** Post ALL Masturbation Questions HERE **

[seanrome]

anal masturbation? yay nay?

[MechaSniper]

anal masturbation? yay nay?

Tis a nay my good sir

[HououinKiyoma]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?
You can get that experience by pulling back your foreskin completely and moving it up and down the shaft WITHOUT touching the dickhead.... It feels great and i try it for a change!

[Tesserax]

Um, I have a sort of embarrassing one I would like cleared up; my penis has a dark patch on its right base where the left of my palm normally goes when I wank, and the shaft has a whitish sort of hard patch of skin where my middle finger goes (I use it to squeeze as I wank as my tip is sensitive, and friction with the prints feels really weird normally and I have foreskin so it stretches and contracts as I pull). I want to know if this is normal, or if I should get it checked out or something, because I think it's probably due to the way I wank with the pressure put on the skin or something like that. Anyway, knowing whether this is weird or not will probably take this thing off my mind haha, thanks in advance

[jessetom]

To help resist the urge just take up a hobbie, or make sure you have a lot to do. Also I find it helps if you have other people around (not too much time alone)

Thanks man.....gotta try
Most people here say its okay to masturbate, but deep inside, we all know it aint okay...we are all tryna find a way out but most of us don't wanna be open about it...and please if you are just starting this shit, please stop it... It can result to low sperm count, premature ejaculation etc...
Please try to stop it....

Thanks guys

[Adventure boy]

I prone Mastuabte and I want to try to not prone mastubate but it feels so good and when I prone mastubate I lie on my stomach with my cloths still on and get my buldge and I just twirl it or like move it 360 I try to mastubate norml in the showers but I can feel a lot and my arm starts to hurt so I just grab my thing and cup my hand and move it around them I start stroking I'm 14Turing 15 help me please 🙏

And I think when when I'm erect im 5 inches in that big or small

[Swalot]

How many time a day should I be masturbuting and how many time a day do you guys do it?

So when I masturbuate I pull my foreskin back and then stroke the shaft is it harmful or good.

[Dennis98]

So when I masturbuate I pull my foreskin back and then stroke the shaft is it harmful or good.

That's normal . It isn't harmful at all ... All uncut guys j/o like that , me too ...

And I think when when I'm erect im 5 inches in that big or small

Normal ... In fact , that is average size for adults , plus it will grow more ...

How many time a day should I be masturbuting and how many time a day do you guys do it?

There is no border for j/o ... It all depends from you , masturbate whatever you like . Personally , I jack off at least 2 times a day ...

[sander]

I do not masterbate the same way other people masterbate I just lay my dick on my belly and press down on it till I come I repeatedly do this /I only to it this way because I'm cut and when I masterbate dry it hurts/is there any risks to using my technique or isit safe

[JerseyGuy]

You're safe dude, but you eventually may get a kinda rug burn.

[jssixna]

How many time a day should I be masturbuting and how many time a day do you guys do it?

There is no limit to how much you masturbate a day. I don't think you should go over 5 times because your dick will become sore. I don't masturbate everyday but when I do, only once.

And I think when when I'm erect im 5 inches in that big or small

You are perfectly normal. Don't worry about your size you have plenty of years of growing left.

[Adventure boy]

Can you pull your forskin back to much

[jssixna]

Can you pull your forskin back to much

If it starts to hurt then it's too much.

[Swalot]

So I masturbuat like 1-3 times a day and each time I do I watch porn. Will watching porn affect me in a negative way and if so how?

[Dennis98]

Can you pull your forskin back to much

As Jssixna said , it starts to hurt when you pull it maximally , but , if you continue with pulling it even due pain , you can break your frenulum , and I'm sure you don't want that ...

[Excalibur]

I'm not sure if this has or hasn't been asked yet but, is it okay to masturbate in the shower? Would the cum clog up the plumbing, or is it completely harmless? I always find cum quite messy and hard to clean up, so I've taken to masturbating in the shower so it washes right off, but I don't know if this is the best technique or location to masturbate. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Dennis98]

I'm not sure if this has or hasn't been asked yet but, is it okay to masturbate in the shower? Would the cum clog up the plumbing, or is it completely harmless? I always find cum quite messy and hard to clean up, so I've taken to masturbating in the shower so it washes right off, but I don't know if this is the best technique or location to masturbate. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Yeah , it is totally normal . Hehe , it can't clog ... Don't worry ... Masturbation techniques are forbidden here on this site . Masturbate wherever you like ..

[lonely_gay_boy]

Is it bad to masturbate more then once a day? And why do i seem to cum less on the 2-4 time?

[Dennis98]

Is it bad to masturbate more then once a day? And why do i seem to cum less on the 2-4 time?

No it isn't . There isn't measure for masturbating , masturbate as much you like . Based on what you said , I would say that you're too young , and you should know that more you masturbate you'll cum less and vice versa .

[Excalibur]

This may have been asked already, so sorry if it has, but I've heard that the more you masturbate, the less you ejaculate, so can you masturbate enough in a period of time to where you can't cum anymore for a while? Just curious. XD

[jssixna]

This may have been asked already, so sorry if it has, but I've heard that the more you masturbate, the less you ejaculate, so can you masturbate enough in a period of time to where you can't cum anymore for a while? Just curious. XD

It's true that consecutive ejaculation in a day will lessen sperm count. Your body always replenishes sperm but if you do it enough then you'll have at most a tiny bit of semen when you ejaculate again.

[valloy]

So I first started masturbating by putting my dick between my legs and just squeezing and now its what i usually do. is that dangerous at all or stuff like that?:what:

Omg bro, don't worry I do that too most of the time, and I find it quicker and much better. As long as it is not hurting you then go right ahead! :D

[Amnesiacc]

is it normal that I write erotica about my ex girlfriend? we've been broken up for two years now, i don't love her or miss her i just really enjoyed the sex with her and i write sexual fantasies about her, and i masturbate to it sometimes. Does anyone else do this? doesn't have to be an ex girlfriend i just wonder if other men write sex fantasies about girls they know.

[NickC]

is it normal that I write erotica about my ex girlfriend? we've been broken up for two years now, i don't love her or miss her i just really enjoyed the sex with her and i write sexual fantasies about her, and i masturbate to it sometimes. Does anyone else do this? doesn't have to be an ex girlfriend i just wonder if other men write sex fantasies about girls they know.

I havent done this...mainly because i am gay. But i would say that it is very normal dude.

[Josh75]

From IAMSAM:

It might be helpful to define a few terms for guys.

1) Orgasm=the rthymic contractions of that little (wonderful!) muscle between the scrotum and anus.

2) 'Pre cum'=that misleading little term to differentiate the stuff that comes out before orgasm from the stuff that comes out during orgasm/ejaculation. It's misleading because the stuff in it is basically the same, the only difference is the amount. As an FYI, there are gazillions of sperm in 'pre cum'.

3) Ejaculation=the spurting/dribbling of semen during orgasm (=the rhythmic contraction of 'that' muscle between the scrotum and anus).

8) Whatever size you are now, you can expect to be about 6" when your fully grown, when puberty ends around 20. There is nothing to do about this but wait.

10) Good girls don't care whatsoever about your penis, what it looks like, what size it is, if it's with foreskin or not. The great thing about love is that it truly is blind. Mercifully, girls are more tolerant of us than we are of ourselves, they actually love us with all our insecurities. If you find one who doesn't, rush out the door.


Dear Iamsam:
I have to respectfully correct you on some of your information above.

1. Orgasm. Between the scrotum and anus there is only skin, called the perineum. The scrotum and anus are located on the external part of the body. There is no muscle between them only the skin area I just mentioned. Inside the perineum is where the prostate is located. It does not contract during orgasm, but the anus or sphincter does.

2. Precum, which technically is pre-ejaculate, is primarily produced by the prostate, located inside the body from your perineum, which is why when jacking many guys like to press there because it massages the prostate & causes increased pleasure. When entering the anus, it's located about 3" in and toward your navel. It's highly sensitive during sex and can be stimulated by inserting a finger/s or penis or other, which highly stimulates the prostate. Pressing on the prostate firmly will cause precum to drip from the end of your soft or hard penis. Precum is clear, colorless & viscous.

Research has found no or low levels of sperm in precum.

The prostate secretes precum that nourishes and protects sperm. During ejaculation, the prostate squeezes this fluid into the urethra, and it’s expelled with sperm as semen. (See WebMD)

3. There is no muscle between the scrotum & anus, only skin. Inside from the perineum is the prostate, which is NOT a muscle but a gland. (WebMD)

8. Technically, the average size for an adult male is between 5 & 6", so let's say 5.5"; but that's "average". Many adults are less than and more than that. I'm more than that. So I don't think it's fair to say that a teen should "expect" to be around 6", when it's very possible to be less or more than that.

Additionally, puberty does not end at 20, it ends sooner than that, 15-17 for girls, 16-17 for boys. See Wikipedia under Puberty.

10. Your answer to this about what "good girls" and I would add "good boys" since there are tons of gay boys here, is perhaps more theoretical & is more "wishful thinking" on the part of many people. If course we'd all like to be loved for who we are, the way we are. But for many people the "reality" is quite different. Many men & women are highly sexual people who place high value on sexual compatibility in a prospective partner. They feel that the sexual component of a relationship is very important, that sexual fulfillment is critical or "a must". If they cannot be fulfilled during sex with a person, the possibility of a serious relationship is impossible. For many of these men & women, the size of the penis is very important. Now they all have different preferences. But whatever these preferences are, these are critical to them in choosing a partner if they are to experience what they consider great sex. Gay guys of this nature generally prefer a guy to be above average size, or 6" or more. Women are the same. Some of these men & women want something even bigger.

I'm gay, my grandfather is gay, and I have two close family friends in their mid-30's in a longtime relationship, and they all have told me that based on their experience & from talking with the many, many other gay guys they've known throughout their lives. In my own experience, I've had sex with "a number" of guys, they all have a preference, & I've talked to many gay & bi boys who say the same thing. That's what I've been able to discover.

[Pat the Bunny]

Today I tried to masturbate for the first time. I've tried it like, 6 times today, each time using different techniques, though I think I may not be ready or something. Is there supposed to be pleasure, only if you reach orgasm, or is it supposed to be good while doing it.

[Axel_]

Today I tried to masturbate for the first time. I've tried it like, 6 times today, each time using different techniques, though I think I may not be ready or something. Is there supposed to be pleasure, only if you reach orgasm, or is it supposed to be good while doing it.

Are you masturbating correctly? Just keep trying a steady technique that fits you perfectly. When you masturbate you're supposed to feel pleasure while doing it and when you orgasm. Are you feeling any pleasure yet?

[Werty123]

I masturbate by rubbing and humping my penis on my bed? Is this ok? Will something bad Happen ?

[Pat the Bunny]

Are you masturbating correctly? Just keep trying a steady technique that fits you perfectly. When you masturbate you're supposed to feel pleasure while doing it and when you orgasm. Are you feeling any pleasure yet?

I guess I´m doing it wrong than. Thanks

[mariozplaze]

I've found that masturbating before bed helps me fall asleep, but there have been times where I'll masturbate before bed and wake all groggy. If I don't do it before bed I have a harder time falling asleep, but I wake up better. Which is a better path to take?

[jssixna]

That's odd mariozplaze but I'd choose masturbating before bed. I love sleeping.

[vboy]

I've found that masturbating before bed helps me fall asleep, but there have been times where I'll masturbate before bed and wake all groggy. If I don't do it before bed I have a harder time falling asleep, but I wake up better. Which is a better path to take?

Im the same I cant sleep unless ive had a quick one

[cdegennaro2001]

Im the same I cant sleep unless ive had a quick one

same here

[Werty123]

Is anal has? I want to try it, not in a gay way though

[trackstar15]

Is it possible to orgasm more than once while masturbating?

[NickC]

Is it possible to orgasm more than once while masturbating?

On a technicality scale, yes. I have done it before, actually i do it all the time. But having an orgasm and jizzing more than once is like extemely hard to do and most people cant do it. I would tell you how to do it....but im pretty sure that i would get either banned or suspended for doing so.....and i would kind of prefer not to lol so sorry

[Col.Snoopy]

Does masturbation have any negative health-effects?

[Uranus]

Does masturbation have any negative health-effects?

Not at all! Which is why it is simply amazing. As long as you're careful, there's no unbeneficial things at all.

[Col.Snoopy]

Is it pretty addiction-forming? If so, how would somebody go about effectively fighting this?

[CameronJT]

I used to be addicted to masturbating every day. Every since I quit 5 years ago I've felt so free to be myself. However it was really hard to quit - I needed the help of my Higher Power. Now that I'm free from that I am happy to tell my girlfriend that I live independent from a need to feel tingly pleasure all the time. I can start living for what really matters to me in life.

[William01]

I can't precum is that ok?

[Uranus]

I can't precum is that ok?


That depends on your age. If you're 13 well, you might not be able to yet.

[BeastRich]

Quick (few) question(s) and I apologize if this(these) was(were) already asked, I scanned the first ~30 pages before giving up.

Can people tell if you masturbate or not?
Will there be a distinct scent?
Will people judge you by this?
I doubt that the "by the age of 14, most males will have already masturbate and/or do it regularly" saying is true, is this because I am sheltered?
Is the above saying true?

Thanks in advance.

[cdegennaro2001]

is it true that masturbation can lead to
premature ejaculation? so i have to take it slow.I wanted to know how can i last more when im masturbating? i usually hurry to finish really quick

[Hermes]

Is it pretty addiction-forming? If so, how would somebody go about effectively fighting this?

According to Wikipedia:

Addiction is a state characterized by compulsive engagement in rewarding stimuli, despite adverse consequences.


In that context addicition usually applies to such things as smoking, taking illegal drugs, being alcoholic or compulsive betting or gambling which, despite being rewarding in the short term, cause long term harm.

For the most part masturbation is not like that. It's fun at the time and for most people actually has long term advantages in that they are comfortable with their bodies and their sexual selves, less likely to engage in risky or illegal sexual behaviour and less likely to get prostate cancer.

The ony time there is a problem is when there are other important things in your life such as school or work or having a social life which don't happen because you spend the time masturbating instead. This is pretty rare, though. Many guys find that masturbating regularly means they are better able to concentrate on some of those other things.

[fkatwigs]

has anyone else ever tasted their own cum?

[Dreamer98]

has anyone else ever tasted their own cum?

Yes I have .. :D

[Olly]

has anyone else ever tasted their own cum?

Multiple times lol, once I've cleaned up, if there's some on my fingers I'll just lick it off. No point in wasting it haha
ALthough, I'd rather it was someone elses in my mouth

[Olly]

Has no one made the joke about this being a masturbation thread, and it's sticky? Surely it can't be just me

[Werty123]

Is anal any good?

[Thanatos]

Is anal any good?

It really depends on the person, some people really enjoy it, while others don't at all. I know straight guys who enjoy anal play and gay guys who hate it, it doesn't necessarily correspond to sexuality. The most important thing about it is to be careful and read up first. Use lube, make sure if you are using something other than your fingers it is safe and has a flared bottom, don't rush too much at first.

[Kevin Bacon]

Is anal any good?

Some enjoy it, some don't.

I personally enjoy it.

[jayden123weston]

i want to tast my cum im 13teen is that bad 4 my age

[The Faulted]

i want to tast my cum im 13teen is that bad 4 my age Contact information removed. ~Elysium

nah, don't worry about it. lots of people do that, and i've tried it before. there's nothing wrong with it.

[linx]

It will be my first time masturbating wondering what the apeal is so thanks for any replies. <3

We don't allow discussion of sexual tips or techniques. ~Elysium

[Dreamer98]

I'm kinda shy about this? But yeah.

Do playing with your nipples 'allowed'? :confused::confused::confused: I mean, I only see girls do that when they masturbate, not boys. I'm not bi or anything, it just, adds to the pleasure.

So, is it really wrong to do so or something? Thanks :)

Nothing catastrophical , man. :D
Do whatever you find pleasurable . :D :D :D

[Dreamer98]

Oh thank you so much! After scanning the forums for the same topic and after hearing your reply, I felt better about myself, again, thanks! :D:D:D:yes:

Hhaahahahahahaha :D
You're welcome . :D :)

[Bluebyrd]

It will be my first time masturbating wondering what the apeal is so thanks for any replies. <3

We don't allow discussion of sexual tips or techniques. ~Elysium
The appeal of masturbation is reaching the point of orgasm.

Is it pretty addiction-forming? If so, how would somebody go about effectively fighting this?
If you control it then it won't be additive. Maybe once a day and make sure that you don't do it any more because then it can become a habit and it will keep getting more and more which is what has happened to me.

Posts merged. Next time, please use the "Edit" or "Multi" button. ~Elysium

[Turtles12642]

When I ejaculate, I get really bad headaches. What is this?

[Lost in the Echo]

When I ejaculate, I get really bad headaches. What is this?

I believe you're experiencing "coital headaches" otherwise known as "sexual headaches".
They're really not that uncommon, but if you are experiencing these headaches frequently, like more than a week or two, it would be a good idea to ask your doctor about it ( as awkward as it may be ) because it could be something serious.

Usually these just come and go, however. But better safe than sorry.

[mcloete]

I have never had that problem, but I think you should take small regular breaks in between

[Jaffe]

When I ejaculate, I get really bad headaches. What is this?

I got these too, for a while. Like absolutely killer headaches, so bad I couldnt move, lasted about 30 minutes after orgasm.

Doc said it was mostly dehydration, but could also be a reaction to stuff in my diet. Stopped drinking cokes. Started drinking more water. They went away. Carbonation... 32 chemicals I can't pronounce .... who knows what was in the stuff that caused them?

[Baileyy]

I'm kinda shy about this? But yeah.

Do playing with your nipples 'allowed'? :confused::confused::confused: I mean, I only see girls do that when they masturbate, not boys. I'm not bi or anything, it just, adds to the pleasure.

So, is it really wrong to do so or something? Thanks :)

Do whatever is pleasurable to you! xD

[georgeishungry]

Sorry, a few here.

1} Should I be pulling my foreskin back to masturbate?
2} Should it be very tight - and hurt a bit - to have my foreskin back w/ a full erection?

[acidjoe]

Sorry, a few here.

1} Should I be pulling my foreskin back to masturbate?
2} Should it be very tight - and hurt a bit - to have my foreskin back w/ a full erection?

I am cut, actually. So I may not have much knowledge of this but I will try to answer what I can, haha.

1) I don't think pulling your foreskin back is necessarily needed for masturbation. Unless you like it or prefer it that way then by all means go ahead!

2) From my knowledge, a lot of people have different types of foreskins. According to some people they may have a loose foreskin or even a tight one much like you. I can see how it may hurt given the fact that it's a little but out of place. But it really shouldn't be causing you too much pain.

[tbonehntr]

Sorry, a few here.

1} Should I be pulling my foreskin back to masturbate?
2} Should it be very tight - and hurt a bit - to have my foreskin back w/ a full erection?

okay so I have a foreskin, too(regrettably) but no you don't have to pull it back to jerk, just move it up and down, and no it should not hurt, if it does take it slow and stretch it every day, but if you pull it back all the way to beat it, use some kind of lube or you will chafe

[Jaffe]

Sorry, a few here.

1} Should I be pulling my foreskin back to masturbate?
2} Should it be very tight - and hurt a bit - to have my foreskin back w/ a full erection?

Whether you pull back your foreskin to masturbate is entirely up to you. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Variety is good.

It might be tight. Some guys are. But it should NOT hurt. If it starts to hurt as you retract it, stop there. But do it to that point, and use lube or oil on it, often. It should gradually go further and further.

That being said, its not really necessary to retract it except to clean yourself (every day). So if it goes far enough to do that, you're okay.

[Elarbol]

how do u make it last long and powerful? i only last like 45 seconds :/ Do you go slow and relax and go until you're about to shoot and then stop and repeat the motion or no?

I usually jerk until I am about to blow my load and than I stop for 20 seconds and keep jerking... The more you repeat the better the jizz.

[denicedak]

may i ask how long can you maintain not to ejaculate while masturbating really im having a problem of maintaing an ejaculation, within a short period of time i ejaculate while masturbating

[Emerald Dream]

We don't allow discussions of masturbation techniques. Please review the p101 FAQ if you have not already done so.

[Yolodolo]

may i ask how long can you maintain not to ejaculate while masturbating really im having a problem of maintaing an ejaculation, within a short period of time i ejaculate while masturbating

When you feel like you're going to bust just stop and try to think of something else so you don't bust. Then do that over and over again

[Yolodolo]

I usually jerk until I am about to blow my load and than I stop for 20 seconds and keep jerking... The more you repeat the better the jizz.

Exactly what I do

[YouTube]

Quick (few) question(s) and I apologize if this(these) was(were) already asked, I scanned the first ~30 pages before giving up.

Can people tell if you masturbate or not?
Will there be a distinct scent?
Will people judge you by this?
I doubt that the "by the age of 14, most males will have already masturbate and/or do it regularly" saying is true, is this because I am sheltered?
Is the above saying true?

Thanks in advance.

Feel free to disagree with my answers, I just wanted to give some input.

1) There are some "signs" some people use as an indicator such as:
•Larger/more defined right arm (typically the hand used to wank)
•Take unusually long amount of time in the bathroom or shower (wanking usually takes a while)
• very protective over phone/ computer (camera roll or history may lead back to inappropriate content which was most likely used to wank)
Those are the ones I can think of at the moment...
2) the smell would most likely be of sperm(cum)
3) Some people may some people may not. It mostly depends on their beliefs and ideals. Some may think you are a disgrace to their religion, or some may just see you as the hormonal teen you are.
4) I am assuming that by sheltered you mean that you aren't exposed to as much inappropriate content (language, conversations, jokes, etc.) as the average teen. You have every right to doubt that, but also remember that everyone, usually, is in or beginning puberty by age 14. The hormones and desires are firing up and discovering what your body can do will most likely lead to playing with yourself and then wanking. So no, I do not think it is because you are sheltered.
5) It is very likely. I cannot guarantee it is 100% true but if you think about it and understand the sexual tension males build during the very beginning of puberty, then you may see where that observation comes from.

Hope I helped a bit!

[shotgym]

When I ejaculate, I get really bad headaches. What is this?

Maybe you have problems with pressure?:what:

[Herp a Derp]

Anything that you guys do that feels good without really going for it. Anything that I can do that feels pleasurable without a big mess?

[mattsmith48]

Anything that you guys do that feels good without really going for it. Anything that I can do that feels pleasurable without a big mess?

nothing that i can think of sorry

[Nick16]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

I still do have some excess skin under the head and sometimes I just rub it for like 10 min and get the greatest feeling orgasm ever but sometimes lube helps so it's easier to move up and down. I tried once w a condom and I liked it bc the lube felt good and by dick looked much bigger and the cum was cool to see come out but weird

[fandom_king]

I am uncircumcised, so I know what it is like to masturbate with foreskin, but what's it like to masturbate without it? Also, has anyone ever masturbated with a condom? What's that like?

I have to masturbate with some sort of lubrication, whether it be saliva, my parents' lube, hand lotion, etc., so I t sucks without for skin.I have masturbated with a condom on. It actually was great because I'm not one for messes and it really helps with that. I also was using a bareskin condom, so it felt no better than without one.

[gayboi321123]

How long can most people go without wanking before they have a wet dream. As I want to stop for a while but I don`t want to have a wet dream.

[ImTrickster]

How long can most people go without wanking before they have a wet dream. As I want to stop for a while but I don`t want to have a wet dream.

The longest which i've gone is 5 day and i dint have a wet dream it depeneds on differant people. I didnt start masturbating untill i was 14 and i was mostly developed at 13 so it depends on who you are as i've never had a wet dream.

[Colton8]

I think it feels better in the shower because it takes longer I haven't tried fingering myself but I think I'll give it a shot

[Colton8]

I'm thinking about fingering myself while I masturbate... Any tips?

[Januarist2000]

I've never tried it, but cupping your balls are a good tip

[fandom_king]

I'm thinking about fingering myself while I masturbate... Any tips?

Make sure you use a decent amount of lubrication, whatever it may be. I find saliva works great. Just make sure you're able to smoothly get your fingers in

[Andre 99]

Feel free to disagree with my answers, I just wanted to give some input.

1) There are some "signs" some people use as an indicator such as:
•Larger/more defined right arm (typically the hand used to wank)

Heh, although I am right-handed, I simply cannot wank with my right hand. Instead I use my left

• very protective over phone/ computer (camera roll or history may lead back to inappropriate content which was most likely used to wank)
Hehe, yep.

[Swalot]

How can I get my foreskin to stay back I'm a grower and also how can I desensitize my head

[vtteen6]

Do cut guys always have to use lube if they wanna stroke the whole penis (shaft+head)

[Potter696]

Not always. I'm circumcised and I rarely use any form of lubrication. Lotions, water, lube and stuff just makes it faster and sometimes more enjoyable, but it is not necessary for nice jacking.

[Boyfreshx]

Yeah, I personally don't like using lubrication. It's easier and it feels better without it.

[Elysium]

Inappropriate posts have been deleted. Please remember to stay on the topic of puberty and not veer off into anything too unsavory.

[Jack_0718]

I want to masturbate with my freinds but I don't know if they want to

[pjones]

I'm thinking about fingering myself while I masturbate... Any tips?

trim your fingernails, you can easily cut yourself as the lining of the rectum is delicate.

[pjones]

I want to masturbate with my freinds but I don't know if they want to

no easy way to guess if they want to. you'll have to either bring up the subject directly and hope for the best, or discretely discuss it and hope they get your meaning

[vtteenr]

Who pulls there foreskin back when they masturbuate?

[Adam13]

Please answer. I think about celebrities when I pleasure myself. Is this weird? Or wrong?

[FameMonster]

Please answer. I think about celebrities when I pleasure myself. Is this weird? Or wrong?

Nope, not at all. Quite normal. Masturbation is all about using your imagination.

[fandom_king]

Please answer. I think about celebrities when I pleasure myself. Is this weird? Or wrong?
Nope. Not at all weird. I would actually recommend it

[jvap14]

Hey guys, how long can you masturbate for? The most I go for is like 5 minutes before cumming. I'm a virgin and when I have sex I don't want to last only 3 minutes. Any info would be appreciated!

[CanadianCheese]

Does masturbation decrease testosterone?

[Skywalker007]

Does masturbation decrease testosterone?

Some surveys say it does, some claim to prove the exact opposite, so at this time it's pretty much unknown.

[TroyH]

Does masturbation decrease testosterone?

Most of what I've read says that NOT masturbating decreases testosterone...

[CanadianCheese]

Also, does masturbation decrease erections?

[ashdaniel]

Also, does masturbation decrease erections?

It will not decrease erection if you are young but the older you get it will start to affect but that will be after 30.

[James1196]

cra1g

[sam99]

Please answer. I think about celebrities when I pleasure myself. Is this weird? Or wrong?

nope. not weird at all!

[tired]

I can tell I am going to miss it, unless I get this Chasity belt off :(

[Hermes]

Also, does masturbation decrease erections?

After orgasm and ejaculation, either from masturbation or any other sexual activity, there is a period, called the refractory period, during which you are unlikely to get hard again and don't have much interest in anything sexual. This can be a few hours in older men but in a teen may only be a few minutes.

It does seem that horniness gradually comes back after that, i.e. the longer it has been (within reason, from minutes up to a few days) the more easily aroused you are. That is why, if you are really horny and finding it hard to concentrate it can help to masturbate and then use this refractory period to get absorbed in whatever it is you need to concentrate on.

[jake1214]

So I'm uncut, and after I masturbate, I sometimes don't clean under the foreskin, just because I'm lazy. Is this okay, or should I be more thorough in cleaning afterwards?

[heresjohnny]

So I'm uncut, and after I masturbate, I sometimes don't clean under the foreskin, just because I'm lazy. Is this okay, or should I be more thorough in cleaning afterwards?


Clean it, especially if it gets on your leg or whatnot. You should also try to pee, especially as it will clean out the inside of the foreskin.

[Jameson9]

I masturbate without lube sometimes, and when I do my glans kinda dry up and turn white. Is this normal?

[ethan-s]

Yo guys!

Can someone get preagnant from masturbating? Like if you go in the bathroom and jack off and miss some at cleanup, could someone get preagnant from it?

[FameMonster]

Very unlikely. Sperm usually can't survive outside the body for more than a few minutes I believe. And even if someone walked in the bathroom right after you, enough semen would have to get from where ever to their vagina.


Yo guys!

Can someone get preagnant from masturbating? Like if you go in the bathroom and jack off and miss some at cleanup, could someone get preagnant from it?

[Evan]

Does masturbation decrease testosterone?

No, sperm is constantly being made in the testicles and the majority of it dies in the testicles without ever coming out when you ejaculate.

[Jacob12]

How many squirts do you all do in one jack off? I usually go 3 times with squirts of large amounts

[Jameson9]

I masturbate without lube sometimes, and when I do my glans kinda dry up and turn white. Is this normal?

[ethan-s]

dude, at least spit on your hand before you jack, for lube.

[Adventure boy]

Hey guys, so when I wank my foreskin is always covering my head and when I cun sometimes I pull my foreakin back then sometimes shoot then clean my dick, is it normal that I don't pull my for skin all the way back and just wank with my head fully covered ?

[Lodan]

Hey guys, so when I wank my foreskin is always covering my head and when I cun sometimes I pull my foreakin back then sometimes shoot then clean my dick, is it normal that I don't pull my for skin all the way back and just wank with my head fully covered ?

I do the same sometimes because my foreskin is long which means even when I'm hard my foreskin isn't retracted completely.

When I wank I might keep the foreskin over the tip/head (rub)

Then when I jizz, I mostly always try to retract completely with each stroke to let the cum escape nice and fully

[Adventure boy]

I do the same sometimes because my foreskin is long which means even when I'm hard my foreskin isn't retracted completely.

When I wank I might keep the foreskin over the tip/head (rub)

Then when I jizz, I mostly always try to retract completely with each stroke to let the cum escape nice and fully



That what I do sometimes like the end bit but when I'm cum I can't stroke fat cause like I'm really sensitive....

[Lodan]

That what I do sometimes like the end bit but when I'm cum I can't stroke fat cause like I'm really sensitive....

I think it's normal to be sensitive because the foreskin covers the head so much and so it's not exposed or retracted normally

Not sure what can be done about it

[Adventure boy]

I think it's normal to be sensitive because the foreskin covers the head so much and so it's not exposed or retracted normally

Not sure what can be done about it



Ok thanks :)

[Hermes]

Hey guys, so when I wank my foreskin is always covering my head and when I cun sometimes I pull my foreakin back then sometimes shoot then clean my dick, is it normal that I don't pull my for skin all the way back and just wank with my head fully covered ?

My foreskin is not long enough to completely cover the head when hard. I also keep stroking as I cum and find that the skin doesn't normally get in the way of the spurts except for the last dribbles which can run over the head, the skin and onto my thumb. sometimes. If that happens I just wipe it off the same as I wipe it off my chest/belly or wherever else it landed.

If it's easier for you not to pull it back that's fine. As you cum you want to just enjoy it, not worry about this.

[Adventure boy]

My foreskin is not long enough to completely cover the head when hard. I also keep stroking as I cum and find that the skin doesn't normally get in the way of the spurts except for the last dribbles which can run over the head, the skin and onto my thumb. sometimes. If that happens I just wipe it off the same as I wipe it off my chest/belly or wherever else it landed.

If it's easier for you not to pull it back that's fine. As you cum you want to just enjoy it, not worry about this.



Ok ok thanks :)

Hello guys I have a question.....so when i wank in bed I usually wank in a sock so I don't make a mess and after I cum in the sock I put the sock under my bed and in the morning when I wake up I was curious so I smelt the sock and it smelt sweet and it smelt good like tasty....I'm weird I know lol so had this happened to any of you before your fired up cun smells sweet ?

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[jojojack007]

I am 14 and I masterbate 1-2 times a day is that normal?

[Atlantis]

I am 14 and I masterbate 1-2 times a day is that normal?

any amount of times a day is normal, as long as you're still doing other things (going out to see friends, school etc.) and not just staying home all day masturbating

[Saibot2612]

So, i have been masturbating for a while now, and I have found myself doing it nearly three times a day. I have decided to stop for a month (it's the 1st of Feb and I'm quitting until March) in order to help cure myself of my addiction. Does anyone have any advice for such a venture.

[TroyH]

So, i have been masturbating for a while now, and I have found myself doing it nearly three times a day. I have decided to stop for a month (it's the 1st of Feb and I'm quitting until March) in order to help cure myself of my addiction. Does anyone have any advice for such a venture.

I don't jerk off nearly as often, but even 3 times a day isn't bad. Either way, I've also taken on this challenge for February. Just try not to think about doing it, and you should be fine. Find something that can distract you, like reading or video games. Works fine for me!

[rclee]

Is 15 old enough to masturbate?

[Atlantis]

Is 15 old enough to masturbate?

Any age is old enough really. At 15 you should be able to ejaculate , if you were younger you could have still masturbated just not ejaculated.

[Manboy321]

I started at 11

[Hermes]

Hello guys I have a question.....so when i wank in bed I usually wank in a sock so I don't make a mess and after I cum in the sock I put the sock under my bed and in the morning when I wake up I was curious so I smelt the sock and it smelt sweet and it smelt good like tasty....I'm weird I know lol so had this happened to any of you before your fired up cun smells sweet ?

My sense of smell is not particularly good but I'm surprised to hear dried cum has any noticeable smell at all. Of course, if it is not quite dry then it may indeed smell. I have not noticed a sweet smell but cum contains fructose, the same sugar that is present in fruit, so maybe you can smell that. Personally, I don't tend to think of freshly ejaculated cum as in any way dirty but I wouldn't think of cum that has been in a sock overnight as potentially tasty.

[Adventure boy]

My sense of smell is not particularly good but I'm surprised to hear dried cum has any noticeable smell at all. Of course, if it is not quite dry then it may indeed smell. I have not noticed a sweet smell but cum contains fructose, the same sugar that is present in fruit, so maybe you can smell that. Personally, I don't tend to think of freshly ejaculated cum as in any way dirty but I wouldn't think of cum that has been in a sock overnight as potentially tasty.


Thanks for answering bro :)

[Michael819]

I masturbate without lube sometimes, and when I do my glans kinda dry up and turn white. Is this normal?

Use baby oil it helps you feel better

[silentkiller]

I got a question.
Is it okay never to masturbate?I am 14 and by seeing people masturbating; I could tell it really hurts. When I told my friends that I do not masturbate, they are like, "You won't ever produce sperm and slowly transform into a woman."
I know the slowly part is shit, but is the producing sperm part true?Because I would like to have kids later.

anyone?

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[Meron]

LOL no don't believe them

If that was true, most guys would stop masturbating since they wanna transform into females. lmao

[YouTube]

I got a question.
Is it okay never to masturbate?I am 14 and by seeing people masturbating; I could tell it really hurts. When I told my friends that I do not masturbate, they are like, "You won't ever produce sperm and slowly transform into a woman."
I know the slowly part is shit, but is the producing sperm part true?Because I would like to have kids later.

WOAH. This is FAR from true. When the body really needs to get rid of excess sperm it will. Trust me. You'll soon start to have nocturnal emissions as a result of the buildup of semen. You will not begin to turn into a woman at any rate. You have testosterone (male hormone) and can not all of a sudden (usually) begin to produce high levels of estrogen to the point where all of your male features disappear and are replaced with female ones. You should be reaching the part of hormones and what they do to the body unit in your health class, but just know you have nothing to worry about. It doesn't hurt (if you doing it safely) but it is totally up to you whether or not you do it. You are at the age where your body is beginning to produce much more sperm and it will continue to do so for years and years. You have nothing to worry about.

[silentkiller]

Thank you everyone :D!!I really was a lot scared!

[magicalccc]

how big are you

[JAYSON REYES]

How old were you when you start to masturbate?

[justin007]

How old were you when you start to masturbate?

i think i started when i was 12.

[Rhys2001]

So I have a small foreskin, so when I have a boner the skin is behind the head. Is there any technique that can be used for people with short foreskins because I struggle to use anything other than 'the fist'. It's almost like a I'm cut even tho I'm not, yet there is a small amount of skin to use...

[JAYSON REYES]

i think i started when i was 12.

Me too.. Do you cum that time?

So I have a small foreskin, so when I have a boner the skin is behind the head. Is there any technique that can be used for people with short foreskins because I struggle to use anything other than 'the fist'. It's almost like a I'm cut even tho I'm not, yet there is a small amount of skin to use...

Same here.. When its flacid. It only covers half of the head.. I uncut too. I think its looks nice when its errect.

Thank you everyone :D!!I really was a lot scared!

Dont be afraid.. Just do it.. And you will enjoy it. Trust me..

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[justin007]

Me too.. Do you cum that time?


yes i did. altough it wasn't very much the first few times, and rather thick. but i enjoyed it anyway :D

[Kevgpdx]

I started masturbating around 12. 15 now. Do it every day. Just can't stop. Hahaha

[Jameson9]

What kind of lube do you guys use. You'd you recommend it?

[ValentinClarke]

how big are you

6.5in

[Lotti]

I'm a girl, and so far I can't feel much. Should I be worried?

[justin007]

I'm a girl, and so far I can't feel much. Should I be worried?

i don't think so. from what i have heard, it isn't always as easy for girls.

maybe you can find help in the girls' section: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=14475

[tommy12345]

i wank in the shower and its soooooo good and i finger my ass and thats really good too. also u ent gay for it just cuz it feels nice dont mean u gay

[Almostahero]

How old were you when you start to masturbate?

12 or just a little older.

[Almostahero]

I'm a girl, and so far I can't feel much. Should I be worried?

For girls it is a little different. Guys are easy, but girls there is a process lol.

But no you shouldn't be worried. Just do some research or talk to someone experienced.

[Space Delta]

Any good lubes?
I'm 16, 5.1" and cut.

[mattsmith48]

How old were you when you start to masturbate?

I started at 14

So I have a small foreskin, so when I have a boner the skin is behind the head. Is there any technique that can be used for people with short foreskins because I struggle to use anything other than 'the fist'. It's almost like a I'm cut even tho I'm not, yet there is a small amount of skin to use...

ever tried lube might help you?

[Gummy]

I recently tried anal masturbation a few times now and I just can't get an orgasm even if I moved my finger around inside and making the "come here" move with my finger, I feel no pleasure. Is it because I just can't find my prostate gland? (not sure how a gland looks and feels like) or is it because I just can't do it myself? Am I not old enough? (17) I also have trouble keeping my penis erect while fingering my anus. I felt dissatisfied after moving my finger inside for a while and not feeling any pleasure from it. All I got was a slippery anus and a finger that smells like sh*t. Help?

[FameMonster]

I would say it just takes practice and also some guys just don't get pleasure from anal play. Also, maybe try something other than a finger. I think its against the rules to really go into detail here.

I don't think I've ever found my prostate like some guys describe and I still have to stimulate my penis at the same time.

Good luck!


I recently tried anal masturbation a few times now and I just can't get an orgasm even if I moved my finger around inside and making the "come here" move with my finger, I feel no pleasure. Is it because I just can't find my prostate gland? (not sure how a gland looks and feels like) or is it because I just can't do it myself? Am I not old enough? (17) I also have trouble keeping my penis erect while fingering my anus. I felt dissatisfied after moving my finger inside for a while and not feeling any pleasure from it. All I got was a slippery anus and a finger that smells like sh*t. Help?

[Impressionist1910]

Any good lubes?
I'm 16, 5.1" and cut.

I'm 16 and cut as well.
I'd like to get an answer to this question also..

[NZPerson]

I'm 16 and cut as well.
I'd like to get an answer to this question also..

Pretty much any "personal lube" from phramcys or supermarkets will work. KY and durex are good well known brands.

[Carl Maximus Jr.]

Why when I masturbate and have my sperm out tastes tip of my cock became sore

[Happay]

Like to have masturbating i did it too !

[Matryoshkasystem]

Why when I masturbate and have my sperm out tastes tip of my cock became sore
That could be the sensitivity / rebound period for a guy. Its normal, but not sure if its like this, don't get it that often-once a month at most-.

[Danny.H8]

Age:16
Height:5F11
Body build:average

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 12
Penis length (erect): 6.5
Penis length (flacid):4.5
Penis girth:6
Where do you have body hair?Pits, pubes snail trail
Do you masturbate?YES
-If so how often? 2 times a day
Do you use lubrication? sometimes
-If yes what? Durex, if not my own spit

Do you produce pre-cum? yeah
If so how much? abit
Is it enough to use as lubrication? sometimes
Are you happy with the amount? yeah

Can you ejaculate?yes
If so how much? alot, about two teaspoons
Does it spit or dribble?spit
-If spit, how far? my chest
Are you happy with the amount? yes
Have you tasted it? yes
-If yes what was your reaction? do it all the time

[nekid]

Age: 13
Height: 5'1"
Body build: Skinny

Have you started puberty? No
What age did you start?
Penis length (erect): 3.1"
Penis length (flacid): 1.5"
Penis girth:
Where do you have body hair? Nowhere
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often? 2 or 3 times a week, sometimes more
Do you use lubrication? No
-
Do you produce pre-cum? No

Can you ejaculate? No

[MakeACake98]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. Is it ok to have a routine like this

2. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

[Leningradyets]

I'm uncircumcised. Since I was young, I always avoided touching my penis head, unless when washing, because it was always very sensitive. I would like to know if there is any way to lose this sensitivity and how long would it take for it to stop being so sensitive. Thanks.

[Hermes]

I'm uncircumcised. Since I was young, I always avoided touching my penis head, unless when washing, because it was always very sensitive. I would like to know if there is any way to lose this sensitivity and how long would it take for it to stop being so sensitive. Thanks.

I don't think you have to do anything specific. The more it is exposed the less sensitive it becomes but this happens over time, not right away.

[nnoooooooopppeee]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. Is it ok to have a routine like this

2. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

1. Yeah your routine sounds fine, I'm the same.

2. I guess it depends on how you feel or what your friendship is like. If you feel you can talk to your friend about masturbation or you would like to see if you could get him to join in with you then definitely ask him or make a joke, something like that. If you would feel uncomfortable then don't speak to him about it and just masturbate while he's asleep.

[Bzkt]

NEED TO MAKE OR GET LUBE YOUNG.
I use lotion in an old(and bad) IKEA squeeze bottle. I ran out fast. I am gonna wash it soon and put it back. How can i get lube at 13 years old? I am open to making lube. I have no vaseline, cocoa butter, or coconut oil in my home. :( i hate masturbating dry.

[Bzkt]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. Is it ok to have a routine like this

2. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?
Say that you have to take a crap late or just use the batroom. Masturbate in there.fast.

[Bzkt]

Age: 13
Height: 5'
Body build: Skinny

Have you started puberty? No
What age did you start?
Penis length (erect): 2.8"
Penis length (flacid): 1"
Penis girth:
Where do you have body hair? A lot around penis, in average places.
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so, how often? A lot, day or night.
Do you use lubrication? I try to use lotion.
-
Do you produce pre-cum? No

Can you ejaculate? No

[Linkb12]

Age:17
Height: 6'
Body build:average

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 13
Penis length (erect): 6
Penis length (flacid):4
Penis girth:6.5
Where do you have body hair? Beard & Mustache, Armpits, Pubes
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often? Once a day
Do you use lubrication? sometimes
-If yes what? Body oil or lotion / spit

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? A Little
Is it enough to use as lubrication? Sometimes
Are you happy with the amount? Yes

Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? About 4 good shots and some dribble
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? My chest
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? Yes
-If yes what was your reaction? Salty and Different

[Lord Farqaud]

[QUOTE=Linkb12;3400910]Age:17
Height: 5'11
Body build: Musculae

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 11
Penis length (erect): 6
Penis length (flacid):4
Penis girth: 2.5
Where do you have body hair? Face, Armpits, Stomach
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often? 2-3 times a day
Do you use lubrication? No
-If yes what?

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? A Little
Is it enough to use as lubrication?
Are you happy with the amount?

Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? About 4 good shots and some dribble
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? My chest
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? No
-If yes what was your reaction?

[AnemoneStar]

So I didn't want to make a new thread for this in fear of it not being in the right place, so I thought why not post it here.

(For cut people) If you usually cum into something, like you put a rag or cloth of some sort over your penis, do you wash your penis afterwards or do you just throw the rag/cloth/etc into the laundry and wash?

[FameMonster]

I usually catch it in my hand and then wipe off on pair of boxers out of my dirty laundry and then throw them back in. I do my laundry every few days.


So I didn't want to make a new thread for this in fear of it not being in the right place, so I thought why not post it here.

(For cut people) If you usually cum into something, like you put a rag or cloth of some sort over your penis, do you wash your penis afterwards or do you just throw the rag/cloth/etc into the laundry and wash?

[Biomicro]

uncircumcised and everyday masturbate but sometimes didnt

[EthanC15]

Age:15
Height: 5'10
Body build: Slim

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 13
Penis length (erect): 3
Penis length (flacid):0.5- 1
Penis girth: 1
Where do you have body hair? No
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often Once a week
Do you use lubrication? Yes
-If yes what? Vasaline ir spit

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? Very little
Is it enough to use as lubrication? No
Are you happy with the amount?
No
Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? About 4 good shots and some dribble
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? My chest
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? Yes
-If yes what was your reaction? I liked it very much

[VTGEEK14]

I masterbait once a day and I notice i have a brown spot on my shaft and head now, im uncut, could i have it from masterbation?

[Vyktor]

Age:19
Height: 5'9"
Body build: Slim

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 14
Penis length (erect): 7"
Penis length (flacid):4"
Penis girth: almost 6"
Where do you have body hair? Feet, hands and pubes
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often once a day
Do you use lubrication? It depends, mostly not
-If yes what? Spit and precum

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? It depends, sometimes not at all, sometimes pretty much
Is it enough to use as lubrication? Sometimes yes
Are you happy with the amount?
When it's enough, yes, otherwise no
Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? About 7-8 shots, but I done 12 too
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? Chest
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? Yes
-If yes what was your reaction? I liked it somehow

[Joel99]

How old were you when you start to masturbate?

11 or 12!

[johndoe2484]

ayyy nvm

[Hermes]

If you have a foreskin what do you do when you cum?

I have a foreskin and I don't have to do anything special with it as I cum. I find things are naturally synchronised so the spurts happen when the skin is back away from the head so the skin doesn't get in the way. There should be no surprise there because when having sex that would be the same as the spurts happening when you cock is furthest into the girl to get your sperm as far into her as possible.

Or did you mean about cleaning the skin afterwards? I just wipe off whatever is visible. I don't have a problem with lots of cum getting under the skin. Any that does will be taken care of when I wash there in the shower.

[Jsss]

I masturbate every day and I have done since I was 12 but I always feel guilty afterwards even though it feels so goddamn good when I cum is that normal?

[Jsss]

Can someone answer this question, I mastrbate about one or twice a day and it feels so good when I cum but I always feel guilty afterwards, is that normal?

[Hermes]

Can someone answer this question, I mastrbate about one or twice a day and it feels so good when I cum but I always feel guilty afterwards, is that normal?

Just about everyone really enjoys cumming and it is absolutely normal to want to experience that every day, even more than once a day.

It is also not unusual to feel guilty afterwards. We get all sorts of negative messages about sex in general. There are also religious messages, including some cases of misinterpreted biblical references in the case of Chritianianity. When you're horny that feeling is powerful enough to overcome whatever reluctance you may have and you end up masturbating. When you cum hormones are released and you enter a refactory period in which you are not at all horny and that's when you can start to feel guilty.

It can help to work out if there is a particular source for an anti-masturbation message and think through whether you think that messages makes sense given that just about all guys masturbate and it is healthy and normal to do so. Even if you don't identify anything in particular you may find the guilt fades with time (weeks and months, not minutes).

[Pika2001]

Age:14
Height: 5'4
Body build: chubby

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 13
Penis length (erect): 3
Penis length (flacid):0.5-1
Penis girth: 1
Where do you have body hair? pubes, and a little pit hair
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often at least once a day
Do you use lubrication? rarley
-If yes what? hair conditioner

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? not much
Is it enough to use as lubrication? Not really
Are you happy with the amount? I don't care about pre cum, only the actual cum
When it's enough, No
Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? One big shot, then a few smaller shots, and the rest oozes out.
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? Above my belly button
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? Yes
-If yes what was your reaction? Meh, it doesn't really have a flavour

[JHardy9]

are you referring to people who are circumcised verse have a foreskin? If you have a foreskin what do you do when you cum?

i dont think its any different than guys with no foreskin

[JHardy9]

Can someone answer this question, I mastrbate about one or twice a day and it feels so good when I cum but I always feel guilty afterwards, is that normal?

ive never felt guylty after jacking off

[Second Chance]

Can someone answer this question, I mastrbate about one or twice a day and it feels so good when I cum but I always feel guilty afterwards, is that normal?

Yeah, it is totally normal because you are going from a situation where you were a little kid to suddenly doing something "adult" and having the same abilities of an adult. It can feel weird and upsetting having that newfound ability, and it took me some time to realize that masturbating and ejaculating are normal. The way you should look at things is that having sexual feelings and ejaculating are things that are a normal part of growing up, and do not feel badly. We all had gone through it, and you are not weird at all for feeling the way you do.

[rraayy98]

Age:17
Height: 1,87m
Body build: normal, a bit muscular

Have you started puberty? Yes
What age did you start? 12
Penis length (erect): 19 cm
Penis length (flacid): 13 cm
Penis girth: idk
Where do you have body hair? legs
Do you masturbate? Yes
-If so how often at least once a day
Do you use lubrication? no
-If yes what?

Do you produce pre-cum? Yes
If so how much? quite much
Is it enough to use as lubrication? yes
Are you happy with the amount? yes
Can you ejaculate? Yes
If so how much? One big shot, then a few smaller shots, and the rest oozes out.
Does it spit or dribble? Both
-If spit, how far? different
Are you happy with the amount? Yes
Have you tasted it? Yes
-If yes what was your reaction? it doesn't really have a flavour

[AnemoneStar]

I was referring to cut guys because I know it's bad to not clean your foreskin if you're uncut and I didn't know if cut guys cleaned right after or not.

[Trevorkid]

I masturbate every day and I have done since I was 12 but I always feel guilty afterwards even though it feels so goddamn good when I cum is that normal?

Try not to feel guilty about it. Every boy plays with his penis. Just enjoy the good feelings!!

I have masturbated for a while now but was only recently able to shoot my sperm. Now I do it almost everyday.

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[Kenny101]

How often do you jackoff?

[zzzzzzzzzz]

How often do you jackoff?

2 to 3 times a day

[Jameson9]

How often do you jackoff?

0-1 times

How come my balls hurt if I don't masturbate for a while, or masturbate but stop before I ejaculate?

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[FameMonster]

Blue Balls is the slang term. It is basically when you are aroused for an extended period of time, but don't orgasm. You are kind of teasing your body when you don't release.


How come my balls hurt if I don't masturbate for a while, or masturbate but stop before I ejaculate?

[georgevenebaules188]

I have a forskin, but it does not slide past the head of my penis. No matter what I do there is no moving it. Is there somthing wrong?

[zzzzzzzzzz]

I have a forskin, but it does not slide past the head of my penis. No matter what I do there is no moving it. Is there somthing wrong?

You're not alone. It's a condition called phimosis. Can you pull it back OK when soft? If so, it's just about stretching it over a period of time. Doing it when wet (shower or bath) will help. Doctor can provide steroid cream. Only if there's major issues should a doctor recommend circumsision

[cdabs3]

But during sex, your foreskin most likely gets pulled back, right? Unless you're using a condom. (Maybe) So maybe you get pleasure masturbating with a foreskin, but what about during sexual intercourse, would having a foreskin really matter?

Yes having a foreskin matters a lot. There are tens of thousands of fine touch nerves in there. If you do some research there is plenty of information about how the foreskin plays its part in sex.

[DefinitelyNotY]

How often do you jackoff?

Depends of my mood, but it's really common to do it at least 2 times every day

[VTGEEK14]

Lately I been getting very horny and jerking off isnt enough but im only 15 and dont want to have sex what do I do?

[Zhge]

How old were u when u started masturbating

I'm 14and I was only 9 maybe 10

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