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Curtis96
July 9th, 2012, 05:16 PM
okai so i asked this girl i like over text if she wanted to go watch a movie with me or something and when she replied she put could do, so bassicaly and i blowing this out of proportion by thinking she isn't interested but still put it or is something else and due to me not being a girl, i have not a clue, so i need the army of girls to help me on this one on some pimps, but i think the girls might help a bit more though.
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Desuetude
July 10th, 2012, 03:34 PM
Well maybe ask her in person, it's easier to get the feel of if she wants to be there or if she's just playing along. Looks like she's either not bothered or playing hard to get by what you've said, it could go either way. Asking face to face shows that you're confident and I'm sure she'd respect you a lot more, know you're serious. Try doing that next time you see her.
ImCoolBeans
July 10th, 2012, 04:59 PM
Well maybe ask her in person, it's easier to get the feel of if she wants to be there or if she's just playing along. Looks like she's either not bothered or playing hard to get by what you've said, it could go either way. Asking face to face shows that you're confident and I'm sure she'd respect you a lot more, know you're serious. Try doing that next time you see her.

This is good advice. Asking somebody face to face shows that you mean serious business and she'll probably take you a lot more seriously if you do. It shows confidence and some balls. It's not something that everybody can bring themselves to do; so if you do I'm sure she'll appreciate that.
Curtis96
July 10th, 2012, 05:38 PM
we are sorting it out now, and i would its just that i have finished school now and we live about 40 minutes away, and me suddenly turning up at her house would be weird.
Desuetude
July 10th, 2012, 05:52 PM
we are sorting it out now, and i would its just that i have finished school now and we live about 40 minutes away, and me suddenly turning up at her house would be weird.
Good point, maybe it's an idea waiting until after the Summer then? Or arrange to meet up, maybe a big group of you and you could get to know her better. The beach might be good (if you live near one) since loads of people go there in groups, if not then a pool or park. Face to face really is a lot better than asking her via text though but in the end it's up to you.