sluttyness

[Ellie wood crainey]

hey girls when having a good time with boys or girls do you think being that bit sluttier is better? i do what about you?

[Mollypop]

Yea at the time at least but not always so much later.

[RachelW]

For me it depends on the situation but sometimes yes the slutier the better

[Taryn98]

Yes. I think acting a little slutty is fun. It definitely turns me on more.

[Anyone51]

yeah its like, acting a bit slutty can be fun but too much and then thats all boys will treat you as and thats not going to be nice - teasing but not so much that they all just call you a tease.

and definitely just 'acting' slutty and not having an 'open to all for business' sign on vajayjay - that's just wrong. wait for love

[westview1995]

she is right there is a difference between acting and doing. its fun to act but in some cases even more fun to do.

[toobigforlife]

Im never a slut, I just am flirty and a tease, i feel like being slutty is like going up them and grabbing all on them and show them all your goods, thats not needed leave something to the imagination, if you want a guy to notice you just tease him and flirt and i promise he or she will follow

[Lorraine]

Yes. I think acting a little slutty is fun. It definitely turns me on more.


I agree on this. A little bit of sluttiness within reasonable limits never hurt anyone. ;)

[Harley Quinn]

It depresses me how many of you are 13 and saying that acting like a slut is okay.

[JessDaly]

Depends on what you want to do with him

[missmk]

Be a jedi in the streets and a sith in the sheets

[Mollypop]

Be a jedi in the streets and a sith in the sheets

:lol: I like that.

[VeryWell]

Be a jedi in the streets and a sith in the sheets

Words of wisdom. :D

[annikaisawesome]

its way more fun to be slutty

[Alliegator]

You'll probably attract the wrong kinds of guys though. I think with a boyfriend or something it might be okay but with any boy, no.

[Rebeccauk]

Alligator your posts are always so good :)

[Ellie wood crainey]

not with anyboy this is when your doing stuff with a boy

[root]

Yes. I think acting a little slutty is fun. It definitely turns me on more.

Well yeah that's kinda obvious...


A lady can easily get a cheap guy by being slutty, but it doesn't work that effectively for men with class like me.

Lol, bro, doubt you can even get the sluts; they're not that desperate

[alicia95]

I enjoy slutting it up a bit, but usually only if I'm going for the other person. I'm not so big on teasing.

[Harley Quinn]

Well yeah that's kinda obvious...




Lol, bro, doubt you can even get the sluts; they're not that desperate

It's funny you think people actually care about your opinion.

[FullyAlive]

It depresses me how many of you are 13 and saying that acting like a slut is okay.

This.

You shouldn't have to be 'sluttier' to have fun. You'll quickly get yourself a reputation you don't want

[ClaireMarie]

It depends, but sometimes yes, slutier is better !! lol

[zoe18]

Yeah, being slutty is much more fun and turns me on bigtime.

[Jenny1996]

I guess you could call me a slut. I give all the guys in my group of friends hand jobs and bj's just for the fun of it. But I enjoy and they enjoy it and it isn't hurting anyone.

[Snookers]

There is a line between hot and slut. Sluttier is not always better. If you just go there and show yourself to them, after a while they will get bored of you and throw you like an used condom. Being a tease or a pervert is much funnier, they will always have surprises...

[hotgirlwtits]

yes!!!

[Ciara]

I turn up the sluttiness if a boy I fancy just ain't getting the hint!
(tight top and plenty of cleavage or shirt skirt with sexy panties, I make sure he gets a glimpse of gusset , hehe!)
I also get 'touchy feely'

[mandyluvgirl]

I love acting slutty it makes me feel good about myself and turns me on:yummy:

[Abnormal]

To me, I don't find a problem with being a "slut". Isn't it odd how if a man goes out and has sex with tons of women, he's a hero? But if a woman goes out and has sex with tons of men, she's a tramp? Talk about a double standard. If you like to fool around and do naughty things, you're not a slut, you're a hero. The people who say that behavior is slutty is most likely jealous that they're not getting as much as you.

[heyimeve]

I don't do it often, but I can get super slutty and I love it :D

[Tina36DD]

I'm not slutty or "act" like a slut in public, but when i m alone with my BFF or FB i can be nasty and i am very nasty. I don't sleep around with just anyone. I've been called a slut b4, but like abnormal said, they prolly say that cos they are not doing anything or r just jealous.

I don't let it bother what other people think. no one should. i know who and what i am and what im about. what other people think is just their opin., so u cant take it personal.

[FreeFall]

There is a line between hot and slut. Sluttier is not always better. If you just go there and show yourself to them, after a while they will get bored of you and throw you like an used condom. Being a tease or a pervert is much funnier, they will always have surprises...

This ^

Even when I'm doing "slutty" things with my boyfriend, it's not. It's sexy and tempting. Never have I been anything slutty. I go with hot, teasing, and sexy.

[jheaven96]

i do from time to time,,, sometimes it just add to the mood

[BeccaMiddleton]

I love acting slutty it makes me feel good about myself and turns me on:yummy:

I totally agree!!! I'm 13 and I'm starting to learn more and more about stuff like this. I guess the stuff I used to think was slutty is just normal to me know, because it's who I am and what I am.

[wtl63]

some of you are confusing the word slutty with sexy. slutty is NOT a good thing and gets looked down upon

[Snowcakie]

The world has come to this...?

My God, help us all.

[Snowcakie]

This.

You shouldn't have to be 'sluttier' to have fun. You'll quickly get yourself a reputation you don't want

Agreed.

[maryssa97]

i find it way moe fun to act slutty

[Hungman]

To me, I don't find a problem with being a "slut". Isn't it odd how if a man goes out and has sex with tons of women, he's a hero? But if a woman goes out and has sex with tons of men, she's a tramp? Talk about a double standard. If you like to fool around and do naughty things, you're not a slut, you're a hero. The people who say that behavior is slutty is most likely jealous that they're not getting as much as you.

simple, a key that can unlock many locks is a master key. A lock that can be unlocked by many keys is a shitty lock.

[ashleyrobinson]

I think that acting sluttier is deffinetely more fun and it turns me on more

[ItsChelsea]

simple, a key that can unlock many locks is a master key. A lock that can be unlocked by many keys is a shitty lock.

Wow, that's sad. If I had a penis I would sure wish it was bigger than a key ;)

But seriously, thinking you can sleep around but girls are gonna save themselves for you is pretty retarded.

[Hungman]

Wow, that's sad. If I had a penis I would sure wish it was bigger than a key ;)

But seriously, thinking you can sleep around but girls are gonna save themselves for you is pretty retarded.

haha good one. Im not agreeing with it, its just society portrays it that way. Also its usually always the girls decision whether to have sex, so for a guy its accomplishment to get many girls to say yes lets have sex. If a girl is known to be easy they are going to have tonnes of guys lining up, same cant be said for most guys.

[madisonsweet]

I'm pretty slutty in private AND in public,,,, and I like it. I dont care of ppl judge me about it, its just who I am.

Be who you want to be and do what feels right!

-maddie

[Brook]

The sluttier the better, besides if your gonna do somthing do it right.
sluts have all the fun..lol

[Kwmpa]

It all depends on the situation

[Sky Flower]

Define sluttiness? I feel like there is a fine line between what is slutty and what is confident. Maybe...i'm just confused at this discussion haha

[ana1og]

I'm not slutty or "act" like a slut in public, but when i m alone with my BFF or FB i can be nasty and i am very nasty. I don't sleep around with just anyone. I've been called a slut b4, but like abnormal said, they prolly say that cos they are not doing anything or r just jealous.

I don't let it bother what other people think. no one should. i know who and what i am and what im about. what other people think is just their opin., so u cant take it personal.

This is very well said.

[britt69]

I don't do it often, but I can get super slutty and I love it :D

me too, but only with the ppl im really comfortable with ! no just anyone! and only for fun!:whoops:

[anyone50]

as i have said before there's a time and place for everything including acting like a slut which i enjoy enormaously only i'm very discreet who gets to see me like that and never anyone from my school

[Jen Jones]

If you want to have sex then sluttiness is better but if your looking for a bf then probably not

[anyone50]

If you want to have sex then sluttiness is better but if your looking for a bf then probably not

Or if you have a bf that loves to watch you being a slut like mine

[Jen Jones]

Lol i guess so, I just thought that it might be hard to keep a relationship going if sex is the only focus

[lyriclover]

Wow no offence to any of you guys cuz Im all for no judging and all but wow. I kinda see why people think our generation is so messed up. I don't "slut it up" at all ever, public or private. I'd rather not have people staring at me. I would rather be judged based on my personality than how I look. I would rather have someone like me cuz I can make them laugh not cuz they like how I look.

[anyone50]

Define sluttiness? I feel like there is a fine line between what is slutty and what is confident. Maybe...i'm just confused at this discussion haha

I'm pretty sure they are talking about how a girl presents herself to others in appearance as well as behavior so it's very arbitary what constitutes sluttiness and what shows confidence. everyone has there on idea where this line is drawn and pretty sure guys define it very differently that most girls

[Kochanek]

I don't like the word slut or sluttiness. It suggests that having more sex makes someone a worse person. The quantity of sexual feelings or sexual experience has nothing to do with the quality of a person.

[Rocsiie]

Acting slutty is kinda fun a lot of times, but being slutty is not good at all, cuz some ppl will probably hate on you, and boys treat like a slut

[LolaHaze]

Acting slutty is kinda fun a lot of times, but being slutty is not good at all, cuz some ppl will probably hate on you, and boys treat like a slut

I think it also depends on the climate of your school, the people yu choose as friends, who you hook up with...

Like, if you're a goody-goody in public, but a freak in the bedroom, and you hook up with the wrong guy... then everyone finds out and they'll treat you like s_it.

But if you hang with people who can keep their mouths shut...

[Amber Bi]

I totally agree with the last two replies

[collrue]

Wow no offence to any of you guys cuz Im all for no judging and all but wow. I kinda see why people think our generation is so messed up. I don't "slut it up" at all ever, public or private. I'd rather not have people staring at me. I would rather be judged based on my personality than how I look. I would rather have someone like me cuz I can make them laugh not cuz they like how I look.

BRAVO! and fully agree.

For me, being a slut (or sluttiness) is using your body and your actions to have sex with as many people as you possibly can. Basically, not caring whether they are just using you as something to fuck. And maybe even basking in it.

That has nothing to do with how you act in public. If you act confident and do not deny that you are a sexual being, that is not being a slut.

It has nothing to do with what you do with a partner behind closed doors. Screaming out dirty talk during sex is not being a slut.

It doesn't reeeeeally have to do with what you wear. I think you can look confident, and sexy, and even very revealing without dressing like a slut.

Just my two bits.

[collrue]

I think it also depends on the climate of your school, the people yu choose as friends, who you hook up with...

Like, if you're a goody-goody in public, but a freak in the bedroom, and you hook up with the wrong guy... then everyone finds out and they'll treat you like s_it.

But if you hang with people who can keep their mouths shut...


Well, how you are treated is different than how you actually are. Your actions are your actions, whether one person is watching or whether hundreds are watching.

But, to your point. You can do nothing wrong and have someone treat you like a slut. You break up with someone, and they lie to get back at you, saying you did something that you didn't. People might thing you're something you're not.

Just like you can be honorable, even if no one thinks you have any honor.

[LolaHaze]

Well, how you are treated is different than how you actually are. Your actions are your actions, whether one person is watching or whether hundreds are watching.

But, to your point. You can do nothing wrong and have someone treat you like a slut. You break up with someone, and they lie to get back at you, saying you did something that you didn't. People might thing you're something you're not.

Just like you can be honorable, even if no one thinks you have any honor.

Very well said!

[Kriss41]

Personally I am not slutty or a flirt. I was just raised to not be one. If ya like it, suit yourself.

[LolaHaze]

Personally I am not slutty or a flirt. I was just raised to not be one. If ya like it, suit yourself.

I think one of the points was, sometimes it doesn't matter if you weren't raised to act like one or even act like one... someone can still spread a rumor about you.

But I'm not sure what's wrong with being flirtacious - flirting can be a lot of fun, and doesn't have to lead to anything.

[Kriss41]

I just don't find it fun, personally. I've never understood it. But if others like it, that's fantastic for them. :3 I just personally do not.

[Cassygurl13]

It looks fun but I haven't really acted slutty with anyone but my bfs and bffs, just for fun rly :P

[rakster]

I try and avoid unwanted attention, but every now and then I can be a little naughty. It's fun in the right situation.

[candabear17]

Being slutty isn't a good thing. Being sexy is what people should for. In my experience, guys get a lot more excited when you act sweet and innocent in public then as soon as you're alone do something way hot. Wont even makeout with my boyfriend in public but the first time we had sex was because I go in the shower with him and gave him a bj. He was surprised and it was much more fun. Being a slut isn't like that. It's like being so hung up on sex that you try to get with anyone anytime and anywhere you can.

[Emmaxxoo]

It depends what the guy is like but when im in bed i love actin like a slut haha

[enriqueroxx]

Yea at the time at least but not always so much later.

Yeah totally........

[Emerald Dream]

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