Alexander The Great
June 26th, 2012, 06:37 PM
I've been speaking to this girl recently, and finally decided I should ask if she wants to meet up. I asked her last friday, and she said "I might be going to london, but if I have time, yeah, I do want to see you". She didn't go to london in the end, but she went to town with her mum, and yeah, we just didn't see eachother. On monday, I asked her if she was free on wednesday or friday, and she said "I probably am". So today I ask her if she's still ok for tomorrow, and she says her mum wants to teach her some polish before they go to poland for the holidays, so she's not free tomorrow. I have a feeling the same will happen on friday...
This concerns me, because she knows I have a french exchange for 14 days, starting on the weekend coming now, and so won't have time. Shortly after this (a few days, maybe a week), she will leave to poland for 47 days.
As from our friendship background, we usually have pretty decent conversations, but sometimes, she loses interest in the conversation. We talk usually from 16:00 to 0:00, where she sometimes falls asleep texting or just goes off to bed anyway. If I enjoy our conversations, she can't exactly be faking joy that much, right?
So, with the informaion I've given you, do you think we've just genuinely been unlucky with scheduling, or she just isn't interested in seeing me, but doesn't want to say "no, i don't want to see you".
Is there a way I can find out if she's being truthful or telling bullshit (other than get our 1 and only mutual friend to 'spy' for me, but its likely she will backstab me and just tell the girl I want to see that I asked her to spy to see if she was just avoiding me).
Please reply asap ;)
This concerns me, because she knows I have a french exchange for 14 days, starting on the weekend coming now, and so won't have time. Shortly after this (a few days, maybe a week), she will leave to poland for 47 days.
As from our friendship background, we usually have pretty decent conversations, but sometimes, she loses interest in the conversation. We talk usually from 16:00 to 0:00, where she sometimes falls asleep texting or just goes off to bed anyway. If I enjoy our conversations, she can't exactly be faking joy that much, right?
So, with the informaion I've given you, do you think we've just genuinely been unlucky with scheduling, or she just isn't interested in seeing me, but doesn't want to say "no, i don't want to see you".
Is there a way I can find out if she's being truthful or telling bullshit (other than get our 1 and only mutual friend to 'spy' for me, but its likely she will backstab me and just tell the girl I want to see that I asked her to spy to see if she was just avoiding me).
Please reply asap ;)