Hmmm virginity :/

[splitenz]

I have recently turned 17, and I am still a virgin. I have only recently started to feel a bit bad about it, as most of my mates who are the same age have already done it and I haven't, and I don't feel good about it. Should I really be feeling bad about it, or should I see it as something good? Thanks :D

[LBYRDMAN10]

Its good if ur a Christian:)

[Nox Arcana]

Honestly, seeing virginity as a bad things is ridiculous, don't see it as bad. It doesn't matter if you're a Christian, Atheist, Hindu, whatever you want to follow, you lose it when you believe you are ready. Do not let your friends push you or pressure you into losing it, and certainly don't feel bad for being one.
Losing your virginity will be something you'll not easily forget, so it's better to wait until you feel ready for it, and lose it for a person who you share mutual deep affection and trust with.

Bottom line, don't feel bad. It's not a bad thing. This is about you not about them, and your choices will affect your life, not theirs.

[cody999]

don't feel bad about it its not a bad thing just you will eventually find the right girl you just have to keep looking

[Tom Stone]

It's not good or bad. It'll happen when it's time.

[christianteen]

Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Don't rush into sex because it could end up being terrible if you're with the wrong woman. Find the right partner first and see where you go from there.

[Incompris]

Nothin to feel bad about, just means you havent found the right person. Still being one is better than not being one but you rushed it

[takemyh-nd]

Honestly, I wish I would've waited for sex. The person I lost it to didn't mean anything to me. So I'm jealous of you.

[OregonStateDude]

Doesn't matter if you are gay or straight, but there shouldn't be some magic age where you feel obligated to give it up. I'm still a virgin and I'm not going all the way until I find the right guy.

[Charleigh]

Personally...you loose your virginity anyway so....and nobody is really virgin because in the end life fucks us all. But it's good that you still are because it shows self respect and if you have respect for yourself that shows alot of things :)

[FERN012]

there's nothing bad on it. it will soon come

[SamB]

I'm 18 and a virgin, but I honestly don't care what people say or think. If you aren't ready to have sex yet then you shouldn't have to just because your friends have. Wait for someone to come along that you care about a lot, or you could end up regretting it.

[sweet heart]

being a virgin is good dont feel bad if u havent had sex in the bible it jesus sayed i dont want u to have sex till your married so dont feel bad well thats what it says in the kids verson of the bible