A girl in search of some advice about a guy

[missunafraid]

So there is this guy, we met when he was my best friend’s boyfriend. He and my best friend broke up last summer, it was nasty and now she seems to be toying with him, and she hasn’t talked to me in over a month, I’m not sure if she is avoiding me. Since the start of this year, this guy and I have been hanging out more and more. He’s twenty billion different kinds of amazing, and pretty much everything I want in a guy, but he is my best friends ex, and he still has feelings for her, even though he’s moving on. The icing on this crazy cake, my sister really likes him. We were hanging out today him, my sister, a friend of his, and I and he was really affectionate, pulling me into his lap kissing my cheek, and it upset my sister. I don’t know what to do, can someone please give me some advice.

[boonsim]

Woah, this is bigger than a love-triangle. It's like a love-rhombus.

Who is the most important to you? Your friend, your sister, or your crush? It could ruin the relationship with the other two depending on which one you consider the most important.

[unnamed94]

its been a long time since they broke up and he still isnt over her, she is your best friend's ex and your sister also likes her. i would save myself of the problems that would come with that guy if i were you. although if you do like him that much to try something then you should talk to your best friend about it.

[RCT109]

let me see if I got this right? he and your friend broke up and now you are falling for him. you feel that your sister likes him and doesnt like the way he is toward you.

Bases on my understanding,
Talk to your sister see what is actually bothering her. and then go from there. is she older or younger. also you said he still has feelings for his ex well talk to him about that and see where it goes.

hope this helps and please let me know how close I was to what you were trying to get at.

Shawn

[missunafraid]

thanks yall, i think that its only gonna get worse between me and my sister where he is involved, she is just storming off now anytime i even get near him, and i will talk to him.