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Soccer-is-life
July 6th, 2012, 12:15 AM
So yesterday (July 5th) my friend passed away :/ . She was a pretty good friend of mine like we hung out in school and parties and stuff. She went cliff jumping slipped and hit her head on a rock. It's a horrible way to go and I still cant believe it's true. I just talked to her the other day and now she's gone. And in the beginning of the school year last year I had two of my good friends pass away in a car accident. I was just like recovering from their deaths still and was almost at I guess you can say "normalcy" again and then this happens. It's been a rough year to say the least. I lost a lot of good friends and it's just really rough. On the outside I appear normal and like I act like I am around people but on the inside I'm not. And also a month ago my dog that I had since I was 4 passed away... Granted it's not a person but it's still a huge part of my life and honestly was my favorite member of my family. She was always there to cheer me up and was a big part of helping me when I was down about my 2 friends dying but now she's gone and now this right after. It just sucks and I feel like shit and depressed. :/
VictoriaGotaSecret
July 6th, 2012, 12:39 AM
im really sorry for losses youve experienced.
jalenobk1
July 31st, 2012, 05:37 PM
I lost a friend recently so I know how you feel. People who hav't lost someone say it gets better but it doesnt, It just gets easier to handle i suppose. Don't be sad shes gone though, be happy you had a chance to be friends with her. Try not to think about the bad so much, but remember all the good times you guys had together. I'm not saying you can't grieve, but just focus more on the happy times. Hope i was able to help.
paterico
July 31st, 2012, 07:00 PM
I know how you feel. One of my friends passed away due to leukemia only 2 days after my birthday. I went through a phase were I was wheelchair bound for six months, and he was the only one who understood. It was a sad moment in my life. It was even sadder seeing his mum at the funeral, I just wanted to hug her, it was sad for everyone at school. But you learn to move on. I can't really give you advice, and I don't think I should, grieving is a normal process that everyone goes through in their lifes. Plus everyone deals with it differently. Just try to continue with your life, I'm sure your friend would like that (:
Christheman
July 31st, 2012, 07:48 PM
I can't imagine what it would be like to lose a friend. I'm sorry for you losses but remeber they are in a better place now.
Lovely637
July 31st, 2012, 08:22 PM
Condolence
Iron Man
July 31st, 2012, 08:26 PM
I am so sorry..I can imagine the pain you are feeling right now. If I lost my best friend, I wouldn't be the same.
Lovely637
July 31st, 2012, 08:34 PM
Yeah. very sad for sure.
Soccer-is-life
July 31st, 2012, 09:40 PM
Thanks guys I really appreciate it <3 and I'm sorry for all of your loses too :/
ImJustMe
August 6th, 2012, 10:53 PM
I have worked at my family's funeral home sense I was 10. Grief is a common emotion. However many of the people know that they will see there loved ones again some day. So just know that its not good bye, its ill see you later.
West Coast Sheriff
August 6th, 2012, 10:55 PM
I'm sorry
chiliguy
August 11th, 2012, 02:30 PM
Oh my God... I am really sorry! I don't know what else to say... Just try to remember the great times you had together and let it go.. :(
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