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Bradley 97
July 6th, 2012, 10:58 PM
I have this ex gf that was my first kiss was the only girl I loved before I came to my senses I was gay and now I don't even look at girls but when I see her just like no guy matters and I turn straight... And I'm not bi cause no other girl does this to me.. Any one else like this or have a explanation?

LatinaVivit
July 6th, 2012, 11:26 PM
You just can't help to whom you're attracted! If you like this girl, and it feels right, then go for it! Never mind labels...that's for boxes of cereal. Good luck! :)

dontfiguremeout
July 7th, 2012, 01:05 AM
Hmm, yeah I wouldn't label yourself too early. It seems like your in mixed emotions. And you really do love this girl. I know for a fact it's true love, because I have loved my best friend for a year now, and she's always with another guy now, and I tried to date, but I break up a day after because they aren't like her. But yeah, your young, so don't label yourself right now, when hormones are crazy and you have mixed up feelings. Especially like this!

Bradley 97
July 7th, 2012, 10:43 PM
Thanks guys... I would love to date her! Just not as easy cause she is in love with another guy and she has cheated and all that on me so not good idea to date her... Just wondering if y'all thought that made my bi not gay

dontfiguremeout
July 7th, 2012, 10:56 PM
Then your probably bi, because you still have emotions for girls. May not be all of them, but you still have emotions for them.

StoppingTime
July 8th, 2012, 03:27 PM
If you are still interested in her physically and emotionally, it's doubtful that you are gay.
There is no reason to just slap a label on yourself if you aren't completely sure of your sexuality. You've got plenty of time to figure that out, so just take it slowly.
If you can see yourself in a relationship with just her, then maybe you are just dwelling on past events, and if you had the chance and you did date her again, you'd find out otherwise.