I'm losing it

[Anonymousme]

Hey,, okay so I'm 16 and a year ago I met this guy over twitter and he used to like retweet and comment on everything that I write for months then one day he sent me a DM saying that I seem cool and he wants to get to know me better so we talked for hours everyday and a week later he said that it'd be cool if we got to meet in person since we both live in the same city so I thought why not, so we agreed to use a word so we know each other, and when I was waiting at the bus stop like we agreed and this man came to me and said that Oliver -the guy I'm supposed to meet- is grounded and he sent him to take me to his place, anyway I went with him and at the house another big old man at his late 40 or so showed up at first I thought he must be Oliver's dad but then he said he's Oliver, I freaked out and I turned to run away but he grapped me and said that if I left this house he'll always come after me and follow me everywhere since he knows where I live, my school and everything about me, but if I wanted him to forget about me I should let him enjoy his night, and be his little bi*ch for tonight, I was scared and I agreed, and so he called his friend who was holding a camera, he video taped it, said he likes to so he can make sure I won't go to the police, I just wanted him to leave me alone and I wanted this to be over, but I was wrong ever since that day I'm having nightmares I always wake up crying or shaking or wet, I'm ashamed of myself, and whenever I think about it I shower and scrub my body for hours! Last week I saw him at a supermarket and it all came back to me, every little detail of that night came to me, I haven't told anyone until now, my parents will hate me if they find out! Please tell me what to do!! I can't tell anyone coz if I do, the tape of that night will be all over the Internet!!

[davisbr2]

Go tell the cops if they have him in custody he can't do anything to you

[xxkxx]

Seriously, straight to the police now. Seriously right now. this second. And report him. he will be arrested for pedophilia and wont be let out of prison for years

[ShaneSawyer]

yes, you made a poor choice indeed but it is very important to AT LEAST talk to some one, if not tell your parents and the authorities. what he did was horrible, and not right in the least bit. If you allow this to continue, it may happen to you again, or another person. get this man put behind bars forever.

[Thunderstorm]

Tell the police! If you tell them, they will get him and arrest him on the spot, so he won't have time to ut it up anyways. His friend wil be arrested too.

The past is the past. Of course, we can't forget it. we've all made mistakes in our life. We all understand. We all have regrets. we can't change it though. we need to use our past as a motivator to improve out future. Yes, the past holds our history, but the future is where we need to be looking towards and preparing for.

I think you should tell another family member, liek a grandparent or an Aunt or Uncle. Then get them to sit with you and your parents, and to moderate the conversation while you and that close family member tell your parents. it will be ok. :)

If you need anything, I'm here ;)

[SmileyFace13]

there's nothing to do...the only option is to go straight to the police and have him arrested...If he's arrested and so are his friends they can't do anything to hurt you...Just do it,it doesn't matter is some man told you not to..if you dont feel comfortable with him around..just simply dial 911 and send him straight to jail.

[jessiecox1]

I'm sorry that happened to you, but I agree with the other posters that you should go to the police to report this. You may not be the only person he's done this to.

[little death]

yeah I agree ^^ go straight to the police and have him arrested thats not much more you can do

[Anonymousme]

I'm too scared to call the cops, but I want to because it kills me to think of him doing this to other kids, I don't want anyone else to go through this coz it makes u literally hates yourself! But sometimes I think that if he has done this before why didn't the other kids report, why did it happen to me!! And if I went to cops and reported him would they be able to prove that he did it?

[Aubrie]

I understand that you must be scared to death, but you really need to report it. He probably does this to many other children/teens. They probably didn't report it for the same reasons that you don't want to - fear, shame, guilt, etc. The police would search his home and find the tapes probably. That would be all that they need. Even if he destroyed the tapes, they would seize his computer. Even if he deletes things, they can still pull it back up unless the hard drive is destroyed (which he wouldn't have time to do).

It is NOT your fault. I strongly urge you to tell someone. I didn't tell anyone about being sexually assaulted, and then I found out that the guy did the same to my friend. I blame myself every day for it. You do not want to have to carry that weight on your shoulders.

[Listed MIA]

I'm too scared to call the cops, but I want to because it kills me to think of him doing this to other kids, I don't want anyone else to go through this coz it makes u literally hates yourself! But sometimes I think that if he has done this before why didn't the other kids report, why did it happen to me!! And if I went to cops and reported him would they be able to prove that he did it?

i know, i said the same thing, why didn't other people say something, why did it have to be me? but like you said, you don't want it to happen to someone else.

the police don't actually need physical evidence. your statement is evidence. talk to someone from one of the sexual abuse helplines, they will be able to tell you what the police process is like where you live.

Good luck.

[Breakeven]

hun u need to tell someone adult and tell the cops , they will catch him n take the tape , he dont deserve to be walking in street and its the way u can move on with ur life , dont be scared tell someone before he does the same to another gal :hug:

[Mirage]

Tell the police and save yourself a LOT of harassment in the future. Please, do it now and save yourself!

[toobigforlife]

Yes tell the cops they can get the video from the man to prove it TELL NOW your parents will not hate you you didnt know what was going on, and he was bigger than you so you couldnt defend yourself

[EmptyBottle]

I agree with PPs, go to the police now!

[commikid]

Okay I know someone that was in a simlar position and serioustly if you go and tell the police they will show up at his house and arrest him and take any computers and cameras etc and troll through it for evidence. He will be put straight into a cell untill the evidence has been looked at and your statement has been looked at and his looked at too. personally I would love to go find him and just set him on fire for you because that is just sick what he did but what goes around commes around. Just think of it like this, the quicker you report it the more chance you have of saving someone else from having to go through with what you did. No one will be mad at you for that because you have done nothing wring. If I had a daughter that had something like this happen to her I would not be mad at her at all. Please dont let him get away with it. :DX

[Anonymousme]

Okay, thanks everyone, I guess I have to report him but I don't know anything about him, Oliver isn't his real name!!

And @Commikid, I'm a guy :)

[commikid]

Okay, thanks everyone, I guess I have to report him but I don't know anything about him, Oliver isn't his real name!!

And @Commikid, I'm a guy :)

Ahh shiz sorry haha, If I had a son that had this happen to him I would be equally as mad though. And you dont need to know anything about him apart from where he lived or what it looked like and to be able to recognise him in a line up XD

[minecraftmstr]

i was raped when i was younger just tell a counseler or ur mom she will freak but she will feel sorry

[loganbenson]

Police is the only answer

[imless]

You have been abused and your'e hiding for a long time? You're so stupid, don't let that guy make you stupid. Go to cop as soon as possible. Honestly I want you to be my friend. I'll keep visiting on this thread for any response. I want to hear all of your sides.