thecheesyguy
July 6th, 2012, 01:25 AM
Well, The tittle says it all... I'm obsessed.
My bets friend's name is Miguel. We're basically polar opposites, as some would say. We're basically different, except for our problems with family members. He often says that opposites attract; that my extroverted, happy and outgoing personality brings some fun in his life and helps him with his shyness. And his introverted, intellectual and shy personality keeps me grounded. The thing with this guy is, we used to hate each other until we got to know each other. And we've been through a lot together (problems with our families) and we're always there to help each other, saying that it's OK, everything will be fine. And those types of things are what made our friendship grow.
Now, all the hate I felt for him is now replaced with admiration and ... let's say it.. I love the guy. We're like brothers. And we're not afraid to tell each other what we feel.
The thing is.. I think i have developed an obsession with him. Or I don't know... It's that I always tell him how much he means to me and he does the same. Maybe it's just admiration and the fact that he's the only close friend I've ever had.. I've grown dependent, in a sense. And now that we're moving to different schools this year, I feel as if i'm loosing a part of me. People I talk to about this say i'm exaggerating and being ridiculous.. I owe him so much.. I can't stand the thought of not talking to him every day.. I'll miss him.
So I'm here to ask for opinions on my situation.
My bets friend's name is Miguel. We're basically polar opposites, as some would say. We're basically different, except for our problems with family members. He often says that opposites attract; that my extroverted, happy and outgoing personality brings some fun in his life and helps him with his shyness. And his introverted, intellectual and shy personality keeps me grounded. The thing with this guy is, we used to hate each other until we got to know each other. And we've been through a lot together (problems with our families) and we're always there to help each other, saying that it's OK, everything will be fine. And those types of things are what made our friendship grow.
Now, all the hate I felt for him is now replaced with admiration and ... let's say it.. I love the guy. We're like brothers. And we're not afraid to tell each other what we feel.
The thing is.. I think i have developed an obsession with him. Or I don't know... It's that I always tell him how much he means to me and he does the same. Maybe it's just admiration and the fact that he's the only close friend I've ever had.. I've grown dependent, in a sense. And now that we're moving to different schools this year, I feel as if i'm loosing a part of me. People I talk to about this say i'm exaggerating and being ridiculous.. I owe him so much.. I can't stand the thought of not talking to him every day.. I'll miss him.
So I'm here to ask for opinions on my situation.