Is it bad to even CONSIDER it??

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

When you're in a relationship is it bad to even consider breaking up with them?

Surely it can't be a good sign, but recently I've lost interest in my boyfriend, and he loves me SO much and, well, there's no real conclusion..

But if you're in a serious relationship, and just think about breaking up with them, is it a sign that you don't love them? Or some kind of bad omen?


Opinions welcome/needed x

[ShaneSawyer]

my now exgirlfriend recently did the same thing.....

Don't date someone unless you want to, and dont tell some one you love them if you arent willing to fix things..........

my advice, just dump him right now, it will save a lot of time and pain...

[Mattman98]

If you're not entirely happy then bigger problems could happen later on and you should tal to him and tell him how you feel. Honesty should be important in any relationship. And don't we put ourselves in these relationships to find happiness anyway? Because if you're not happy and you end up ending the relationship later, he will be more attached and more upset. It's much healthier to tell him your feelings and work on it instead of living a lie. I've been in this situation before, and once I was honest everything turned out to be much better. I hope I could be of help and good luck

[Mirage]

If you don't do something about this now, it could escalate and then down the road (worst case scenario) you could be getting married to this guy who loves you more than anything and you don't feel the same way. More time equals more problems. If you've lost interest, leave him now and save a lot of heartbreak.

[Rayquaza]

If you feel like something is wrong, talk about it. The fact you are considering it means there is something wrong, and you both need to settle down. Just because he loves you so much doesn't mean that you need to feel pressurized into loving him back if you do not.

[boonsim]

It's never bad to consider it. Is the person not treating you with respect? Are they physically or emotionally harming you? Are they pressuring you to do things they want to do but you don't? Those are all good reasons to consider ending a relationship.

[Syam]

Talk about your problems.

Communication is key.

[Aves]

It isn't bad to think of it, if you ask me. To take it into consideration might be the sign of a problem, but it might be a heat of the moment situation. However, if it returns again and again, it's obviously your mind telling you to do it.

In your situation I'd say stick with it unless you really don't want to go out of your way to be with him. If you feel like you honestly don't want to be with him or you want to be with someone else much more, I'd end it.