What do I do?

[Syam]

See, I don't actually go to school due to medical reasons, and there's this girl I like that went to Primary School with me. I always thought she liked me but I was too scared to say anything.

I wasn't exactly 'handsome' then cause I was overweight, so I lost weight secretly for a better chance with her :whoops: when my family thought it was just cause.

She lives near me, but I can't get out to see her..

I'm gradually getting better and I will hopefully return to school soon.

It's been on my mind so much.. Even more lately cause I'm at THAT stage in Puberty. 14, wants to date... bladah bladah.

Thanks.

[Syam]

Saw her today, she smiled and waved..

[Syam]

Anybody?

[Salader]

PM me with what your problem is,


from what it sounds, you cannot leave the house end of.


That being the case then it wouldn't be the most ideal starter for a relationship, this being because being because who would want to be stuck inside all day? (No offence intended)


However if this is just a you have to be in most of the day sort of thing, then when you see her you really should go out there and take your chance with her. Make sure she is clear with why you can't go outside and stuff. Maybe start from there?




I dunno, anyway, PM me when you can.

Hope i helped a bit :)

[Syam]

PM me with what your problem is,


from what it sounds, you cannot leave the house end of.


That being the case then it wouldn't be the most ideal starter for a relationship, this being because being because who would want to be stuck inside all day? (No offence intended)


However if this is just a you have to be in most of the day sort of thing, then when you see her you really should go out there and take your chance with her. Make sure she is clear with why you can't go outside and stuff. Maybe start from there?




I dunno, anyway, PM me when you can.

Hope i helped a bit :)
None taken :yummy:

I've PM'd you :yes:

[Ricardo]

Why dont you try and be friends with her on facebook or something like that and get chatting to her till you are better to leave the house.

[RCT109]

Why dont you try and be friends with her on facebook or something like that and get chatting to her till you are better to leave the house.

Is second this and believe you me Ricardo is a good guy hes helped me
and I would say too that you should get well before you think about getting to be with her because if you are unwell then how will you ever so fb is the best thing right now

Shawn

[Stronger]

I agree with the others, find someway to conact her, build up a nice relationship, and once you are healthy enough to leave the house, then invite her out to places, the movies, lunch, whatever, and eventually, if you feel like the time is right, then ask her out.

[Ricardo]

Is second this and believe you me Ricardo is a good guy hes helped me
and I would say too that you should get well before you think about getting to be with her because if you are unwell then how will you ever so fb is the best thing right now

Shawn
Thanks man.

[Syam]

Thanks guys, I might just do that :)

[Syam]

It seems she has deleted her account a while ago.. :mad::(

[ShaneSawyer]

gotta talk to her sometime dude. just do it in person, save yourself all the time and bullshit facebook stuff, just go up to her and say, "hey, wanna go see a movie or hang out or something sometime soon?" JUST LIKE THAT. chances are she's gonna be all like "YES." :'D or something like that.

anyways, point of the story is..... everything is much better in person. also, it improves your people skills in the future.

[Syam]

gotta talk to her sometime dude. just do it in person, save yourself all the time and bullshit facebook stuff, just go up to her and say, "hey, wanna go see a movie or hang out or something sometime soon?" JUST LIKE THAT. chances are she's gonna be all like "YES." :'D or something like that.

anyways, point of the story is..... everything is much better in person. also, it improves your people skills in the future.

Very good point, thank you :)

[RCT109]

It seems she has deleted her account a while ago.. :mad::(

well then ask her for her number and text her maybe that will be better
and once you get her number you can call her too

[lilmamabowers]

i like the idea of you talking to her through the internet until your healthy enough to go out and about. once your health is stable, you could invite her over and start hanging out with her that way :)

my sister had to go through something like this... so i do know a little bit!
:D

[Syam]

i like the idea of you talking to her through the internet until your healthy enough to go out and about. once your health is stable, you could invite her over and start hanging out with her that way :)

my sister had to go through something like this... so i do know a little bit!
:D

Mother and brother are embarrassing, that's a no!:lol:

[lilmamabowers]

trust me...
everyones parents and siblings are like that.
im 19, have a little girl on the way, and they still embarrass me.
lol

[Syam]

trust me...
everyones parents and siblings are like that.
im 19, have a little girl on the way, and they still embarrass me.
lol

I mean, they go out of their way to ruin it.. :mad:

Grats on the kid btw!

[Syam]

gotta talk to her sometime dude. just do it in person, save yourself all the time and bullshit facebook stuff, just go up to her and say, "hey, wanna go see a movie or hang out or something sometime soon?" JUST LIKE THAT. chances are she's gonna be all like "YES." :'D or something like that.

anyways, point of the story is..... everything is much better in person. also, it improves your people skills in the future.

I'll try :) she means so much.. it's like, I've only felt like this lately cause of being 14 n' all.. before, it was just a crush.

[JayTea]

I've been getting more dreams, can't stop thinking about it. Also, can't bring myself to talk to her just incase she's with someone or she doesn't want to be with me

If you can't talk to her in person then how are you going to ask her out? You can do it man! What I was thinking, see if somehow you can see her, talk to her and see how interested she is (if she is, she will likely ask how you're feeling) and if you can, see if you can get her number and ask for some help (with homework, bring up school and classmates). Chances are, if she is interested, she will find someway to hear from you. Now, go out there and talk to her, I believe in you :yes: