How to say no to girls.

[norcaldude18]

So Im having a little situation and im not sure how to handle it. Any advice would really help. So iv pretty much decided that im gay, and im totally in the closet still. There have been a few girls lately that really like me. They always text me and want to hang out. I can tell that one of them really really likes me. The problem is that i dont like girls at all. She is a fairly good looking girl and everyone is wondering why i dont go for her. I dont know what to tell her and all my other friends. I dont want to lead her on and not be able to take it to the next level. What should i do?

[Harley Quinn]

Well I think the most obvious thing to do it tell them that you're gay and you aren't in girls. Yes, that's harder said than done but if you don't want the questions as to why you won't date her that's really the only solution. While I'm saying tell them you're gay, I don't think that it's wise to rush it, I mean you'll know yourself when it's right to come out. If that isn't possible tell them that you aren't ready for a relationship and you'd prefer if you remained friends, they should understand that.

[SydRoosters]

Give her my number. It's 1800 DESPERATE ;)

[LiamC]

I've recently had this, I was actually scarily close to saying 'can't, I'm gay' but I just said that I really liked someone else and I think something was close to happening so I had to keep myself free. The first part was true, and she didn't know that someone else is a boy :p

[norcaldude18]

I just said that I really liked someone else and I think something was close to happening so I had to keep myself free. :p

Thanks, this is a really good idea. Ill probably use this line, just hope she doesnt ask who the other person is. I could see that happening :rolleyes:

[LatinaVivit]

Don't take a bath for like a week then give her a big bear hug! That'll get her off your back hehehe

[derpderp]

Why not step-out of the closet and flick the bird at the socially backwards world?...If they were true friends, true human-beings, they'd accept you for whom you are, a homosexual. If they cannot accept that, they're brains are simply stuck back in the 1800's and you can find better free-thinking people to hangout with and be friends with.