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joshduder
July 6th, 2012, 03:58 AM
There is a girl who I don't like but she likes me I think.

The other day she started telling me ,"don't act so naive and all that stuff.
She literally told me that I know you masturabate and watch pirn and all that stuff. "

I like her as a normal friend, but I don't want to get serious with her. She has now begun telling me that I'm gonna change you and make you a cool stud and all. I like being just the way I am. Not that I dress like as though I'm in the 1950s ..I use a good trend and lifestyle. But I want to make it clear to her that I like her only as a friend and I don't want to be serious with her. The point is that she never allows me to talk..she is kind of a chatterbox. I need help!!!

Rashard1997
July 6th, 2012, 04:03 AM
Put your foot down. I kno tht she is just a friend so sometimes our friends dnt understand nice. Be an ass, make her listen to you, and dnt let her talk. Thts wat i would do.

joshduder
July 6th, 2012, 04:25 AM
How?

johngotti
July 6th, 2012, 09:55 AM
you gotta be aggressive, the reason she likes you is because most guys dont give her the oppurtunity to talk, you gotta put your voice in there and be loud my nigga.

joshduder
July 6th, 2012, 01:30 PM
I guess your rite...I'll try but I need tips on how to?? I have never been rude to a girl yet

bus730
July 6th, 2012, 03:46 PM
Just tell her you want to be friends and dont want to get to serious

Gigablue
July 6th, 2012, 03:53 PM
Tell her you want to be friends but nothing more. She will probably be somewhat hurt by this but try to be as nice as possible. Be direct and to the point without being mean.

Human
July 6th, 2012, 04:12 PM
what?! a rare case of a boy friend zoning a girl...
first of all, just tell her no.

Sean4U
July 18th, 2012, 02:48 PM
yes, be strong and just tell her you like her as a friend, not a girlfriend in that way....she may be upset and maybe even walk away, but you have to be honest with her, in the end that's what counts, you could hurt her more if you let it go on ...

Christheman
July 18th, 2012, 05:00 PM
tell her lets just be friends

LitBlackRose
July 18th, 2012, 05:51 PM
Ok so this is what you do ... Get a lot of your friends together and what at the exit when school and then wait for the girl and have them all yell I DON'T WANNA DATE YOU I ONLY WANNA BE FRIENDS I don't know if this helps but you can try hehe

wolfguy
July 18th, 2012, 08:44 PM
k dude tel her that you arent reday be trthful and serious ok pm me

FreeFall
July 18th, 2012, 11:13 PM
Wow, she sounds annoying. Just talk over her if you need to, raise your voice as a last precaution. Wave your hands at her, she'll stop for a moment then probably chatter wondering what you're doing. You must be quick, say exactly what you need when she's stunned and wondering before she even has the chance to speak. When you do get your word in, do not give her the time to talk. You must not pause or speak too slowly.

West Coast Sheriff
July 19th, 2012, 12:28 AM
Either ask her out or just let her down easy:cool:

toobigforlife
July 19th, 2012, 12:47 AM
what can I say but grow a pair. If you just go along and don't say anything she's going to get hurt in the end. just tell her that you don't like her that way but still consider her a friend

Well she's kinda right you gotta man up and say "hey stop talking for one minute and listen to me. I know you like me but, i dont have the same feeling and i dont want to ruin our friendship by getting serious, so its best that we stay friends"

TheMatrix
July 19th, 2012, 02:02 AM
This is more a friends issue than it is puberty, you know.
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