Bi or What?

[Darknova8]

Umm hi guys this is my first post of the site and i have a question to ask.

Ok I'm a bit confused if I'm bi or gay.
I understand I should wait till I'm older for my hormones to even out or what ever you would call it.

But I digress here's the question I'm sexually attracted to guys but I have almost no emotional attraction.

And I'm much more emotionally attracted to women like when we lock eyes or when I'm just with a girl I like I have a more loving connection with, but I have no sexual attraction to women it seems like.

Has anyone out there been in a similiar situation.
If so how did you determine your sexuallity and does the info above provide the info for you guys to think I'm bi.

[IanMilo]

emotional attraction is essential to any lasting relationship and love. You may come to have an emotional attraction to a particular guy or girl. You could go your whole life thinking one thing and then end up falling in love with another. Love is love, you can choose who you date but you can't choose love. So really until you're in love, just do what feels right.

[Darknova8]

Ok thx Ian this helped a lot and definetly got me thinking.

[ExhibitG]

I'm in the exact same boat as you in terms of emotional and sexual attraction for each gender and I classify myself as bisexual, but if my feelings evolve I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. currently, I think bisexual is the best label.

[Darknova8]

I'm in the exact same boat as you in terms of emotional and sexual attraction for each gender and I classify myself as bisexual, but if my feelings evolve I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. currently, I think bisexual is the best label.

Ya I would have to agree with you i label myself as bi aswell.
Glad to hear someone in the same situation as me.
Feel free to pm me bout anything I'm willing to talk.

[RedViper]

The sexual attraction is a result of hormones :)
But I went through the same confusion

[Darknova8]

Thx for the imput steve and lol love the signature.

[RedViper]

You're welcome.
Betty White is amazing! ^_^

[Cognizant]

Perhaps you're just lusting guys?
That would make sense if you only find guys attractive/sexy/what have you
So, I wouldn't say you're bisexual. Bicurious maybe?

[aanderso_n]

for a long time i thought i was bi. At first i tried to push it away and ignore it, and i really beat myself up for a while because i thought it was wrong. But then realized that only you know who you are and i embraced it. The best thing to do is not to jump to conclusions and wait a little while, things might change. But if you are indeed bi, there's nothing wrong with that. In my opinion,none should have to define their sexuality to others, it should be normally accepted, like being straight.
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[Losing Sanity79]

I am that way. I am sexually attracted to men, but emotionally attracted to women.
Also, what you told us, about hormones, is the exact reason we can't really help. It all depends on what happens afterward.