loosing virginity late

[latedeveloper313]

I'm 17 and have still not developed enough to loose my virginity, i was thinking i'm probably about 3 years behind normal so most people are loosing thier virgity about now, does that mean i might be 20 before i can :S and if it does that would be really late... I hate this:(

[Maverick]

What's the rush? I'm 17, 18 in September and I haven't lost mine. I don't do things just because others are. You should lose it when you're ready and found the right person. It doesn't matter how long it takes or what age you are.

Virginity is nothing to be sad over. I mean it's just sex and theres so much more to life than virginity. It's not something I worry about and it's really not that significant.

Lose it when the right time and person comes otherwise just live life and worry about other things instead of possible pregnancies and STDs.

General Puberty :arrow: Boys Puberty

[byee]

I agree with Anthony (again). My dad the shrink always said that the adults he's seen with the most relationship/sex probs are the ones who either denied their sexuality 9as in feeling guilty about it and repressing it), or those who engaged in what he calls 'precocious sex', as in before the heart catches up to the penis. He also says that those who look at sex (and girls) as merely sex objects as teens tend to continue to view them that way as adults, their perceptions and experiences tend to remain underdeveloped.

Losing one's virginity isn't a challenge or competition. It's about finding the right one to share that experience with, regardless of your age. Remember, dogs do it indiscriminately on the street, getting sex isn't really such a big deal. Finding the right one is the challenge.

[TheDude]

A story: (I'm not saying this will be true!)

Yeah I mean when your 23 and you are still a virgin and all your friends have lost their virginity to prosititutes...Then you lose your virginity to a woman you marry and have kids with and live the perfect life together with...You can be like :P

[MoveAlong]

Actually, it's not late at all! Some people wait until marriage, wait until they find someone they truely like, or just wait until they're really comfortable with the person. I mean, why would you consider yourself late? What's the rush? Why spend your virginity on someone insignificant?

Man, you'll get it soon enough, and you should have it with someone you love and care about, so don't worry about it! I also agree with Anthony :D

[1234]

Yeah, I think I'm just gonna wait until marraige, unless the right person comes early...

[Mirataku]

im 16, and i lost mine, its nothing big, you can lose it when your ready

[TeenGuy512]

I'm 17 and waiting til marriage.

Just curious - Anthony - are you waiting til marriage?

[HopeScratchMcDougal]

I don't know if I'll wait until marriage, but I won't lose it to some chick that I meet at school who just happens to be the hottest chick I've seen since 3 weeks ago.

[Neverender]

i lost my virginity at 12!;)
you'll lose it when your ready

[1234]

i lost my virginity at 12!;)
you'll lose it when your ready

Woah, that's really really early...but w/e, you did what you had to do.;)

[dushanbe4]

There is no such thing as losing your virginity, you'll lose it when you find somebody worthy of taking it. Honestly? Much better later than too early.

[Gumleaf]

There is no such thing as losing your virginity, you'll lose it when you find somebody worthy of taking it. Honestly? Much better later than too early.


i agree with this. you don't want to look back thinking why the hell did i do it with that person years later.

[Trickster]

i lost my virginity at 12!;)
you'll lose it when your ready
I find that kinda unbeliveable but still it can happen. You should do it when your emotionally ready never physically. When you kno or feel in your heart and not others its time go ahead but just one piece of advice. Use a condom youll live longer if you dont kno your partner or arent emotionally and being pressured. If you kno wat i mean

[Look whos here!]

i havent lost mine, but if im 18 and havent lost it, ill be MIGHTY pissed.

[boognish]

look there is no "right age" to lose your virginity. only time. and the time should be when you find the one you truely love. and that can happen at any time. watch the 40 year old virgin. its a comedy but it really expresses the idea of saving until you find a true love