No more 'baby brother'... :(

[chica_imperfecta]

This is the worst day of my life. My 'little brother' was taken away from me today. My parents take in foster children until they are adopted. One of the kids that we have had for over a year, Aiden, was adopted today. Aiden and I got to be so close. Even though he's only 5, he always knew what to say to make me feel better. I never felt anything but happiness around him. He became so close to me that we called each other brother and sister. It just seemed more natural that way. But now he's gone and I don't know what to do. I had no idea letting him go would be this hard. He moved about an hour away, so we still will get to see him because the family he is with now is letting us. But I want him living here again. I know it's selfish. This is the worst day of my life. I'm so upset, I can't even function. I don't know what to do...

[Thunderstorm]

This happens to lots of kids, whether it be their sibling die or move away or foster and what not. Look at the bright side, you still see him. Not everyone can have that luxury. He is going on to a can better life. A life where he live without having to worry about his next home, or who will love him forever. And just think, you were the first one to make him feel like that. You got him started. Now, he wil never wonder what it is like to feel cared for, and felt needed and loved. All because of you. Think of this as a good thing. Ther eis nothing you can do unless the adoption parents don't want him after a while, which is unfortunately for you not possible. So sorry, but he will live agood life. Be happy for him. He'll miss you too.

[chica_imperfecta]

Thanks so much. I never would have thought of it like that. I feel... okay now. :)

[Breakeven]

awwww im sorry , but hes only one hour away u still can see him and call him and that why he will have a normal life like any other kid :hug:

[minecraftmstr]

This is sad i feel for you
now i want to hug you

[Mirage]

Really sorry this happened.

I know it is hard for you now, but you do get to see him on a regular basis, right? Well sometimes the foster kids go far, far away and the foster siblings never get to see them again. At least you get to see him, so cheer up a bit :)

[minecraftmstr]

this is how i felt when my mom started to say things like i was ugly and i was a skrew up
i basicaly felt like i lost my mom
i even saw her saying to my sister that she was th favorite
then i almost murderd my sis when we were swimming
i felt as though i had no family
but im over it now
and im happy