My mom said i was a skrew up

[minecraftmstr]

My mom said i was a skrew up becouse i put all the weight of my jeans on the dryer lid and it got bent
acceidentily!

[EmptyBottle]

That's incredibly insensitive for her to say that. I'm sorry.

[Thunderstorm]

You are not a screw up. You are an individual. You deserve to be treated right. Don't believe anything harmful she says, because she is probably just angry and wouldn't say that to you if she was sane. You are a unique individual. Do not take orders or slurs from anyone. You are yourself and remember that. Don't change for others ;)

[Jacketh]

You are 13. I'm 15. Some people are 80 and still make mistakes and accidents. Everyone has accidents right up until they die, your Mum is being incredibly harsh on you.

I don't know your mum, but if she came out with this randomly and it isn't like her, maybe she was having a bad day and didn't mean it. Its still very harsh and she shouldn't of said it, but perhaps things were boiling up and you was her target.

If she is like this a lot, try to talk to a friend or an organisation where you can just talk and they'll listen to you. We have Childline over here in the UK and although they can't give you advice, they do listen and make you feel better.

You're not a screw up by all means. It was accident. Try not to reply with the typical ''I hate you!'' and other responses. They just tend to escalate the situation, which is never a good thing. I know its very, very hard and its rich coming from me, someone who have had countless arguments with my parents - But go up to your room, put some music on and chill out. They'll come round eventually, they always do. :)

[chica_imperfecta]

You aren't a skrew up because of that. She might have just been having a bad day and took it out on you by saying that. I know it's hurtful. Sometimes my mom does the same thing to me. She'll have a bad day, and just because I do one little thing, she lashes out on me. What I do to try to make it better is go and apologize and let her tell me what's bothering her. There are certain times where parents need someone to vent to (at least that's how my mom is). So don't be upset... I'm sure she'll forget all about it! But don't think that you're a skrew up. You're here on this earth for a reason! :)

[Mirage]

That's pretty mean, please don't let her get to you. Obviously she was just saying it in the heat of the moment because I can assure you that your mother loves you. After all, you are an extension of her! So don't worry about it, she most likely will apologize soon.

[CaliKid24]

I have done that before, u arent a screw up!

[Smeagol]

I'm really sorry she said that, but I doubt that she truly believes it :hug: Still, I know that it hurts...

[minecraftmstr]

thank you all
i feel better

[Charleigh]

Babe, if I listened to everything that my mum said, I'd have murdered her by now. Parent's are fucked up machines that work alot differently to the way us teens do. They say a lot of things that they don't mean, and they simply take the fact that we're their children and we can be they're punchbags, because unlike their husbands or boyfriends, we won't go anywhere.
Trust me hun, you're not a screw up. Your perfect in your own way :) <3

[minecraftmstr]

You aren't a skrew up because of that. She might have just been having a bad day and took it out on you by saying that. I know it's hurtful. Sometimes my mom does the same thing to me. She'll have a bad day, and just because I do one little thing, she lashes out on me. What I do to try to make it better is go and apologize and let her tell me what's bothering her. There are certain times where parents need someone to vent to (at least that's how my mom is). So don't be upset... I'm sure she'll forget all about it! But don't think that you're a skrew up. You're here on this earth for a reason! :)

sorry about your brother i still want to hug you
i sound like a creeper