Getting over Someone

[BrassMonkey]

Well, if you have read my previous posts, you would basically know about my Love Life Problems that is leading to this. My friend that Im in love with that I mentioned before hasnt talked to me in forever. We used to talk every day for long periods of time. Long story short, she currently dates a jerk who doesnt treat her right, Im madly in love with her, she doesnt know that, she is so madly in love with her boyfriend that our relationship as friends has changed. Yes, Im madly in love with my friend and she doesnt know that, I have been madly in love with her for a long time now, but now that she dates that jerk, our relationship as friends has changed. I mean, we used to talk all the time for long periods of time, have the most random conversations, and all kinds of stuff, but now she hasnt even talked to me even though I sent her text messages (she says her phone is messed up, but idk), I sent her facebook messages, and she never replies but I know she gets on facebook because she is all the time posting stuff. I dont know what else to do, because it kills me to see her fade away. Im trying to get over her, but its so hard to just get over someone that you have been madly in love with for a long time, even though she never really knew how much I was in love with her. I mean, I think about her everyday, she is the only person in the world right now that I would want to go out with, and she is everything I have been looking for. It just seems like everything is getting worse and worse, and it never did get this way untill she started going out with that jerk. Ever since then, it has been drama between her and her boyfriend, and then I was involved due to multiple reasons. Im trying to get over her even know I really dont want to, but I guess its just meant to be.
PS: Things have changed since this post. Read my posts below about this.

[Guillermo]

It can be tough, I know. But do stuff that keeps her off your mind. Hang out with your other friends and have fun. You'll get over her soon enough. And hey, if you say this guy is a jerk, I bet their relationship won't last too long. ;D

[Breakeven]

i know getting over someone could be hard but u gotta try and think of it might be for the best u dont know what it might happen in the future , it takes time :hug:

[Sordid Saint]

getting over someone is tough especially if you don't wanna let them go, but i don't know what to tell you because I never really got over someone before :s

[BrassMonkey]

Well, I found out why she wasnt talking to me. Her Freaking boyfriend told her not to talk to other guys. She says that she missed talking to me and stuff, and after having about an hour and 40 mins long phone call, she said that she was going to talk to her boyfriend about it. I told her that she can talk to me any time, and she said that she would. I was saying it in a way like she can talk to me any time she wants and not having her boyfriend tell her not to. I finally got to tell her a lot of things thats been on my mind and it felt so good to just let it all out. I love hearing her talk, so we both had a good time even though we were talking about some serious things. Anyways, I knew her freaking boyfriend was going to do that sometime or another. Ughhh, it makes me so freaking mad. Anyways, we talked about a lot of things.

[Syam]

Love problems suck, dude.

[BrassMonkey]

Love problems suck, dude.
Yes, they sure do.

[BrassMonkey]

Oh My Gosh, my friend told me something today that made me feel so much better. I never had anyone feel this way about me, but this is it. She was basically talking to her mom about her boyfriend and how she wants him to do things to fix their relationship, and her mom was like so you want him to be like Me. so then my friend is like yes, now that you put it that way... Thats like a short and sweet version of the conversation. Anyways, I never had anyone feel that way about me like that, so it made me feel so much better.

[Wisconsin]

Love problems suck, dude.
Gee lots of help there man lol jk I know what u mean. I'm in the same situation except she won't talk to me cuz...well I think she hates me...dude of all the problems in my life (and there are a lot) love problems are the worst =/

[BrassMonkey]

Gee lots of help there man lol jk I know what u mean. I'm in the same situation except she won't talk to me cuz...well I think she hates me...dude of all the problems in my life (and there are a lot) love problems are the worst =/
Haha, I know right lol (For your first sentence). Yeah, I also think love problems are the worst too.

[BrassMonkey]

I found out yesterday that she broke up with her boyfriend. She told me that she was tired of him hurting her (Mentally). I dont know what to do right now because Im madly in love with my friend and she is now single, but I know she is going to wait a while before looking for other people. It gives me a chance to ask her out, but Im going to have to wait for a while.