not sure....

[Spock]

Now before i start rambling i want to say im not sure of my sexualtiy. is it possible not to have one? because i have a had girl firends in the past but for a while i have become uninterested in them. i like to talk and hang out with them but i dont want to get in a relationship. now i m not into men but i dont mind looking at them and observing them. the thing is i cant be gay becasue of what i do in my life. In order to finish boy scouts i can not announce that i m gay because i dont think i m. Now being Bi isnt out of the question. i was thinking of that actually. im not quiet sure if i could be. I just dont know because i m so confised lately. I just wish i ould know for sure. i have often had dreams to go to college and own a pet store with my best friends and live in Cleveland Ohio with my dog the rest of my life. I dont want to have kids (sex) with a women because past experiance led me to no interest in them. But i have always wanted to adopt a child though. with this info i gave you can you help me figure out my sexuality?:what:

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

It's possible that you're asexual.

However, neither I or anyone else can say what exactly you are.

If I understand, you don't think you're gay and you're not 'into' men, and you don't really have any interest in women either. You could very well be asexual, and if you are you can still certainly adopt children in the future, should you choose.

[xaydavis]

Idk either im attracted to girls and boys but dont want to be in a relationship and dont care love that muc.

[IanMilo]

It just depends on the emotional attachment to someone. You may not know what you like until you fall in love, or if you are asexual you may never have any particular liking for either one. Being physically attracted to someone is all well and done, but unless there is an emotional attachment you cant necessarily say you like men or women in a relationship way. Love is love.

[SamB]

What you have basically said is not that you don't know what your sexuality is but you have said you don't want to be gay or bi. This is something that you cannot decide, if you are then you are, and irt is not something anyone on here can tell you. You are still young so why do you need to jump to a conclusion and label yourself now, this could all just be your hormones and your feeling will change as you go through puberty and get older.

[Spock]

well i cant commit a relationship i know this because none of them with women have worked out so far. I like the feeling of not having to worry about pleasing anyone but my self in the world. this isnt a greedy comment if you know what i mean. the only relationships that work with me are friendships because these work for me. I think guys are a lot more approachable than women. they arint ad mean to anyone. I dont know what to think becasue i cant be in a relationship with a women becasue i just end up getting bored with it or ignore it becasue im with my firends... does that say anything? right now im so confused about eerything.

[Matt knobs]

I have a very strong feeling that your Asexual nd no sex male or female interests you