Confused..

[blondebeast]

Okay, this is really weird. I have a friend named Brandon and hey is one of my best friends. One day my phone starts vibrating and there is a message on it from him. It was supposed to be to a guy names Gabe but he was talking about how at our sleepover that Wednesday he wants to give me a BJ, and have oral. I am scared because I really do not want to do it but when you tell him no he get aggressive and he will not forgive me. What should I do?

[jean.auburn]

of course you shouldnt let him force you to do anything! but you have to let him know you're uncomfortable in a way he can understand. are you confortable doing just some of what he asks for? maybe it might be a good alternative or compromise. if he wants to force you to do things with him i doubt he is as good a friend as you think he is!

[blondebeast]

of course you shouldnt let him force you to do anything! but you have to let him know you're uncomfortable in a way he can understand. are you confortable doing just some of what he asks for? maybe it might be a good alternative or compromise. if he wants to force you to do things with him i doubt he is as good a friend as you think he is!


Thanks:yes:

[Sean4U]

Yea don't do anything you don't want to do...it is really just curiosity if you do won't mean your gay, just wonder what it would feel like, but do what YOU want to do

[Stryker125]

Just let him know you're not into it. If he's your friend, he won't push it.

[DerBear]

Either don't attend the sleepover.

you could also simply talk to him and explain to him that you do not want to engage in any sexual activities at all with him. Also you should try to explain to him in away he understands. If he won't come to senses then I don't what you can do. You might have to separate yourself from him for a time. As if he is can't understand then I don't think he would be a really good friend.

[Rayquaza]

Tell him no. No means no. What kind of friend pressurizes another into doing sexual activities? Go to far and its underage sex. If he's over the age of consent and you aren't it's rape if its sex. Tell him no and tell him that you cant be friends with him if he keeps doing this. It's a little odd he sent you the message.Unless he was trying to hint at something. If I were you I probably wouldn't go to the sleepover and probably call him the night before explaining why.

[SamB]

Do not let him do anything to you that you don't want him too. If you are that worried about it don't go to the sleep over and tell him that you don't want to be near him if he is going to try something you don't want him too.