im obsessed

[Wintergirl_80.0]

found a picture that asked whats better thin or alive....
is it bad i didnt have to think about this if my choice was thin?

[thegirlishere]

i think it is cause if you think you being thin is better than being alive your pretty much saying you have to be thin to be able to be happy....

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i do have to be thin to be happy...

[Mirage]

Yes, this is generally bad to want ANYTHING more than your own life. Are you currently working with anyone to resolve your issue?

[Wintergirl_80.0]

nope. how can i. they will all want me to stop

[TheHumanSpirit]

It seems like you're overly critical of your own image (also going with information from your signature). Maybe you should try making a list of all the things you love about yourself. What qualities you pride yourself in, what activities you like to do, etc. I'm hoping this will help you to slowly realize that imperfection exists within all of us, which makes all of us perfect the way we are.


You are humanly perfect the way you are. You can always healthily improve, but you will never be more perfect than you are now.

[lilmamabowers]

nope. how can i. they will all want me to stop



trust me.. i had an eating disorder that started around your age.
notice how i said HAD...
i live with all the regrets i had and the challenges that the disorder took on my body each and everyday. i was much like you, thinking thin was better then living. i thought that if i was fat, i wouldnt beable to live with myself. my disorder went on for so long, that my organs now at 19 years old, is the size of a ten year olds. Im pregnant now and its a struggle to eat enough for me and my little girl, but ive got to.
you need to get help now before its too late!!
you dont want to live with the problems i have to face now, it can all be prevented. I enjoy talking to people about there weight and eating issues, ive been there so I KNOW I CAN HELP!

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i dont want to stop i dont wanna be fat :(

[lilmamabowers]

your going to be what the good lord wants you to be regardless of what you do.
im pretty sure the people that care about you are hurting due to your disorder.
everyone has their own opinion though...

just someone trying to help... ive been there, i know what its like.
taking from someone who is older now and regrets everything.
the hurt i put my family, friends. and doctors through...

but your the 0nly one that can decide how to live the rest of your life...

[Wintergirl_80.0]

but im scared of being fat terrified

[lilmamabowers]

its all in the mind... i was there so i know from first hand experiences...
once your happy with yourself and the way you look... the world is a better place.

watch the intervention on bulimia and anorexia.. (the twins)
itll change your mind about life.

[Jupiter]

Listen sweetheart, I can relate.

My friend once asked me to eat, after I told her that I hadn't eaten for days. She said that it would kill me, and I told her that I'd be glad if it did.

But listen, nothing is worth your own life. Because I know that you have a beautiful personality, and that is all that matters to me.

Stay beautiful, in your soul <3

[Gigablue]

but im scared of being fat terrified

It's all in you head. If anyone else were to look at you, I'm sure they would think that you were already thin.

Everyone else probably wants you to stop because they see the harm in not eating and don't want anything bad to happen to you. The longer you continue and the more weight you lose, the more damage you do to your body.

The main problem is with your self image. If you need to be thin to be happy and feel good about yourself, then you need to develop a healthier self image and greater self esteem.

You should talk to someone you trust and, if possible, you should see a therapist. They will ba able to help improve your self esteem and allow you to see that you are not fat at all. The longer you wait the harder it will be, but if you get help, you will be able to recover.

Stay strong and get help.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

why do so many strangers care so much i dont understand you barley know me. whhy would one human life matter so much.

[Thunderstorm]

Everyne wants to be thin and happy. Can everyone? No. It's just how people are. And no matter what, the outside isn't what matters, the inside is...

I have a friend who has obese genes in her blood Her grandmother, mother, and even her baby little sister is obese. And when I mean obese, i mean instead of going to a doctor for a shot, they had to go to the hospital to get a bigger needle. Do they let it power them down? NO! I'm still her friend, no matter what. I don't care how sh elooks, it's her personality that keeps me as her friend.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

it kills me from the inside out

[myllc]

Just remember that too much is not good.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

you can never be too thin

[Wintergirl_80.0]

okay