Problem with masturbating

[Tomer]

Hey everybody!
New to the forum, but I've been looking around for the past couple of days.
So, i'm turning 17 in a couple of months, and I'm apparently at tanner stage 4 or so. I've had wet dreams several times, and I've had some cum or pre-cum come out while I'm watching porn, but I've never had the urge to masturbate. Ever. The cum (pre-cum?) would usually come out on it own. It's a clear liquid, not a opaque. I've been wondering for a long time if this is normal. I've done some partial research on this, but I've never got an answer.

Thank you.

[Rayquaza]

Possibly, because of the wet dreams, you don't want to masturbate, since masturbation is releasing built up semen, and your wet dreams are doing that for you. It's not 'normal', but it's not 'abnormal' either. We define normal as being free from disease, maintaining homeostasis etc; so it sounds fine. I bet a lot of teenage boys would want to be you, free from urges. Clear fluid is pre-ejaculate (precum).

[Tomer]

My dear sweet Mr Tomer, it's likely you're going to die. The cum inside of your body will build up and eventually just drown your body slowly. Sir, it's not a remarkable way to die and I urge you to masturbate as soon as possible or allow me to do it for you.
You humans, so inferior and stupid.

There was no reason to be sarcastic. I never asked if I was going to die. I simply asked if this is normal, and if it wasn't, if somebody would be able to explain to me. However, thanks for your somewhat of a great reply.


Possibly, because of the wet dreams, you don't want to masturbate, since masturbation is releasing built up semen, and your wet dreams are doing that for you. It's not 'normal', but it's not 'abnormal' either. We define normal as being free from disease, maintaining homeostasis etc; so it sounds fine. I bet a lot of teenage boys would want to be you, free from urges. Clear fluid is pre-ejaculate (precum).

Thanks for this. I guess it kind of makes sense, but the wet dreams are not very often, i'd say once a month. I've had sex before, and I've ejaculated, so I know that's not a problem.
Thanks for your reply!

[minecraftmstr]

yes its normal
like when making out when your rock hard and u start leaking
i do that alot

[Destructor]

well it's certainly not common, but there is nothing wrong with it.

[Tomer]

well it's certainly not common, but there is nothing wrong with it.

Alright. I guess I should be happy I don't have the urge, and that's about it.

[Jose1995]

Ya every guy per cumms but usually every guy would jack off afterwords

[IAMWILL]

Well, if you've never had the urge to masterbate, it may be possible that your are asexual. I think about 1% of people are, and every time I hear of it it generally involves guys who have never masturbated. If you don't know, being asexual means you are not physically attracted to either sex. This would explain why you haven't had the urge, because at 17 I would expect you to have done it already if you weren't asexual.

[Tomer]

Well, if you've never had the urge to masterbate, it may be possible that your are asexual. I think about 1% of people are, and every time I hear of it it generally involves guys who have never masturbated. If you don't know, being asexual means you are not physically attracted to either sex. This would explain why you haven't had the urge, because at 17 I would expect you to have done it already if you weren't asexual.

oh, no no no no. Defiantly not, ahah. Scared me there for a second.
I'm defiantly attracted to females, that's for sure. I've had sex, and I've ejaculated during the sex, I just never feel the need to masturbate while watching porn, that's it.

[Drew5]

Not having the urge to isn't normal. All guys I know aren't like you. Don't equate not normal with bad oe defective either. You're just diff, that's all, cuz you can ejaculate and I'll guess it happens when you orgasm. I sure hope you orgasm and have that feeling when your with a girl!

[Tomer]

Not having the urge to isn't normal. All guys I know aren't like you. Don't equate not normal with bad oe defective either. You're just diff, that's all, cuz you can ejaculate and I'll guess it happens when you orgasm. I sure hope you orgasm and have that feeling when your with a girl!

I still ejaculate when I'm with a girl, I just don't have the urge, that's all. I'm also very, very late in my puberty stages and by that I am, my puberty set in very late, and I'll be going at it into the 20's for sure, just because of how my family is (they are all like that), so this might change in the future.