Lockerroom Problem. Need Help ASAP!

[BoyTeen1997]

This up coming school year (my 10th grade year), in gym class, showering is mandatory were as last year it was not. Last year i never got use to showering after class because i never really smelled and two because i was a little shy to. But the problem is, last year there was individual stalls and this year the locker room that we use has just one big open area. It was my stupidity of not getting more comfortable being naked in front of friends soooo now I have a real problem. So here are the two questions that i have.

1) Is there any way/thing i can do to be less "shy"

2) I am pretty curious and get hard rather easily. So is there anyway that i can shower hard on from happening when i am naked in the shower with others? (and i just no that someone would see it because face it, almost every guy peeks in the showers)

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

1. There really is no way to get less shy, you just have to experience it. Plus, you're not gping to be the only guy worried. Theyll prob tryhard to not look and keep quiet the first few days. Then theyll be more open

2. Once again, no easy way out. Like the others, just try not to look. Keep to yourself. And hell dont we all get em pretty fast and at awkward times. No need to worry that much

[madea rocks]

1. U have nothing to worry about bro.... everyyonne is shy annd the trick is to just not care.

2. Every1 will prbly get one... just pay attention t urself and dont pay attention to them... and be quick about it

[Diverperry]

dude being shy takes a lot of work and the only way to be less shy is to be naked around guys more and just get used to it. as for the boner problem, you would be surprised how un-erotic locker room showers can be. just don't look at anyone while your showering and keep your eyes up when your walking around

[BKchickenFries]

I felt the same way going into 9th grade (when it was mandatory) and now I am going into 11th grade and I have no problem with it

1. There's nothing you can really do, but I am sure there are people in the same situation as you which made me feel better. Also, as the year goes on you kinda get desensitized from it and it ends up being no big deal.

2. I was and kinda still am the same way, but just being scared and nervous prevents you from getting a boner. Also, what most people do is walk in with a towel, take it off, walk under the shower, put the towel back on and leave, all in a matter of 5 sec

[Ricardo]

1.If you are shy just turn your back to the other guys.

2.I am sure you wont be the only one with a boner and just dont think about getting or a boner or it will happen or just dont have a shower it is not like they can force you to.

[EvilB]

Go to private school or dont take pe

[GreatestAffection]

honestly just walk in. thats the only thing you can do

[adam94]

Try going to your local gym a few time b4 school and try to get used to showering with other guys that way.

[Evancosta]

Okay the best thing you can do for the shyness is walk around naked at home when you're alone (or when your not, whatever you want to do lol) sleep naked when your in your room just be naked. If you have a pool swim in the nude hell, flash your dick on omegle if you have to, just get comfortable with being naked.

And let's face it, your not going to be the only one with a boner in the locker room. If someone points it out ask why they're staring at you cock, I'd be weirded out..and then just say it was a random boner. And be realistic, you can't just "stop" a boner from happening. If you're turned on, then you're turned on..hands down.
Hope I helped!:)

[jay_]

you would be surprised.. I have an all boys gym class and after class all of us opted to shower.. the showers were a big open room and there were 12 guys in the class and we would all shower and mess around (shampoo fights, towel whipping)..

[Dan co.]

1. Look at yourself and once your ok with yourself then when your there you shouldn't care once your happy with yourself
2. don't care if it happens it happens nothing to control

[zCraig]

Ask your parents to write you a note to excuse you from PE, I do that every PE lesson, but if we're doing something like Rugby I don't hand the note in, I love rugby, I hate Gymnastics and basket ball.

Don't be shy, Although it is hard to not be shy.

Sorry first post here I'm trying not to offend anyone or give a useless answer, Although this probably is a useless answer.

[NotASpyingRent]

Try going to your local gym a few time b4 school and try to get used to showering with other guys that way.

Oh yeah, because gym memberships are SOOO affordable in this economy...

[Sean4U]

I faced that last year to but I was a bit different as I was used to being naked with guys since I have been a swimmer for a number of years. But as has been said, you won't be the only one if you get a boner it happens to someone almost all the time. Don't think about it and it might help it from happening.



Sean | Male | 15

Always open to talking to other guys my age or just plain old questions back and forth. If I'm on send me a message and lets see if we can talk.

[Luke91]

Practice is what it takes to get over your shyness. After a few times showering at school it will get easier. Until then, practice at home by sleeping naked and being a little careless when showering. If you get caught or almost get caught being nude, this is helping you with your fear. Also can you shower maybe at a YMCA or change naked at a public swimming pool?

As far as you fear of getting a boner when you are naked at school. The worst thing is you will get an erection which all boys get. Chances are that won't happen but if it does it is not the end of the world. If you do get one or 2, as you get used to showering they will happen less often.

Good luck and stop worrying,

[xaydavis]

get used to being naked then just walk into the shower .

[OregonStateDude]

as for the boner problem, you would be surprised how un-erotic locker room showers can be.

Yupp. Not only that, but after an hour of playing sports, the only thing on my mind is a hot shower to relax my sore muscles. It's a shower, not a gay steamroom, LOL.

[cameron1020]

Just don't worry about it. Everyone else there is in the same boat you are.

[Michael Anthony]

first of all you'd be surprised how quickly you get used to showering naked in public
second you're gonna be too nervous to get a boner. in fact you're probably gonna have the opposite problem LOL

[Vteenboy 1]

Just go with it

[spartanrob]

Honestly you're probably not going to have any problem. Like other guys said, when you are all naked together it is surprisingly unerotic. I've gotten a little chubby and seen other guys too, but I have never seen anyone get a real erection.

To get used to it, try sleeping nude. Shower naked at your YMCA or city pool if you can.

But mosly just relax, get naked and get wet.

[habbohop]

Get in there quickly and get out there, focus on yourself and nobody else,
sorry, but you're going to have to get used to it,

[MuscleTeen98]

Try to bite your tounge when you feel it comming. You get use to ie.. But try it at home first. :P

[Deltaphi]

I'm a shower, so I've never gotten any locker room flack, but I've seen some guys get made fun of. Best thing to do is keep your eyes to yourself and if you catch somebody looking, ask them why they are looking there.

You will all get boners, just learn to get used to it.

[Xenon96]

Just walk in and shower, best way to get over fear is to tackle it head on. I thought like that at first but I didn't think about anything sexual and didn't get hard :P

[Row your]

You get use to showering with guys after the first or second time, just don't worry about getting a boner, and it won't happen. That is what I do, and now I have better control over it to

[hotteengeek97]

I Learned Just to live with it i am in the same grade as you and i get boners all the time in there never had a problem

[Vincent_Dat_Guy]

try and get used to being in front of pple naked get some friends and try acting it out like ur in gymclass and ur showering hopfully that helps u

[BakeBake]

I would say just don't be shy and have fun with it. But what me and my friends all did was count the tiles on the floor so you don't get called names by the other kids if you get caught staring at someone else's junk.

[Gogeta]

No easy fix like everyone else has said
but i can bet you that your not the only one owrries about this and
trust me i go to the gym all the time and people always get hard (Includeing me sometimes) and if im with mates we have a laugh about it and if not no one has ever said anything to me or like looked at me weird or anything

[habbohop]

Our showers are like that too bro, yeah, just concentrate on yourself, if they mess around when you're in the shower just laugh it off and continue focusing on getting in there, showering and getting out again, I'm like that too, just don't think about it, the fear of being seen with a hard-on will help you not to get one, we all do peek, but thats just the guys looking around to see if their body is normal etc, just take it cool, you'll be fine!

[Silver Fox]

1) Is there any way/thing i can do to be less "shy"
There's not really much else you can do besides experience it. You could try your local gym so you're used to being naked if you want?

2) I am pretty curious and get hard rather easily. So is there anyway that i can shower hard on from happening when i am naked in the shower with others? (and i just no that someone would see it because face it, almost every guy peeks in the showers)
Look towards to wall so that no one can see it, and it will also happen to the other guys, so they would be quite stupid to make fun of you. You could also try the usual, imagine something disgusting and try masturbating the night or the morning before school.

[Jmurphy97]

1. there is no way to really get less shy just do it and shower
2 i had the same fear and it may seem like this won't work but just don't think about it and host of the time ur distracted

[Gmw12]

Don't worry about it. Everyone their will have a penis and a lot of them will most likely be hard too

[swilson1601]

I hate showering after pe. proberbally because i look like a little boy compared to my m8s. some guys have got a bit hard sometimes and had the piss taken out of tham for it, i never have so far, i just get in get wet and get out and hope not too meny people see me

[Malzahar]

A way to get less shy go to your public gym or ymca and shower in public there.
As for getting sexually aroused just think horribly disgusting things like a dead kitten

[Sph2015]

1. I was terrified to take showers the first time. I did not want to. At all. But, after the first few times, I got used to it. I even began to enjoy it, who doesn't like a nice shower?

2. There is no quick fix. At my school, there's usually talking. Join the conversation, get your mind off things. Worst case, get out of there before anything noticeable happens.

[zerosix22]

Number 1,you just have to stay calm and think like there is not one else showering. If you get once,twice,thrice you will get used to it. :)

Number 2. ask youre friends to shower with you(the ones who are really close and youre really open with). Everytime you get a hard on just make it comedic so no one will have a problem. lol And 1 thing is for sure,hard on is just caused by hormones,nothing to be afraid of. :)

[hollisterboi95]

Don't be shy! Trust me everyone will be shy in the beginning. But by the end of the year you'll all be talking to each other while your naked no problem. At my school we'd get up on the benches and just Move our hips around and our dick would be all over the place. There will be other guys with boners. Its natural and doesnt mean theyre Gay. Its just hormones and curiosity. Some others might even be comfortable to jerk off while in there. Just dont be shy and if anyone says anything about your dick. Get them back by asking them why they were looking at it in the first place!