What is it, exactly?

[Heatbomb21]

I was just wondering, what exactly is a boyfriend or girlfriend to you? I know there's the obvious, like each other, staying with each other, relationship lovey-dovey stuff, but is it always like that in everyone's mind? When I think of those words, I always get those thoughts in my mind, but I always think alongside that, that from what I want in a relationship with a girl, it doesn't really involve that too much.

I'm not used to socializing too much, no matter how much I hang with my friends, I'm just not used to it like I should be. My regular "posse" (mainly my guy friends), always hang with me and we always have good times. But I'm not really having as much fun as I do when a girl who I'm close to is in the group. (No one specifically, just in general)

One of my all time best friends is a girl, and when I hang with her, I always have the most fun time. I'd thought about a relationship with her at one point, but my thoughts had nothing to do with the usual bf/gf idea. Just us being friends, basically, but being together more than usual. No dates or kissing or whatever. If it were appropriate, I probably would be calling her my girlfriend. Even the girl who I love right now, I really can't think of much more than a more involved friendship with her, despite my feelings. I'd just be satisfied with that and nothing more.

Does anyone think the same? That a boyfriend or girlfriend isn't necesssarily as serious as it's usually showed?

[RachelW]

Sounds like ur with. The wrong girl, if u can just be ur self and have fun without labeling ur relationship then it will probably Lead to something more, dose ure friend know how u feal about her.

[Heatbomb21]

Sounds like ur with. The wrong girl, if u can just be ur self and have fun without labeling ur relationship then it will probably Lead to something more, dose ure friend know how u feal about her.


Oh. Sorry if I was misleading.

This isn't a question regarding a problem with me. I was just asking people's opinion on what their definition of a boyfriend/girlfriend is to them.

[RachelW]

thats a hard one. i would say that if you both agree that ur in a relation ship then u r

[Harley Quinn]

I think that the whole 'boyfriend/girlfriend' thing is just a label and doesn't really matter. If you think you're in a relationship, and it's mutual then I don't think it matters that you aren't calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. I think it all depends on your personal view of relationships to be honest. I think that it really only becomes somewhat serious when you're thinking of spending the future etc with them.

[PinkFloyd]

you both have to agree on where your relationship stands. Like most tv shoes; once you hug, kiss, hold hands, feel up, hell, f*ck then your offficial. But you botth have to agree.