where are the girls at?!

[prettyinink]

Ok, so recently I've been accepting myself as a lesbian and I was wondering if any lesbians on here can give me advice on how to tell if a girl is lesbian, or if it's ok to ask a girl if she is lesbian if you can't tell. Also, if anyone wants to PM me, feel free to :)

[LatinaVivit]

Congrats on accepting yourself! I'm in the same boat as you, but with guys. The only advice I could give would be to volunteer at a local LGBT center; who knows, there may be someone there! Best of luck!! :)

[wolfguy]

congrats on execpting i am still trying to execpt my self as a bi sense my dad s a pastor

[Haleyzmont]

Well you know, there are quite abit of stereotypes you could go on but thats not all so reliable so here are some non stereotypical signs that a girl is lesbian.

- she rarely breaks eye contact when she's listening to you speak

-(most, not all) would probably like to be close to you when you speak they might even touch your face sometimes.

-if you start talking about cute boys she might be hesitant and may not involve herself too much

Here are some stereotypes that usually apply (don't rely completely though!)

- likes to wear plaid (shorts, shirts)

- wears guy-style clothing (shirts, shoes, pants, hats) Some are extremely girly though!

- has quite a bit of guy friends

-likes rainbows

Im sorry these aren't many but the stereotypical ones Please do not entirely rely on the facts because it may be the opposite. The girl may act very girly or even have little guy friends.

I hope this helps though. And if someone were to ask me kindly with out a gudging face if i were lesbian i would say yes.