anal

[wolfguy]

ok so me and my freid want to do anal but cant get his in with out it hurting like hell wha can i do

[Skeptical Bear]

Get some type of lubricant to loosen stuff up. If not that, spit is good. Make sure that when he's doing this, that he doesn't do it fast. Take it slow so that you can't hurt each other or anything.

[Gigablue]

Use a lot of lubricant. Make sure it is good quality and add more at any time if you need it. Use a lubricant from a pharmacy and make sure it is water based so it won't degrade a condom. Make sure you are relaxed so your muscles are less tense. If it hurts to much, stop and try again later.

[wolfguy]

p.s. i am 13 and my dad is a pastor not so esay to get stuff plesa dont ask why i am doing this if my dad is a pastor plesa

[PirateMast]

p.s. i am 13 and my dad is a pastor not so esay to get stuff plesa dont ask why i am doing this if my dad is a pastor plesa

Use cooking oil maybe haha.

[GreatestAffection]

Use lotion.

[Bradley 97]

Use alot of libe take it slow and relax!
It's ok my dad was a pastor and he ende up with 2 gay sons I mean your dads occupation doesn't say what your sexuality will be...

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Use alot of lube to start with and just take it real slow. Dont rush it or anything and it will hurt at the beginning but it should get better.

[keiji1]

get some lube :D, vaseline

[SmileyFace13]

the best thing i can think of is just using lubricant...that should make it slide in easily.

[Tom Stone]

The lube helps a lot. Also it helps if you kind of push out like you're pushing stuff out of you when he's going in. That loosens the hole so it's easier.

[EvilB]

after a warm shower you are more loose also

[lambo420]

Spit or Baby Oil

[Gigablue]

If you're using a condom (you should use one), then don't use and oil based lube, i.e. Vaseline, lotion, oil, etc. These will weaken the condom and cause it to break. You should use a water based lube from the pharmacy. Keep it hidden if you don't want anyone to find it. Spit will also work, but is it not a very good lubricant so I wouldn't recommend it.

If you're not using a condom, it doesn't matter what lube you use.

Regardless, you should make sure your muscles are relaxed. Take a warm shower right before and try to be as calm as possible so it will hurt less. It may hurt at first, but the pain should go away fairly quickly.

[Dan co.]

First make sure your clean den use lots of lube and go slow at first. Just follow this it wont hurt that much.

[ramsey153]

ok so me and my freid want to do anal but cant get his in with out it hurting like hell wha can i do

Whatever you do, don't use lotion! It burns like hell!

[Howareyou]

Lube

[leafgreenangel]

Use cooking oil if you dont want to buy lube

[novachris]

lube + relax. there are lots of things you can use to make it slippery

[wolfguy]

it helps but i mean streting is that possibale

[minecraftmstr]

Use cooking oil maybe haha.

maybe collected cum from a small wtr bottle

[minecraftmstr]

it helps but i mean streting is that possibale

take it slow let him in then stay in for 1 minute then start movement
i know cuz i do anal masturbation

[whiteyrhys]

You need to make sure you use a lot of lubricant and go slowly. There's no use going fast or you will both scar each other for life and probably never want to do it again. You need to go slowly for another reason as you could tear the tissue inside your anus. I'm not going to lie - it will hurt the first time, but after that you'll love it :)

[wolfguy]

ok thanks for the info

[noah101]

like they said lube or lotion relax and before doing it practice with other things to prepare your self

[rekcat]

use lube get real relaxed before yall start and put stuff up ur butt to get use to the feeling

[Shadowboy47]

Try using lube. Try not to use spit...it dries rather quickly.

[Aidoon123]

I know this is just me but at 13 isnt it? i wouldnt be having anal sex its too you ng bjs and hjs are ok but anal is going a bit too far

[awesometag]

okay so use lube and relax but while he pushing it in you push out a little. it seems to open everything up lol lets chat befriend me :)

[MuscleTeen98]

First of all:
FOREPLAY
losen stuff up,
have him finger you start with something small and move ur way up.
how big is he??

[LSEagle2]

use some sort of lotion around the house or something

[Bumpin Bass]

My friend has anal sex all the time. He says it helps if you're in control of the speed and depth of the penetration until the pain goes away. He has his partner lay on his back, gets on top of him, and puts it in himself. He said it helps to be able to go up or down as needed until the pain subsides. And like others have said, LUBE!

[averagemuscleguy]

Yeah shower and try lotion but take it slow, as you could have rectal bleeding which is hard to explain. Try loosening up with your fingers so your used to it