Divorce. Need help with mom.

[Dancermc24]

I really don't know what to do anymore so I'm hoping someone can give me advice. I'm 14, my parents are divorced and the have been since I was 10. I have three younger siblings. The divorce felt really hard for me mainly because I have known them together for a long time. I learned to accept it but I still have a hard time with it sometimes. I see my dad often and he lives close by and stuff. This past year has been extremely hard. When my parents divorced my dad became like independent he spends time with us and really cares about being a good dad. My mom on the other hand is obviously hurt a lot. She is out all the time and a lot of her good best friends she doesn't really talk to anymore and then wonders why. Her new best friend is a lesbian a few years ago my mom would just be awkward with lesbians (I have nothing against em) it's just not like my mom. My mom blows money on a lot of stuff for herself and never buys me and my siblings clothes and stuff. We barely have food and she never cares about meals so we r always hungry. I really don't want to talk to her about it. Is their any other way? Pls help. :(:(

[Frankie66]

Well I would sit her down and just tell her how it is and how you feel about the whole situation... Good luck! :)

[DarkHorse4eva]

Talk with your dad about it

[TwilightFan]

Maybe you should just tell your dad about how unhappy you are. If he really is trying so hard to be a good father, he'll at least try to talk to your mom or maybe he'll suggest that you guys move in with him (if he has enough space for four kids, of course).

[Cognizant]

Well I would sit her down and just tell her how it is and how you feel about the whole situation... Good luck! :)

what i think you should do exactly.

[survivor1015]

In all honesty, she is probably venting in her own way... Even if that is the case, she should still be acting as a parent and taking care of you and your siblings. If it has become that big of a problem in your household, you should probably try to do something about it. Tell your father about what is going on and he can fight for custody of the four of you. Sometimes, the best thing that you can do is to take matters into your own hands. Hope this helps... :)

[Upgrade_U]

divorce is always hard. my parents have been apart for about 5 years. all you can do is hope that they dont make you choose sides and that it will all work out.