude]

what?

oh.
i meant their testosterone levels
yes, their estrogen levels do go wack, but at another point their testosterone levels do also



OOPS sorry for double posting, can a moderator help please lol

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Serenity

[storms4real]

thanks everyone!... but the masturbaitin causes testostromone to be realeased... ... i donno.. thanks everyone!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um actually they've found that your testicals are a spot where you have a lot of estrogen! I know its hard to believe but I heard about it in a weird documentary about eunichs (guy that had their balls cut off). These guys grew incredibly tall (like 8 to 9 feet tall) back in the 1600 because their balls were cut off to make their voices higher! Apparently the testosterone helps us grow tall and estrogen helps keep us "short" to balance out our height around 5 to 6 feet; without their balls however they actually grew taller!

I think the name for these singers were "Castrato's" (for castration) weird eh?

[TheDude]

Um actually they've found that your testicals are a spot where you have a lot of estrogen! I know its hard to believe but I heard about it in a weird documentary about eunichs (guy that had their balls cut off). These guys grew incredibly tall (like 8 to 9 feet tall) back in the 1600 because their balls were cut off to make their voices higher! Apparently the testosterone helps us grow tall and estrogen helps keep us "short" to balance out our height around 5 to 6 feet; without their balls however they actually grew taller!

I think the name for these singers were "Castrato's" (for castration) weird eh?

Uh since when?
The castrati were choirboys who had their testicles cut off because women weren't allowed to sing in church. Most castrati were short...
(It is castrati because when pluralising an Italian word ending in o, you change it to i, like sforzando and sforzandi)

[Antares]

Intresting fact, I must say...

[Mzor203]

I am having problems. Basically, it's like this:

I have only masturbated to he point of orgasm/ejaculation once before. And I felt absolutely horrible when I did. My first thought was, "Oh sh*t," because I was cumming all over my bed, but then something in my brain felt like I had comitted a crime. No pleasure, no nothing but an intense feeling of guilt.

Ever since that day, I have been frequently having wet dreams where I wake up right when I start ejaculating, and it is really bugging me. It's odd because I get this feeling that I am masturbating in my sleep.

I have been recently looking around this site on the different topics of masturbation, and I was really suprised when I found out that many people masturbate once to twice every day. This seems absolutely crazy to me.

Right now,I need some advice on how to ease these feelings of guilt, because it woulld be nice to enjoy these experiences, and it just ain't happening right now.

[theOperaGhost]

I don't know why we feel guilty after we masturbate. I do to sometimes, but believe me there's nothing to be guilty about.

[Mzor203]

The other problem with it for me is the smell and cleaning it up. My semen smells like really stinky fish.

[Hippie]

The other problem with it for me is the smell and cleaning it up. My semen smells like really stinky fish.

Uhm... I'm not positive why it would smell like Stinky fish but as from some Threads I've read here maybe it's your Diet, I'm not sure.


Hippie

[Sugaree]

Most people feel guilty about masturbating and there really is nothing to feel guilty about. So there's nothing to worry about.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I have heard before of some guys just being grossed out by their semen. Like I mean it repulses them so much (like an unneccessary phobia) that they feel afraid or guilty to masturbate. To deal with the guilt though you should take a look back and figure out WHY you felt so guilty in the first place. Could it be a religious background maybe? (not trying to be biased but that can usually be a source of guilt).

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

CanadianGuy's right on here! Everyone masturbates, it's nothing to be guily about, its just biological! Plus, its alot better than wet dreams! maybe just try to do it in the shower isntead, that way you can get sued to it, and you wont have to clean up or worry about the smell. then once you kow yourself a little more, you could move to the bed or a more comfortable place.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

And always ALWAYS keep something handy to clean up if you're really afraid of a mess. Some would say a towel or something but if you want to avoid washing it (or your parents finding a towel with very "embarrassing" stains on it :P ) just use tissues which you can throw out or flush down the toilet.

[The Entertainer]

oooooh, good advice there...use something you can flush/dispose of quickly. Dont forget, its perfectly ok to feel guilty after masturbating, but remember, even our animal friends do it quite often...

[Sugaree]

Well that was helpfull to know >_< it be funny to see an animal do it lol.

But yes it is normal to feel guilty after. Just use something like a tissue or something you can easily throw away or flush down the toliet

[Mzor203]

Could it be a religious background maybe? (not trying to be biased but that can usually be a source of guilt).

No, I'm not religous, It's probably just because since I was homeschooled for a lot of my life I never knew about that kind of stuff and I just have this thing in the back of my head telling me that my dick is something that should only be used when you're serious about sex. (Or when you're using the bathroom)

[dogman]

does anyone use the backhand meathod like they say on jackinworld

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Meh, I tried it, didnt like it. I prefer the conventional method!

[Patchy]

does anyone use the backhand meathod like they say on jackinworld

Tried it, doesnt do much for me though

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Tried it, doesnt do much for me though

Same... I was laughing too much actually cuz no matter how hard I tried to like it a little voice in the back of my mind was thinking "wow I'm BACKHANDING my penis" :P

[HikaruTheHunter]

hey, I'm a 13 yr. old male, and I have a question. I have masturbated for about a month and a half now. And I wanted to know if my friend was lying about something. I asked him if he masturbated, and he said no. And then I read your forums and you said, '95% of boys masturbate, and the other 5% lie about it' Is he lying? Or is he telling the truth? I mean, he's fourteen and I would expect him to do it. He is a very strange person who talks about sex a lot.

[Antares]

Well...I would say hes MOST likely lying. But as the statistic states 95% does. So he probably does but there still is that 5% that he dosent. But it is probably 100% or 99% that he has before just not on a regular basis. So...he probably does hes just not comfortable telling you that.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Does a one-legged duck swim in a circle?

Its more than likely that the guy masturbates; with the percentage so high (like they said 99-100%) its safer to assume that he DOES do it than that he doesn't. You even said he talks about sex a lot, which is just another sign that he's just a regular (horny lol) teenager that is the same as most guys his age. Like they said he probably doesn't think that its "cool" and that only "losers" without girlfriends do it (when statistically speaking studies show that men masturbate MORE while in a relationship! :D).

[Sugaree]

He's most likely telling a lie. Nothing to worry about. Most guys aren't confortable telling other people it they do or not.

And yes I tried the backhand technique on Jackinworld. Didn't work. I hated it

[Xxzero412xx]

i dont like trying different techs i like mine :)

[Mzor203]

Okay, so I have another question. What would happen if you never masturbated or never had sex for years and years. Would something happen? Would it be in any way unhealthy. I know you would get wet dreams.

Also, if you masturbated regularly and then suddenly stopped doing it for a long time, would something happen?

[theOperaGhost]

I don't think you would be unhealthy. unhappy... yes.

[MoveAlong]

What would happen if you never masturbated or never had sex for years and years. Would something happen? Would it be in any way unhealthy. I know you would get wet dreams.

Actually, sex and masturbation contributes to health. They both relieve stress and are a way of exherting yourself. If you don't have either, you may be feel a little tense than usual. Though I'm really doubtful that anyone would go for years and years, especially without masturbation. But if they did, it probably wouldn't harm them in any way, and this tenseness could become a minor thing after awhile.

However, if men get aroused but don't jack off, they might experience blue balls (their balls would ache for a few minutes. It isn't damaging but it can hurt like hell)

Also, if you masturbated regularly and then suddenly stopped doing it for a long time, would something happen?

It might catch your body off guard and you may experience that tenseness or be really horny for awhile until your body gets used to not being exherted sexually. But nothing bad would happen.

Although, I've heard that sex is good for your health, and you may be able to live longer if you have it regularly. But I haven't heard any evidence behind this.

[Mzor203]

Okay, thanks. I really don't masturbate, but I want to know the pros and cons of both doing it and not doing it.

[MoveAlong]

I don't see any pros and I see a few cons, but it's not anything to really worry about and you can do it whenever you want to! :D

but I just wouldn't be able to go without it :P

[Mzor203]

^Lol, sForzando. I still like staccatto.

Anyways:

But the one thing that scares me about doing it often is getting into the situation you're in. If I get really into masturbation, the chances f getting caught would be high, and that would kill me. and cleaning up has always been annoying for me.

[gorilla]

me and my friend always masturbate togetherand suck eachothers penis, is this alrite? we both like it and neither of us is gay, we both have girlfriends and i have had sex with her 3 times. y do we like it and can we carry on?

[Gavin]

me and my friend always masturbate togetherand suck eachothers penis, is this alrite? we both like it and neither of us is gay, we both have girlfriends and i have had sex with her 3 times. y do we like it and can we carry on?

I dont understand that, if you both have a girlfriend then why would you need to do that with you friend, that just does not make any sense to me

[HelloWorld123456]

is masturbation heatly or not ? :confused:

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Healthy? yes, masturbation is a healthy activity that helps to reduce prostate cancer in men, and can help relax people with high stress

[HelloWorld123456]

oh another thing is...i started to produce spearm at about the age of 9-10 is that normal ? ? ? ? because all the websites i have searched, all say about 12-15 :confused::confused:

[Gavin]

oh another thing is...i started to produce spearm at about the age of 9-10 is that normal ? ? ? ? because all the websites i have searched, all say about 12-15 :confused::confused:

I've not heard of that before, or do you mean pre-cum

[HelloWorld123456]

I've not heard of that before, or do you mean pre-cum

no i'm sure it was spearm :/ :yes:

or it is just i have developed faster than others :S



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sry i won't double post again

[Malcolm Tucker]

Please don't double post.
~
It's possible, just not common. This does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. It's possible,yes, that you developed faster.

[Mzor203]

Okay, now I'm getting pissed at myself.
You may remember a couple of pages ago how I posted that sometimes I would randomly wake up in the middle of the night and I would be orgasming. Well, it happened last night, where I basically woke up, my pants were down, and I was cumming all over the place. I always have dreams about different things before this happens, but this time I was dreaming about me being on the moon :confused:.

I am wondering if it is possible to masturbate in you sleep, because this seems a lot more frequent than wet dreams, like once every 2-4 nights. I'm usually turned off by the idea of masturbating, but who knows what happens to my mind in the dead of night...

[Dolphus Raymond]

Okay, now I'm getting pissed at myself.
You may remember a couple of pages ago how I posted that sometimes I would randomly wake up in the middle of the night and I would be orgasming. Well, it happened last night, where I basically woke up, my pants were down, and I was cumming all over the place. I always have dreams about different things before this happens, but this time I was dreaming about me being on the moon :confused:.

I am wondering if it is possible to masturbate in you sleep, because this seems a lot more frequent than wet dreams, like once every 2-4 nights. I'm usually turned off by the idea of masturbating, but who knows what happens to my mind in the dead of night...

Two things:

1. It's very hard to remember dreams in sequence. Your brain shifts them around. You could have been having a sex dream and the moon dream just before that.

2. It's also possible that you were sleep-masturbating during the moon dream. Sleep-walking is possible, and people even sleep-butter sleep-toast (well, real toast) when they sleepwalk. So sleep-masturbation is very possible. In fact, it's a form of parasomnia (a catch-all term for unconscious, undesirable actions during sleep) called sleepsex. It's a fairly newly-recognized disorder, only since 1996. Here's a web site with information on it:

http://www.sleepsex.org/

Do you think that could be what you have?

[Mzor203]

Yes, I believe it is very likely that sleepsex could be my problem, since I can feel the orgasm coming on in my sleep, and just before I wake up weird things happen in my dream. I don't think my brain displaced the order of my dreams since I usually wake up very abruptly and know what happened in them and feel like I still am living in them. I didn't see anything on that site about how to cure sleepsex, so any help? Or if I missed a page link please?

[Dolphus Raymond]

Yes, I believe it is very likely that sleepsex could be my problem, since I can feel the orgasm coming on in my sleep, and just before I wake up weird things happen in my dream. I don't think my brain displaced the order of my dreams since I usually wake up very abruptly and know what happened in them and feel like I still am living in them. I didn't see anything on that site about how to cure sleepsex, so any help? Or if I missed a page link please?

Honestly, there is very little on this. I'll have access to some medical databases tomorrow and see what I can find. If I don't, remind me, please?

A lot of the information out there seems pretty amateurish...most cases are minor. Like with you, it happens very sporadically.

[Mzor203]

Yes, but often enough to really piss me off and have to clean up at three o'clock in the morning, along with causing guilt and annoyance. I just hate to think about what would happen if I slept in the same bed as someone else. :eek:

[Xxzero412xx]

before you go to bed you can tape a napkin to your penis so when you have an orgasm you dont have to worry about cleaning up

[Mzor203]

LOL! Now that would be interesting and hard to explain to someone. I'm not sure if I'm that desperate yet.

[Gavin]

before you go to bed you can tape a napkin to your penis so when you have an orgasm you dont have to worry about cleaning up

What if the cum soaks through that, and on too the sheets :eek:

[Gumleaf]

What if the cum soaks through that, and on too the sheets :eek:

easy fix, use 2 or 3 tissues or napkins or whatever. :P

[jedi8139]

i have a question

i was masturbating w/ vaseline, and when semen came out it was a faint red color. should i be worried?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I wouldnt be worried, there might have been a little blood there, but it shouldnt be a problem. Just try not to be too rough. If It happens again, wait a few days before masturbating again.

[The Entertainer]

Its blood, so I personally would be worried, and see a doctor about it. Blood means internal bleeding of some sort...

[dogman]

if you think its blood, go and see the doc, or take it easy, 3-4 days, then try again

[Gumleaf]

I wouldnt be worried, there might have been a little blood there, but it shouldnt be a problem. Just try not to be too rough. If It happens again, wait a few days before masturbating again.

i agree with this, but if it happens again there could be something wrong and you should see a doc just to be safe.

[Avnd]

does anyone know about the illeffects of mastrubating?For me at times cum comes out fast(I like it coming slowly cauz the fun lasts more)...Any ways to make it come slowly?

[The Entertainer]

Im not sure we can tell you explicitly....jakinworld.com has all the methods...what I would say is try the stop and go method. Thats all I think Im allowed to say.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

does anyone know about the illeffects of mastrubating?For me at times cum comes out fast(I like it coming slowly cauz the fun lasts more)...Any ways to make it come slowly?

There are no ill-effects, unless you do it to much and rub yourself raw. There really are only good effects like great feelings and reduced chance of prostate cancer in men. I don't think there's a way to make it come out slowly, there isn't really a way to control it. Sorry :(

[Mzor203]

Okay, I'm wondering something. I wonder if I masturbate during the day I will maybe be ble to pull myself out of this sticky situation (Yes, the pun was intended). But, the showers in my house are out of order, and I don't really want to have to clean up after myself, so I need suggestions for where to do it and without mess.

[Avnd]

k i guess if u do in the day is bettere(but it is actually ur wish cauz it depends on wen u get the feeling of masturbating).n to controll the mess...hold a tissue paaper in one hand n when u think dat the cum is gonna come out just hold it(tissue paper) near to the penis...
guess i was able to answer ur question.... if not just tell me...

this is for Mzor...:
k i guess if u do in the day is better(but it is actually ur wish cauz it depends on wen u get the feeling of masturbating).n to controll the mess...hold a tissue paaper in one hand n when u think dat the cum is gonna come out just hold it(tissue paper) near to the penis...
guess i was able to answer ur question.... if not just tell me...

[dogman]

k i guess if u do in the day is bettere(but it is actually ur wish cauz it depends on wen u get the feeling of masturbating).n to controll the mess...hold a tissue paaper in one hand n when u think dat the cum is gonna come out just hold it(tissue paper) near to the penis...
guess i was able to answer ur question.... if not just tell me...

this is for Mzor...:
k i guess if u do in the day is better(but it is actually ur wish cauz it depends on wen u get the feeling of masturbating).n to controll the mess...hold a tissue paaper in one hand n when u think dat the cum is gonna come out just hold it(tissue paper) near to the penis...
guess i was able to answer ur question.... if not just tell me...


dont double post, the the edit button

[Mzor203]

Hmmm... I don't know if I'd really be able to do that because when I cum I come a lot and all over the place, and it's just kind of weird. Maybe I should just wait to do it in the shower... or wander off deep into the woods where no one goes and do it there lol.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Part of the reason WHY you said you "cum alot and everywhere" is most likely because you haven't masturbated in 4 MONTHS! Well If you usually wait that long (even once a month) the buildup is gonna be extreme no matter what so expect craziness! Guys who do it once a day for example might just dribble and a lot less could come out; for us we usually can only wait several days before going again and even THEN it shoots out like crazy (this is personal experience, but other guys will identify with it).

[Mzor203]

Um, yes, but I have that stupid problem where I end up cumming all over the place every other night, so it's not like it has all been building up in there for four months.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

By every other night do you mean you have a wet dream? The only way to really stop that then is to masturbate every night before bed; think of it as a chore if you must. At least THEN when it comes out everywhere you'd be awake and able to keep it from messing up your bedsheets.

[Mzor203]

Maybe, but it doesn't change the fact that I wish to do it somewhere where mess won't be as much of an issue.

[The Entertainer]

if the mess is such an issue, then why not masturbate in the bathroom and cum down the toilet? Then its just a matter of a flush and its all gone....just a thought.

If you are getting wet dreams every other night, then theres not a lot that can be done. Id personally sleep with some briefs or boxers on, so that it keeps the sperm in one place, and youre not rolling around it in and getting it in the bed-sheets.

[dogman]

if the mess is such an issue, then why not masturbate in the bathroom and cum down the toilet? Then its just a matter of a flush and its all gone....just a thought.

If you are getting wet dreams every other night, then theres not a lot that can be done. Id personally sleep with some briefs or boxers on, so that it keeps the sperm in one place, and youre not rolling around it in and getting it in the bed-sheets.

i agree, either wear something absorbant to bed, eg breifs/ boxer-breifs

if you are worried about mess, what you could do is when you cum, wherever it may be, try and keep your penis in one spot, so the cum doesnt shoot everywhere, and then wipe it up with a tissue/toilet paper

[Mzor203]

I don't really roll in the cum or anything because every time I wake up just before the orgasm. So yeah.

And the problem with the toilet is that my penis reallylike to point almost straight upwards, so masturbating and aiming become a problem.

[dogman]

I don't really roll in the cum or anything because every time I wake up just before the orgasm. So yeah.

And the problem with the toilet is that my penis reallylike to point almost straight upwards, so masturbating and aiming become a problem.

i can understand that, it happens to me too

[toytoy2448]

im 13 i masterbate 1-2 times a day or every other day depending on my mood, but i'v never had an orgasum or cum befor is this normal?

[Mzor203]

You are most likely fine. There could be a number of reasons for this:

1. You just haven't developed to that point yet. If this is the case, you will soon.


2. You aren't masturbating in a way tha works for you. Go to www.jackinworld.com to find different techniques and experiment around to see if there's something that works better for you.

3. You are quitting too early. If you stop after two minutes because you can't get the orgasm, you may never achieve it. Just keep working.


Just remember, it is very likely number one is the case, so just wait and you'll develop.

[toytoy2448]

thanks il try that site

[hello-everybody]

I'm less than a month off turning 15, and i am capable of ejaculating, especailly when i masturbate. But this morning, after about an hour after i woke up, i went to get wasked. While i did this, i was thinking about this hot girl, when i ejaculated with out touchuing my penis.
Is this normal?

[Mzor203]

Yes, there are some people who can orgasm without doing anything but thinking about something that gets them turned on. I can almost do it myself, and I am sure there are plenty others who can do this too. So don't worry, there is nothing wrong with you.

[GRB123]

how can i learn to do that

[Gumleaf]

how can i learn to do that

i don't think you can learn how to do it. it just happens if you are extremely aroused.

[Sugaree]

how can i learn to do that

Most boys will ejaculate without touching the penis or even masturbating. We can't tell you how to do it because not all boys can.

[Mzor203]

It seems that many do it when looking at porn, so either do that (If you are that type of person) or just get yourself very aroused by thinking about something that turns you on.

[thePUNISHER]

I've always wanted to try jacking off with a condom but dont know where to get one. Where is the best place?

[Dolphus Raymond]

I've always wanted to try jacking off with a condom but dont know where to get one. Where is the best place?

Pretty much any supermarket or even corner store. Best place in what way?

[Sugaree]

I've always wanted to try jacking off with a condom but dont know where to get one. Where is the best place?

I would say like your local pharmacy or grocery store. Why do you think there is a best place lol.

It's all ok. And don't worry anyone can buy condoms.

[TheDude]

is there a way to cum more? i find it always feels better the more that i cum
like stop and go x 10 is good but cant do more than that because its like mentally impossible lol so is there anything i can do in combination with that

[Adam22491]

I want to masturebate with a friend, how do i ask him

[Sugaree]

We can't share sexual activities on this forum sorry. It's normal to feel this way. It's due to hormones.

[Mzor203]

is there a way to cum more? i find it always feels better the more that i cum
like stop and go x 10 is good but cant do more than that because its like mentally impossible lol so is there anything i can do in combination with that

The longer you wait before masturbating the more cum there will be.

[TheDude]

The longer you wait before masturbating the more cum there will be.

i know but it isnt by that much

[Sugaree]

Well if you drink a lot of water you will be able to cum more than usual.

[lardlad2002]

my balls always hang down, and when i masturbaate, they bounce up and down, and it gets annoying. is there any way to stop it?

[Oblivion]

Hold them with the other hand?

[Gavin]

my balls always hang down, and when i masturbaate, they bounce up and down, and it gets annoying. is there any way to stop it?

I dont think there is any other way for this, I have this sometimes and i just leave it :)

[Sugaree]

my balls always hang down, and when i masturbaate, they bounce up and down, and it gets annoying. is there any way to stop it?

Most guys will hold them with the other hand. I would suggest doing that.

[Brady]

that was happened to me in my first orgamam ull get ova it like uveryone else said its natural u prob ddnt generoate enough cum and ur orgamsm prob wasnt big enough

[MoveAlong]

i know but it isnt by that much

it's a lot for me, especially if I wait a few days

I agree with legalbeagle

[lordjebus1993]

i love j/o!! my favorite technique is up & down, no lube, lube sucks for me :yeah:

[mtnbiker12]

well I'm thirteen and I've never masterbated. Ive tried many techniques but none have worked. I want to masterbate, but am I too young?

[george]

http://virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=22306

Your never to young or to old to masturbate, but you might be to young to ejaculate.

[mtnbiker12]

What color is it when I masterbate? White like sperm?

[Bigbadaboom]

when I masterbate when I get that feeling (is that an orgasm?) this clear stuff comes out, is that an ejaculation???

[Gumleaf]

"that feeling" would be an orgasm for sure. the clear stuff is an ejaculation however as you develop more the clear stuff will become more white.

[cakemeister1]

At the moment its the school holidays here, so my mum and sister are out from early in the morning almost ever day. I could masturbate every day if I wanted to, but I feel guilty...

I'm not sure why I feel guilty, but it gets in the way of my masturbation. Is it completely normal for everyone my age (14) to masturbate?

[Dolphus Raymond]

At the moment its the school holidays here, so my mum and sister are out from early in the morning almost ever day. I could masturbate every day if I wanted to, but I feel guilty...

I'm not sure why I feel guilty, but it gets in the way of my masturbation. Is it completely normal for everyone my age (14) to masturbate?

It's normal, and healthy :)

What do you think about that makes you feel guilty?

[theOperaGhost]

At the moment its the school holidays here, so my mum and sister are out from early in the morning almost ever day. I could masturbate every day if I wanted to, but I feel guilty...

I'm not sure why I feel guilty, but it gets in the way of my masturbation. Is it completely normal for everyone my age (14) to masturbate?


Yes it is completely normal for people that age to masturbate. In fact most people start when they are like 12. I've felt that guilty feeling before, but it's only after I masturbate. Don't worry about it though, there's nothing to be guilty about.

[cakemeister1]

I don't know why it makes me feel guilty... Anyway, its good to know everyone else does it too.

[dogman]

I don't know why it makes me feel guilty... Anyway, its good to know everyone else does it too.

dont feel guilty, its a natural body process and a natural thing for boys to do, u shouldn't feel guilty

[Gavin]

I don't know why it makes me feel guilty... Anyway, its good to know everyone else does it too.

Most boys feel kinda gulity after masturbating, so your not alone

[TheDude]

Most boys feel kinda gulity after masturbating, so your not alone

i dont feel guilty after masturbating...

[Dolphus Raymond]

Guilt may not be something most guys feel, but a lot do. I suppose it depends on your upbringing, attitude, relaxation level, etc. I imagine that, as you get used to it, it will go away. That's what happens with most irrational emotions.

[max4001x]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

i am circumcised, it doesn't hurt it is awsome

has anyone masturbated with a friend if anyone has how did you ask them

[Antares]

Please refrain from double posting.

[geniusrocksoutloud]

MAsturbating makes me a lil tired

[TheDude]

Me too, takes a lot of energy!

[Setzer]

does anyone of you know how can ejaculate without have an orgasm???

[Dolphus Raymond]

does anyone of you know how can ejaculate without have an orgasm???

It's possible, but there's not a method that guarantees it. Well, there are...but they involve some pretty good medical knowledge and I wouldn't recommend you try them at home.

Why do you ask?

[myskias]

i have done it before!! but i dont think im allowed to tell how i did it, if i am tell me

[Setzer]

I asked because I think that masturbation is better than orgasm...I'm strange...:D

[Gender-Unknown]

i got a question guys.

how do you self suck? i have always wondered how to do this.

P.S when u 1st masturbated did you think you were the only one in the world that new about this? Thats what i though. That if i did something to my penis it would feel good.

SO how do i selfsuck?

[Dolphus Raymond]

i got a question guys.

how do you self suck? i have always wondered how to do this.

P.S when u 1st masturbated did you think you were the only one in the world that new about this? Thats what i though. That if i did something to my penis it would feel good.

SO how do i selfsuck?

With lots of bending...this is not something most guys can do. Please don't send yourself to the hospital over it.

[Setzer]

I've recently read about kegels but I haven't understood what they are...
do you know anything about kegels?

[BillyBob247]

Ok, i am 14, and when i masturbate i dont ejaculate and its pissin me off, i have like 30-50 long curled pubes and no pit hair. Plus when i jak off i do it like my penis is a stick and im making a fire with it by rubbing my hands back and fourth on the shaft of my penis, and when i try doing it the normal way i get nothing out of it.....WHATS WRONG???

[Gumleaf]

you are just not developed enough yet to produce semen. that is nothing to worry about, you just have to be patient and in time it will happen.

[GAboy]

When I materbate after im done my erection disapperes and i cant do it again. is that normal???????????????? ;] :[

Has any one tried the masterbation teqnequis they have on the front page??????
If so which ones were the best for you???(i have no acess to condoms so those are out):(

[Gavin]

First of all dont double post, secondly it's normal for your erection to go down right after you have masturbated it needs time to re-coup again

[curiousteen]

im 14 yrs old. the first time i ever jacked off was when i was 11 and i probably started puberty a few months after my 11th b-day. i didnt know anything about it till my friends told me about it so i decided to try it and the next thing i know is that i was feeling this intense feeling that i cant describe and there it was, my cum lying on the carpet.
and also it was my first time measuring my self . at 12 i was 6 in and at 13 yrs old i was 6 1/2in then at 13 i was 7 1/2 and had a grows spurt for some reason and now at 14 im 8 in. now i just want to know if there is somethin wrong wit me growing so fast? does anyone have an answer.

[GAboy]

ok sorry about double posting. thanks:0 :)

[Antares]

ok sorry about double posting. thanks:0 :)
Posts Merged.
No probs. Just remember the edit button. Thanks

[Sugaree]

When I materbate after im done my erection disapperes and i cant do it again. is that normal???????????????? ;] :[

Has any one tried the masterbation teqnequis they have on the front page??????
If so which ones were the best for you???(i have no acess to condoms so those are out):(

Stop and go was the best for me and it's normal for your erection to go after masturbation

[MoveAlong]

and also it was my first time measuring my self . at 12 i was 6 in and at 13 yrs old i was 6 1/2in then at 13 i was 7 1/2 and had a grows spurt for some reason and now at 14 im 8 in. now i just want to know if there is somethin wrong wit me growing so fast? does anyone have an answer.

No there's nothing wrong with you, some people grow 10 inches in height in one year, it's just genes and chance really!

When I materbate after im done my erection disapperes and i cant do it again. is that normal???????????????? ;] :[


Yes, that's called the refractory period. "In physiology, a refractory period is a period of time during which an organ or cell is incapable of repeating a particular action" - Wikipedia
It's very normal to lose your erection quickly after masturbating and not being able to masturbate again for awhile

[basketball fan]

when I masturbate I feel guilty afterwords y:confused:

[Setzer]

don't worry... a lot of people feel guilty... depends on the character that a person has

[Dolphus Raymond]

when I masturbate I feel guilty afterwords y:confused:

That depends a lot on how you were raised and your personality. If you were taught that masturbation or pleasure is bad, you might feel guilty. If you were taught that sex is dirty, you might too. Even if your parents taught you that there's nothing wrong with it at all, guilt is possible. A lot of people are bothered by how much being horny changes them, so this is understandable. But as long as you are in control of yourself, and doing it in moderation, there is nothing wrong with it at all. :)

[basketball fan]

thnx for the help and 1 more q wen i masturbate my thing whips at orgie

[Skyer]

Is being cut somthing you're born with? Or what do you do to get cut?

[Antares]

You are born uncut. Then the doctor may go snip if your parents choose so.

1 more q wen i masturbate my thing whips at orgie

What do you mean 'whips'? At orgasm? Whips what is that?

[Dolphus Raymond]

Is being cut somthing you're born with? Or what do you do to get cut?

It's possible to be born cut, but it's extremely rare. It's usually done as a surgical procedure.

In the U.S., infant circumcision has been a non-religious tradition for a couple or three generations. A lot of other countries used to do it at birth, but all of them except the U.S. have essentially abandoned the practice. Obviously, Israel still does it for religious reasons, and Muslims are generally cut before puberty for religious reasons too. The rate in the U.S. has fallen from something like 95% a few decades ago to 60% now, but outside of the West Coast, it's still a common practice.

[Mzor203]

You are born uncut. Then the doctor may go snip if your parents choose so.



What do you mean 'whips'? At orgasm? Whips what is that?

I think he may mean his penis whips back and forth. If this is the case, from my little experience, orgasms are pretty violent things (lol) and the muscle contractions cause your penis to move around.

[rockgibson15]

is there any other type of orgasm for guys that doenst happen in the penis?

[george]

As far as I know no there isn't but if there is then correct me :D But then there are sayings like "omg theres an orgy of flavors in my mouth" and things like that :D

[alphus]

I'm 14 and masturbate frequently but I don't ejaculate and I haven't had any wet dreams is something wrong with me or what?? I'm actually quite worried about it. I'm also uncut.

[Sugaree]

No nothing is wrong with you. You obviously haven't become developed enough to ejaculate

[The Pretender]

Don't worry it's normal, give yourself sometime to develop, you'll be able to soon.

[itsme..mr7inches]

im 14 .. i have alot of wet dreams but when i masterbate i can never get past the pre-cum stage. how long do i have to do it for? do i keep masterbating untill it comes out or do i have to push it out as if im havin a pee?

[Jesse]

im 14 .. i have alot of wet dreams but when i masterbate i can never get past the pre-cum stage. how long do i have to do it for? do i keep masterbating untill it comes out or do i have to push it out as if im havin a pee?
Just keep masterbating, it'll come out naturally!

[Setzer]

does masturbation hurts your elbow permanently?

[Medical Kid]

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEES! I FINALLY GOT INTO MY PRE CUM STAGE! last night, I was masturbating ALOT, and I felt something surfacing to the top of my penis, I went to the bathroom and peed, IT WASNT PEE! it was too gooey, thick, and white to be pee! ooh! im so happy!

[doodledum]

how much time does it take you to cum when you are masturbating?

[Antares]

It totally depends on the person and how long they want there masturbation session to last. For example, if people are using the stop and go method then they can masturbate anywhere from 2 minutes to an hour. Usually if people do it normally I would say that people cum within 1-10 minutes.

[Jesse]

does masturbation hurts your elbow permanently?
No, I've never heard of anyone having chronic elbow pain from masturbation, I've never even heard of anyone just getting pain. So the answer is no, I don't think it will do permanent damage.


YEEEEEEEEEEEEEES! I FINALLY GOT INTO MY PRE CUM STAGE! last night, I was masturbating ALOT, and I felt something surfacing to the top of my penis, I went to the bathroom and peed, IT WASNT PEE! it was too gooey, thick, and white to be pee! ooh! im so happy!
Congratulations!

[Sugaree]

does masturbation hurts your elbow permanently?
It depends on the technique. It usually hurts my palm

[Medical Kid]

well........it WAS my first time, it seemed to have taken about 20 mins..........and weird, my pelvis hurt a little afterwards, is that normal?

[theOperaGhost]

well........it WAS my first time, it seemed to have taken about 20 mins..........and weird, my pelvis hurt a little afterwards, is that normal?

If it was your first time, then I don't think your pelvis hurting it abnormal. Nothing wrong with that unless it is like really painful. It could be sore just because you've never used those muscles that way before.

[Random_oso06]

when i j/o my arm hurts

[theOperaGhost]

when i j/o my arm hurts

Maybe try jacking off slower. Or don't do it so hard, just relax your arm and it shouldn't hurt so much.

[dogman]

try not going so hard, or rest it somewhere, like an armrest of a chair

[Setzer]

how is masturbating with a friend? is it weird? I have never tried...:D

[Patchy]

how is masturbating with a friend? is it weird? I have never tried...:D

Well it depends, some people find it enjoyable and fun others find it weird and horrible.

Be warned though if you masturbate with a friend you may ruin your friendship if they take it the wrong way...and also your friendship may never be the same. on the other hand though it may be fun.