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DarkWingedAngel
July 7th, 2012, 02:06 AM
I have no idea what to do. I have been talking to this guy i met on a dating site for like 3 months now he is sweet cute and nice. I am falling hard core for him i got my plan for my phone switched so i could text and call long distance i wanna see if me and him could turn into a long distance relationship but in scared that it will happen like my last long distant relationship where we will never talk again and it will leave me broken into pieces. He says the last thing he wants to do is hurt me but i don't think i can trust it cause the last one hurt me after saying the same thing. What should i do follow my heart or break it off with him?
Harley Quinn
July 7th, 2012, 10:46 AM
I think that you have to do what's in your best interest. I know you don't want to get hurt again, but you can't exactly never date anyone again because of what they did to you. You need to do whatever will make you happy, and maybe you need to start trusting again, not everyone will hurt you and you never know, maybe he won't. But if you don't think it'll go anywhere, break it off. However, it's your choice and I don't think we can really influence that for you.
ackmedsgirl666
July 26th, 2012, 11:57 PM
dylan bro. if i were you i would lay off for now
remain friends and see how that goes
last thing i need is to see you hurt when i am no longer around to comfort you hun
maybe meet him somehow, continue webcam chats or something
and then if things get more serious go from there.
West Coast Sheriff
July 27th, 2012, 03:16 AM
Go 4 it, if u don't u will be hurt cuz u never met him
jegoss02
July 27th, 2012, 03:27 AM
I think that you have to do what's in your best interest. I know you don't want to get hurt again, but you can't exactly never date anyone again because of what they did to you. You need to do whatever will make you happy, and maybe you need to start trusting again, not everyone will hurt you and you never know, maybe he won't. But if you don't think it'll go anywhere, break it off. However, it's your choice and I don't think we can really influence that for you.
So true. Dylan dude. It's fine to trust in people. If you don't trust him, then how can he trust you. It just goes south from there. But I you trust him and he trusts you, it will happen. You can do it people across the world do it like this all the time. Believe in yourself. I know you can.
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