Please HELP! Sexuality Problems.

[mzakpitt]

Okay. So I'm 16. I like musical theater and like a lot of different things, but singing and musical theater have always been my thing. For the past like 6 years I have pretty much either considered myself bi or even gay, and I mean c'mon, I was pretty much attracted to, well, penis and guys. But lately, I've been noticing that all that I'm attracted to his just that. I like watching gay porn and looking at guys, but I could never see myself marrying a guy and I've tried to have a relationship with a guy, but I just got, to tell the truth, bored and wasn't committed. Yet, when I'm with a girl, I love to hug them and idk, it seems like I'm more emotionally attracted to them, more than physically, and I could see myself in a long committed relationship with a girl so much more than I could with a guy. I just...idk...i thought I was so sure and now I'm just questioning everything. I need help please. If there's anyone out there who knows the answer I would love some!

[Dan co.]

Well i do musical theater to just wanted to make that quick comment and well its puberty so your unsure but to me you see a girl as a best friend but this can go in so many ways you get use to the emotional connection with a guy or a physical connection with girls or both. hope this helps

[Evancosta]

What you love to do has nothing to do with your sexuality. Most people our age are bi curious and a lot of them are into the whole "macho-sports" thing. Look at it like this: Do what YOU think is right in your heart. Don't let influences around you control your decisions. Are you a virgin? Because you really don't know what you truly are until you actually do it. You may do a guy and think it is either awesome,okay, or terrible. Same for a girl. Just experiment with both guys and girls. I guarantee if a girl starts rubbing your dick, you will get hard. Same for a guy. I know I would get hard either way. Just because you don't get hard looking at a photo of a naked girl doesn't mean you're gay. For all you know the gay porn thing could just be a fetish for you.

[wolfguy]

it sounds like to me that you are bi

[Upgrade_U]

I am the exact same way except that i dont do musical theater. I am never sure what I am and its really confusing for me.

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Just think of it this way, all guys are curious. You could say that 99% of guys fantasize about a guy and why?, its because of your hormones! don't worry, we all go through this stage. Don't label yourself Bi, Straight, or Gay, just live your life and experiment! That is when you will find out what you like. Good luck!

[DerBear]

You might find more relevant and helpful answers here

Puberty for Boys-->Teen Sexuality

[hey_mister]

You could be bi, or maybe just curious, if you can't picture yourself with a guy, then you're most likely not gay, or bi, so you're probably just curious. There is nothing wrong with being bi or gay though, so if down the road, you can picture yourself with a guy, don't be a afraid of that, you are who you are.

[Brice]

I think you are just curious. I've seen lots of guys who are straight get turned on my another guy and whatnot. A sign that you're not gay/bi= You got bored in the relationship! Hope this helps!:)

[TrueAlyn]

All right, I've got a very good friend who is very, very straight, and he just got done with a relationship that started out with both of them being attracted to each other and ended up with both of them being bored out of their minds. It just wasn't the right pair. When I first came to the realization that I was gay, I believed that I could have HOT, amazing sex with a guy and then come home to a sweet, stereotypical American dream with a housewife and children. I didn't even want to contemplate a relationship with a guy cus that would (idk how) make me more gay. But when I accepted that I wasn't meant for a partner relationship with a girl, it helped me imagine a future where I meet a guy. I'm 100% gay, but I still sometimes have trouble coming to terms with the fact that I'm not going to have the future I always dreamt of. You could be bi, you could be gay, or you could be heterosexual; what you need to do is find theperson that you can imagine (and actually go through) life with :)

[AndroFrydo]

I feel exactly the same! Guys i find far more physically attractive and really turn me on but anything emotional or romantic i just couldnt see it with a guy.

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads. This one was from August. The bump limit for this forum is 2 months